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Q: I am a girl and I went to private school most my life and they don't really teach about sex there. I was wondering if you have to go inside a girl during oral for the girl to have an orgasm. I am new at this and sometimes it hurts to finger so I wasn't sure if I had to have a finger in me in order to reach orgasm. Thanks.
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of course it varies from person to person, but usually, no, you don't have to have a finger in you. you could try just rubbing the clit and most women can still reach orgasm.
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Q: if youre being fingered can the guy tell if you're a virgin or not? what about if you're having sex with him? can he tell?
thanks.
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he can tell after, because if you're a virgin, the first time you have sex, the guy will pop your cherry, &you'll bleed. sometimes, if he fingers you, he can pop your cherry too, but not always. it just depends. so yeah, he will be able to tell.
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Q: 16/f
okay so when i shave 'down there' all the hair doesn't come off, like it'll have black dots which are where i shaved. even if it feels smooth its like you can still see the hairs. is that normal? and how do i get it so that all the hair is off and the skin down there is just bare?
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it is normal for some people because the hair down there is thicker. the only way to not get dots down there is to wax, which is pretty painful at first, but once you get use to it, it has more pros than cons.
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Q: about how long in months would it take to lose, say 20 pounds if one runs, stretches, and does some toning excercises once in the morning every day for an hour?
14/f
165 pounds
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it'll take atleast 6 weeks to see a difference, and how quickly you lose weight varies from person to person. don't forget, you also need to eat healthier to lose weight quicker.
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Q: i know this has been asked before, but how long does weed stay in your system, and like if you go for a physical or something at the doctors & you pee in the cup they can tell if you smoked it right?
and if your just AROUND people who get high alot, is it the same like cigarettes like can you get hgigh from second hand smoke? & can THIS be traced too?
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it stays in your system for about 30 days, &YES the doctor can tell whether you were smoking or it was just people around you.
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Q: so im in a bit of a pickle. tomorrow my cousin and i are going with these 2 guys to Six Flags, and im smack dab in the middle of my period, which is kinda heavy. My cousin and I both wont have any pockets bc we wear soffees for the water rides and were not carrying any kind of bag or anything.. and i dont really want to carry one just for a tampon. and flip flops so i cant put it in my shoe. We stay out there all day so i figure i can put one in right before we leave or right when we get there so i should be ok most of the day but ill need to change it at least once. any ways to conceal it? i got the compax things since theyre smaller, and dont suggest wearing a pad bc theres water rides.
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try putting it in your bra or something.
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Q: Please only answer this is you CURRENTLY HAVE OR HAVE HAD a wolf hybrid. I've done my reading any everything, but how are their temperments? Do they make good pets? Do they still act like a wolf? Any info. on them would help if you currently have or have had a wolf hybrid, thanks!
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their temperments vary, just like dogs' do, but they do have some instincts of wolves. for instance: you must make sure they know their place, and you must show them that they are not the "alpha", and that you are constantly. my uncle has a hybrid, and i lived with him all summer last year. every once in a while, the hybrid would attack my uncle to try and become the "alpha" of the "pack", or in our case, the leader of the household. this is a flaw, but they are extremely loyal pets. they can make great pets, but this varies, especially depending on what age you get them. if you are deciding on getting a hybrid, get one while it is still a puppy, as young as you can, and train it quickly.
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Q: does doubling up on condoms [using two at a time...instead of just one] create a bigger chance of preventing pregnancy??
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no, it actually makes it worse, because the two condoms will rub against each other, causing them to rip.
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Q: whats a good type of birth control?
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condoms, the pill, &the patch are probably the most common and easiest to use.
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Q: I'm a 16 year old female and I have been dating a boy for about 3 years, we are very close and really care about each other. We are also about to move in together in a few months. But i also have this other guy he was my first love and i dont think we ever truly let go of one another. The other weekend he and i went camping with some friends and we got alot closer it feels as though we rekindle that old flame. I love my current boyfriend alot and dont want to lose or hurt him but when im with this other boy i feel that same love for him.
What should i do?
Someone please help.
Signed,
Confused Heart
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ask yourself if it's worth the risk. what happened with you and your first love ? why did it end ? think about it. you got a good thing going right now. if i were you, i wouldn't ruin it, but it's up to you to decide if your first love is worth what you have now.
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Q: 13/f
ok so i moved 20 minutes from my old house. and i moved away from my best friend. we always want to have sleep overs but my dad duzn't like driving 20 minutes over there. cause of the gas or something like that...what can i say to let to let me go over there?
i'm desperate! we r sooo mad, kuz we never get to hang out any more!! please help!!
btw she goes to the mall a lot and the mall she goes to is 9 minutes from my house. idk if this info is helps or not...
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maybe you can get your stuff together, get dropped off at the mall, and when her parents pick her up, they can take you home with them too.
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Q: Okay ima 14/f and i have been with my guy for a year and everyday he said he loved me but just a second ago he broke up with me for no apparent reason. Like he was all its not you its me wich is like the cheesey-est break up line ever. and i found this really un-fair but then again life isn't fair. I was wondering how do i get out of the sad stage?
Thanks in advance.
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just take your time. there's no way to just all of a sudden not be sad. you can do things to take your mind off it, but it's still gonna take time. it's best if you talk to close friends or siblings about it, it might be a little easier having support from others. some people find the time passes faster if they find a rebound, that's always an option. just keep having fun, don't let the sad stage get to you. if you keep finding yourself sad, ask him what breaking up with you was all about, get the truth out of him, you might just want some closure.
