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I just bought a tankini top (I have so much trouble finding one that fits but this one fit nicely and was cute so I had to get it) but the bottoms that went with it were pretty ugly lol. So I was wondering what would go with it if I just decided to mix and match with another bottom? There is a picture of it here:
http://img459.imageshack.us/img459/5042/...
The only thing I'm not really open to is something that is really revealing. I would appreciate your suggestions!
Thanks =]
I can't see the picture, the URL fades out after the "/5042/" ... try separating the URL so we can just paste them together.
I'll edit when I can see the pic =)
sorry i couldnt get the category.
ok so i consider myself punk/emo. and theirs this girl in my school she called me a poser! and i dont kow why. i listen to rock music, and i thought i had my sense of style. i really dont think i am a poser. she told me jsut cuz i dress that way doesnt amke a rocker.
so i am asking what makes people rockers? i listen to rock. heavy metal so i dont get it? what should i do like make up sheos and clothes. thanks. iwant to improve my style
If you're happy with your style, you don't need to improve it because one person called you a poser. If you listen to rock music and dress like a rocker, what else can you do? The only way this girl could have any reasoning behind her calling you a poser is if you are dressing this way and listening to rock music just to fit in with a certain crowd. If so, you need to think about who you really want to be, not who your new friends want you to be.
But, if you've always been a "punk/emo"... don't listen to her. But also, don't define yourself by that terminology. You can be many things, not just a punk.
Good luck =)
i am
13/f
5"1
and 104 pounds am i over weight?
Your BMI, or Body Mas Index, is 19.6. This puts you in the 62nd percentile, meaning that you are heavier than 62% of girls your height and age. This indicates that you are at a healthy weight. The healthy weight rage for your height and age is from 81 to 119 pounds.
Most of what I wrote above is copied from here: http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/food_fitness/dieting/weight_height.html
I used estimations, but used your exact age, height, and weight. You are healthy. 81 pounds at 5'1" is drastic, and it all depends on your frame. If you have a small frame, it would be okay for you to lose 5 pounds, and you'd still be healthy. Although, at your current weight, I wouldn't encourage it. If you have a large frame, you are at a fine weight.
Your question is, am i fat. No, you are not fat. By any means. You are beautiful, no matter what your size, shape, or frame. Don't obsess about your weight unless you have a right to, meaning you are drastically underweight or overweight, and you are neither. =)
ok wlel im wearing the white and red dress to my grad
http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/dress.jpg
Do you think i can wear a black fake beaded necklace with it?
I think a red may look better. But yeah, black would look cute, too. Headbands are really in now, so if you paired it with either a really thick red/black headband (whichever color necklace you choose) or a thin, double one, like criss-cross or 2 in a row (don't do sparkly, that's for the second graders) it would look reaaaally cute.
Happy Graduation =)
okay so i like this boy but hes 15 and im only 13 is he to old for me?
he said he liked me and everything
and i always think about him does that mean i love him?
please answer both my questions i need help!
I don't think he's too old for you, since girls are always more mature than guys. However, he may be more mature with girls and dating, so I would definitely be cautious.
Just because you think about him doesn't mean you love him. If this is just like any other crush you've might've had when you were younger, or even close, then you don't love him. When you love him, you'll know it. Basically, if you have to ask, you don't love him.
Be careful with this guy; take it slow and don't let him pressure you into anything. Make sure you know your limits before you go out with him, so if he passes them, you can tell him to cut the crap.
Good luck.
Does anyone know a site that is free that you can upload music, and make the url end in .mp3 instead of .com?
Thank you.
Look at the Xanga music codes sites. Go to www.xanga.com , then in the search bar, type in music codes, chose blogrings, click the one of a lot of people, then go through the sites until you find the song you want. Then, click it, to make sure it works, then right-click the URL and copy it.
