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Im not that fat almost skinny but i have a little fat im 13 my height is 5'8 how do i get skinny it difficult (link)
http://exercise.about.com/cs/weightloss/a/howtoloseweight.htm

http://www.wikihow.com/Lose-Weight-Fast

http://www.momswhothink.com/lose-weight-fast/how-to-lose-weight-fast.html


where can i get a dress similar to these? like stores that sell similar, etc.

http://tinypic.com/r/n3rxwj/6

thankyou(: (link)
You can try the Deb.
http://www.debshops.com/family/index.jsp?page=1&categoryId=3364605&cp=3371579

There's a bunch of pages with dress to look through.

Also, you can try WetSeal.com
I know for a fact they have a shirt like those dresses, because I own it.
So they might have a dress like it.


okay so around the same time every year, she'll start acting strangely. she's about 1 1/2 or 2 right now, we don't know for sure. last year around the time when summer started, she began getting weirded out by the outside. our cats sit by the door when they wanna go outside, and she will. she'll sit there, and when we open the door, she'll just walk out. but last year whenever she'd stand by the door, we'd open it and she'd back up like something scared her. then we'll think she changed her mind so we'd shut the door. then she'll start mewing and wanna go outside again, so we'll try again. this goes on for a while until we give her a little push towards the door, and she'll leap over the wooden opening in the door to the outside. she did this all last summer and stopped around autumn. now she's beginning to do it again. what the hell is wrong with her? (link)
She might have seen something that spooked her.

My cats, every once in awhile, get scared when they try to do normal things they usually do.

My family eventually figured out there was something around that area that scared them.

She probably saw a mouse around that area of your door and got spooked, probably same thing last year.


Okay ... If you had a boyfriend/girlfriend , n you know that he/she is cheating but you just don't wanna let him/her go .. would you leave and be done with him/her or stay & continue 2 get cheated on ?


16 / female (link)
If I found out my boyfriend was cheating, I would leave. For good.
My parents divorce because my mom couldn't learn to keep her hands to herself.
I'm so against cheating.

But that's me.
You should seriously confront your boyfriend/Girlfriend if you know they're cheating on you.

Remember, you don't deserve that.


My dad is building a little thing out back to put his tools in. The shed is being built to have concrete walls for whatever reason. I was talking to my friends and they said it would be really cool to put our handprints in the cement while it's drying. I think the hand prints idea sounds pretty good too.

I haven't asked my dad yet about it but I'm curious how long a concrete wall will take to dry? We will want to do our handprints before it dries but not right after it's poured, obviously. Does anybody know about it's normal drying time then? (link)
This is what I found.

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080330084148AAMDbHs


I have an upward tilted uterus. My husband and I have been trying for a year or so now. We haven't been "going at it" hardcore or anything, because we both think that would be too boring. Does having a tilted uterus make it impossible for me to get pregnant? Or just difficult? Does anyone else suffer from this? Any helpful advice would be appreciated :) (link)
The only person that can give you 100% accurate advice is your doctor.
So I'd highly suggest going to yours and asking him/her.

Good luck! (:


I just started my period and my mom gave me some tampons to use. I'm not really sure how to use them yet but I had a question about them. I know you put them in your vagina and stuff but when you go to the bathroom to pee or poo do you need to take it out? Obviously it's in the vagina but I looked at the instruction book and it showed that there will be a little string hanging out. Should I remove it so the string doesn't get wet or dirty maybe? I'm lost. (link)
No, you can go to the bathroom while wearing one. It's perfecty fine. Just rememember to change every four hours and you'll be fine.


16/F
I was at my boyfriend's house and I heard his father yelling at his mother. He got really loud and then I heard him hitting her. I wasn't 100% sure until she said "Stop! That hurts!"
I haven't talked about it with my boyfriend but I really do not know what to do. I had suspected something was going on but never actually seen/heard it until today.

I have no idea what to do. Please help. (link)
Personally, I think you should tell a parent.
I also think you should bring it up to your boyfriend.
This woman could get hurt. You telling someone might save her from that happening.


OMG ! the guy i like that 3 years older tan mee , finally broke up with his gf . and he mgsed me on fb and hes like inally done with that relationship ! so do you guys think he likes me ?
and if he doesnt , how can i make him notice me in a good way ? (link)
You can't tell by that if he does.
All guys are different.
Ask him. Plain and simple.


okay .. so iv talked about this kid that 3 years older than me has a gf and stuff ... but how can i make him like me ? (link)
CLEARLY he has a girlfriend. He's happy with her. If he wanted to like you, he would. You cannot 'make' someone like you.

Don't meddle in his life. If he likes you, he'll come to you.


so on my newsfeed it shows the things people become a fan of (or 'like'), and when someone comments on someone else's wall or pictures. but for some reason when i go someones wall it wont show what they like or what they commented on. it only shows their status updates and comments from other friends and pictures they added.
its like this for everyone
i dont think i changed any settings
and it reallllly annnoying
any ideas? (link)
The person most liely changed their settings so you could only see so much no their wall.


Hi. I have a verizon phone, and i can upgrade.. Im not sure how it works, seeing as my aunt pays the bill and everything. But i want to know of some good phones. I dont want anything like blackberry or internet or whatever. Just a phone i can text with. I was thinking about the alias 2, but im not sure.

