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My boyfriend makes comments about actresses and other females and it bugs me and I was wondering what do I do? (link)
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wats up?
wellif u feel that annoyed that much then just tell him to don't say the comments in front of your face.
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okay I need help big time!!! There's this guy I like a lot I love him soooo much!! We went out once and he broke up with me because he thought my best friend was running our relationship! which she wasn't(stupid excuse)but I thought I was over him and everytime I see him my fellings get a hole lot stronger! I really want to be with him but I don't know if he feels the same way. Now please don't tell me to talk to him because he's one of those guys that won't understand where I'm coming from!!! Please give me advice!!! (link)
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a sister from another mother. i once waz stuck in the spot your in. ( i'm not going 2 tell you 2 talk 2 him) well if you really like this guy a lot then ask one of your closest friends if she could go ask him 4 you. that way u won't be humiliated and you won't have 2 try so much. if he doesn't like you then set your mind on someone else. there's alwayz going 2 be more fish in the sea so don't feel sorry you lost your chance! thanx 4 writing:)
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mah friend used to like this kid named billy, she liked him forever but he never liked her back. Now she has a boyfriend and I like billy. She doesnt know, and she still likes billy also. I think that she cant have her cake and eat it too.. since she has a boy friend she should get over billy. what should i do? billy said that he likes me and might wanna go out with me, should i go out with him and for get about mah friend or what?
please i rate well!
Jackie (link)
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to start off with, you have to tell your friend about the feelings you have for billy. if your friend has a b.f. and still has feelings 4 this other guy why is she even going out with him? DON'T 4 GET ABOUT YOUR FRIEND! you should go out with him. ***hershey wishes hugs and kisses***
GOOD LUCK thanx 4 writing :)
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My friend Shayna and I we're chilling with her really hot cousin who likes my friend Jenna... All he talked about was Jenna I left at 6 and Jenna came over Shaynas at 7:30. well jenna already said he was ugly and i had no chance to tell anyone that i liked him. SO NOW jenna is going out with him and Shay and her b/f and Jenna and Shays cousin and me are hanging out friday . this is going to me completly weird im the only single girl .... i feel so left out and kinda pissed off at Jenna cuz she keeps talking about him even though i told her i liked him today :(
is it alright to be pissed? do you think it would be weird? (link)
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hey,
i know where your coming from. no one cares about your feelings all they care about iz how they're feeling. it's alright to be pissed because when you open your heart out to a friend they should understand. they shouldn't shove it in your face. tell jenna how you feel about the way she's treating you. she should understand if she's a real friend. this isn't weird. i've onced was about to go hang out w/my friends at one point. they've all had b.f.'s too. i told my best friend how i felt. she understood, and i was happy and relieved. now it's time to tell your friend how you feel. thanx 4 writing:)
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Okay, im only 14 and i wanna have a baby SO bad. My parents dont really love me((ive been told)) so i think this would help me alot. i've babysat for YEARS and LOVE children. I wanna feel loved when i come home and a baby would do that, and i think teen moms are closer to their kids. I plan on gettin pregnant in 10th or 11th grade.Am i making a mistake by wanting to do this. (link)
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i understand all your desires and needs, but your probably about to make the most worst decision of your life. by the time you're in 10th or 11th grade your going to be 15 or 16 yrs. old. this baby will destroy all your hopes and dreams. you won't be able to go to college or even have a career. your time will be spent on taking care of that baby. your going to have a dead end job and will not be happy for a pretty long time. i'm not a physic but your story like the ones on t.v. are always happening and the young ladies that end up pregnant at an early age are always miserable.thanx 4 writing:)
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I'm a girl and im 13 . okk well i've been hooking up with this guy and i kind of like him but im not sure if he likes me and i just wish that everything can be awesome even though i know that life isn't perfect and yeah . so i know that this isnt really a straight up question but what do you think i should do ?
xoxoxo
ps - im sorry if my question is weird or something (link)
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Dear wondering,
you're right life isn't perfect!:( but you never know. Before you choose to get with him, ask yourself
1. do i really like him?
2. will it be better off just staying friends with him?
3.do i like for who he really is?
4.can i move on if i just stay friends with him?
i'm telling you to think about this because most likely it will be better to just stay friends with the guy. If you want to find out if he like you, ask one of your trustworthy friends if she could ask him for you. if he says he does like you then, GO FOR IT! if he doesn't like you, don't break down and start crying. if you really need to cry go ahead. but you're stronger than you think. don't doubt yourself! just don't forget you can always be friends with him and move on!
thanx 4 writing!