->> i'll edit & put in the URL to a good blogring soon, Xanga isnt working right now.
im 15/f and the only makeup i usually wear is a little bit of black eyeliner. if i dont wear eyeliner i think i look gross haha. but anyway i need some new makeup and i need help with what to use. i always always always have bags under my eyes and i hate it! they never go away! and sometimes they are dark so i guess i need some good coverup. i have big green eyes and brown hair but the front of it if blonde because of the sun and it's my baby hair, i never dyed it. my skin is kind of olivey i get tan in the summer but sometimes my face stays a little fairer and i get freckles under my eyes. what would work for me?
Since you have bags under your eyes, I would definitely use concealer. I find that CoverGirl works the best for me. Mascara may be good too... if you want something subtle but nice, try Clinique, long & pretty. I swear, if you use a eyelash comb afterwards, it comes out better than those headshots of celebrities on the cover of magazines, lol. You also may want to try an eyeliner that works for you; with your green eyes, brown eyeliner may be the best. Some bronzer might make your skin shine even more. And, of course, a touch of lip gloss wouldn't hurt. Pale lips are in, so dab some of your new concealer onto your lips and then a very light, almost-clear gloss.
CoverGirl concealors ;; a retail store like Target or Wal-Mart
http://www.covergirl.com/cgcollection/face/concealers/index.jhtml
Clinique mascara ;; a specialty cosmetic store like Sephora
http://www.clinique.com/templates/products/multiproduct.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY4904&cm_sp=topnavs-_-makeup-_-Mascara
Claire's bronzer ;; any mall
http://www.claires.com/product.asp?name=prod&color=tan&rcid=31&id=3126&scid=39
Maybelline eye liner ;; retail store
http://www.maybelline.com/Product/Eye/EyeLiner/expert-eyes-soft-lining-pencil.htm
[ try brownish black or brown ]
Mad Gab lip balm ;; specialty stores or online (I got mine at an L.L. Bean store, they were there trying to sell it to people)
http://www.madgabs.com/liplubedec.html
Good luck =)
My Xanga Site isnt working. I tried like 347343434893 different layout codes and stuff and it just doesnt work. For the private site part it's all red and i cant see anything. For the public view it's not even close to how the layout looks. Heres my site
http://www.xanga.com/xlxamb3rxlx
Help!! Thanks
This happened to me, you just have to make another site. I asked the tech dude and he said it was a code I put in it, but when I deleted all of the codes it was just frozen on that same, mess-ed up screen. Its worth a try to ask him though. otherwise, get a new site.
to start off
i'm 14/f
almost 180lbs =/
and about 5'5"
what should my weight goal be?
i would really like to be a size M in shirts.
i'm XL now.
advice on how to lose the weight would be helpful too.
thanks!
According to the approximate values of the Body Mass Index, or BMI chart, I used for kids/teens, your BMI is 30. That puts you above the 90th percentile, which means you are heavier than 90% of people your age and your height. This classifies you as overweight. The healthy weight range for your age and height is 95 to 140 pounds.
Most of that above, aside from the interpretations, is copied from here: http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/food_fitness/dieting/weight_height.html
Personally, I think for a 14-y/o that's 5'5" weighing 95 pounds is rediculous. However, if you have a small frame, that would be okay. I am not even 5'3" and 120 and have a flat stomach, but I have a large frame. If I were you, I'd aim to lose 40 pounds over the course of 1-2 years. Set goals for yourself: 5 pounds in 1-2 weeks, then another 5 pounds by the end of the month. At first, the weight comes off easily, but then it gets harder. In 2 months, aim to lose another 5 pounds, and maybe by the start of school a total of 20... just keep setting goals. Substitute a serving of vegetables to your daily meals instead of a snack. Look at calories; if a 300-calorie snack fills you up for hours and a 100-calorie pack doesn't fill you at all, go for the 300, because you'd end up eating much mroe than 300 in the end. Add an exercise regemin to your daily routine; dancing in your bedroom, going up and down stairs, or riding your bike around the neighborhood burns more calories than you'd think. Look in magazines like CosmoGIRL! for different exercise routines every issue.
