about

Hey guys!
Name*Mallory aka *~MALLY~*
From*Cali~!
Status*Taken, by the worlds BEST b/f FRANKIE (MUAH)
Hobbies*I love to shop, and i love n e thing to do with fashion! SO please if thats where you need help im definetly here for ya! I also play golf and cheered~! So im kinda well rounded!

Well i just graduated from high school (and am going to cal poly...GO MUSTANGS!), so i think i could help alot when it comes to drama and friends, because i have been there! I also have the haha Well im really excited to help everyone! SO please ask me all the ?'s ya can k!I know what its like to wanna talk to someone but ya dont know who~!Well enjoy guys! xoxo Hopefully i will be talking to ya soon!

advice

Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?

Signed,
Sad and confused!

15/Female

My advice would be to email/im him! Dont get all lovey dovey at first because you dont want him to be like "woah!" Talk to him and tell him u miss him and stuff and have been thinking about him! See how he responds! If he says that he still think about u and stuff maybe tell him ur still crushin on him, if he doesnt act intrested though, its all good. I promise there is the perfect guy out there for ya~ k sweetie! I hope it all works out but for sure talk to him!!!!
xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.


thxx

Honestly, when your not lo0oking for one..one will pop up! When thats all you think about and want, you obsess over it...and it doesnt happen! Just go hang out with ur guy friends, keep your eye open! I guess just start to flirt a lil bit more and maybe a guy will catch your eye! Hope i helped! xoxo
*~Mally~*

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im gettin braces in like 2 days, and i was wondering
does it hurt when they put them on?
or does it hurt more a fefw days later?

Um they will hurt for a little bit because they are moving your teeth around, but just take some tylonal and youll be alright! Um i dont think it will hurt right away, but when your teeth start to shift they get sore...also be careful you dont cut your mouth up! It might look dorky and all but at home you the wax they give ya so you dont have bumps in your mouth where they rub! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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Is 9th grade a good grade and does it go by quickly?

Every grade your in can be GREAT! Its really what you make of it! Just make sure to be a friendly nice person....and more people will like you! But be true to yourself, try not to into to others easily because then youll be taken on a rollercoaster of what others say! The only hard part would be getting situated, but honestly high school is so fun and goes by soooo fast! I just graduated this last year, and i already miss it! haha sp it make it the best four years of your life k! xoxo hope i helped~! rate me please thanks!
*~MALLY~*

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shannon hey um i feel like a whore, i had sex with my boyfriend and the condom broke and i am pregnent ive taken test and went ot the doctor i told my bf and i havent told my parents and if i do theyll make me get an abortion what do i do!! Oh and my boyfriend broke up with me! and i have no one to help me through this!

Well, it all depends. Are you ready to support another person? do u want a child to take care of? Is abortion even an option to you? Or are you intrested in adoption? Also, now you dont have the dad to help you through it anymore. I know it must be hard. Dont forget if you go through wuth this, you are loosing out on your teenage years, but if your ready to have a kid, its a personal choic, ya know. You should either 1. tell your parents and they will help ya, they will be upset but that i have to help ya get through it, or try going to a planned parenthood and get advice/help from them. You dont have to have a parent i dont think....you can im me if ya need mor help/support. I will try...i cant say i have been in the situation but i can try girl! Good luck sweets
*~MALLY~*

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My boyfriend is 25 and I'm 15, do you think thats to much of a age difference or that I am a slut for dating someone much older. And we arent doing anything...!

No,maybe you are just really mature for your age. All i can tell you is be careful! Older men can be kinda scary sometimes, but if he likes you for all the right reasons and makes you feel not only good about yourself but special then go for it girl! xoxo!
*~MALLY~*

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I am 14 years old, 15 in 2 weeks.. and I just found out I'm pregnant! I cried for days.. my parents dont know yet and I dont know how to tell them...They said they would ALWAYS support me but I doubt they will now when Im not sure who the father is... how should i bring up the convo with my mom and dad?

Well first of all you kinda need to take responsibility for your actions. I know 14 is VERY young, but the problem isnt going to go away. You should try going to a PLan Parenthood near you to get advice. Im sure they will talk you through it and might even help you think of way to tell you parents. Good luck sweety, and i hope everything works out ,for now though try to get to that place and then sit your parents down and be truthful.
*~MALLY~*

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Ok...I met these people maybe a month ago, and i really went to talk 2 this guy and then i found out that he had a sister my age (cuz he's 2 years older than me) and she started hanging out with me. Then, I found out her brother likes me, and I liked him, so now we're going out and she's constantly getting mad at me cuz she thinks I'm just using her to get to her brother (because thats what most of her friends do)...what do i do?! plz help me! *thanx*

Having friendships, and boyfriends are just hard in the first place. You just have to reassure that your friend that your heart is in the right place for both relationships. Try to spend even amount of time together, and maybe if you wanna hang withher have her go to your house or go out so her brother isnt a distraction to you, and take away from "her" time! Good luck and feel free to ask me more ?s if ya got ne! xoxo!
*~MALLY~*

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I'm 5'1.5", 13, and weigh 85lbs, tats right on track, right?

