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O and yall look at this poem and no I didn't write this one!:


Anna Joe
The kid no one really knows
Just sat
She was kind of fat
Every day people would critize
About her size
I was the only one who heard her crys
Her endless sighs
I never knew
What she was about to do
It was a misty Monday
I wish she found have found another way
We walked in
Right before she commited her sin
They laughed at her and called her fat
And there I sat
Wanting it to stop
I could have fought
Before I could think
In just one blink
She reached in her shirt
Everyone screamed as shots beamed
Up and down each row
Then it came to me and she said no
I was in shock
Then came a knock
Hurried,
In her head
There everyone sat dead
I burst in tears
Because I had no more peers
I could have stopped this all
I heard voices down the hall
Terrified yells
And there i was
Just because
I did'nt call her fat....
But I just sat
I let her cry,
wanting to die
And it just might be
Because of me
Everyones dead
And poor Anna shot herself in the head

advice

HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? My friend who asked him if he liked me keeps telling me that he doesn't like me and i should get over him....

Did you ever stop to look at the fact that your friend might have a crush on him too and not be telling you for this reason. If he kissed your hand and asked you to dance, he must be serious. And why would he be doing all that for a sweet gesture? i hope things work out for the best. Thanx, bye!

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i'm bored. we have no butter or anything to make cakes and i cant go and see my friends. i dont wanna watch tv and i dont wanna call my friends. any ideas for stuff to do?

Okay, if u like readin and ur a book worm ok then do that, but if ur like me go to a concert or go to the movies. You dont have to go with ur friends or just exercise if ur like a mocho freak or lift weights!Thanx, bye!

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y does it seem like everytime someone really needs help that fewer ppl reply to them. i mean more ppl answer questions about what kind of damn razor to use to shave ur bikini line. i mean that is stupid shit u can ask ur friends. does anyone ask good questions and only get like 3 replys?

Well maybe only three ppl can think of the right thing to say. Most ppl want to reply but cant b/c they dont have the right words to say. This job isn't easy. Its really hard to think of really good advice that wont back fire or hurt their feelings. You should try and see what it feels like for people to need you.Thanx, bye!

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ok im a girland today i just found out that my really close cousin thats a guy is bi and i found out today and now i dont kno how to act around him...i mean i feel weird knowin that hes bi and yea...so wut should i do? how do i react to this?

It doesn't matter how he is, its just like my best friends fav song still sings "doesnt matter what color the skin is just as long as ur blood is red". But in this case the sexuality doesnt matter as long as his blood is red. Just act normal cause hes blood, and that'll never change. Blood will always be thicker than water. Thanx, bye! =-)

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I 14 yrs. old and i am so down lately (like the past year) and i just hate my self so much and i cut myself sometimes... and it doesnt hurt... i dont know what to do to get out of this! i feel like i have no more friends and tht everyone hates me and wants to (litterally) kill me!I've been around some drugs lately but i dont really want to try them but im so tempted. I've been taking a lot of pain killers lately... Hoping tht i might over dose or something.... i've strangled myself to where i pass out before... i dont kno if I just need some one to hear me out and understand me or what? but im hoping i can get somewhat of a reply from this...?
~Kelly~

I know how u feel. I used to be there and i even tried to kill myself with drugs and alchohol, but im better and i know how much people like me and i know that they would miss me way too much. I decided to not put me or them through that missery. Think about,dont do that to them or u.Thanx, bye!

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Well i'v lyked dis boi since da beginig of da
"03-04" school year and i knew when he first sat nxt to me in class i would lyk him. we flirt wit each otha lyk 24/7 n EVRYONE use to ask y i dont go wit him n i was lyk "ur askin da wrong person"! he was really popular n ALOT of grls lykd him so he flirted alot, n i got jealous but neva really let it get to me cuz i flirt alot too! but he moved durin x-mas break n we kept in touch n planned to go to da movies a couple timz but neva wrkd out. is dat a sign i should move on? He's also da type dat dont call, he want u to call but i dont lyk dat but i do neways. well i havnt called him since june 13 n i REALLY miss talkin to him! i mean he makes me melt when i hug him and i smile when i hear his voice and i just think im in love, but sometimes i fell lyk he dont feel da same. My b-day comin up dis thurs (July 8) ima see if he rememeber....if he dont should i 4 get him? or call? or wut? PLZ HELP
P.S do u think im in love?

