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I've been using proactiv for a couple of years already, but never have i had completely clear skin while using it. Just wondering if I should give it another try, given that my skin may have grown immune to proactiv already (.. if thats possible..), or should i switch to murad acne complex which is another well advertised acne treatment seen on infomercials? thanks for your help :)

Yes, it is possible that you have become immune to pro active. If i were you i would try the other one you mentioned just to see how it works with your skin.

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okay i really need some help haha. my breast size is a 36 D or DD either one depending on the bra..but the size of my nippple (not the ball thing) the brown part is huge! and i love the size of my boobs but i get so embarressed when i have to take off my bra beacause i think guys will think its disgusting. i need advice from girls and guys! please and thank youuu

Some guys like them and some dont. But usually they will never say anything about it because they are just happy they get to see them!

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like for girls people say gorgous, pretty, beautiful, but what would i say to my boyrfriend. i say he is cute and sweet all the time but what else??

Well, you could also say he is gorgeous. You can also say handsome, sexy, attractive, enticing, and hot

Thats really all there is :]

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hey there is this guy who sometimes stares at me i dont think he likes me but he looks at me like he wants to be friends i want to be friends with him too so should i add him on facebook? or will that seem weird i mean i can make an exuse to why i added him... please help can you email to me at dailydeluxe@yahoo.com if its possible Please hurry thank you!

Of course i would add him. Especially if you think there is a chance. Chances are he wont even ask you why you added him, he'll probably be happy you did!

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is it bad to shave down there(girls)

No its not bad at all. Some girls prefer it and some dont. Some just trim, others shave it all off. Its all about how you want it to look. If you do decide to shave, i would use plenty of shaving cream.


GOOD LUCK! :]

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okay so i started texting my ex patrick again. and well we talk about sex allt he time thats y we broke up bc i wouldnt but now im ready to. oh im 14/f and hes 15/m okay well he gets me like all hyped up. and excited when we talk last night we were talking about what we would do if we were laying in bed together. he satrted and then i went and we had this big sex secne like thing. it was really hott. and he said the things that he rembered about me like how i like when guys play with my hair and kissing my neck. well i think i had my 1st big O! and he said i was getting him hard. and welll should i ask him if we should date again? we dated for 3 months and broke up then got back together and stayed together for 2. if that helps any. is he just useing me or is he for real?

I would say he is using you, you havent really said why he ISNT. You can ask to date him again, only if you are willing to be hurt in the end. Thats all on you dear :]

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When my b.f. and I started dating, I knew that he had dated several girls before me, and I asked him for all of the pictures he had of him w/ ex's. He willingly obliged, and b/c I tend to be a little bit jealous, I ripped them up, used the toilet on them, and flushed them away. He never asked me if I kept them or destroyed them and I didn't say a thing about what I did. Now one of his ex's killed herself...and he asked me for the pics of him and her back? What do I do now? What do I tell him?

Well first off you need to realize that what you did was extremely childish and uncalled for. Once, you realize that, you have two choices..

You can either tell him the truth, and explain why you did it.

OR

You can just tell him that you misplaced them and you dont remember what happened to them, and that your sorry.

Being that this is a tough situation, those are your only options...other than making up another story.

GOOD LUCK!

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im in love with a girl and i would do anything to be with her. we were together but we broke up and we both fooled around with other people. i realize i still am in love with her and i can tell she isnt over me yet. i wanna get back with her and ive tried everything flowers ( liek i used to do) and its hard. i need some help i need her back in my life what do i do? i need an idea to sweep her off her feet or something. just plain spilling my heart doesnt work i need something!!! im 18

You can do something creative with flowers such as get all different colored roses, and get notecards. Once you do that write on the notecard what that color means to you ABOUT HER and/or what part of her reminds you of that color. Do so many, and then the last rose write on the notecard what all the colors mean together about her, saying that "And with all these colored roses, each of them are a part of you but when they are together they make you and i love you. You could do something fun like that.

If not, you can just sit her down and explain to her, dont sound needy just tell her how you feel. Honestly, if spilling your heart doesnt work then im not sure what will.