The key to getting through this is to remember that you're beautiful, no matter what that number on the scale says. Losing weight will not make you prettier, but it will definitely make you healthier.
Best of luck,
from someone who lost 35 pounds in 1.5 years. =)
I have a very random question to ask everyone. When you read the word advicenators in your head (or speak it out loud) how do you pronounce it? I pronounce it advice-in-ate-ors. I've been apart of this site almost 3 years and never new if that's how it's actually said. It probably is, but for anyone who pronounces it differently, how do you say it? I know it's probably one of the oddest questions you've seen on the site, but at least I'm not asking if I'm ready for sex although I've only been dating the guy for two days or something equally annoying and somewhat common. =D Thanks in advance for answers!
-- S_C --
I say ad-vi-cin-ayy-tors. So I say cin-ators instead of ice-nators. lol
I'm 13, And I have my myspace there isnt much on it, but I moved away and I like to stay in contact with alot of my old friends.
Well I recently talking a boy who is the brother of one of my new friends.. We will call him Chris. Chris is 18. And he starting getting over flirty with me on AIM so I asked him if he remember my ageand he told me he did then said he had to go. I completly ignored his 'flirts' towards me. Then he started talking to me over myspace and flirted even more.. and i told him I'm to young for him & he's to old for me. I mean he's almost the same age as my older.. thats sick. And he responded to me saying that he believes I enjoy when he flirts with me, and im to "sexy" to not flirt with. I told him him to leave me alone and I blocked him myspace & aim. Then I told my brother.. becase he's an adult who i trust. My brother thinks I did the wrong thing and should have told him right away when the flirts started happening.
And this boy chris still tries to make new aim accounts and i just block him.
Did i do the right thing?
Yes, you definitely did the right thing. If you're feeling uncomfortable about anything, you should always let the person know. "Chris" seems like a pretty odd kid... even if you were the same age as him I wouldn't recommend dating him, lol. Maybe you should have told your brother sooner, but what's done is done, and as long as everything is out in the open now its fine.
I recommend getting a new screen name. Its really the only way to get rid of this kid.
Best of luck.
I was wondering if anyone had any tips on getting a thinner face, so that your cheekbones can really be seen. I'm about average weight but on my cheeks and face I have a little fat, maybe baby fat, that I would really like to get rid of. Any suggestions would be very appreciated =]
Do mouth exercises. It will burn calories.
Had to say it, lol. Seriously: most people lose baby fat by age 12-13. You can thank your facial "fat" to your mom and dad-- that's right, genes. There's no way to lose that fat right now, but your face will start to thin out as you get older. For now, be happy with what you have. I know it sounds corny, but trust me, once you do get a thin face in a few years, there's a good possibility you might say, "Hey, I liked my chubby face more." Also, just because you have a thin face, doesn't mean your cheekbones really show; also, if you have a chubby face, you can have apparant cheekbones. I know, you're thinking 'Yeah, right.' I have a pretty chubby face (teen), am average weight, and my cheekbones are reaally apparant. I always have veins showing under my eyes (runs in my family) and my eyes are really deepset, because of my apparant cheekbones, and I have to use coverup everyday or else I look like Bride of Frankenstein. So my point is... be happy with who you are and what you have, because some person out there probably is in love with your face and wouldn't want you to change it. =)
heyy...i have had my period for about 3 years now...and it is still irregular. Is that normal?
13/f..Canadian
It's not average, but its still normal. Next time you go to your doctor just tell him/her about it. They'll probably just tell you to wait it out, depending on how irregular it is. If you're just missing the date by a week (give or take) its no big deal, but if its absolutely unpredicable as to how long it will last and when you will get them then I would suggest going to the doctor in a couple months.