~KiSsEs~

I know how u feel, for me it felt like true love, but when i saw him alot i relized it was just puppy love.i wanted so many times to tell him but i never worked up the courage. He even made a move on me but i didnt take it. For u it sounds like this guy really likes u and u really like him(which sounds like love), i say if he doesnt call u its not the end of the world, u know he likes u and thats all that matters right? Write back to me and let me know how it goes. Thanx, bye!

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ok.. does anyone else get lyk.. rEaLLy dumb questions.. but when you delete them or wutever.. tha people IM you and get mad??

I sure hope not because i love every letter i get and i can't imagine deleting ne of these. Thats why im writing u back.To show i care about ur feelings and i sometimes know what ur going through.Thanx, bye!

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Ok here's the problem. I kind of have a "thing" with this guy. What I mean by thing is we hang out all the time and everynight he walks me to my door and kisses me goodnight. I know he likes me because he has told me before. The problem is I want him to commit to me. I mean I want him to be my boyfriend! I'm just WAY too afraid to ask him out because I'm not sure of his answer. I want him to ask me out! What do I do??

I think that when he kisses u goodnight that is when u should tell him.As soon as u can just kiss him right back, just better and longer than normal, lol. Tell me how things work out, i really am curious.Thanx, bye.

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im 16 year old male and i hhavent kissed yet im doomed wat do i do its not like im not attractive i juss never kissed

Wait for the right girl to share it with. There's always someone waiting for you.Bye now!

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well it's weird cause a while back me an this guy started dating and we dated off an on for like 3 years.. well he got sent away cause hes sucha badass and we broke up, when he got home we talked a little but i was in another relationship... So it just drifted away - a couple months later i see him and now all we do is hang out all the time .. or atleast around eachother .. it hurts me because he was my first love and ill love him til the day i die. Im scared though cause he was messing with a friend of mine which i helped them get together but now all the sudden hes telling people he wants to be with me again ... its scarey but my heart is crying for him .. what should i do?


i reallly need your help someone PLEASE!!

Well first if u think hes good enough then that he might have changed and he might still love u too....... atleast it ounds like it. I hope u can make the call on this question cause i would say go for it but my friend says don't. This is by far the hardest question yet!

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if you have sex, n then u go to the doctor can they find out?

Only if u dont wash urself in that special spot, lol. Then they can. Or if u have some sexual disease then its in ur bloodstream.hope this helped,bye now!

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Does anyone know any good poems or quotes to write in a note/letter to a boyfriend cause i need some ideas

Tell him ur love is everlasting and that if u two shall part that you'll meet again in a different life or heaven
Choose one. depending on how u look at life.

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ok, i have a pretty big room but u cant tell bcuz i have this HUGE dresser that takes up a whole wall and a huge queen sized bed that takes up a lot of space 2...and i want to get a smaller bed but my parents wont let me...i have posters all over my wall and i never wanna take them down, but what are some good ideas that i could use 2 make my room seem bigger?

Well ok try to rearange, but i think u have to talk to ur parents first, because i had kinda the same thing but a lil different. Okay, i told my mother and all she did was do her own thing and had no consiteration 4 what i wanted or needed and took everything out,and sold all of it and got a new floor and stuff but thats just cuz i approched her in a much different way that i should have. Try to come to an agreement of what u both want. Hope this helped.

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my friend steals small things like keychains and stuff and i dont really care but she stole from me twice! i dont kno wat 2 do i dont wanna confront her cuz its been a while and i dont want her 2 get mad at me cuz she is a really good friend except for the stealing from ur friends thing... so wat should i do?

I have the same problem and i found that it was best to not comfront her but to gradually talk to her about it and hope that it will slowly stop. Thanx for leting me help you.

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