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i cant believe he siad it but i think it to
so ive been in a relationship for a while now and i love him with all my heart,here recently a old friend of mine has started textin me and wants to hang out i refuse to hang out because i feel guilty enough for textin him.I asked my boyfriend if he ever thought our sex is getting old?he replied with yes,so i asked him if he ever thinks of wanting to have sex with someone else ans suprized he said yes we have always been opened with each other and felt free to be honest about everything..but it upset me badly when he was that honest should i just forget about it when im feeling the same for my old friend??
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Sex lives are tricky. I have friends with open relationships (where you just get permission before hand) and I have friends that are up for anything (and that can get weird).
Try livening up the sex life with your current guy. A trip to the sex store can be fun (my man and I do that just because I like porn and vibeys) or a book on different positions is always a riot if not helpful. Watch porn together (and yes it works). Just try to do something unexpected and exciting.
If that doesn't work, then you and he have to figure out if you're actually in love or just like the stability of knowing you two are together. Sometimes a relationship that you think is based on love is actually based on sex. I've had that happen a lot. My usual outcome with that is to break it off but we still sleep together. You'll have to figure out what will work for you.
Don't feel guilty about wanting to sleep with your ex, by the way. I want to sleep with a couple of my ex's too. ^_^ It's a human thing.
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I Wouldnt exactly forget about it. Sex is a big part of a relationship whether we admit it or not. I would try spicing up your sex life with him.
About the real problem, i would ask him if he minded if you and your old friend hung out. All you can do is ask if he minds, and see his answer. Just be honest with him like he was with you.
GOOD LUCK!
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