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wat does sex feel like?

Sex can't really be described, you'll know after you have it. Sorry if that doesnt help much but I cant really put into words how it feels.

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heyy does anybody know any good sites with quotes. Not just lovepoetry.com but quote sites that teenagers have made? Thanks!!!

www.falling-angelz.envy.nu/nelly.htm

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hello..im working on my profile and i need a good website that has scroll bars...cursers...the lines thru the page...pop ups...music codes...welcome sign...and n e thing else wuld help! thanx send as many websites as u can i will rate high!thanx

for music..try www.moozik-jamz.com it has really awesome stuff. For a profile, I'd try www.subprofile.com or www.madprofile.com. And for html codes..try this http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx&redirect=true#star. They have really good stuff.

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Actually i don't wanna give my child up.I was just wondering if i should.And my parents did give me up.I was abandoned at 2 months old and then put into fosters home and then into an adoption agency.I know how it feels to go through all of that and its not fun.But i do know what ur saying and im not gonna let my child go into an adoption agency.Im gonna keep her and do my best to raise her.Her father is here to help support her and so is our families althoug raising a child at 15 is gonna be super hard but if im as strong as everyone says i am i should be able to do it.I love my baby so much and i just can't put her through the adoption stuff.

No you shouldn't give your child up. I'm glad to hear that. You can do it girl I have faith in you. You know what it's like to be abondoned I don't know how you could think of ever doing to your child what happened to you. But I'm glad to hear that just don't give up on her..she needs you and you are her mother. I applaud you on your decision girl...right on! Sorry if i sounded rude that just kind of outraged me a little bit. But I wish all the best of luck to you, your baby, and your family,and your baby's daddy. I'm sure things will work out you're almost through the tough part so just hang in there :)

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I am only 15 and I already have a kid and pretty much my life is ruined.I hate bein a mom at 15 it really sucks.The father of my child is wonderful though.He helps and supports my child as much as he can although both of our lives are pretty much over.I can't stand gettin up every 2 hours to feed her.I really regret getting in bed with the father.It was the stupidest thing ive ever done.I now hate my life.I have a beautiful baby but a messed up life.I ruined my life to fast.I should have waited till I was older and well now I just don't know what to do.I love my baby very much but im just not so sure that i can handle raising a child along with going to school and working to pay for the expences of my child....Plz someone help me.I really need to know what to do.I don't wanna give it to an adoption center but that might be my only choice.I really need some advice so someone plz help.

Desperate for my life back and confused!!

I don't know what to tell you kiddo. You made a mistake and it comes with consequences. You can't just give up on your baby thats not fair to your baby or you. You love your baby and no matter how much you don't like getting up every two hours to feed him, YOU STILL HAVE TO. You had that baby and you are the mother you can't just abondon it when it needs you!!! Everything happens for a reason and you need to keep this baby. You're being selfish not to sound rude but you want to give this baby up just because you don't have a life anymore??!?! your baby IS your life and you need to keep it! That baby NEEDS its mother.How would you feel if your parents gave you away just because they wanted a life to go hang out?? Yea its gonna be hard but you made the choice and now you have to stick it out. You can't just bail when things get tough. If all mothers did that no one would have any parents. Thats not fair and I was just letting you know.

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tomorrow i am babysitting my little cousins ALL day. i've babysat kids before, but not babies. I am babysitting for Kaylee, who is 5, and Reilly who is 10 months. i just need some tips on changing diapers, bottles, how to handle crying, all that stuff. because i dont want to ask and sound stupid. please tell me everything you know. thanks

Babysitting kids is a tough job and requires a lot of patience. I'm sure the parents will tell you what to do, but if the babies start crying they're either hungry, tired, or want held. Just hold them and bounce gently. It should help stop the crying. I have twin neices and i babysat them all the time so I know about this stuff lol. With diapers, they can get REALLY gross but ya gotta deal with it. Just take it of and roll it up and put the sticky strips around it so that its sealed and throw it in the trash can. Wipe the baby with the baby wipes, make sure you get all the "junk" lol. and put a new diaper on. Bottles..well I'm sure they'll tell you how to do bottles but if they don't..read the directions on the formula and heat it up for like 30 seconds or so. Make sure its not to hot..pour some of it out through the nipple onto the INSIDE OF YOUR WRIST. If its not hot, then its alright to give to the baby. If you have any more questions lemme know. :)

