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How do you kiss good? Liek I know how to give little pecks and stuff but you do you make out...like i've heard the whole "Let it hapen" thing but how do youput your lips on his and stuff? And should i chew gum if I know i'm gonna kiss someone? becausei don't want bad breath! but is it bad to kiss with gum? ahh PLEASE HELP!

Hey!Kissing is easy..just follow your partner..and yea its okay to chew gum..i think it depends tho..like sometimes you can play games w/ the gum *passing it back and forth adn stuff* Just go w/ the flow...lol it will all be okay...I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!!

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hey chickz so ive been so-called "dating" a guy for like 3 weeks, and iv liked him for about 10 months... i used to think he was soooo hott and i was dying 2 get with him, but he had a girl.. so they broke up like 4 months ago, and then he asked me out 2 months later.. after 2 weeks he broke up w/me cuz he still wasnt "completely over his ex, and not ready for a relationship yet" he sed he still wanted 2 be with me later tho.. then i told him 2 make sure hes completely over her.. he asked me out again just 2 weeks later, and told me he'd liked me since september when we met.. well he had a g/f from july thru like march, so he liked me while he had his last serious g/f... so that makes me wonder.. is he gonna like other ppl while we*re goin out? that really bugz me.. should i keep goin out with him? i know 2 follow my heart, but my heart is confused right now

If he liked you while he was w/ his other gf then i bet he'll like other girls while he's w/ you...a lotta guys are like that.*unfortunately*If it really bothers you that he mite like other girls then ya i'd call the dating off. Ihope I helped...GOOD LUCK!

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arite..well when i was about 5 or 6 or maybe even younger ihad a best friend and he was a boy..he lived around the block frum me but directly behind my house!! i juss used to hop the wall and go walk in his house...our parents wer good friends too....i went EVERYWHERE with them and we wer best friends...we did karate together, we juss went eveywhre...swimming lessons, soccer, erything...we wer best friends...and i had a lil brother who we never really liked to play with wed hide frum him, lock him out, nvr invite him newhere etc....and then one day we wer about 7 or 8 i think idk...but my brother n *chris* the guy friend...got in a fight about POKEMON...how dumb...and it juss caused a big argument!! i wasnt allowed to see chris and r parents stopped talking...but now r parents talk alot over the wall and chris mom juss had a baby so id use that as an excuse to go see chris but we nvr really would talk...wed say hi...but nothin else.,..and he is shy around gurls so hes nvr really had a gf...and i was his best gurl friend!!!!! and he was my best guy friend it wuld b s0o0o awesum if it was like that now...and hes s0o0 hott now and im not bad lookin either...and his mom always says she wants us to b friends agen n stuff bc we nvr really got in a fight but it messed ery thing up...it wuld b s00o awesum to hav a best friend thats a guy...who i could talk to...who lives s0o0 close wat shuld i do?...im goin over ther to see the baby tonite i think....wat shuld i say?? hes really shy...and hott...but wat shuld i do?/ plzz help!!!! i miss him!!! it wuld b awesum!! omg plz help me on sumthing i shuld say to him

Talk to him!Tell him how you miss being friends with him and everything...he probaly misses you too!I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!


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hey everyone...ive never had a guy treat me right...they all use me for sex, my body or watever and i dont do nething wit them tho...im pretty every 1 says and alot of guys like me but they r all the same...they ALL even tell me "when u gonna let me hit that" im like never and theyll ask me out n juss wanna fuck...so i kinda juss stopped well im startin h.s this yr and im hoping to meet a guy ther...who will love me for me....the thing is...im going camping on tuesday..i think its a gr8 chance to meet guyz...i juss dont kno wat to say to them if i see a hott one....wat shuld i do? do i wait for one to come to me? do i go up to a guy if i think ill like him? help...i want a bf s0o bad...

Okay..don't wait for them to come to you..take that chance..you go to them! Just be like "hey..my names *ur name* whats urs?" and then just ask him how long he's gonna be campin where you are and stuff..ask him age and all that good stuff too..i hope i helped..GOOD LUCK!!

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hey im a columnist on here and i had music on my page and its gone ... whats the little code for it i need help please help asap i'll rate 5's

First, go to http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xanga_music

Find the song you want, then right click it and hit "copy link location". (or w/e it says)



After that paste the code in "Describe yourself or your column or whatever else you want the world to know:" under settings.

