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hi im a 15 year old girl and my mom hits me a lot. i was wondering what you think i should do to get her to stop? (link)
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maybe you should get help somehow...talk to some one about getting your mom to a doctor because just because she has a disease doesnt mean she can treat you like that. but atleast tell an adult that u seriously think she needs to see a doctor but u cant tell her that cuz she'll snap...=( i hope everything goes well for you and im sorry about ur situ!!
*jesikuh
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Does sex always hurt the first time? My friends say it does... but are there any ways for it to not hurt at all? (link)
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i dunno i hear from some people that it HURT really bad but for me my first time it didnt hurt that much, i think some girls are overly dramatic O:-D but uhh juss dont have him SHOVE it in lol it takes time the first couple times!!
*jesikuh
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th3re iis a bOii ii liike. .ALOTT. but he has a girlfriiend that he dOesnt really like anyways. he flirts with me sOmetimes by like hitting me and hOldiin me. but he is like that with other gurls tOo. and he dOesnt even knO i like him. what shOuld i dO. Or tell me what you think.
thAnkyOu!!
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well this boy toy of ur's (or whoevers!!!) sounds like a player...a no good player..i kno u like him and it sucks but dont go for him, i bet you can get some one else =D
*jesikuh
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Ok i have Black heads... they are like HUGE pores... does anyone know how to get rid of black heads.. the thing i did was pop them... but there is to many! any suggestons..
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biore black head strip things!!! u like get ur nose or where ever wet and put them on till they get hard and dry and rip it off, they work gooood.
*jesikuh
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wut can you do to make your butt bigger..im 13 and i want to make my but bigger im 100 pounds and i got a nice butt, but it can be bigger..plz help..i rate..and i dont want andy bullshit about how i dont need it to be bigger i'll just give u a 0!..haha
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walk backwards! it sounds weird but like..i do it sometimes, if im on a walk ill walk backwards, it works out ur butt really good! and who cares if u look goofy if u got the butt ;D
*jesikuh
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ok this may seem stupid but i keep trying to change the background on my column. and everytime i get it the way i want it. i submit and save or w/e. but it just stays the same. can anyone help me? (link)
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go to your page and hit refresh and it'll change =D
*jesikuh
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ok do u think its bad like if u go with ur best guy friend 2 tha movies like kuz hes datin a a grl and she alwayz brings a friend so wuld it be wrong if he invited me and went i mean she knos were bffz and all but i jsut think she might get mad but im not 4 sure like if it wuld look bad or wutnot...?? (link)
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i think you should be able to go to the movies with ur BFF and not care what anyone else thinks, if they have a problem with it they can screw themselves =D its ur bff, u'll prolly last longer than their relationship anyhow ;)
*jesikuh
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Ugh, this is so discusting, but how do you get rid of dead skin cells on your face, like after you have a pimple or somthing, without having to go out and buy somthinggggg i mean i have great moisturizer but during the day my makeup becomes all flaky and suck and i dooo not likkke ittt attt alllll!!! hahaha...I'm so frustrtaed, also, what can you do for a scab thats on your face, fast, I use neosporin but it doesnt work that well, ughh im so mad at myselffff =(
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alright! to get rid of dead skin cells use a exfoliating mask or something orrr toner (thats what toner's for =D) anddd for a scab i dont kno...let it heel? thats what i do lol
*jesikuh
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well im 14 and im not like...ugly actually ppl think im pretty and stuff but thats with make up on...well sometimez it comes off and its just hard to look cute...for me...and lately ive been so unhappy with myself...EVERY gurl i see i want to be..il b like well if i could have her lips id be pretty...i just want like certain features of EVERYONE im so jealous it makes me not have a good time...i just stare @ them..i want ot be them....or i want just ther hair or watever...im so unhappy....wat can i do to stop doing this..and if ur gonna say o think of the good things of urself...i dnt have ne good things..i MAKE them look good...my skin- has freckles and zits...i use make up...my hair...frizzy and wavy-i IRON it with a clothw iron...just everything is fake it seems like...and im stil not that pretty...wat can i do? wats wrong with me?? =( (link)
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lol i juss kinda answered a low self esteem question so u can go to my column and read what i said but hun u gotta except youself for who u r and what u look like cuz ur not gonna change much, i mean u might over the years but ur still gonna be same ol u! it takes sooo much to get me ready too, i have frizzy wavy hair and i flat iron it everyday and its a pain but its what u have to go in todays society to be "pretty"....but ur prolly beautiful the way you are, find what u like about urself and only think of those things...like maybe ur lips or ur nose or one of ur features!!! when u think ur beatiful you are =D
*jesikuh
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ooo my god ! lol i was readin ur advice colum and wen ur music loaded it scared me so bad lol i dunno i thought it was funni .. u dont hafta reply but i like ur colum tho! cute music too lol after the shock wears off frum gettin scared half to death (link)
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haha thanks so much! im glad people like it! sorry about the music shock, be ready. =D thanks for the love!
