hi everyone....
hay im sally, im 19. i love to give advice so ask me anything and i will answer as best i can!
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i am currently studying family and children studies certificate III at wollongong tafe and i love it. i love kids and one day i hope to become an early childhood teacher and work with 0-3 year old children. i'v been writing poetry since i was 13 and i hope that one day i can publish them in a book! that is one of my dreams.
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so keep those questions comming...please comment back, i'd like to know if iv helped or not thanxxx i have a blog! feel free to check it out: http://justsallyy.tumblr.com/
xoxoxoxo :) xoxoxo xoxox
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Location: Woonona in NSW AUST.
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i love my girlfriend and we tell eachother everything. but lately ive noticed alot of black and blue bruises like HUGE bruises on her collar bone, legs, arms, ribs, face and back. sometimes like ocasionaly she will come to school with a black out. im worried. i alwyas ask her where they came from but she says its nothinng. and i know for a fact that her parents dont abuse her. but im afraid people will start thinking i did this too her. and i dont want that i love her and would never hurt her. but i wanna know where shes gettingg these from. what should i do? (link)
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hay
i think if it is nothing she would of told you what happened all ready so there maybe something going on there, even if your certain that it isnt her parents it still could be you never know. i think you should talk to her privatly and tell her your worried and that she can trust you after all you are her boyfriend. just tell her your there for her no matter what... if something is really going on i think she is just scared to talk about it.
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i really love my boyfriend. but it seems like all he wants to do is kiss and make out, and i just hardly ever feel like it. i have to force myself to do it so he wont think i dont like him. but i wonder if there is something wrong with me. i mean i really really like this guy, so shouldnt i want to do that stuff as much as he does? btw im 13/f and all we've done is kiss and make out a little so far. but we've been going out since we were 11. (link)
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hay
just talk to him about this he will understand and there is nothing wrong with you, you dont have to do anything you dont want to do. he seems like a nice guy talk to him... honesty is the key to a sucessful relationship just remember thst...
xoxox sally
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Ok, recently a friend of mine introduced me to some other friends of hers. They are twins, and they are guys. I immedeately fell really hard for one of them, but after talking to the other one, I think I like him too. They are both really into music. One of the plays football and is "hotter" than the other, and the other one plays the guitar, and he's just really adorable. They are both funny and really sweet. And I guess I'm just confused on that. I mean, I just met them on Tuesday, I believe it was. Is it possible to fall this hard for someone I just met? And am I a horrible person for liking them both? 'Cause I feel like it. (link)
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hay
sounds like love at first site!
yes it is possible b'cos some people connect straight away with a person better then with someone they'v gotten to know and like. you sound confused with which one you really like and it might take a while for you to figure it out. But dont feel horrible for liking them both... it happens all the time!
hope this helps you!!!
love sal :)
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13/f well, im having quite a difficult time with this, but i have been going out with this guy for 6 months. well he is really nice and all. Am i making a big deal about a little thing? or am i not? tell me the truth, but his really really good friend messages me over myspace saying that my boyfriend wants a hug, and why didnt you give him a hug? and that stuff. im just too shy! i know how you guys say just do it. but im too shy for that. im scared he wont see me trying to hug him and accidently walk away. :\ am i just coming up with the worst case senerios? or what i am lost. (link)
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hay
i think you just need to relax... and im sure if you hug him he wont walk away he will hug you back b'cos it sounds like he wants to hug you and even though your shy... im guessing when your ready you wont even think about it you will just hug him so dont worry about it!
hope that helps
xoxo luv sal
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ok well my friend says she has cravings to hump stuff but she hates humping stuffed animals and stuff. so she said she tryed humping her dog naked and she said it felted awesome. she went all in to detail saying how (her dog is a boy) how her dogs balls fell so good up against her pussy and all this stuff and i mean she says she loves lickin his balls and all this stuff and i mean HES A DOG!!! so i mean i dunno. she says she makes out with her dog (frenchin it and everything) and she says that she licks his balls and humpes him naked, and she says she likes it. is that normal??? (link)
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hay
i dont think that is normal... a bit goss actually! i think your friend needs a boyfriend.. many people would get grossed out by this and just make sure your friend isnt hurting her dog or anything.. poor dog!
