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my brother and i used to be extrmely close even though he is 14 yrs older than me. but after he found "the love of his life" he seems lik he doesnt even no who i am. when he got engaged i cried and when he was married i wanted to die. we can never seem to talk about anything and hes always saying how stupid i am for going out w/ my bf bc he doesnt live by me. hes wife is super awasome and i love her and all but sometimes its lik its her fault. everytime someone talks bout my brother i get rele upset and when they compare us i always say since you think hes so much better than me go get him to do it. i hate it bc everyone asks why ben (my brother) and i dont spend that much time together anymore. and hes having a child and im afraid hes going to rele forget about me. he relationship w/ everyone else hasnt changed only w/ me. when i was little and i cried when i had a nightmare hed come in my room and sit w/ me till i went to bed but when i my first bf broke up w/ me he told me to shut up and get over it. and it rele hurt bc i used to be able to turn to him when i was sad but now i cant. i rele dont no what im asking but do you think r realtionship will ever be the same? or how can i tell him how i feel? thanks and sry bout the length

Maybe when his wife isn't there you can go to his house and talk to him.or set up a play date just you to.Also as simple as a phone call.Call him everynight!that's how me and my bff got closer!maybe try that!XoX ok hun hope i helped!-nicole-

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Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary.

Be yourself!1 good friend is all you need.But to get more start with small conversations.Then they might grow bigger!hope i helped!-nicole-

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okay so i have this friends hes really nice to me and we always have fun together and laught and we talk on the phone for hours and just have a good time but he always gets mad at me for the stupidest things! and when ever he does something mean to me then he like completly ignors it and is like "shut up" or sumthing like that and then he laughs and acts like its no big deal. and like he always ditches me for some one more prettyier or more popular and when ever hes with them he like ignors me! wut do i do?!? am i oo nice for letting him walk all over me like that?? am i a push over!?!? idk wut to do please help soon

He doesn't sound like much of a friend.I think he is just using you. I think you are letting him walk all over you.youdeserve so much better hun!i think you need to find new friends or talk to him and tell him how you feel!hope i helped!-NiCoLe-

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OK, I am a wonderful singer, but also very shy. I also play the guitar. I am 13 and I want to knwo 2 things. 1. Is it possible for me to get a demo sent in and 2. how would I do it? Any answers? PLEEASE help me!! ~*~Alyssa~*~

of course its possible!anything is possible!but u gotta qork hard!just make a cd or a tape on a tape recorder and send it into a but studio!!hope i helped!-NiCoLe!!

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I don't eat. Is that retarded? No. It's not. I'm happy all of the time at school, and then I'm sad and "depressed" at home. I get mad at my parents a lot, I don't smile. At school, I'm happy all the time, people tell me I laugh a lot, and then i just smile all the time. I'm really sensitive: ex) I once saw a homeless man in front of the subway station. I gave him 5 bucks, and he said happy holidays. I turned around and said happy holdidays to you too. then i went into the subway station, saw one of my friends, and started crying into his shoulders. After like, 6 stops, I stopped, and he asked me what was the matter, and I told him everything. Then I said i was sad cause the guy WASN'T going to have a happy holiday. The next day, i went back with my friend and he held my hand and everything, and we gave the homeless man 10 dollars with a post it attached that gave him the address of a nearby soup kitchen. He said bless you. And then I started crying all over again. How messed up am I?

that's not messed up at all!u dnt have anything 2 worry about.you r just sensitive.and a lot of ppl feel depressed at home and happy at school.so dnt worry!Happy Holidays!please rate

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im a 13/f n my bestfriend is 13/m i like him alot and we went to the movies yesterday with 2 other friends a boy and a girl. i was sitting inbetween the girl and my best friend n all during the movie he kept sorta kicking me and rubbing his leg against my leg. i thought it was cute. then he didnt mean to well at least i dont think he meant to, but he moved his hand like in between the seat and he touched my theigh a couple of times. i like him alot but do you think he was making moves on me? well he knows i like him but im sort of clueless right now!! thank you

yup.. he likes ujust keep flirting and go 2 the movies again just the 2 of u and maybe u might get him!hoping 4 the best!-

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Hi all well im babysitting 3 girls after xmas can anyone give me some ideas on how to keep them busy so its a bit easyer for me
roxie
ps ill rate any good ideas
have a great xmas everyone

coloring books,movies,popcorn,dolls,makeovers,dressup,stories,board games,stuffed animals stuff like that depe nding on their age!tell me how it goes!hope i helped ~*NiCoLe*~ Happy holidays!

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my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend and i still like him too.. but i was the one who broke up with him.. i told her i didnt still like him because she really likes him and he likes her back! but im pretty sure he still likes me because he still acts like it. i am fine with my best friend going out with him because she actually asked me before but i will just be so sad.. i dont know what to do!

U might wanna try to accept it and move on. there are more guysz and i think your friend wants her chance.there r probably other guys out there that like u!Hope I helped!Happy Holidays too! ~*NiCoLe*~

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