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♥ I had this column awhile ago, but I recently stopped using it.. I like deleted everything. But I decided to start giving advice again! I'm Becky, 16 years old, leave a question in my inbox, I elaborate more on those questions!
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My fingernails developed strange grooves that haven’t been there before. Is that normal?
Yes it is normal. I have them too and I just noticed them like three years ago. They're from the way you write with a pen or pencil and when you do it for a long period of time then that happens to the ring finger... well at least for me it does. If you don't want others to see it, I guess you could paint your nails.
does putting a spoon in the freezer and letting it stay there for a little while then putting it on a hickey make the hickey go away faster? I heard the blood moves from the surface because of the cold spoon. Does it really work?
It might just be a myth, but it seems realistic to me. Why not try it? If you don't want anyone to see the spoon put it in the back of the freezer. IT will freeze faster too. Until then, use cover-up. Or you could wear a paperbag over your head...
How do I get songs from my Itunes Library onto blank cd's? Can you give me a step by step explination? Thanks and I rate all 5's.
I'm in love with giving step by step procedures.
-Once you're in iTunes, click on the plus sign (+) on the furthest to the left when you're looking at your library.
-Title the mix that you're making.
-Drag the songs and let go of the mouse when they are on top of the mix title.
-Once you've picked all the songs that you want on the CD, insert the blank disc.
-Click Burn Disc, which is a disc in the upper right hand corner of the mix.
-Click it when it tells you to click it again, and your CD will burn.
ok, i used date this guy who is really annoying....but i saw past his annoyingness and saw the real guy. Well it was over the summer, but he kinda asked me out the last day of 5th grade, well it lasted, we emailed, and went the same camp so that worked out. but now well we broke up a week or two after 6th grade started, i guess i still like him...but he has a new girlfriend. i'm not jelous, shes not that pretty, but its him really, it seems that he only talks about how much he likes her around me. i've heard from friends that he doesn't talk about how much he likes her around them. no one knows about this past relationship. so no one can help me. but i don't like him enough to go back out with him, or even tell him i still like him. its just barely, i tried to break up with him multiple times at camp, but he said we could work it out, and we did, but then when school came up, it was a different school so, i didn't want that commitment, neither did he so we stopped emailing and stuff, no one found out that we ever went out except my closest friends. and i mean my *closest* friends. so what do i do? i mean i'm over him but i'm not....i'm so confused! can u help in anyway? if not oh well at least there's someone i can pore my heart out to.
I think you should just forget about him. Once a guy is annoying he's always annoying and after you're over them, you realize that they were really annoying the whole time. If you've stopped e-mailing, don't even keep in touch, and don't go in the same school, what's the point of keeping him on your mind? It's really fun when you can talk to your best friends about the guy you like/ are going out with, but since they never knew that you went out with him then you can't talk about him at sleepovers and stuff so yeah... I think that you should find a new guy maybe in your school... who isn't annoying. Lol.
It's almost my boyfriend and I's 2 month anniversary... do I get him something or just ignore it? If I should get him something what should it be?
I don't think that you should get him anything. It's only been two months, not six. And usually the guy gets the girl a gift. If he does get you something, make sure you let him know that you really appreciate it, that will be a gift for him ; seeing you happy.
Um...I'm gettin my 1st digital camera. I've been around about 10...my cousins have one...well more like a videorecorder but it's basically kinda the same. So I was wondering iff a 4.0 megapixel camera is good? Like can it take pictures of people from far with a good deffination? BTW the cam's a kodak c330. Although I've heard relly good reviews about the camera I jus wanted to find out about the pixels alone and if it's good. Please help thanks
You should get a digital camera that has Optical Zoom rather than Digital Zoom because using a Digital Zoom far away pictures will become blurry. But if you take pictures using Optical Zoom then the pictures will be crytal clear, and yes 4.0 megapixels are perfect digital cameras.
i don't know what to put this under, but how do i break a really bad habit that i've had since, i was 2, and i am 13. i pick my nails, not bite, pick, and how do i break it? i can stop....i want to but i can't! please help. oh btw, you are a great advice person.
I have a horrible nail picking problem as well. Whenever I'm bored or nervous I just start to pick at my nails and the worst part the skin around it, so hard that it starts to bleed. The way that I stop it is that I paint my nails. If they're painted, then I won't want to mess the polish up. That's just me, but when they're not painted, I start doing it again. So the best advice that I can give you is to paint your nails. Go to a drugstore and buy a cute color you like that matches your clothes, or if you have the time and money, get your self a manicure. By the way, thanks for the sweet compliment!
i want to make a shirt for a concert i am going to in a week. i need some helping thinking of cool "logo" or quote to put on it. any ideas?
ps-its a fall out boy/all american rejects/hawthorne heights/from first to last/the hush sound concert if that helps at all
Haha yeah I can think of a few.
I ♥ FOB... like an I♥NY inspired shirt.
Tyson Ritter is my MOM.
AAR is for lovers.
Yeah anything along the lines of that.
Where is a good site to find lyrics? I'm trying to find the lyrics to Dirty Little Secret by: All-American Rejects. Do you know any good sites to find it?
There are many sites to find lyrics. http://www.azlyrics.com is a good site. But it's much easier, instead of searching there, to go on google.
Is there any way to convert music from windows media player to iTunes? thanks.
Yeah there is. This is what I do. Make sure you're on iTunes, and then go to My Music. All of the albums on your Windows Media Player should show up in folders. To transfer them to iTunes, simply double click on the song that you want.