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When I get my period, the first 3 days are very heavy. I wear pads on those days and then tampons the rest. I'm going down the shore on the days when it's heavy and I'm not sure what to do. I'm going to be swimming and everything, but do you think a 'super' tampon would be good enough? It's really heavy and I'm scared even the super tampons won't be enough. What should I do?

yeah I suggest you wear super tampons on your heavy days and pads on your light days..just change the tampon every hour or so

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i want to loose weight i know i need to and i want a boyfriend and ive never had one!!! ive tryed to do stuff to loose weight and ill be going strong and then ill like lash out and go food crazy!! but i weigh 235 and im only 16 and im 5'6 & 1/4 please help me i want a boyfriend soo bad i have lots of guyfriends but never a boyfriend!

You should try one of those ab machines they always have on those infomercials. Or the Tony Gazelle stair walk thinger if you get back to me ill probably remember what they're called.

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Well i have been friends with this one guy who wears his mom's thongs, bras, and pantyhose. Everytime i'm talking to him on AOL, he always asks me if i can give him one of my thongs. He also always asks me if i get creeped out by it. I always lie and tell him no even thought it does. I don't want to hurt his feelings but he starts to creep me out because he swears he's not gay. Should i be supiscious...and how do i know if he's lying. I need some advice...Thanks

Just because he does that doesn't mean hes gay. He may just be a cross dresser. If he's very stylish and tell you that you're outfit is last season then hes probably gay. I would get creeped out to but hes your friend and no matter what he decides to do you should stick by him.

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Does neone know where to get some surveys on the internet? and dont give me quizilla.com cuz i dont really like that website.. soo if neone could give me sum ill rate you a 5 for answering! thanks!

try www.saviodsilva.com they have some awesome stuff. If you don't like that then just go to www.google.com and look for surveys and quizzes

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I'm 16 and there's this guy who's 19. I really like him a lot, like he's on my mind all the time. He calls me on his lunch breaks at work and when he gets off work and is always inviting me over and stuff etc. He said he really likes me and has a lot of feelings for me, he even says he loves me. We've had these flings for about 4 years now, and I feel that If I don't give him a chance I may never know what we could or couldn't be. Do you think I should give this a go and ya think he's serious?

Maybe you should give it a try but keep your options open. A lot of 19 year olds going after younger girls are just planning on playing them. But if you never gave him a chance and it just worked out like that, maybe that's how its supposed to be. But if you do give him a chance and he plays you, you're gonna get mad and play everyone too..and that won't be good because it sounds like you really like him and it would be really bad if he hurt you. Follow your heart but don't forget what's in your head and "gut"

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i am a cutter and i can't stop!...everytime i get really sad,someone hurts me,im under a lot of stress, or i get into a huge fit i cut...i hav scars on my wrist that only 3 people hav taken notice to...my family doesn't even notice...my friend says i hac to stop but he doesn't understand that i can't...its an addiction...how can i stop! i don't wanna go to therapy i already had to go for my brother and shit and i don't wanna go to therapy for this...help!!

Well I don't know how else you can stop besides therapy. Maybe you should try telling a local hospital?? They can help you out. Other than that just keep in mind that every time you cut you run the risk of killing yourself. If you really wanna stop you'll be able to. Just keep away from all knives and razors and such and make sure that people keep them away from you. Oh yea...and lighters and stuff too bc I've seen that when cutters don't have blades they burn themselves all the same. Oh, any time you feel the urge to cut, call a friend and tell them to keep you busy and to talk to you. Let me know how things go, if you need anything else just let me know. :)

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well im 15 and there is this guy that i want to hav sex with but if my parents found out they would absolutely kill me...and im so afraid of gettin pregnant! but i don't wanna tell him no!! wat should i do!

If you don't want to do it, then you have to say no. Otherwise you'd just have to avoid this guy. It really isn't any of your parents business if you have sex or not, because Planned Parenthood feels the same way. I'm sure you're nervous about gettin pregnant but if you use a condom everything should be fine. There is a chance of the condom breaking or whatever, but I don't think that happens a lot. I guess you just have to chance it bc I had sex with one guy before and the condom slipped off before he came but Thank God i didn't get pregnant. Anyways..if you don't want to do it you have to say no or else he'll keep thinking you want to do it. Good luck and if you have anymore questions feel free to drop them in the inbox :)

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about 3 days ago i "came out" about being a bisexual..only 4 people know (well that i know of) and they were all ok with it...but i don't want my parents to find out...they are very against bisexuals and homosexuals..i dunno wat to do!..but i don't wanna lie anymore!!...

