Hey everybody! I love to help people and I've been the designated advice-giver amongst my friends for years so I've gotten pretty good at it. If I haven't been through it, I know someone who has, so feel free to ask me anything! I just wish I had known about this site when I was younger and needed more advice of my own.
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Okay, so im 14/f and my boobs have hard spots. Im very tall (5'9) and am fully developed except for my boobs (size 34 A). Two questions: will my boobs grow to at least a B, and what are the hard spots? Thanks so much (link)
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Most likely, the different consistency of tissues that you are feeling is normal. Breasts are made up of fat tissue that feels soft, and fibrous tissue that feels firm. Underneath the breast is muscle tissue (the pectoral muscle) that can be quite hard. Most women can feel lumpy areas in their breasts, often in the same place each time. Some women also develop transient tender lumps (small cysts) before their menstrual periods, and these lumps then shrink after the period is over.
However, the safest thing to do would be to have your breasts examined by your doctor or health professional. This way you can be reassured if the lumps you are feeling are normal or not, you can review the best way to do a breast self-exam, and you can ask any questions you have.
Also, there is no real way to tell how large you will grow. You could have a growth spurt at any moment! All you can do is wait and be happy with what you have.
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okay so my skin is like, really pale. im tan, just its like my skin isnt bright or healthy looking like every body else's skin. i mean, my make-up looks good and everything when i put it on, but if you look really close to my skin around my nose and cheeks, its kind of speckly and stuff. should i just wash my face a lot and eat healthy? what should i do? (link)
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Well, first of all, at your age most people's skin is at their worst. You probably just notice the flaws to your skin because you see it up-close.
However, eating a healthy diet rich in vitamins is extremely important to healthy skin. Also, drink a lot of water and protect it from the sun. There are also some face creams to brighten your skin and reduce the appearance of pores. Go to a drug store and look at whats available... just make sure its non-comedogenic (won't clog pores) or else you will have a whole new problem to deal with... acne.
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i dont know what is going on my anus hole itches so badly i know i dont have pinworms or anything because they told me to check my poop and i found nothing so if anyone can help i would be so grateful (link)
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You might just have really sensitive skin. Try buying some moist wipes with aloe (like baby wipes). They may help sooth your skin. Hope this helps!
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does anyone know any good trance songs? I don't care if theyu're new or super old, just as long as they're good. thanks (link)
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Here are a couple lists of trance songs...
http://www.listology.com/content_show.cfm/content_id.14398
http://www.digitaldreamdoor.com/pages/best_dance-tran.html
Hope this helps!
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okay so basically im 15 and a female. i have a boyfriend. and it always seems like whenever i get into a relationship i always start to think that there are better guys then the one im withh like i instantly notice all of the better looking guys and stuff. it reallly bugs me.
and usually it forces me to break up with my guy. i dont know if its because i have serious commitment issues or what? like i really do like my bf its just now im thinking that there these hotter sweeter nicer guys. i know this isnt good to think. and i really dont want it to ruin this relationship. aghhh help please. thankss. :]] (link)
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If you were older, I might agree that you have commitment issues, but since you are only 15 I think it's fine to see what's out there. Let's face it, you probably aren't going to marry the guys you date at your age so I don't think you have to worry too much. Plus, when you find the right person, you'll know and won't even want to look at other guys. Go with your guts. If it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't.
On the other hand however, you might want to think about giving people more of a chance. If you keep breaking up with people you'll never get to know some really great guys. Just remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence.
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Ok do you see girl's who have pony tails wear it get thinner and thinner as it goes down?
My hair is really fat and poofy so when my hair is in a poney tail it like flares out and instead of it being in like a tear drop shape, it's like a long rectangle hanging down.
I want to make it like normal girl's so what can I tell the hair cutter to do? (link)
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If you have poofy hair you should cut your hair in long layers, or what they refer to as "graduated layers" and thin it out some too. The graduated layers start at the bottom of your hair and graduate up. They give your hair an "all one length" look rather than the layered look as you cannot even see the layering. The graduated layers and occasional thinning simply take the bulk and frizz out of your hair and allow it to grow downward in length rather than outward.
