My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
Answers: 385
Last Update: February 27, 2005
Visitors: 16696
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hmmm ignore please (link)
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*ignoring*
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My boyfriend wants me to give him a blow job
but im a bit nervous i have'nt done it before
how do i do it and should he wear a condom? (link)
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Wait...be sure to know that i you're not ready to do this you REALLY DON'T HAVE TO. You should wait if you're not 18. I know that sounds stupid...but it's the truth and it's most-likely MUCH MORE MEANINGFUL if you wait.
I'd wait...that's best.
ALWAYS USE PROTECTION! YOU SHOULDN'T EVEN HAVE TO ASK!
~GL~
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My boyfriend wants me to give him a blow job
i have'nt done it before what do i do? (link)
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Um...how old are you? Mention that in additional info when you see this...because then I could be much more help.
Anyway, don't do it if you're not ready...use protection...and if you're a young teen (not 18) I'D WAIT! I know I can't tell you how to live your life...much it will probably be much more better when you wait...
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I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months
and lately he wants me to touch his penis i said no he was a bit mad but im dont want go that far yet and it could lead to sex was i right in doing this? (link)
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NO! Do not do this is you're not ready...
You're a woman...you have to set boundaries for yourself. Be blunt. JUST TELL HIM YOU'RE NOT READY! He won't know if you don't tell him. If he asks you again, then just say "Not yet, Bucko". Not EXACTLY like that...but say something like that to lighten the mood. Make sure you let him know that you're not ready...if he really respects you he'll understand...
How old are you anyway???
Interaction like this is VERY serious...and it should mean something. Even if you feel you love this boy, make sure you wait until you're ready. That's most important.
Tell him the truth...
*-_GeSsYkA_-*
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when you have sex can the condom break and what should you do? (link)
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Well...yes. Sometimes the condomn can split, which is why you have to be careful. There can still be a chance of the woman getting pregnant...but have extra condomns just in case.
Safety first!
Really...you could get a disease. Thanks for asking.
Hope I helped =)
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What's your email address or IM s/n? Mine is virgogrrl915 (on AIM) (link)
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Infinity o0o
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my boyfriend and i had sex 3 days after i got off my period, he bust in me. i don't start until the 15th but do you think there's a chance i could be pregnant if he bust right after i got off my period? (link)
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There's always a possibility of pregnancy...especially if you didn't use protection.
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please will any girl that is 13 or less call me
p.s you must be hott (link)
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And you're probably what?...30 years old??
You fridgen idiot.
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Well first of all...everyone of my friends are having sex now and im only in the 8th grade...i'll b in high school in a couple months and everybody will be trying to get me to have sex??...should i just try it ..like everybody else..or just tell them that im waiting for a special guy?...but the point is ..is that if im goin out with a guy i might think he is the right guy and go for it but i know we wont last long..will sumone pleez talk to me? (link)
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YOU'RE IN 8TH GRADE? I'm in 8th grade. EVERYONE IS CURIOUS ABOUT SEX...and they say how they want it so bad...
Haha...you know you do people...
But...I'm going to wait...even if everyone around me is having sex. People could have dieases.
Sifilis...or AIDS!...
Those are some NASTY diseases.
I want to love the person. Wait until you're married...unless you love the person, it really won't mean anything. Set limits for yourself...and if people bother you about still being a virgin...WHO THE HELL CARES?!?!?! Because, in the long run...they will see how stupid they were when they end up getting caught, getting a disease, getting pregnant....or GETTING DUMPED BY THE PERSON THEY THOUGHT LOVED THEM.
Sex at this age DOES NOT equal love...trust me.
People at this age just care about "scoring"...they don't actually love the person...
if they DID love you...they would respect you enough to NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU. And think about it...how often do you stay with somebody for the rest of your life in eighth grade? So...sex wouldn't be worth it...you should wait.
I hope I got through to you okay.
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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Is there any chance at all of a woman getting pregnant if the man wears a condom, without actual intercourse?
