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Ok thi is freaky it wont stop
Ok I really have a crush on this guy. And everytime I go to sleep, I pretend we are having sex. Its gross I know because im only 13. But my dreams wont stop. Is this a problem? Its been happending since 5th grade when we learned about puberty I always dream for him to touch me
~Troubled..
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Well, it is prefectly natural to be curious about that kind of thing when you learn about your maturing body and all that.
if you want to try to stop this or not is up to you, but if you let these dreams continue it is likely you'll have desires to do more sexual things as you get older. These dreams may lead you to want to masterbate, which will only lead you to want to do more things to fulfill your "desires" that you'll cause yourself to have.
If it were myself, I would try to make an effort to stop these dreams.
You mentioned two things. Pretending, and Dreaming. They are two entirely different things. If you find yourself pretending to do things with your crush, as you fall asleep then it's something you control. You can alter this by thinking about other things, listening to the radio, watching TV, etc. Think about something that will keep your mind off "sex with your crush". but if you are actually dreaming about these things, there isn't much you can do. dreams are a product of your inner concious. Try to clear your brain before you sleep and avoid before bed thoughts of your crush.
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no. it's not a problem, in fact, it's perfectly natural, so just lay back and enjoy it. :)
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Awesome. This is normal.
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It's totally normal! It's just part of growing up. Guys go through the same thing. Sex is usually always on their mind. & having sexual dreams is natural. I wouldn't worry about it. Hope that helps.
-andrea<3
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