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Hey. So, I'm thirteen, about 5 feet and I think like 97 pounds. I REALLY want to lose some weight. I try going on diets, but it never works, and I have like an inability to fast, or not eat.
I need help, how can I lose weight in a living area where I have little to no room to exercise? I need tips on what I can eat, that isnt gross.
Thanks :] (link)
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Actually, your weight sounds perfect for someone of your height. If you go to this webpage...
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/
... and enter your height and weight, it will tell you if you are overweight, underweight, or just right. You are actually closer to the underweight area.
However, if you feel like you just want to tone up then you should look up some exercises that you can do at home. Weight training, crunches, and walking are always good. There are also exercise balls that you can get and they have tons of things you can do with them and you don't need much room.
Good Luck!
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my friends just tried to crush up motrin IB and snort it. can they get high from this? and is it bad for them? if so, how? (link)
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Snorting ibuprofen may provide you with some localised anit-inflammatory and pain relief but that would be all. It is it is important to remember that when snorting any kind of powder you run the risk of damaging your nasal passages and/or inhaling it into your lungs where it can irritate them. This is especially important if you have a respiratory condition such as asthma.
You might also want to keep in mind that just because you can buy it over the counter doesn’t mean it is harmless. There are a number of side effects that can occur when taking ibuprofen such as headaches, dizziness, upset stomach, cramps, constipation, diarrhoea, gas, skin rash, itching and swelling of the feet, ankles or lower legs.
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hey green day play some kids who are playing paintball or something....on king of the hill..please tell me which episode its called and what season is it in? (link)
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"The Man Who Shot Cane Skretteburg"
Season 2
November 16, 1997
Punks (voiced by members of Green Day) best Hank and his friends on the paintball field, so the men plot revenge against them.
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where can i get Mario Bros's theme and more about this game piano sheets????? like all of these
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jawSFZhFvAE
please its urgent! (link)
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This site has some free Mario Bro's music sheets...
http://www.jimmyr.com/Free_Mario_Sheet_Music.php
If these don't work for you, go to google and type in Mario Music Sheets. There are several other pages you could check out.
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17-f-aus
you probly think wtf why dont she no i seriously have no idea what VD means i seen a few people saying it on here plz help my poor deprived soul (link)
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Venereal disease (VD), now more commonly known as sexually transmitted disease (STD) or sexually transmitted infection (STI).
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hey, well this past week ive been having like a million dreams a night. like about stupid stuff too. like last night it was about me in a grocery store dressed up as a skeleton, chocolate chip muffins, and me peeing and then having to pee again right after. yeah random right? whats wrong with me? this has been happening to me for a week and its totally freaking me out. (link)
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I have had REALLY strange dreams my whole life. They may even be weirder than the one you describe! There's nothing wrong with you. You probably just have an active imagination. Also, sometimes my dreams are stranger when I am tired or stressed out.
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i didn;t really know where to put this..
but anyways,
in the movie meet the fockers, how come pam's mom always says "muskrat" to pam's dad when gaylord(greg) asks to hold little jack(the baby)?
i'm just curious, and if anyone knows i'd apreeciate if you shared your knowledge lol
thanks in advance =] (link)
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"Muskrat" is a code word they have agreed DIna should say to remind Jack to keep his cool. They choose an odd word that will not come up in a normal conversation so it has more impact, but they never explain if the word has any personal significance to them.
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Hi! I want to throw a party. Can someone help me to make it WONDERFUL!!! I already got a dj and a place what else do I need
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Maybe you should decorate a little bit and have some snacks and drinks available. Dancing makes you thirsty!
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Okay so tonight i lost my grandpa. and feel so horrible because i wish i had been closer to him. i am really scared that i wont be able to deal at the services and stuff thats coming up later this week. do you guys have any seggestions for saying goodbye easier and not letting go or moving on but becoming at peace with whats happened and idk. im not really sure im still in shock, because this was all so sudden and i feel so bad because the last time i could have seen him, i took it for granted and didnt go, wow i feel so awful. my friend says i should speak at the service and that would be like a way of saying sorry, but idk if i can evn pull it together enough to get to them.
but any help would be great
sorry for my poor grammar and everthing. (link)
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I'm very sorry to hear about your lose. You should check out this website...
http://pbskids.org/itsmylife/emotions/death/index.html
It has tips on how to handle a funeral, moving on, lots of things. Just go through the different menus at the top to the right of the picture.