What are the bases?
French, Fondel, Finger, Fuck.
my sound just....stopped working. like it's turned up and everything but it won't work. i restarted my computer but it didn't do anything...does anyone know what it might be?? 5's
It's probably on mute. To get it off mute, if you don't already know how, you have to go to the little speakerphone in the bottom right corner, click on it, and uncheck mute. If it doesn't work, then I can't think of how it could be fixed because I have a laptop.
ok, i have this BIG crush and this guy's name is Hunt- never mind, we'll call him HP, it's not Harry Potter, srry had to say that, well HP says i'm his "human journal" i'm the first to know anything that goes on his life, according to him. he's a pretty honest guy and to me it looks like he likes me. i like him obviously and he usualy tells me who he likes and the day before spring break he told me he was gonna ask someone out, but he didn't say who, he usualy says who he likes, to me at least. he wrote a note and showed it to me, he wouldn't show me the name, he usually would.... but now me and my stupid BIG crush mind, meaning like in love but not that big, are thinking it's me he likes...... so what should i do to find out who the note was for but not just out there asking who was the note for and stuff, just subtle ways and stuff, like me user name says, i'm a shygirl, in numbers the guys name is 66, that's what he'll go by on here k? instead of HP.
-shygirl66
To find out who he wrote it for, you should just wait for the day before Spring Break. Judging by everything you said, the signs point to that it's for you and that he likes you. If he usually would tell you everything about who he likes to you and he's not telling you this time it's probably you. So just wait for him to give you the note. And if it turns out to not be you, then you should ask him who it was unless you already figured out a more clever way to figure this out. Lol.
I would really like a boyfriend,
just to love and be loved in return.
I'm just lonely, and everyone says,
you'll fall in love eventually.
Eventually .. huh? aghh, I'm just sick of being alone.
I mean does anyone actually get my point.. of how i wanta boyfriend, i want to be in love?
ahghh what can i do? is patience the best answer?
dont give me some mean/smartass answer please.
thanks.
Ahh I know exactly how you feel. Especially how it's almost summer break and everyone is starting to hook up. Patience is the best answer, though. Have some fun with your friends, and be yourself. While you're hanging out with your best friends, who knows you may meet the perfect guy. But don't rush into love... let love come to you.
I am 5'5 and weigh 135 pounds. I know some of it is muscle but is that too much?
If some of it is muscle it is definately not too much. If you get more in shape than you're just going to gain more weight because muscle weighs more than fat. That isn't too fat at all though.
is it wrong to want to have sex at the age of 13?
Sure it's okay to want to have sex at 13, but I highly reccomend you don't.
i was on myspace and my messages stopped working so i logged onto my bestfriends myspace to see if her messages worked. i clicked on a random message and saw that she had told my boyfriend that it was ok w/ her if he looked at her chest. and after i saw that i started crying and felt bad cause my bf asked wat was wrong and i couldnt tell him the truth. i wrote several short stories about how upset i was feeling on my xanga and my bf saw it and gave the link to 2 of my friends and they got really worried but i couldnt tell my friend y i had really gotten upset. should i still be upset at her even tho her bf said my chest was sexy? or should i just forget about it and let it go?
It was a good thing that you went on her myspace because if you never found out what your boyfriend was saying to your girlfriend than that just wouldn't be to good. When you go out with someone it's a commitment to love them and only them, and even if he's flirting with your friend then that's still not loyal at all. You should tell him that you found out that he said that to your friend. If you really love him then you should be able to tell him anything on your mind and he should understand. You should also check the date of the message because it could be from before you started going out with him. If it's from before then you have nothing to worry about. You should also, if you have the guts, comfront your friend about it after your boyfriend, because she had no right to say yes to his question if she's really your best friend.
Who sings the song that goes "Dream Of Californication" or whatever & wahts itcalled + who sings it thanks ill rate
The Red Hot Chili Peppers! The song is called Californication. Another good song by them is The Zephyr song. Definately my favorite band ever.
I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how. I also think that her mom is to blame, because her mom calls her ugly and fat. But my friend isn't, shes really pretty, and weights only 102, and her weight is dropping. So i can't tell her mom, because her mom won't help....
Go to your guidence counsler.
I think when it comes to friends, I'd die for them. Give my heart, and give them my hand. Lately, I've been kind of bummed out, taking a lot of shit from people. I dunno.. I have a boyfriend, who've I only been dating for about 3 months now. Then I have a bestfriend. We used to have a thing, until I figured out he had a daughter and had to go back home. Since we're in two different states.
I'm not quite sure if me and my friend from the other state still had a thing, but we were still closer than fuck. He got a girlfriend, i got a boyfriend. Recently, his girl broke up with him. Then he totally blocked me, and her out of his life.
I'm sort of bummed about that. I also don't know where I'm going with this..
I don't know why he'd block me out of his life either?
I guess it's not a question i'm asking, I think i'm just looking for someone with a good heart to give good words.
A very complicated question requires a very complicated question. Oy vey. Since you have a boyfriend and you live in different states, he proably doesn't keep in touch because he doesn't want to interfere with your relationship with your current boyfriend. If you really really like this guy then you would break up with your current guy and somehow get in touch with your old one. He hasn't forgotten about you, but he probably thinks that you have forgotten about him. If you can't get in touch with him, then I think it's time that you move on.