The penis would still be quite close (touching, probably) to the vagina, but not inside. (link)
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There's still a chance. Sperm finds it's way up.
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im 13 and my penis is like 2 to 3 inches is that about right for my age
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Ew...I wouldn't touch that ruler you measured it with...
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Does anybody know why I have an erection (but have been circumstised) and it`s very painful?? Anyone who has same problem - advice would be gratefully appreciated.
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I'd go to a doctor...that may be serious, you never know.
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okay, my boyfriend heard me say to another person " No you cant tell anyone", and so now he wants to know, what should i do¿
signed,
confused about it (link)
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Well...don't tell him. Tell him just because you two are going out doesn't mean he has to know EVERYTHING about your personal life.
~GL with that~
*-_GeSsYkA_-*
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The other day me and my friend got caugth smokeing and drinking how do i tell people cuz i'm under-aged so please help
-never get caught! (link)
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What?? Tell who?
You sound all panicky...can you re-type your question? Puncuation and details wouldn't hurt either...
AND DON'T SMOKE OR DRINK!
People are so...erg!
Don't you know you could die from smoking?
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I have liked this guy for a really long time and i really want to go out with him. He really likes me too. The problem is neither one of us is brave enough to ask the other one out. So do you think i should make the first move or wait for him. I hear him talking about me all the time. What should i do? (link)
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MAKE THE FIRST MOVE...that's AWESOME when a girl makes the first move...
It's like...we're in control of something.
~GL with that~
DO IT! He'll be happy...hehe
*-_GeSsYkA_-*
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i have been sleeping with 5 guys for the last 3 months and they dont know about each other. Recently my best friend and i got into a fight and she told 3 of them about each other. Now i am 1 month pregnant and i dont know who the father is. The guys that know about each other now dont want anything to do with me and i am really hurt. I dont know why they wouldent want a beautifull sexy girl like me in their lives. Please help me in deciding what to do. (link)
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Oh my god...wow...*blinks*...D-do you even HEAR yourself when you speak...
YOU CONCEITED BITCH!
Go on Jerry Springer...
man...I feel BAD for your baby...
you asshole.
~WISH YOUR BABY LUCK~
*~gessyka~*
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I want men to die... is this normal? (link)
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No...
But having them endure pain is okay...
As long as they don't die...*winks*
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Will ya'll let me know it this is a good idea for spicing up my relationship....Ok Here it is, After school tomorrow I'm going to the band room, and before i walk in the room my boyfriend will be at the time walking towards the room ,so i'm going to look at him and gesture him to come here..and i'm going to go in turn of the lights and i'm am going to go to an empty room and when he walks in i'm going to gesture him to come in there and when he walks in shut the door and push him up against something and startin kissing him and slowly move my hand slowly down and unzip his pants and then give him head... How does that sound???? please let me know before tomorrow!!!! (link)
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NO WAY! Do not give him head. The passionate kissing would be enough...I bet he would barely even be able to stand after that. Don't do it in school...trust me...that's not a good idea.
Now, if you did all of that...and only kept it at a kissing level, that would be best...ESPECIALLY for school. You don't know who could walk in on you, if there are cameras...anything.
You seem young...you said you're still in school...and even if you're a senior that STILL SEEMS TOO YOUNG to give someone head...but whatever...I guess it's your choice...it's a bad one.
Now, the KISSING is very romantic...and when you were explaining it it felt like a beautiful love story...until I read the head part...that would just ruin the whole thing...
Just wait...trust me, it's probably best.
~GL~
Hope this helped.
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what should I do if i wanna wear a skirt but my legs aren't the prettiest things to look at? (link)
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Shave your legs, put some lotion on them...AND WHO CARES?!?!?!?!...hehe...at least you HAVE LEGS to show off...some people don't....
Don't care what people think...
Hope this helped...(probably not...right?)
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Hey guys! Sup?! I need to make a new screen name for AIM... any1 got ideas 4 me?
I'm a girl.
I'm 12
Write Back ASAP (link)
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Guys suck Girls Rule
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hehe...what kind of things do you like? Work from there...
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