about

hey! thanks for looking at my advice site! don't be afraid to ask me anything - worst comes to worse i'll just straight up tell you that i don't know the answer (but i'll try to give you advice neway haha)...remember: a different perspective is always helpful :~D !

advice

wat types of things that guys do are concidered cute or sweet by girls?

remember the little, seemingly irrelevant things - like her favorite candy bar and stuff like that

[view]

omg ok this may be confusing..please just try to follow..im 15..my b/f is 16..he's really experienced..unlike me the farthest i go is like touchy feely/kissing..we absolutely love each other and it's obvious we WILL be 2gether for a LONG time..but anyways..he;s extremely touchy feely & like he wants to make - out constantely & i mean i love it, but at the same time im scared, i could SO easily so myself doing things with him that i'd regret..like i love him and all, but i was brought up to respect myself & save myself til i'm a lot older, if not married..and like i want to do things with him, but at the same time, i feel kinda guilty..like iduno i guess i'm a moma's girl ..& everytime he touches me or sumin go a lil but farther..[like yeah ya'll know how i mean], i hear my mother's voice, and i want to but iduno..i'm just confused and scared..what would ya'll do?..don't tell me to only do something if i'm ready and feel comfortable, because i do and i am!..but at the same time i think i should respect myself and my mother and listen to what i've been brought up to do..ya'll know what i mean..hmm ..please help me out here..
xOx ..thanx

i think you should decide what you want to do before you get into the heat of the moment so that you aren't making decisions when your *tempted* lol and let your bf kno these decisions...don't do anything you may regret ~ if you and ur bf are serious, then they'll be plenty of time for that and it'll mean more when things do happen!

[view]

hey guysz ive been single for a really long time and i realy want a boyfriend .. i hate bein single .. does any one have any advice how i can get a boyfriend ?

go out in groups so u can meet new ppl

[view]

Hey. I'm friend with a lot of guys in skool. they hate ehrn im not around. all they do is talk to me and stuff. i dont like any of them but, im a girl. should i hang out wit otha girl or stay friends wit the boyz?

why not do both?? if you find girls you get along with, hang out with them too! it's totally okay to have more than one group of friends

[view]

hey! i was just wondering if anyone who's willing would give me ONE sentence on what the best part of being a teenager is for them cuz i want to make a list and i think it would be really cute!! thanks

Making memories that you can look back on.
(obviously i answered my own ? haha)

[view]

okay so i met this guy when i went to mexico and he was really nice and we talked alot and made out once... but n e ways i haven't talked to him in a year! and i got his sn from my cuzin so finnally he came online and i sent him and i.m saying..."hey sexy wuts up? do you knoe who this is?" and he hasn't answered for over like 10 minutes! y wont he talk to me!! should i tell him who i am? or just wait for him to send me sumthing back cuz i don't wanna be all like hello? hello? hello? hello? cuz then ill sound dessperate and annoying! so help me asap before he signs off!

if he doesn't kno who you are then he may assume you are some random person on the net so definitely tell him...it's also a possibility that he's away from the computer or something like that

[view]

Ok..i started middle school and we break up in differant comuntities and we stay there for the whole three years! Anyway, there are four communties and say you got on one community (lets call it cy for short) you would NEVER see your friends in other cy's, ever!
Anyway, to sum it all up, my best bud iz on another cy and so i was going to change but;A.All my teachers like and are saying"Pleaze stay on Surfside(my cy)" and B. She doesn't seem to care that we are killing or friendship. So i waz just going to stay in my cy for the three years but now i'm having a really hard time making new friends. What should i do?P.S-Ask for explanation if you get confused

i would say that if it's easy to switch, and you really don't think you'll like your cy, then switch but i wouldn't do it for just that one friend, only if you had other friends in that same cy cuz if you and your friend end up not staying friends, then you'll want to have other friends there for you

[view]

my friend's parents dont think that teens know what love is so shes getting as many people as she can to tell her what they think about love and stuff like that. but she doesnt have that many people. if some of you could please help and tell what you think about love then please do. thanks.

what i think about love: 1) you can't control it 2) it can come at anytime

[view]

I am the tallest girl(13) in our grade... and i feel like no guys wanna go out with me because im taller then them i dunno what to do i am afraid to ask guys out because of rejection and i sometimes feel akward in school what should i do?

trust me, everyone will catch up - besides, models are all really tall and EVERY guy wants to go out with one of those! lol

[view]

I like this guy, I don't know him that well but he is really cute and is in my honors class so he is smart too. From what i hear, some other girls like him too. We haven't really had a conversation since i've only been in school now for 1 week. I don't know if i should tell him that i think he is hott like some of the other girls, or just look for a guy that isn't in everyones mind.

If i do tell him, how should i say it or bring it up in a conversation.

don't rule yourself out just because other ppl like him...try making eye contact with him and smile and stuff like that - you don't have to tell him you think he's hott right away unless you're outgoing and that's the kind of thing you'd do

[view]

My birthday is coming up in november and i really want to have a party..does anyone have any ideas of what kinds of parties i could have? I would want a lot of my friends to be able to come!

how old are you?? guys and girls at the party??? give me details then i'll try to help

[view]

whats the biggest difference between high school and middle school?

sex, drugs, and cash hhaha jk ummm....some ppl take their schoolwork more seriously cuz they want to get into a good college, other ppl just goof off more, a lot get into more serious relationships with the opposite sex, and some try the party scene and the rebel against your parents thing...your parents will probably be more lenient with you but you have to kind of earn their trust...a lot of times ppl change friends in hs cuz different ppl will start to go different ways........hope i helped!