Ya! Your actaully sound tiny~! So keep doing whatever your doing!!!! xoxo!
*~MALLY~*

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My boobs are different sizes, ones a b and ones a d, WHAT DO I DO? i can never find a good bra and i look lop-sided in all shirts!

hm.... the only thing i can think of isobviosuly either just stuff one side...or you can by like slip in pads, they are just like a gel material and just use one of them on the smaller one....
something like these..
http://www.amerimark.com/cgi-bin/am1live/cat_item.html?prod=12945&media=G00435&days=XVQ&OVRAW=gel%20inserts%20for%20bras&OVKEY=gel%20bra%20insert&OVMTC=standard

also if you want a good bra, go to victoria secrets, and they might be able to help ya find one! Hope i helped! If ya got n e more ?s just ask~!xoxo
*~MALLY~*
(rate me please thanks girl~!)

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oh and i forgot wen you use it (chi) do you get like those dead ends bc wen u use straigheting iron sometimes u get dead ends

Um well yes and no! haha THey do work MUCH better and are worth the money....but i think youll still get some dead ends...If you notice that you are getting dead ends, you should deep condition your hair like once a week, just take a shower at night, and either keep conditioner in it for an hour or so, then wash it out...or is ya want it super soft, sleep in it and it will be silky in the morning!!!! Hope i helped! xoxo
*~MALLY~*
(rate me please~! THanks again!)

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my mom hates spending money on me. She thinks that everything is too expensive. Everything cute is too expensive for her. She always wants me to wear ugly clothes dat she thinks is cute. Well i wondered how i could get my mom to buy me expensive clothes or where da lease expensive clothes store derrr is?? please help
~Amy~

Hm, i doubt your mom doesnt like spending money on ya, or else she wouldnt take you shopping at all, ya know. It would help if i knew what like u would consider expensive, but id you have stores like Forever 21, Wet Seal, CHarolette Russe, or anything like those...they arent bad at all! Also try like Target for basic tanktops and stuff! Just whenever you go to random stores just look around, you might be able o find something cute! if ya want, you can tell me like what kinda clothes you like and i will thin kof stores, also tell me a price range for stuff so i kinda knnow!THANKS~! Hope i helped xoxo
*~MALLY~*
(rate me please~!)

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does anyone know of any websites that u don't have 2 pay @ all 2 download music? like, no download fee, no paying 4 the music @ all? if u do, tell me. thx.
erin

U can you kazzaa, but be be careful!haha dont get caught! Also, just to let ya know, listen to all the songs before you burn them, because a lot of songs have blocks on them and like a minute into the song it makes a GOD AWFUL noise haha! SO just to warn ya! Hope i helped~! You can get it @ www.download.com and look for kazza~!
(rate me if ya can! xoxo)
*~MALLY~*

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can guys be bisexual

Yup! LIke there are a whole bunch of transvestites (sp) that are like married or like girls....and obviously boys.... hope i helped~!

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hey. i have dis boyfriend dat goes to a different skool. im scared dat he might cheat on me or flirt with other girls. i dunno if i should trust him.please help me.
thank u,
girlfriend troubler

Well, i dont see why youd have a reason to worry yet hunny! If he is loyal b/f and really likes u he wont. Maybe you should just talk to him and tell him that you are scared, and see if he reassures you that everything will be alright, ya know. I think you would be able to tell if he flirts or cheats too because he wont act the same around ya! Hope i helped~! you can ask me more ?s if ya got theM!
*~Mally~*
(rate me please~!)

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alright well a lot of people say that they take pics from there disposible camera... well how do they git them on there computer? just wondern

You either have to get like a kodak cd from where you get your picture developed or they scan them onto there computer.....hope i helped~! xoxo

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WHat do guys want in a girl?

WEll it depends on the guy! But id say they like a girl to have a personality, pretty in the way that they take care of themselves and look nice, and someone who is secure and confident! Most of all they should like you for who you are! So when u find the right guy he will like u for all the right reasons! Hope i helped~! U can ask me more if ya need to~! xoxo
*~MALLY*~
(rate me please)

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coke or pepsi?

Diet coke, or regular pepsi! Haha~
xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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how do you get rid of the stuff on your history trail, on internet explorer and aol? please helP!!!

Go to tools, then internet options, and then clear history~!

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ok well I have got D boobs and I kinda like to show it a little bit (as in where fitted shirts) but like my mom is like makeing me wear baggy shirts and it's aweful I feel so ugly with the way she makes me dress. How do I get her to lighten up?

Well first of all it would kinda help if i knew how old ya were but its ok~! My only reason for your mom making you wear baggy clothes is maybe she doesnt think you are comfortable with your bosy to wear tight shirts, but OBVIOUSLY my advice is if youve got em flaunt em! HaHA people pay alot of money to get what you have! But there is a way to OVER show ya know! maybe start by just wearing lower v-neck shirts, and scoop neck shirts, or even cami shirts with a low shirt over the top.....

http://www.goclothing.com/womens-cc-deepvnavy.html

http://www.shopintuition.com/products/Splendidthreequarter/all.html

Shirts like those.......hope i helped and you can ask me more ?s to help find ideas~! I LOVE clothes haha! xoxo!good luck girl!
*~Mally~*

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