GOOD LUCK!

& if you need anymore adivce on this and talk about it more so i can get more details instant message me on aim - myexquisitesn

or email me - hypnoticpoison92@yahoo.com

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Ok. I am 15. and im a girl. I had a bf for almost 2 years. then we broke up (but it wasnt a giant drama, we are still freinds) and now i am going out with someone else. but anyways, lately i've been thinkin I am bi, because i really like this one girl, and i think im attraced to "girl parts" and now i have a bf. we have been together for almost 2 weeks. I still have a crush on that one girl. and well, i just dont know. I've been really thinking this through, and i am really thinking, that "guy parts" are kind of disgusting. I love guys, like their personality and some of them are really cute. but just the fact that i am kind of disgusted by their "parts"... lol... I just dont know!

What do you think i should do? And by the way only two people know that i am bi, one being my ex bf, and one being my current one. (because we can talk about anything.)

Thank you, and please anyone with information or thoughts at all please tell me!!! Thanks again!!! :)

i went through the same thing your going through. All you can do is try experiementing with girls and see if you like it. Or you can do the opposite and experiment with guys to see if you really do not get turned on. Also, try watching lesbian porn and see if it turns you on.

Good luck!

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Okay, so this is really odd i guess, and not the typical, im i pregnant question you see one here everyday...but im curious as to how you squirt during sex, im no ashamed to say ive seen it in pornos, im dating a male..its self explanatory..lol, but does anyone know how to do it?

Some people say that it is just something you are born with, and im not sure what the answer is.

I personally do not know how to squirt, but here are some websites that can tell you how to do it. :]

http://www.topix.com/forum/news/sex/T641RR1M7C9CVTU1F

http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/569566


GOOD LUCK!

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so ive been in a relationship for a while now and i love him with all my heart,here recently a old friend of mine has started textin me and wants to hang out i refuse to hang out because i feel guilty enough for textin him.I asked my boyfriend if he ever thought our sex is getting old?he replied with yes,so i asked him if he ever thinks of wanting to have sex with someone else ans suprized he said yes we have always been opened with each other and felt free to be honest about everything..but it upset me badly when he was that honest should i just forget about it when im feeling the same for my old friend??

I Wouldnt exactly forget about it. Sex is a big part of a relationship whether we admit it or not. I would try spicing up your sex life with him.

About the real problem, i would ask him if he minded if you and your old friend hung out. All you can do is ask if he minds, and see his answer. Just be honest with him like he was with you.

GOOD LUCK!

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14/m

im kind of nervous about making out for the first time and i dont want to screw things up. any advice?

All you have to do is be relaxed, and it should come naturally.

GOOD BREATH! Dont slobber all over her. &&+ Dont bite her lip too hard. It hurts! Sort of pull on her bottom lip with your teeth GENTLY &&+ Continue on kissing. If you wanna breathe for a second just tap kiss like ..... (Making out blah blah blah .... Tap, Tap, Tap .... Make out again blah blah blah) This way you dont have to completely stop kissing. Its embaressing having to stop for air right? But breathe through your nose.


here is a site that may help you

http://www.ultimate-kissing-secrets.com/making-out/making-out-tips.php

http://www.datehow.com/make-out-tips.html

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ok so im talking to this guy. he is known to be a player some what. not really a player but like he will talk to girls and jus drop em and go to the next one. i have talked to him before and he did that to me and we are now talking again. but this time it seems like he's changed. like at first he acted the same way but now he seems really genuine and wants to hang out all the time and tells me he likes me and cares about me which he has never told me before.
should i believe him or still believe hes player?
i know thats not much decription but .....

Well, you say he seems genuine so i would give it another try only if you really like him. I would be prepared just in case he tries the same thing. yeah, you can hang out with him and stuff, but just dont get too attached, kinda distance yourself until you know for sure.


Good luck!

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I just need a song that'll make me cry..
Preferably a sad breakup song.
I love all kinds of music.

Sally's song - amy lee

Tonight - fm static

True - ryan cabrera

Fall for you - secondhand serenade



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16/f
This kid and I have been friends for a while and recently the subject of hooking up was brought into the conversation. He really wants to hook up but I don't know about it. I kind of do too, but I'm kind of nervous.
What would you do in this situation?
Thanksss.

If it is going to be a friends with benefits type of thing, i would watch out. Im going through it now, and its hard. I wouldnt just hook up with him, i would become more and then hook up. Especially because you are nervous and unsure if you want to go through with it.

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Hey guys :) Well I'm 16 years old [Just turned 16 in August] and I've been with my current boyfriend since June '08. We've always had protected sex except once on August 14th [2 days before my birthday]. So my last period was on August 1st and since my periods are irregular at times, I counted 30 days after my last period to try and figure out when my expected period would be. Which would have been August 31st. I didn't get my period then and I didn't get it in September at all either. It's already half way through October and I haven't gotten it nor have I had signs of it coming. I did some research and it said I was ovulating at the time I had unprotected sex making it a 15% chance of me being pregnant. I'm just wondering if it's possible that I could be pregnant or maybe my period is just being really delayed. Also, When should I test for pregnancy if I do decide to? Thanks in advance for your advice :)


p.s.
My periods have never been this irregular, I normally just miss one, but not two.


-Ellie

Yes it is very possible that you are pregnant. I would take a test as soon as you can.

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Let me begin by saying that i am not one that needs to be in a relationship in order to have sex. So a few weekends ago this guy and i were drunk and ended up having sex. he kept saying that it wasn't a one night stand for him, but then again he was drunk. We ended up falling asleep together and then when we both got home, he texted me and said he wasn't just talking to me for sex. ok yeah that's what they all say ha. but anyways, went over to his house a few days later and had sex with him again. i haven't seen him in about a week and a half now and he has texted me every night since then. Not about sex all the time, but just to see how my day was, just small talk. He is in trouble right now from school so i won't see him for a while. yet he still texts me. so what do you think, is he using me or do you think there's a chance he might actually want something else besides sex?

Honestly, i agree with you 100% on not having to be in a relationship to have sex. I am going through exactly what you are right now. I have been going through it for 3 years give or take. Although he may not or may not be using you for sex, the chances are high. Friends with benefits is a hurtful thing, i know first hand. I cant tell you if he is or isnt, but i will warn you be aware that he MIGHT be. Dont fall head over heels for him, like i did. If you need anymore adivce on this, msg my inbox or instant msg me on aim - myexquisitesn. We can talk about it, and i know exactly what youre going through :]

Good luck!

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I have a party in 10 days, two people that want to do my hair, and i've recently discovered a problem. i thought it was dandruff... but no, it isn't. and i need to loosen the eggs up a LOT...because there are 2 people that want to do my hair, and the white eggs are very visible.


please DO NOT tell me how gross/disgusting it is that i have it, i'm not shaving my head, and i can't cut it really short cuz i don't want it short.

When i was younger i had it, and the only way to get rid of the eggs is if you or somebody else pull them out one by one. Yeah, its a long process but the solution that you put in your hair only kills the actual lice and not the eggs.

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does it hurt to get your tongue pierced?

is there any places that like freeze it or numb it so it doesn't hurt?
in MASS

and can you bring someone over 18 to sign for you, even if they're not related?

Yes it does hurt. It hurt more than my tattoo.

They did not numb it. I made one mistake, make sure before you go you eat first! I didnt eat and i ended up throwing up, it sucked.

Yes, you need a parent or guardian.

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I need names for head characters in the book i'm attempting to write...one male and one female.

I want unique names, but nothing too out of this world. Any ideas? All will be considered =)

Thanks in advance!!


male names: Hayden, Landon, Aiden, Chance, Gino, Austin, Myles, Logan, Spencer, Brayden, Ryder, Carter, Quinn, Dallas, Camden, grayson

female names: savannah, spencer, hayden, caitlin, chasity, Havanna, India, Misty, kara, lianna, katrina, cassandra, jordyn, addision.

Hope i helped a bit!
Hood luck with the book!

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