[view]

ok theres this guy hes reallly sweet and just everything any gurl could want hes fukin hott t0o!! lol...well we kno eachother in person but live kinda far away so dont c eachotha alot...we keep in contact by fone and mostly AOL!!...he used to be in love with me and i kinda blew him off....i took the time to get to kno him and relized hes a gr8 guy!! and now i REALLLLY like him...i told him and he says he likes me alot too but the long distance kills it!! but we flirt ALOT on the internet..well lately...hes been ignorin me and he NEVER IMs me anymore...he used ot IM me and talk to me ALL the time...now he NEVER does..i hav to IM him and we hav a gr8 convo...but like rite now hes on and i told my self not to IM him bc i ALWAYS do...and hes been on for like an hour and still hasnt IMed me...it really hurts my feelings...HELLPP...=\ wat shuld i do..

maybe he's doing something else on the computer and doesn't notice you're on, or maybe he has the sound turned off? if he acts happy when you im him, then just do it!

[view]

Can anydoby explain to me how to remove earrings? I can't seem to get them out, they're just regular studs. Thx.

try pulling it from both sides so that you aren't yanking your ear

[view]

i'm 16 and a girl. i have never had a boyfriend and i'm tired of it. it's not like i can't get one i have boys ask me out and stuff it's just that i always say no. then they get mad at me and don't speak to me. i like them and stuff it's just that i always say no. wat should i do.

if you regret it than call the guy and explain that you're having second thoughts and that you shouldn't have said no...or if those incidents were too long than just say yes cuz u can always break it off if it doesn't feel right!

[view]

Brad: BETSY im talking about kaliey
Brad: hahahahah ok i dont.. okay i wont...
Me: ohh sry ...blonde remember ?! lol
Brad: obviously
Me: i get confused easily
Brad: AH HUH

Would this be considered flirting or not?? Can you tell by this conversation or not?? And if not flirting how can i flirt??

add some hehe's and some cute smily faces in there and change the topic of the convo lol

[view]

Ok...so i'm really popular and everyone thinks i'm hott and i really want a boyfriend...but none of the guys give me the time of day...WHAT AM I DOING WRONG! PLZ HELP!

show interest in them so they think they actually have a chance, pick one guy and go for it

[view]

ok well i like this boy named pat i lik him allot i have liked him for awhile and i have gotten ovr n e othr person i liked before wit him..wen im wit him its lik everythign is different and for once i dun havta change or always get dressed up im just happi wit him..it seems lik he likes me too or at lesast all my frneds tell me that..i usualli just sit hea and lik flirt wit him and i try not to make a big del or to movre to fast or w/e but tonite it was soo hard we were in my room flirtng for such a long timee and lik im just confused i guess because we had 43243 hcances to hook up but we didnt and like i lik him sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much u hav no idea..and wen he wasd leaving he was lik ohh im not leaving without my hug and all this shit and it mite not seem lik ne thing btu it ment allot to me and i luv being wit him i reali do the onlii problem is..he is soo shy lik realli realli realli shy he has had lik 2 girlfriends and hes reali cute and hes 13 and everything and he has onlii hooked up wit one girl once..and itsj ust lik .. its relali realli hard to change a persona nd i deff dun wna changfe him i luv the way he is its just that lik hes soo shy that lik nothing reali can happen and tonite my frineds asked him if he wnted to hook up wit me and he sed he dno and that its hard to xplain and all this shit everyone thinks he likes me but its hard to tell sumtimes for me lik others i beilev it but he sed that he wudnt pull away if i kisse dhim but that mite just b becuz not mani ppl wud reali pull away frm a kiss..wat shud i do plzz sumone help me..im afraid to make the furst move..i meen this kid is great but wat if he goes around seyen i lik raped him wen i kissed him or he didnt wna hook up and i kissed him its lik a girl asken a guy out theas not reali a problem its just weird..if he reali realli liked me he wud make the furst move or asked me out..i wna go out wit him but i wud just hook up i reali realli like him its just lik i dun wna make the furst move that much..but i dun even kno if he wants to..im not usualli the one asken for advice im usualli giving it but its like no mttr wa ti tell myself to do its like theres always somehting bad that cud happen and i kno life is about taking the chances..but the truth is ... im afraid to i guess * thnx for reading . . . KaT *

definitely don't assume he doesn't like you just because he hasn't made a move - i have a friend who liked this kid and he liked her but they never told each other and so it took them way longer to get together than it should've but now they're happily going out! if you know for a fact that he's the shy type, then it's very likely that he does like you - go for it ~ what's the worst that can happen? it can't be any worse than not knowing

** you would've gotten a ton more answers to that if you had made it shorter -- ppl don't like reading the long ones

[view]

okie well i want to have guys over n i want to go to gusy housess to hang out but im a lil scared to ask my mom if i can hang out cuz me n my mom r rele tight n she might makefun of me bt neways how do i ask her w. out having to b scared

i rate good

i kno what you mean, my parents are the same way ~ like, if someone would call they'd make a huge deal like "it was a booooy" and keep bringing it up whenever they can fit it into a convo lol...but in looking back, i wish i hadn't let it bother me so much cuz being interested in the opposite sex is totally normal and not something to be embarassed about...plus, my brother acts like he doesn't care when they do it to him and they don't bother him - so act like you don't care and then maybe you won't! lol

[view]

you know how pac-sun has those cute shirts that have stuff about boys and all..and their really cute..do you know any other stores that have them?

there are a ton of stores like that if you go down to the beach

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker