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So, I'm 14 (female) and I've never had even the slightest crush on anyone. I've never done anything with a guy (not even a hug) before either (hense the "ms.innocent" part). Is there something wrong with me? I think I might like someone now, but I'm not sure. You see, I'm extremely shy around people so those butterflies could just be anxiety for me. I was also wondering if there's a way that I could tell if i truely like someone??? (link)
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If you'll know if you like him, under all the doubt and anxiety, the answer is there. And there is nothing wrong with not having done anything or liked anyone in that special way. If you aren't comfortable, you aren't comftorable. There's no right or wrong time for those things that apply to all people. Do what's right for YOU. :)
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I am a 35 year old musician/composer/performer who currently resides in Los Angeles. I write soundtrack/rock/western and blues original tunes. I moved to Los Angeles 4 years ago to continue with musical group which was originally formed in Delaware in 1994. The band is still together and we have performed many times around the east and west coast as well as doing a random 2 week tour every 8 months. We have a fairly nice and loyal following and have independently released our own recordings(about 6 different CD's are available) and are now breaking into the realm of soundtracking with a self produced(yes, our own money) film the band is currently working on in Hollywood which is very exciting. Over the years I have become the main member of the group, we do not have a record contract or do not have a record label. Since this art is my passion I have put everything in my life into it. All my $$, time, relationships, and future plans have gone into my love to create for the last 11 years since its inception. I do not make any income with this project and work a part time job here in Los Angeles as a pizza delivery guy to help fund it and its driving me crazy! All I want to do is make a living out of the music I am soooo passionate about and have sacrificed sooo much for. This creative force inside governs my life and I feel it may actually be damaging in the long run to my well being because of feeling of not being completely successful. So what do I do? Tough it out and keep going or decide to throw in the towl? This question is too difficult for me to answer on my own. (link)
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honestly, I think you should never give up on your dreams, and if you've gone this far you might as well tough it out, you may want to slow it down a bit though, and get a higher paying job, just for now. Try to create a following, get your music out there, I know it's awfull, but do you guys have a myspace, it can be usefull for putting yourself out there. I also suggest uploading some stuff on download.com.
Good luck, send me a link to your guy's site, I wanna check it out :)
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WHat's a store all for bras or has a section for bras? 13/f (link)
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Try Victoria's Secret, they'll measure you for free, but the bras themselves are a bit pricey... Or, you can measure yourself at home following the directions on their website, and go to target or merveyns.
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ok well i always feel like i'm getting fat in my legs and i know i'm not but i feel it and the only work-out that i get is from cheerleading and besides that i'm eating like crazyy well not fruit i should say and i always think about going anerxioc and i even try but then i feel sick and about to throw up and so do you have any tips to get me motivated to work out and stop eating junk food and start eating healthy...or any like sites to help me loose weight or at least become skinny b/c all my friends are like really tiny or at least l0 pounds lighter and everytime we liek do piggy back rides or something i'm never the one being picked up b/c i weigh 90 pounds and i just feel like i need to lock myself up someplace and not eat...i'll rate 5's for any answer!! please help me b/c i'm going to start to not eat so help me quick!! please (link)
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aneroxia is NEVER the answer. Eat nice, normal healthy food, stay away from processed foods becuase they are high in the bad fats, and walk or jog regularly, try yoga too, it's fun, it feels good and will get you in shape (if you aren't already)
now, how old are you? becuase 90 lbs is really underweight, a small framed-4'10" woman should weigh at least 102. but if your like 9 or something...
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What are some good game websites?? Like games i can play online. (link)
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http://www.newgrounds.com
http://www.pogo.com
http://www.albinoblacksheep.com
http://www.gamegarage.co.uk
http://www.battleon.com
htp://www.runescape.com
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Ok I really have a crush on this guy. And everytime I go to sleep, I pretend we are having sex. Its gross I know because im only 13. But my dreams wont stop. Is this a problem? Its been happending since 5th grade when we learned about puberty I always dream for him to touch me
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no. it's not a problem, in fact, it's perfectly natural, so just lay back and enjoy it. :)
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I have a layout (double sided kind) and i dont know how to put the right side module thing on the right. in my l & f i put it under the regular module but it came out on the top instead of the right side. please help...how do i get it on the right side?
thanks...5's for anyone who tries! ♥ (link)
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go to look and feel and put the code under "JavaScript Module".
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what do you do when your friends mad at you (link)
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It depends on why they are mad. If they are mad cuz of something you did, apologize, then let them cool off. If they are mad for any other reason, let them cool off, and hear them out.