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Q: does that really work, like when u listen to different beats u will gain the same effects as certain drugs??
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yeah, it works, but you have to do it EXACTLY like how they say, lying down, with headphones, in complete darknes&complete silence. my friend said he got a headache from it, but i didn't, so idk, i guess some people do. but anyways, yeah, it works, except it's not bad for you, it just synchronizes your brain waves.
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Q: well last night i spent the night at my boyfriends house because his parents were out of town . we had sex like 5 times all night . but everytime he cummed , he pulled away &nd we stopped for a few minutes . one time there was a little bit of cum next to my vagina &nd i think may just A LITTLE tiny bit might of actually touched my vagina , but if any did at all , it wasnt alot . could i possibly get pregnant for just a little bit touching ? &nd i woke up this mornign &nd my stomach has been hurting ever since &nd i even felt like i was gonna throw up a couple times today . does that mean anything ? its jsut the next day , that doesnt mean anything about what happened last night right ?
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there is a chance you could be pregnant. take a pregnancy test as soon as you can. good luck.
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Q: 13/f
My ex boyfriend moved away a year ago, after we broke up. He swore he'd come back when I went into 8th grade. I talked to the teachers and... He is coming back for sure. I'm scared! I no it's stupid but I am. He's really cute, but it's the reason we broke up that scares me... We broke up cuz he left a bruise on my arm at a dance in front of everybody, that's why nobody dares date me(Don't know why exactly), and I found out 3 months later he was cheating on me... I lied to people and told them I cheated on him too, but I didn't... I just want to know what to do! I got really really REALLY uncomferable around him after we broke up. Now, I get chills even when his name is mentioned... Please somebody give me advice ASAP!!!!!!
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just stay strong. don't let him scare you. no matter how much it scares you, don't show him that you're scared. don't let him get to you.
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Q: Hey people, I'm buying my first car really soon. I actually found one in town being sold by the owner. I plan on calling and asking him about the car, cause I don't know how much it costs, but I'm not sure what else I will need to know. What other questions should I ask to make sure this is a good car? I don't even know what kind of car it is!! I just know that it only looked like it was in good condition. If I go check it out I'll bring ym dad with me to help me decide, but when I call the owner, what questions do I need to ask? Any help will be appreciated.
Please and Thank you!!
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ask him about the mileage on it, the damage history, previous owners, etc. just the history about the car.
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Q: my friend ryan committed suicide about two weeks ago and i just can't get over it. just seeing him in that casket made me sick to my stomach and burst into tears. it's so wrong to see a 15 year old in a casket.. it's just wrong. everything reminds me of him cuz he was the coolest person in the world. plz tell me how to overcome this or help me to be at peace with his death. i miss him so much
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i know how you feel. a couple of months ago, my friend, who was also 15 years old, was murdered. it takes time to get over it. just remember all the good times. keep telling yourself that he's in a better place now, &that you'll see him again, years from now. remember that he's in heaven now, probably watching over you right now. you won't be able to get over it quickly. many people never get over deaths. it's hard. just remember he was a good person&is now in a better place. the only thing that will help is giving it time.
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Q: 14/F
My dad met his best friend in the army, his best friend got married and a couple years later so did my dad. They had me and my dads best friend and his wife became my god parents. I was very close to my god father. He was more like my second dad.
When my god father and god mother got divirced, he just left. My dad tried contacting him so many times, but he made it clear that he didn't want anything to do with us anymore. And my father finally let him be.
It's been 6 years since. I miss him so much, and I thought about contacting him or writing to him. My father said I would just mess up what he had with his new family, and remind him of something he would rather forget. Re-open old wounds. I don't want to hurt him, but I want closure.
I want to know if he ever thinks of me or if he still loves me. How could he just leave me like that. Am I being selfish in wanting that? Should I just leave him be and accept that he's gone. Or should I risk hurting him or making problems for his family by writing to him?
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there's really no right answer. you just have to ask yourself what is more important to you: trying to get closure &risking hurting him, or leaving him alone, letting him be, and letting him be happy. then again, you don't know if he's happy or not. it's really up to YOU to decide whether or not you think the risk is worth taking. if you two were really that close, i'm sure he couldn't have just totally stopped thinking about you guys. if he was that important to you, you must be important to him too. seeing as how he ignored your dad, he might really just want to have nothing to do with you. then again, if you try hard enough, he might even come back into your life. decide how much this means to you, and what he's worth to you; if you'd rather not even try, or if you'd rather hurt him at the risk to making everything better. if i were you, i would make an attempt, but not more than one. i would try, but not too hard¬ too much. keep in mind what HE wants. if he wants nothing to do with you, there's really nothing you can do about it.
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Q: i was at a party the other day, and they were doing jello shots. what is a jello shot? whats the point of it? and how do you do it?
thanks!
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jello shots are little cups of alcoholic jello. you just kinda eat it. fast. it's like taking a shot of let's say vodka, or brandy, except it's jello and not just a liquid.
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Q: So where should a girl keep her hands when making out? I dont know what to do. Help? Thanks
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you can put your arms around his neck, put your hands on his face, neck, or chest, etc.
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Gender: Female Member Since: January 23, 2007 Answers: 334 Last Update: December 23, 2010 Visitors: 16102
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