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my cousin is obese...and wel tell her to lose weight but she never does...well make fun of her and say we lost weight but she won't ever listen..and everytime were like "r" your obese!!..s.he'll be like nu uh..or no i'm not...she's about 5 2 and 175 in the 6th going to 7th grade...her butt sticks out and her stomach sticks out..i don't know wat to do
her sis will bring it up and tell her then my cousin like shut up no i'm not and call their mom...then their mom will yelll at her sis b/c she brought it up...i don't know wat to do
do you knowo how we can make her lose weight or help her relize it's time to lose weight? (link)
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hay
i think you need to realise that you might be hurting your cousin by calling her fat and saying all that stuff to her about her weight but i know your only trying to help her. you need to see it from your cousins point of view. why dont you try to approach her in a different and nicer way...
maybe join a sport or lesuire activity with her, show her she isnt alone because eating healthy and losing weight is really hard and your cousin needs to know you want to help and give her the motivation she needs.
or you could do active things with her... things she likes doing like maybe bike riding, swimming,
tennis, soccer, netball or you could even go for a walk with her every day or every now and again.
just remember its not going to be easy for your cousin thats why she hasnt done anything about it yet... so show her your with her all the way and you want to help she will realise that and appriciate it....
hope that helps you xoxox
luv sally
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guys dont seem interested in me. what do i do
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hay
i think you need to get out there and meet someone new. there is someone who likes you, you just havent met him yet, go to a party or social event.
maybe all your guy friends at the moment only think of you as a friend and you need to get to know them more, to show them how interesting you really are. talk to them more or indroduce yourself to the guys you dont really talk to, you never know what could happen...
hope i'v helped just have fun and get out there.
xoxox sally
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my sister is 8 and reall annoying!
she is always over my shoulder reading everything on the internet that comes up.
as a matter of fact, she is reading this right now.
she is also always stuck up my ass when i have friends over and im am deff. 7 years older then her.
tell me what to do , please. (link)
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hay
give her something to do to heap her occupied so she doesnt bother you and is in your face all the time... that might help if not just tell your parents im sure they'll understand. hope this helped.
sally :) xoxoxo
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I'm failing: Math, History, and Science. I feel really terrible because Im very a determined person and never have gotten such bad grades. And I really dont like feeling this low. I never get F's on Interms. Whats a good way to help me feel better? (link)
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hay
i think you just need to take a break from school because you sound stressed.. you just need to have some "you" time and relax a bit and release that stress... do something for yourself... treat yourself.. or maybe go away for the weekend and just relax it sounds like its time you got away... alot of ppl get stressed and just need to get away for a while to relax and some time to think... that will make you a lot happier
xoxox sally
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me and my ex "dj" are talking again. we had been together for 5 months and drifted away. well we might go back together. i finally told him how i am leaving for boocamp this coming up wed. "may 23" and my question is "should i continue our soon to be relationship or wait until i get back" (link)
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hay you should at least talk to him about this so you both are on the same page... cos you never know it might be to late when you come back... you dont have to go back out with him right away you can always wait till you come back from camp but just make sure he knows how you feel fist... talk to him while you are on camp aswell... hope this helps
xoxox sally
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ok so i got my 1st boyfriend today (im 14) and i really dont know what to do. like my mom doesnt really want me to have a b/f so we cant go to each others houses, talk on the phone because i dont have a cell right now, or see each other much because we go to different schools. ive only been taken for less then an hour and i miss being single so much, what should i do? (link)
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hay...
you might miss being single now but later when you are single you might miss being taken.. so you really need to think about what you want... because it sounds like your not sure of what you want. it isnt really fair on your relationship if you never get to see him, so that might be a reason you miss being single. why dont you talk to him through AIM or MSN... (whatever you have) so yous are at least talking... and you should try to see him more... but maybe your better off being single for now, i cant tell you what to do you have to decide for youself. lol hope that helps you a little....