*jesikuh
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How can I bring my self-esteem up? I'm really loathing myself and not liking it :(. (link)
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hmmmmmmm i dunno hunnie.. you could...get ur hair done =D and have days where instead of laying around you get all dolled up looking like ur going some where special so u look totally gorgeous ... hmm have days to pamper yourself ... like juss sit around watching girl movies (like 16 candles, mean girls, or sad girly movies) and do like a facial mask and do your toe nails and nails and do ur make up and u could do self tanner too to look extra hott (i use some copper tone stuff, smells kinda good!) but yeah, juss find little ways to feel good about urself =D dont hate yourself, you only get one life, live it! and u'll have to accept who you are and make it better instead of hating it, the things u dont like change them! be happy with yourself instead of being hooked on imperfections :) i hope you feel better, i bet ur beautiful
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Ok theres this girl who I've been friends with for 12 years, and our moms even longer. I'm so sick of her because shes really mean to me one minute and nice the next. If I tell her about it she'll like scream at me and then i'll get in trouble with my mom. Also, she doesn't get along with anyone because she's really weird and stuff and she follows me around and its SO ANNOYING! PLEASE HELP! (link)
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avoid her and tell your mom shes a weirdo =D
*jesikuh
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see my friend she always flirts w/ this boy i like and it gets me sooooo mad am i just jealous and should i tell my friend to stop i know she does it on accident but she does it everyday! so help plz (link)
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tell her you like him and you dont appriciate her doing that. maybe you should tell the guy too if he doesnt already kno! chance? ;) than ur friend will really back off ur shit
*jesikuh
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Well i just found out my friend (D) likes me and i guess i like him to but i like his friend (F) more than i like (D). i really dont no wut to do!!!! Please HELP!! (link)
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tell F you like him. and tell D u dont like him. and if D doesnt get a clue, tell him to F - off ;D
*jesikuh
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hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay? (link)
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i dunno...maybe ur bi...hmmm nothin's wrong with a gay guy anyhow! its 2004 baby, gay is the new it thing =D i want a gay shoppin pal, im me sometime! jp jp ;D
*jesikuh
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How do I meet my favorite celebrity? (link)
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good question...i dunno...move to hollywood or vegas? =D
*jesikuh
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i dont have a boyfriend for my prom and i dont have any friends that are guys (or girls) to go with either ... I know its early but Im not gonna get a b/f cause i dont really want one but i want ot go to prom but nor alone!! help (link)
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you'll prolly find a guy to go with by prom, dont sweat it!
*jesikuh
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Okay so i have these two best friends..and we`re all best friends. One of them changed completely just for her boyfriend and then when the other one pointed it out, the first one got pissed off and now they`re not friends anymore. Now, one of them deosnt care that theyre not friends anymore but the other one does, and she keeps telling me about how unhappy she is. Ugh, i have no idea what to do. I want them to be friends again, but i dont know wtf im supposed to do about it.
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i think they should have a looong talk about what they both think, theres always 2 sides to a story and i think they should both see what the other one thinks, maybe that'll settle things out...
*jesikuh
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im 16/f and i really like this boy but hes in a younger grade then me. hes still older than me because he got held back. he really likes me and wants us to hook up, but i dn, for some reason, the grade thing really bothers me...and i dont even know if im ready for a relationship. i like him most of the time, and other times he is a bit too immature...what the hell do i do? (link)
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well obviously if ur havin doubts, dont go for it. sounds like ya do...keep him as a friend, friendships tend to last longer (i kno that from expirence) lol
*jesikuh
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hey, ok this is kinda long and confusing i will rate high.
Theres this kid lets call him Joe. Well Joe and i liked each other. we talked all the time and have been friends 4 a while. So we were talking and then Joe just kind of stopped talking 2 me, i mean he talks 2 me but i have 2 talk 2 him first. i asked him about who he liked and he was sort of unsure and i dont no what that means for me. so thats confusing me, then theres this other guy, lets clal him Mark. Well Mark and I used to go out but then we broke up and we tlka occansionally, but i cant stop thinkin abut him and i dont no what 2 do or think bcuz i liked joe then he stopped talkin 2 me! im so confused!! i dont no what should i do? (link)
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hmm well "joe" stopped talking to you (stopped trying) soo thats kinda BS MAJOR! obviously he's not interested as much anymore (sorry its the truth!) mayyybe you should talk to this "mark" guy more, and tell him that ur kinda feelin him again soo he'll kno, and if hes interested, then there ya go =D if not, hay, theres a lot more fish in the sea ;D
*jesikuh
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