Hope this helps!
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do people with paid accounts have more power on here then people with non-paid accounts? (link)
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This page tells all the perks you get as a paying member...
http://www.advicenators.com/paidaccounts.php
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ok so there are these boots i want sooooooooo bad. and i searched for them everywhere they're suppose to be at burlington coat factory or nortdstrom and someone said i could get them at sears. but i checked all those stores and they're not there.
http://www.iamtonyang.com/0501/pink_fuzzy_boots.jpg
i want ones like those
in white or black or pink.
anyone know where i can get them? (link)
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They are called Yeti Boots. Go to Google and just type that in. A ton of websites come up and you can search for the color, price, size you want. Also, there are lots of them on ebay!
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okay i have a few questions
1. over febuary vacation my mom and i were talking about going away for the weekend; me her one of my good friends and her boyfriend for all of us to stay from like friday to sunday over night. were from MA. we don't want to go like all the way to like maine. we were thinking more like upstate vermont, or new hampshire or something. where are some good resorts that are right on the mountain ? if it helps, my mom is an excellent skiier, and me and my friends boyfriend have been snowboarding for a few years, and the other two never boarded before. im' more on the blue square level, not so much black diamond.
2. i want to get new boarding pants but i have no clue what size. i was looking at getting either the burton cargo elite WMS or the cruizers. i'm about 5'4 and about 120 (so i'm pretty skinny for my age. i'm slender/average)
3. and where can i get one of the pairs for a really good price? i have the option of ebay, but i feel wierd buying cloths.. if you know what i mean.
sorry this is so long. any advice appreciated. (link)
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I can't help you much with the snow pants but I know of a ton of greta ski resorts in Vermont. Killington is really nice and not to far of a drive from MA. There are so many others though so here is a good website to check out...
http://www.skivermont.com/
It has info about ski resorts in Upper, Central, and Lower VT. As well as info about the conditions of each mountain and links to there websites.
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My wife and I decided when we got married that we wanted to have a child. I'm having second thoughts, though, because of my parents. They got divorced when I was 2 years old and my father could only see me 4 times a year, for about a week long each season and 5 weeks in the summer.
I'm afraid of having a child because I'm afraid that if I get divorced, I won't get custody. My wife and I are very much in love, but so were my parents before they ended their marriage. I know that once I am a father, I'll love my kid more than anything, and the thought of possibly not being able to see him/her very often worries me.
Has anyone felt the way I do, or have anything to suggest? Thank you. (link)
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The fact that you are so worried about this makes me think you will be a great dad! You know you will love your child and make it work even if something happens between you and your wife. You may have to move or rearrange your life a little but you'll be a constant in your child's life. Besides, don't compare yourself and your relationship to your parents because it is totally different. Maybe you should talk to your wife about this. She may have some of the same fears and together you can work through this.
Good Luck!
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Hi, im 18yrs old/f and me and my boyfriend have been going out for a lil over a year. We've only just start having sex for a couple months. We always used a condom. Im not on the pill bcuz i dont have insurance any more. Well its feb. 8 and i was supposed to have my period yesterday. My period has been known to be irregular. It usually comes between the 1- 17. Im scared i might be pregnant. Ive been grumpy and certain things make me mad and ive been craving sweets. Thats how i usually act when im PMSing. I took a test and came out negative. Ive been under alot of stress from losing my friends and other situations. Ive also been really worried bout being pregnant. Me and my boyfriend have stopped having sex and hes just been fingering me now. Could that delay a period? Please help me. Im a mess. I dont want to even think about kids right now. Im not mature enough or ready to raise a child. (link)
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Also, for the future you might want to think about checking out Planned Parenthood. They can provide birth control at little or NO cost to people without insurance.
Find one near you here.... http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
and good luck!
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