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do you need to be a certain age to buy condoms or can anyone buy them?

..Anyone at any age can buy them..But I wont lie to you..If you buy them and you are a little young..People are probably going to look at you funny..But they have to let you buy them..And whats it matter if they look at you funny..Its not like you will ever see them again..Anyways you can buy condoms almost anywhere(Wal-Mart.Target.CVS.Ecards.Stop and Shop.Pricechopper.)..And if they stop it, they are like telling you to have unprotected sex..(which should never happen)..Alright..I hope I Helped..`Later`

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see the thing is i have alot of friends but not one best friend i can do everything with. i want my one friend to be my bff but i dunno how, its really confusing and even tho i have friends i feel so alone.....help please

..Thats just like me..I have soo many friends but not reli one tru best friend..I mean i have many best friends..But not one true best friends..But i think i like it like that..Because Im not always around them..But if you really want just one best friend you just need to hang out with them more..and ask them if they would like to do stuff with you..Sry i spelt everything wrong..I hope i helped`

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Even though I get enough sleep I get dark circles under my eyes in the morning an dthey stay until late afternoon. Do you know what causes it and/or what I can do about it?

14/f

Thanx...I rate!

..Well I have the same problem and mine are black..but mine never go away..they always stay with you..but i think its just that i got it from my parents..But you just have to get used to them and start to like them..And the only thing i can think of(which i dont do ima guy) is us coverup`

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ok my friend amber asked me to go on a cruise with her..so at first i was thinking "omg! this is so great!!! i wanna go soooo bad!" so i told her i would. now that the cruise is getting closer and closer...i'm having some serious second thoughts. i always get homesick - i can bairly get through a single sleepover without crying myself to sleep. i seriously need my own bed..and now that my dad is sick i really dont want to leave (he needs surgery but it stubbern and refuses to get it!)! now im having these thoughts more and more and im totally freaking out..its for 4 days and i need advice like i need oxygen! PLEASE HELP!

..well maybe you should just try it and see if you like it..If you cant take it just dont do it again for a while..But if you really feel that bad about your dad maybe you should just stay home with him and take care of him..But you will always need to be able to get away from home sometime..So why not start now?

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I'm a pretty social person, but everytime I want to plan some time to hang out with one of my friends my parents always interfer.They hardly ever let people come to our house because they claim it's messy when all they gotta do is clean it up! Today I wanted to sleep-over my friends house and my parents wouldnt let me go because it was raining, but it wasn't even raining hard!! Everywhere I go, I'm questioned.One time, I wanted to ride my bike around the block and my parents made me come back in 10 minutes when it was only 6:00..They make me so mad!! It's hard for me to show them I'm responsible because they baby me with how they are overprotective and I'm just so pissed off right now!!I want them outta of my bussiness!! Please help!! How do I get them to stop buggin me and let me be able to do stuff with my friends?

..well you need to talk to your parents..You need to ask them if there is any reason for them not to trust you..If they have a reason not to trust you than you need to try and earn ur respect back..And you need to tell them you are not a baby anymore and you need to be able to do things and that they need to trust you..they have to understand you need to b independent..And you just need to tell them how you feel..Hope I helped`

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what are some fun things to do with your boyfriend for a very small price? thanks

..Well there are a lot of things..You can go out to eat..Go to the movies..Go to an icecream place..Get pizza..Go bowling..Go swimming at a pool..Go hang out somewhere..There are many things..I hope helped`

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I'm a 13 year old female. Almost a year ago I became friends with a boy, also 13. We have always been very close, we have gone out at some points and up until last Friday we would hug and kiss all the time and we were close. Then on Monday night, he told me that he didn't think we should be so close anymore and that he wanted to stop. We weren't a proper couple so he wasn't breaking up with me but it felt like that. Now he wont hug me and he barely talks to me. He's suddenly got very close to another girl and I have no idea why he's suddenly changed. I really miss his friendship and I miss our closeness. I have tried talking to him about it but he tells me I'm being pathetic etc. Next week I am going on a school trip to France and I am so scared that he will get closer with the other girl I mentioned. I know I'm being posessive but he was my best friend and I miss him, I have no idea what to do.

..Well like others have said..You cant control his feelings..Maybe you should just try and talk to him and see what he is feeling..Maybe he just wants to try something else for a little while..But your still very young and have your whole life to find people..So you shouldnt worry about it now you should just try and move on and meet new people..Hope I helped`

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ok well there's this guy in my neighborhood and i'm new here (well not really cuz i lived here for 3 years) but anyways... i think i have a crush on him and stuff but hes always around his friends and i met him like 3 years ago and we don't really talk and he's one year older than me.I'm really shy.... what should i do to get him to notice me???

..Well just talk to him..You dont have to do it when everyone is around..But if you never take a chance than he will never notice you..And you just need to become friends with him and see how things go from there..Good luck`

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