Do you have any phone suggestions, information, or anything? thanks for the help! (link)
I would suggest any phones from the enV series.
I've had multiple enV 2s and two enV Touches so far, and they always seem to shut off randomly.

Also with the enV 2, the charge hole thing breaks somewhat easily.

I would REALLY recommend the enV 3.
I love my Touch, but I'd really like the 3.


Alright guys :) I'm 18, and I'm a chubby girl. It seems that whenever I buy a cute pair of jeans, they rip (in the inner thigh) and I'm left with no jeans at all. I'm tired of this happening, but I know it will keep happening, so does anyone recommend a certain brand of jeans that won't rip as easily and will last? Any experiences? Thanks for the advice! (link)
http://www.debshops.com/family/index.jsp?categoryId=3395624&cp=3371584

NO NOT buy the pre-made ripped jeans.
They rip in the inner thigh within a day or two.
I'm also overweight, and the skinny jeans here are amazing.


Hey everybody, can anyone suggest a cool MySpace display name for a guy? I guess I am not very clever because everyone I've come up with just doesn't sound quite right.

I would like it if it wasn't perverted in any way because heck even my grandmother has a MySpace these days! :-)

Thank you everybody! You will be rated! (link)
The Man.


My husband and i want to spice up our sex life. Do you have any ideas on what i can do? I want to really pleasure him. What do you do with your men that they really seem to like?

Thanks! (link)
The answer below is illiterate.
Obviously, if he is your husband, you've had sex before, and he's not a virgin. Sheesh.

Anyway, this link should help you.

http://www.askapril.com/advice-expert-2.html


16/f

i grew up with a phobia, and that would be ghosts. i don't even like looking at the word, because whenever it pops up i always tend to turn around and look around me. it scares me... it all started when i was younger and all people would talk about are spirits and myths about them. when i was younger it was too the point where i have to sleep with a night light (i still do), i always run through my hallway to the bathroom or something like that, i get really scared, i can't sleep unless i'm really tired or i know one of my family members are still awake. and i try thinking about something else when i'm alone in the bathroom or something. and now it's somewhat to the point where i'm now scared of japanese people, not all but some. and why is that, is because they make those scary movies and i've always hated scary movies. i realized this just yesterday when i was working (i work at a japanese sushi restaurant) and this japanese man walked in. right away, i knew he was japanese and the one thing that popped into my head was my phobia. is there a way where i can try forgetting about it and think about something else and help me get over it? please? (link)
15-F.

I used to be JUST LIKED THIS when I discovered ghosts when I was around seven years old I'd say.
My sister and I were looking up ghost pictures for fun. But then when I went back and looked at them my self I got terrifed.
It got to the point where I wouldn't leave my couch AT ALL. Because I thought they were going to get me.

To be honest, I'm still afraid of them today. I still watch my back when I go up the stairs after going to the bathroom.
I still can't look outside at night because I'm afraid I'll see one.
I have a legit phobia of the dark now because when I'm in the dark, I think ghost.

Thought, It's not nearly as bad when I first discovered them.
I still love horror movies.
I still love gohst stories.
Ghost Hunters is one of my favorite TV shows.

I guess I grew out of the terrified phaze and sttled into a phaze of paronoia.

I think it's the thought of what the media has portrayed ghosts as, that makes them scary.
Mostly as creepy demons with twisted faces bend on attacking you.
Or maybe it's the thought you'll see a face or person suddenly infront of you. (Which has happened to me before. I suddenly saw the face of a man pop up right before my eyes and I freaked.)
Or maybe it's the thought of them seeing or touching you. (One time in my kitchen I just numorus poked in my side suddenly. I was the only one downstairs, or so I thought.)


I veiw what I feel as paronioa, and I believe that's the same for you.
I know this will have problems for me in the future, maybe even you as well.
How will I, or you, live in a house all alone when we grow up without being scared constently?

I have noticed I only think about them now when I'm in the dark.
I've grown out of the completely terrifed phaze, and I think you will as well.

I don't know when, but I'm sure you will.

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_stop_being_scared_about_ghosts
^Click. It may help you.

Also note, it's not a proven fact ghosts actually EXSIST.
Yes, I myself, and many others believe. But some don't. It's not proven.
Think about that. Maybe you'r mind just likes playing mean tricks on you.


I remember reading The Outsiders and seeing the movie (which are both like incredible see them if you didn't!) and I remember there were some really good love quotes in there. Mostly from Cherry Valance if I recall correctly.

Does anyone know what they were. I remember thinking I would never forget them, and now here I am. (link)
I LOVE this book+movie.
(:

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0086066/quotes


My lips get really chapped. What's a chapstick to get really soft lips?? (link)
Lip Smackers is the best chapstick I've ever tried.
And they come in really good smells. (:
They're childish look, but work wonderfully.


I was trying to make a youtube account today but when I put my email in to make one it said that a google account has already been associated with it. I dont know what that means but i tried everything and it wont let me make one. Please help me because I really want a youtube. Thank you. (link)
It means you or someone else already made a YouTube with your email.


I have an env2 and it will just randomly turn off. It happens pretty frequently and I think it might have something to do with being closed to quickly. Is there any way I can fix this? (link)
Every LG phone I've had has done this.
I think it's just a problem with the company. I've had three different enV 2 phones, they've all done this.
And now I have the enV Touch, which does this also.

I don't think theres anything Verizon can do about it.




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