-Coming from a teen that has had her period for 2 years, still not totally straightened out. :)
Ok, this is a pretty stupid question, but if i ask any of my friends or anything, i will be a total loser! haha!! Ok, there is this guy at my school and being funny or as a joke, this is what he says "you crazy cracker" wtf is a cracker?? i know its something you eat, lol! but i know it has so different meaning to it. and, oh yea, what does "panzee" (sp?) mean?? sorry this is so stupid, but i would like to know. hehe!!!! thanks people! bye!!
A cracker is a term from the mid-1900's. Back then, it was a derogatory term for a poor white person, and was especially used in the southern states of the U.S. Today, the term is just used as a "insult," usually a joke, towards a white person. Some (not all) think that "cracker" is the Caucasian equivalent to "nigger," but practically all insults have become jokes these days (freak, loser, retard, etc). So, since your friend was kidding, he probably doesn't mean it as an insult at all.
I just searched online and it said a "panzee" was a type of chimpanzee, lol... but I know a "panzie" is a flower. So it kind of depends how he said it, lol, but for now I would go with the chimp. ;)
OK, so this guy who I've known for a few months has always been really flirty with all girls. He's not popular, I'm pretty sure its just kind of his personality. So lately he's been acting kinda different towards me... like, after school one day, we were listening to music on his headphones and singing along to the song, and he was like staring at me and i was like looking away cuz he was staring and then he kept on poking me to look at him for like no reason.. i havent really seen him act like this towards anyone else... do you think he likes me? I don't really like him, Isee him more as a friend. Any opinions welcomed, as long as you back your answer up I'll rate well.
Yeah, most likely. I mean think about it! He must like you.
im 14/f. adn i was wondering if its bad that i dont have my period yet. Im pretty developed. Like i have breasts, and hair on my pussy. all of my friends have their periods. and i felt like there was something wrong with me. is it normal??
It is perfectly normal. Some girls don't get their periods until they are well into their late teens. If your breasts have developed for at least a year and pubic hair has been growing for at least six months, you will get your period very soon.
what are stretch marks?
Lines (about .5-1 cm thick, depending on the person) people can get on their bodies after they loose weight. Its caused by the skin that was once expanded being pulled together again when weight is lost. Women get them after they're pregnent. Stretch marks usually appear on the stomach, but they can also be on your thighs or upper arms.
im looking for eyeshadows in the colors champagne and brown maybe a duo?? but i doesnt have to be just reallyyy pretty colors that blend reallyyy prettyily together and have sparkle thanks so much
Icing by Claire's has exactly what you're looking for. They sell a set of 4 brown sparkly eyeshadows for only $6, and they almost always have a sale on their make-up. Here's the store locator:
http://www.icingbyclaires.com/mapsearchadvantage_icing.asp
The colors are reaaally pretty and can compliment anyone's skin tone. Good luck!
EDIT: Sorry about the link! I pasted it twice by mistake. Try it again =)
I am a 14 year old female and i have had stretch marks for a few years now. Me and my boyfriend are going to get serious ( more than we alreay have) soon and I want to get rid of them. i am over weight and i am trying to loose but the only thing that will make me happy is getting rid of the stretch marks. can anybody give me some tips on how to get rid of them? I am not goion to pay alot of money for creams and stuff but I still need help.
The best is Palmer's Cocoa Butter Formula for Stretch Marks. I also have stretch marks and use it when I wear a bathing suit, its amazing. Good luck =)
How do you give good oral sex? What are some tips? I don't want to look too inexperienced when the time comes..
You should never have oral sex until you are absolutely sure you are ready emotionally. Meaning, you have to be sure you can handle the consequences. You might be pressured to go farther than you want, or a parent or another adult might find out. Personally, I think that you should wait until you're married, because its the best thing you can give to your husband. But, its totally up to you.
Here are the best (not dirty) links for oral sex tips:
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexoral/0,,traceycox_88pqgx19,00.html
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexoral/0,,traceycox_962kw60r,00.html
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