xoxoox sally
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okay, long story short, i tore my ACL a year ago next month. i got released in feb. the only thing i have done since then is gymnastics. iv been eating a lot of sweets, and drinking a lot of pop. and over that year, i formed a tummy.. im not fat, but it really makes me depressed, cause this time last year, i had a 6 pack and was in the best shape ever for a girl. I'm 5'5 and about 150lbs. yeah.. i was 120.. =-x.. so now that its getting nice out, iv been taking walks. but im about to start running, and only drinking water, and not eat as many sweets, im still going to eat the food i like, but not like cnady and ice cream and stuff. will that help any in losing my tummy?? ((oh i'll also be going to a basketball camp this summer, which will help, right??)) and if you dont think this will help, then please let me know of some good eating ideas. icant really work out, i dont have ride to the gym, so running and doing flips outside is my only way of exercise. thanks a ton!! (link)
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hay
yer that will help a little but what you should try and to is be more active isntead of sitting around being bored.. ride your bike, swim,walk,run, do this with your friends so it will be fun... think of this extra excersise as fun. and if you want to get your tummy into shape then why dont you try doing tummy excersises every night before you go to bed or try doing palates or yoga.. if your stuck on tummy excersises then just google "tummy excersise" or try these sites:
http://www.mainstreetmom.com/jm_tighten_tummy.htm
http://www.tummyflattner.com/
i hope this helps
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See me and and a friend lets say 'Mandy' have been friends since kindergarden. I've always thought of her like a sister but lately its more like a twin. When I told her I was going to get an Ipod she went out and got an MP3 player. When I got my ears pierced, she did. I have straight hair she has curls, for her b-day she got hair straightener! She's been using my words, my style, my life; and I'm sick of it. She's been using me, now I want to lose her. But how? (link)
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hay
i think mandy just looks up to you and admires your style.. you just need to help her find her own style by complementing her on things of her own style her own choice.. and try to spend a little less time with her so she is less likly to keep copying you. or if you really dont want to be her friend anymore just tell her... hope that helped.. xoxo
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Hi Everyone, i'm Hannah Montana. i know i may be a popstar but i still need advice at times too. I know it may be hard to imagine. but its true. Hot-diggity-dog! what i need advice on is, on the show, do yall think i should date Olivar?
thanks so much. I love you all! *smooch*
- Hannah Montana (link)
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hay....
lol i dont think this is hannah montana but anyways... yer i think its time miley got a boyfriend, oliver and her would make a good couple... love is just what the show needs.. i love hannah montana its a heeps good show
bye xoxo
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What are some things for my friends and I to do around my house? My house is pretty boring, so I just want a few suggestions. Thanks in advance. (link)
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hay why dont you put music on... or watch movies.. scarey ones are the best for a sleepover or just to hang out... you could play a board game.... or truth or dare that always a laugh. or just muck around and have a fun time.. go crazy... lol hope that helped a bit xoxox
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when i try to sign in on myspace it says incorrect password and i am deffinatly typing the right password
this has been going on for a day now
how do i fix this
o yeah and i cant press "i forgot my password" link
because my friend made the myspace for me and used a fake email adress ! (link)
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hay
i think you should just make a new account with your own email address cos you have to vertify the email address for it to work and since you made up an email.. your myspace probly didnt work so thats why you cant get into it.
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Hello im crying my eyes out because i think im over weight....i dont look it but the BMI thing says I am IM like 5'2 and like somewhere inbetween 127-130 pds....omg i hate myself...im thinking of anorexia. (link)
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hay
i dont think your over weight and there is no need to go as far as anorexia cos it will just make you sick and make you feel more hurt then your feeling now. if your realli worried about your weight why dont you just try and eat healthy & exercise, you can put all your anger and hurt emotions into working out at the gym or playing a sport. even working out for an hour a day will release stress. if you eat healthy and exercise each day you might lose weight down to a size your comfortable with & it will also make you feel so much better about yourself. but dont over do it or halm your health cos theres no need.
hope that helped
xoxo sally
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so i am late on my period. but i havent had sex for a long time like 3 months. so i cant be pregnant. is this normal? (link)
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hay its totally normal dont stress! your at that age were your periods will still be iregular so sometimes they will be at different times.
i dont think your pregnent bcos you would probably no by now.. if youv had your periods once during this three monthes then your not.. really it depends how late you are.
xoxo sally
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Hi I really want to be organized, but I am so messy!!! If I finally clean my room, like the next day its messy again!!!!! i hate it but I am lazy and I hate that too!! please write back! my email is jenstewart2006@yahoo.com (link)
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hay
just try to put things away after you use them instead of leaving them everywhere and it will stop you from being messy.
xoxo sally
p.s i wasnt sure if you wanted me to eamil you or just answer you so i did both and the email is a lot more detailed then this.
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how do i ask a girl to hook up with me? like what is a smooth i guess pick up line? example scenario would be at a party, and i have been talking to and flirting with a girl the whole night. (link)
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well if your at a party talking/flirting with a girl the whole night and everything is going well then at the right time just say "kiss me" and go for it OR just go for it.. lean in and kiss her.. if everything is going well you shouldnt have any problems.
xoxosal
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