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Ok well when iwas 5 i had a habit of biting my nails off. And now at 13, i have a habit or picking my ifingers like picking the skin off and making it bleed arround the cuticle and stuff. I know its gross. Whaever i do, hold suimthin on hit my hand, i cant stop ive tried everything please help (link)
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you have to keep it in your mind all the time, kinda like a mantra, just continuosly think "I will not pick my fingers, I will not...ect" untill it works.
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OMG i'm soo bored can someone please give me some ideas of something to do thanks. bw i'm 14/f and all of my friends are busy (link)
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www.bored.com
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It all started when I put on my away message “ YOUR DUCH A DUMB FUC* HAPPY ONE YEAR” and my ex-boyfriends girlfriend saw it. That away message was to my ex boyfriend lets call him *jack” jack and I went out for 7months and it was our one year anniversary 11.06.05 so that’s why I put an away message like that.
His girlfriend lets call her “Jane” she saw my away message and got really pissed and sent me an email on my space. It was saying that if I don’t get over jack that I’m going to get jumped pretty much so I thought we settled everything but I thought wrong. My friend lets call her “Jen” she rides the bus with me and she has been telling me that Jane is getting a petition going around and seeing who hates me. This is really true she’s not lying I over heard Jane talking about it.
Jane now has 40 people on the petition so 40 people so far hate me. How do I handle her? Should I fight her, leave it alone, talk to her, or make a petition of who hates Jane? But I think its immature she’s doing this so I don’t want to be immature. She’s 16 by the way and I’m 14.
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Tell her that you think she's being immature. And you really don't want to have to go through drama with her, and that mabye she and you could just let it drop, becuase there are so many beter things to be doing, and so many bigger things than "Let's hate my current's ex". Whatever you do, don't make another petition, you don't need to sink to her level.
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Hey. Well, I was wonderign where they sell those "PINK" sweatpants at Victoria Secret. Do they sell them at Victoria Secret or sowewhere else? Thanks! (link)
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yeah, they are from vikky's secret, aren't the lime green ones awsome!!!
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What's a good free web host that has a lot of space? (link)
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www.freewebs.com
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ok ....so ill be like rubbing myself down there and ill get really really wet and then ill have to stop because its like i cant explain but it feels good but weird and then when i try to rub myself again i cant because it hurts i would have to wait for like 2 mins...is this an orgasam??if not then is it normal and what is it? (link)
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it's normal, you're getting "wet" it's like natural lubrication. you'll know when you have one.
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Hey!
I can never find jeans that fit!
I have really long legs but im not that tall. I know they say abercrombie is good for that, but they're jeans to be are so bulky and they're not a tight comfy fit.
Does anyone know wheere I can get jeans that are long and strechy and are tight? Like almot straight legged but still flare? But not too expesive.
anyone know what I mean? (link)
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well, the jeans aren't always tiny, but poke around in old navy. or hollister, wich are tiny, very, very tiny. or try the juniors sec at merveyns...
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I am suppose to be getting Contacts I have brown eyes and brown hair and an upside egg shapped head (haha). So what color would look best? I wear black eye liner and black clothes ALOT! So... (link)
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clear.
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sumtimes i get this feeling in mi lower stomach like im just ripping apart unless i hunch over. it hurts really bad for a few hours and then goes away. any ideas what it is? thanx (link)
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cramps? does it happen alot for a week a lil before and during your period, then go away for a month?
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ok so i was wondering if there was a type of contact that works for perscription needs, but does the cool color changing thing too...it sounds stupid but hey i like it, so deal hah (link)
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I belive that's how they started. ask your opetomitrist.
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My gramma just died a week ago, and my parents just told me yesterday that they are getting a divorce. All of this just seems like too much for me to handle. I have incredible faith in God .. so I pray to him ... but sometimes that doesnt seem like enough? How can I deal with this? I dont really wanna talk to my friends about it ... cus all their parents are still 2gether, what should i do? (link)
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talk to a priest? or a nun? or some other person you'd think understand.
or...
try blogging about it. you'll feel good about getting your emotions out, and you can help other people in similar situations out.
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Hi. I like this girl alot and she wont realize how much we are meant to be. Yes i am only in highschool but i know she is right. I told her several times but she just keeps saying not now or i cant see you as more. I need to know how i can tell her that we are meant to be. Please help.
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if she isn't interested. than it prolly isn't meant to be hun. cool off, give her space. either you'll find someone totally new and more suited to you, or she'll come to her senses.
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