Well I'm sure they aren't going to hate you. Just explain to them that its your life and your decision and you can't help it that you are also attracted to same sex members. If they can't understand that then they don't understand you. I would try writing them a letter...or maybe tell someone in your family that you know will "rat" on you lol. My concern is that when they find out they will send you to therapy to try to straighten you out so to speak, but therapy won't work. If you need anything else gimme a holla in the inbox. :)

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there is this guy that i really hav feelings for and he was over at my house yesterday and we were all over each other and we are really good friends but i know there is something he isn't telling me...we mean a lot to each other and well we kinda kissed well tried i guess but then my mom yelled down the stairs and scared him and he jumped up off the couch and i really wanted to kiss him...we sat and talked for a really long time and held hands and danced around my computer room and stuff but im not sure wat to do...all the other times we went our everything went wrong and his friends don't like me at all...but im not sure why cause i never did anything to them...should we just remain friends and just have fun or should i take to him about having a more serious relationship???

I can't answer that for you. You just have to follow your heart. If you think that it would work better this time then go for it. But ask him if he wants to go out and how you guys would do things differently this time to try and make it work. If you have anymore questions just IM me or drop it in the inbox. :)

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hey there is this guy that is a really good friend of mine and stuff and he has a wecam and he showed me his dick! and now he wants to hav sex with me and stuff and im not sure wat to do!! he is my best friends ex...they were together for almost 2 years and im a virgin and im scared to death! and hes a virgin 2...i dunno wat to do!! help!!

Well do you like him? I'd say that don't do anything with him unless you really like him and if you guys are going out because losing your virginity is supposed to be with someone special. Well if your friend broke up with him then I don't think she'd be mad but if he broke up with her and she still has feelings for him then I would ask your friend if its okay with her if you really wanna be a true friend. Everyone is scared about losing their virginity..its natural. It will be okay though but if you do it with this guy be sure to make him wear a condom. If you have any more questions drop them in the inbox or IM me on AIM.

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Well there i this song called LONELY and i love it well the thing is everytime i hear it i think of someone in particular and i dont wanna think of him cuz it makes me feel lonely. wut should i do the boi is in my grade 7th and ive never liekd him before. So maybe someone can help me im usually the adviser but now i need help.

Have you told this boy how you feel? If not, then you definitely should! I always use this quote as a reference for what I am saying "Always tell someone how you feel, mean what you say and say what you mean. Opportunities are lost in the blink of an eye but regrets can last a
l i f e t i m e"

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i always feel lonely even though my friends and family always say im preety i mean there nothing wrong with me its just thati feel lonely.

I always feel that way. I guess its normal being a teenager and all it just sucks. You're right, there is nothing wrong with you. Boyfriends aren't always the answer but I know how it feels its like you're in a room full with people but you still feel like you're all by yourself. There's really no solution for it i guess but it could be depression, see your doctor.

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I had sex with my boyfriend about a month ago.. and since then my periods have been messed up. I got one at the beginning of July.. then I had sex.. and got it again in mid-july. Then.. I got it again today.. Is it nomal for ur period to be all outta wack after u have sex? or is something wrong?

I don't know if it's normal or not but it happened to me too and it still happens. The first time I had sex I didn't get my period for like 4 months after, and it still skips. It shouldn't be anything to worry about but you should check with your doctor just in case. Every girl is different.

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when i was really little, like 4 or so, my babysitters son sat me on his lap and showed me his thing. he told me to touch it and when white stuff started to come out he wanted me to clean it. then he told me to leave his room. well me being young i did what he told me. i didnt kno it was wrong. then i told my mom and she was like dont say anything to anyone. and she didnt do anything about it! i am now gonna turn 14 in october and it has been bugging me since then. it hurts that my mom let me stay there till i was 9! nuthing else ever happened but i mean still. wut could i do to take my mind off of it? i am really happy now and stuff but when i stop and think it just pops in my head and thats the only thing that really stands out in my memoery. i remember it like it was yesterday.

If I were you I would go to a therapist. These things need to be let out in the open and talked about. If not a therapist, then your school councelor. It will help. If you need anything else just IM me on aim or drop it in the inbox.

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