And then the music should work.

I hope i helped...GOOD LUCK!

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just broke up with my boyfriend
any advice on how to help me get over this? im still atached to him. :(

signed,
sweetheart00

if you still have feelings why did you break up? well if you just don't wanna be with him anymore then i guess thers nothin really to do except break up...but maybe you could call allyour gurls and just hang w/ them..i kno after breakups my girls helped me out a lot!I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!!

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what are some ways to stay motivated at home? ever since summer hit, i jus feel like bein on here n laying around the house and not puttin pix in albums n stuff like that that i really need 2 do 2 make my room less cluttered... any ideas gurlz?

Call all ur gurls and maybe ask if they wanna go out or somethin...go to the mall or do lunch!You can also maybe do some sports or somethin.You can volunteer (if ur into that type of stuff) too..ihope i helped!GOOD LUCK!

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im supposed to give this guy head but i gave his best friend head and he thinks he will be the first one and i got a bf that i already gave head to too. and you don't wanna know how many other people i've done. but how do i stop cuz my bf thinks he's the only one i give head to and i don't want him to find out about wat i do. cuz thats the way i keep the food on the table. so what should i do for a job know. i don't want my bf to find out. please help me. my friend says you give good advice.

Okay...Its hard to stop once you've already started but just be like.."okay i have a bf and i can't do that anymore to you..sorry." They should understand. For a job...it depends how old you are..if your old enough to get a job then do a reseme' and get a application for any job..*starbucks,mc donalds..whatever willgive money* if your younger then I'd consider maybe babysittin..or sometimes at hair cutting places they will allow a teen to work.Like sweeping up hair and stuff...the one i used to do payed 20 bucks a day..its not much but it was cool for when i was broke.You could also do house cleaning or anything like that.I really hope I helped..GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!!!

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Okay, I was wondering how to make your boobs bigger?
ºAnd please dont just tell me to wait a little bit longer, or that I should be happy with them.
So PLEASE HELP ME!
Thanks a bunch!!

I don't really think theres anyway to actually make your boobs bigger unless ya got a boob job.lol theres always water bras and stuff.sry i couldn't help more :(...GOOD LUCK!!

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ok well .. im a freshman and im a captain in a way for soccer and i need to find more ways to make money bcause we have a lot of things to do .. but it could get expensive so we have to try and make money .. weve done a car wash and asked for donations .. so i dnt kno what else to do .. im good at the captain soccer thing not the whoole money thing . help =) x|0

Here are a couple ideas...

Have a...

bake sale...
craft sale...
car wash *even tho you've already done it)...
your whole team could go and do some yard work...
BE CREATIVE!!I HOPE I HELPED!GOOD LUCK!!!!!

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ok this is a lil weird but im still gonna ask im 15 and i have like all the signs of puberty like hair voice everything except like size down there is that one of the last things to come or like is there something worng?

No...theres nothin wrong.Everyone goes through puberty and everything at different times.Your okay don't worry.lol..I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!

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ok well .. i'm very critical on myself .. i think im soo ugly my friends say im not but i mean what r they gonna say ya i kno u r .. so they could b liein i mean ive had bfs nd stuff but i dnt kno how to make myself less critical of myself cause i got so mad at myself sometimes cause i think im so ugly .. x|0

Hey there..You should stop thinkin about the bad things about you and start thinkin about the good things!I bet your friends are tellin the truth...your probaly not ugly.No one is ugly.Ugly isn't a good word..lol everyone is beautiful in there own way.Find a way to make urself feel more better..Take pictures and if you find one you like of yourself then put it on teh wall or soemthin and when ya look at it you can remember how purrty you are!GOOD LUCK!!I HOPE I HELPED!

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How do you french kiss?

Hey there...its quite easy.lol..just stick ur tongue in there and move it around...lol but just follow what the guy does...GOOD LUCK!!

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okay, well, I think I want to break up with my "internet boyfriend". but I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't know how to end it :(

Lilly

hey there...just tell him that you don't think that its working out.A lotta my friends have internet boyfriends and they say its really hard cuz you don't get to do anything "physically" and I bet it is..Tell him that.He'll understand.I hope I helped.GOOD LUCK!

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ok recently i've been going out with my bestfriends brother. She doesnt' kno and if she did she would kick my ass! i don't kno wat to do. WE really like eathother. and she knows that he's all i think about! but she still doesn't get it.. im always feeling guilty! should i tell her or should i keep it a secret? i don't kno wat to do... i dont' wanna lose her as a friend and i don't wanna lose him as a bf. i dont' wanna be a bad friend but he really is all i thnk about and talk about she just doesn't understand.... but wen it comes to the same situations with her she doesn't care wat i think and she does her thing wiht them... if she can do it and doens't care wat i think then why can't she except wat i want??

TELL HER!If she finds out through him or some other source then she'll be even more pissed off...just tell her how you like him a lot and you can't change that...tell her that you love having her as as a bf and u dont want thatto change...GOOD LUCK!!write me if everything turns out good...i love to hear the turnouts...


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A Soldiers Tears



I was scared stiff
For i knew that this pain wouldn't ever lift
I took one last look at my baby
Hoping one day maybe i would see her again
I looked around
I saw 20,000 frowns
But we all knew
As the wind blew
Today wont go by fast
It wont be a thing of the past
It will stay in our minds forever
Please someone just pull the lever
He gave us the go
And we all began to flow
I felt a tear
Symbolizing my fear
I knew it was the end
Good bye my dear friend
We began to march
And we formed our arch
We placed them on our shoulder
The wind made it colder
The leader yelled."FIRE!"
And we raised them higher
I looked at the guy across me
And i wondered why
Why did we have to shed each others blood
And sink into this warm flood
I wanted to just be their friend
This all has to end
But this country is full of hate
Each and every state
So I pulled up my gun
And i fired one
It hit him in the leg
Then he fell to his knees and started to beg
"Please Lord",he said!Just let there be peace
Im sick of the fights!
We should all have the same rights!
The Lord said yes i know theres to much hate
But you make your own fate
All the guns began to burst
It hit me first
I looked down and i was about to drown
Everywhere blood
Making a little flood
Men everywhere fell
It looked like Hell
OH GOD PLEASE HELP US NOW!
Bloody terrified yells
From all the brave males
I knew i was about dead
I would now go to my dark bed
I would never see my family again
My last memories were of these brave men
I began to fell numb
This world is so dumb
How would this make anything better
It would just make peoples faces wetter
This isnt a solution
Its a deady pollution
But as i lie
About to die..
I take my last deep sigh...
And i wondered.....
Why?

yeah thats really good...while i was reading that i dont think i blinked like once..lol but yea..that was really good..i'd like to hear some more poems from you!GOOD LUCK!!

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hey how do you rate somebody?!

You ask the question...then after you go and view it and where the peoples answer is it'll say "what do you wanna rate this persoN"or somethin like that...and there will be a scale of 1-5...click on which one u think it is...GOOD LUCK!!

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i'm 17 and never kissed anyone, how pathetic is that? the thing is, it's not like i'm ugly or anything because i know many people who have liked me or would've kissed me, but i don't want to make things weird between my guy friends by doing anything with them and the other guys who have liked me are not exactly top rate...another thing is that i never even tell people who i like cuz i don't want to be embarrassed...i don't know what i'm waiting for - someone who i feel comfortable with?? the perfect person who doesn't exist? i'm not the kind of person who would do things just to make myself appear cooler but as i get older it just gets more embarrassing to say i've never kissed anyone

Its nooo big deal...my friend shawna *21* she didn't kiss anyone till she was like 19...and she is beautiful and everything!She just "didn't wanna make things wierd" but I think that you should just wait till ya find that special someone...but you won't find "him" until you get who "him" is out...who cares if everyone knows who you like??Its not big deal...its just someone you have feelings for...and if people wanna be sooo immature as to make fun of you for liking someone then they're gay and you should just forget them...I hope I helped and good luck!


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how did u get that mouse thingy, idk wut its called lol

it's rlly cool!!

Hey There....I got the mouse thingy at a site...If you can email me with that question I can email you back with the link to get it!!Talk to you later...



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i am 14 years old and my knees are always killing me when i do anything. i went to the doctor and he said that i was probley just goin through a gorwth spurt and my knees were just catching up or sumthing like that. but the doctor told me that in the winter...and now its summer and my knees still hurt...what do i do?

o ps my doctor said the ligaments were stressed...what does that mean??

Hey!I'm 13 but I go through the same problem and my doctor said the same thing about the "growth spurt"...When I am playing sports or somethin I just wear a knee brace and that helps A LOT!GOOD LUCK!!!

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