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hey hey welcome to my site! my name is alissa but alot of people just call me lissa, i luv to play the piano (8 years) i have 2 brothers a mom and a dad, i have 2 kittens and a dog. what can i say..i love the lord. attending youth group and starting point is something that gets me through my week. i teach sunday school, babysit at the church and im a stright A student.
helping people has always been one of my strong assets.
so if anyone has any type of question, please dont hesitate to ask..im here for support, comforting and obviously.. advice.
so just drop one in my inbox anytime and i will try my best to answer your question the best i can.
Gender: Female
Location: MN
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: loochalo
Member Since: November 13, 2004
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Last Update: December 10, 2005
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How do you get rid of white heads? (i have em on my chin) and how do u get rid of black heads? (i have em on my nose). (link)
black heads: there is this treatment that a few of my friends use its: 1 cup of oatmeal and 1 tbsp of honey, let put all over face sit for about 5 to 10 minutes, rinse then clean (wash clother or those cleaning pillows) moisturize, do that once a week, i got that tip out of a skin care mag., you could also ask your doctor about that to thats what they are there for right!? good luck!


hey..i like my boyfriend...but i miss my ex alot... and i think i still love him... but i still like my boyfrind...should i break up with my boyfriend since i like some1 else? or try t get over my ex? because for some odd reason my boyfriend likes me alot and i dont want to hurt him... please help me... ill rate high... (link)
ok, well you should ask or find out if your ex still likes you so then if you figure out that you want him back then you will know that he still likes you! go for what your heart says!!!!!!!


I really want to tell this guy i like him. He's everything i want and i'm just crazy over him. Sumtimes i think he might like me, but idk. I just want to kno for certain he likes me b4 i tell him. He's sumone i can imagine growing old with. (he's an uncle and great with his little niece and omg that's so CUTE) and i just want more then the world for him to kno and feel the same way. I dont want any answers like "just tell him how u feel" b/c it's not that simple. Thanks! (link)
ino its not what you want to hear but take a chance! if he is really that important to you then maybe it worth taking a chance, what happens when you dont take a chance? nothing! lol go for it gurl


Hey guyes,
I am 5'11" tall and I weigh 165 Lbs. But still I am looking thin. I guess I need to put on weight on arms and legs. I tried doing Exercise but didnt really help. How can I do that? Please give ideas. Thanks. (link)
idea: you could always ask your doctor, thats what their there for right?


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Hey im 14 and this guy is 16 .. Soo we hang out all the time but my BEST friend hates him and thinks hes bad and stuff.. but whenever his around me hes really sweet my friend just says .. Oh he just wants a piece of ass and all this other stuff.. and i think my friends parents are itimated that he can drive ( because he drives me places). Were not going out by the way but everyone thinks we are becuz we act like it. hes a drinker too =/ liike he has this rep that he always goes to parties and gets drunk and throws up everywhere ! .. so yea =/ what should i do? should i stick with him.. i mean i like him but my friends hate him =/ PLEASE HELP (link)
well some times you have to just listen to your heart on what to do, but some times you also have to listen to what your friends say because some times they know whats best for you. but im sure you will make the right decision


My boyfriend is amazing. I love him to death. But he is a little immature sometimes when I need him to just be serious. Any way I could tell him in a nice, non-offending way?? (link)
yes, just tell him when you need him to be serious he needs to understand that when you need him to be serious he needs to be there thats what their there for right?! lol


What are somethings you can add to coffee to make it taste better. I hate coffee with nothing in it, and I need ideas on what to add.

**I Rate High** (link)
well im not much of a coffee drinker but i would usally put cream,milk, or half and half and suger, you could go to a coffee shop and ask or look at the menu for ideas


Sorry this is long, i rate high though! :)

The guy i used to date over the summer on and off started REALLY hitting on me last night. He practically offered for me to have sex with him (dont worry, i wouldnt have sex, but i could tell he wanted to do something with me) Then he told off this person for me that was pissing me off. And he said i owed him one. And I asked what he wanted from me. And he said he wanted to make out with me. (Keep in mind this was online so we couldnt have made out right then and there) So i said ok, because i still have feelings for him. Then a little later i asked if he liked me, or just wanted to make out with me. And he said "I dunno, never thought about it..." What do you think about all of this? Should i go for it? (link)
well if he really does like you then go for it but if he is just doing that becuz he wants to make out with you then he is not the true one. there are plenty of fish in the pond, find one that will respest you and lke you for you


I'M SO SORRY ITS SO LONG, BUT I NEED HELP BAD.
I am a 13 year old young lady. There is this guy i like, Kyle he is also 13. I am beginning to like one of his best friedns too, by the name of Joel who is currently 14. I already have a "special relationship" with Kyle. He likes me and my best friend too and we like him back. i don't want hings to get even more messed up with him. See, one of my friends thinks that Joel likes me. But there is also another problem, one of my best friends has a huge crush on him too. She just won't admit it because he doesn't like her, but its so sbvious by her actions and expressions that she likes him. i am in a huge pickle. I really don't want to lose two of my friends, but if he does like me i shall find it hard to say no if he asks me out. I sound like such a horrible person, i know. but I don't want to but its just so hard when you liek a person and you actually have someone who might like you back. What should i do, should I go out with Joel if he asks, or no? (link)
well i think that if you like him and he likes you then i say take a chance! maybe talk to your best friend, i know she likes him to but if you really like him and he really likes you then maybe as a best friend she will not mind. well I GIVE U GOOD LUCK FOR WHATEVER HAPPENS!some times its hard to chose from your best friend and a boy but take a day or more of which is more important to you so then if you do take a chance then maybe everything will work out


okay so im 13..and i have the BEST boyfriend in the world..and weve been going out for 2 years! and i feel so happy w/him and its not like so kid stuff, i relaly care for him..and he wants to finger me? but likewhen you finger someone doesnt like discharge get on your fingers? and im afraid he'll get grossed out..what should i do..should i let him?
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well if you are ready for that step then im not stopping you. but if you are afraid that he will get grossed out then maybe you should tell him what could happen and then you guys can decide so then wutever happens your both can agree and then nothing bad will happen to your relationship. GOOD LUCK!


theres this guy i like, his name is collin. hes really good friends with my friend jessica. i think collin likes me but thinks he doesnt have a chance with me. i've asked him to come to dances and stuff with us but he always doesnt come. i know he likes me alot and i like him but he just doesnt know i like him. i guess what im asking is how do i get him to notice i like him without seeming too obvious?? thanx alot (link)
well if u like him and he likes u then, i say take a chance! maybe even asked your friend to talk to him and ask him if he likes you!




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