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i feel sooo bad! my friend thinks shes soo amazing, and so talented, and she sings all the time. when she sings everyone either laughs or tells her to shut up. its.... really... really.. bad. i dont know what to tell her. i dont want to hurt her, but shes just embarassing herself! our school musical auditions just happened, and she was shooked when she didnt get called back from the lead. what can i do do help her :/ im 15/f is that helps at all. thank you! (link)
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HI,
There's no need to feel pity. i understand how you feel bad, cuz your friend isn't exactly a good singer. here's how your going to do it.: tell her she needs more practice.(say it in a nice way) tell her she isn't ready for a stage performance.in the end she will realize that she did need more practice. Soon enough she'll be thanking you because you were honest and you didn't want her to be humiliated in public. thanx 4 writing :)
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some of my older brothers friends that are at my school are like super made at me because i broke up with one of them and they are telling my brother that i have sex with alot of guys and i have comdoms in my bakpak ...and i do. and my parents found notes that were hella bad and now they are pist at me what should i do.....please help i will rate high (link)
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wat's up,
First of all, stop with all of this.This might be hard for you because you might be addicted to having sex. but if you stop, you will gain your parent's trust and your older brother's friends will stop spreading untrue lies about you.secondly, stop carrying condoms around. having sex at an early age won't get you anywhere in life. third of all, stop holding bad notes inside your backpack. your a good person, don't ruin your life now. thanx 4 writing:)
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There is this lad in my school who is 3 years older than me. i have liked him for ages now, i have been his friend for ages aswell. If i told him i like him i don't know what he will say, i don't think he likes me, if i say something and he doesn't like me i will fell like a fool, i have no idea what to do about it. please help me i am confused. (link)
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Dear confused,
it's ok to be confused because your not in this guy's brain. But you shouldn't go for it. your just going to have to move on because it's better staying friends w/ a guy who's 3 years older than you, than getting into a relationship. If you do end up going out with this guy you will realize sooner or later that it waz better off staying friends that becoming one "item." thanx 4 writing
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do you think i made a mistake for two two timing these two really cute boys? there names was tyler and logan i know tyler still likes me but i am woried that logan will never talk to me again. do you thank logan will ever talk to me again? All 5's No Smarites! THANKS! (link)
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Dear cheating,
to be honest, you made a big mistake two timing two boyz you really like. You should've picked one then went to the other one. You should know that you made a mistake because logan is mad at you. You broke his heart. it's okay 4 him 2 be mad. sooner or later his hate will cool down and you guys could be just friends. As for Tyler,you can try to go back w/ him but don't two time him again it just might break his heart this time just don't forget there's always going to be someone special out there for you, so don't push it.!!:(
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alright, well i had this bestfriend for a while now and i thought there was trust in it until recently she just randomly called me and started screaming her head off at me and threatening me and saying that ive been "running my mouth" about her. and when i was like "what are you talking about?" she hung up.. so i went down the street to where she was and it turned out that everyone got drunk that night and some one told her that i said that she wanted to a have sex with john.. but i didnt and she just wont believe me.. she would not listen to me.. she just kept screaming at me and i was screaming back that i never said that and then she screamed back "bull!!" but i really DID NOT SAY ANYTHING LIKE THAT.. i mean she was my BESTFRIEND i dont do that to my bestfriends!! one thing i know i am is a good friend and all of a sudden i'm being accused of something i never did. it gotten to a point where i had to push her and we almost got into a fight if it hadnt been for my friend danielles getting in the middle of us.. i kept on saying to her "your going to regret this so much when u realize what an idoit you are" but she is so set on me talking about her and i'm so set on making her believe me when i said i never did.. no one has seen her since then.. how do i get her to believe me?? (link)
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wat's up!
well i see the problem she lost trust in you over a bad reason. Your BEST friend especially your best friend should not accuse you of something you didn't do. Your a still a good friend though don't think your a bad one!Talk to your friend privately and nicely explain to her you would never do something like that,wat are friends for? if she's still mad at you, just let her be mad because you know your right and that's all that matters.
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i love this guy and about a month ago which was around halloween i asked him out twice and he said that 1 week later he would ask me out well then a week later he asked on of my friends out and i was so mad and sad at the same time actually i started crying when i heard about it well i am still in love with him but a few days ago i found out that he only likes me as a friend...do you know what i should do? (link)
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HI!
CHEER UP! The first thing you want to find out is, why did he lie and say he waz going to ask you out then the next week he asked your friend out? It's okay to have feelings for a boy you still like who doesn't like you. It's natural and that's alwayz going to be in your enviroment somehow at some point. If your friend says "yes" she's not a friend worth keeping. every friend knows that if you like someone they can't go and steal your "lover". if your friend says yes she's a better girlfriend than better friend which is realllllllyyyyyyy badddddddddd!!! GOOD LUCK!!!:)
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ok, there's this guy that I really like...he's in one of my classes and we're pretty good friends. I think he knows that i like him, but it seems like he likes me too...i'm not exactly sure though. When i come in class, he always meets me at my desk and we talk...then we talk at lunch and we talk about personal things too...but he does the same thing with other girls to! I'm getting total mixed signals!! does he like me or not?! (link)
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wat's up,
i'm in the same problem your in. NO NEED TO WORRY! For now just get to know him and still talk to him about well everything. WHO KNOWS? you guys just might become bestriends you won't need him as a boyfriend. If he continues with this? try and find out if he really does like you! send one of your very good friends you can trust and tell your friend to go ask him!If he doesn't like you,just always remember there's alwayz more fish in the sea! and as said before you guys can become good friends and there won't be any love connection necessary 4 it to happen!!!:)
GOOD LUCK HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT
****HERSHEY WISHES HUGS AND KISSES****
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My boyfriend and I been going out for a little over a year and I feel like im a noboby to him cause he never opens up with me, he won't tell me what he's feeling. Example..Just a feel minutes ago i called him and hes like hello and im like hello and he said what do you want and i said what do you mean what do i want don't you want to talk to me? he says no i don't want to talk to anyone and i asked him what's wrong and he just won't tell we got into a fight to because i hung up on him because he was being rude to me. This happens all the time! And i can't take it anymore, i want to feel like im his girlfriend when im around/talk to him not a fucking noboby!...Do you think i'm just wasteing my time on this, is the relationship dead? help please... (link)
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hi,
well your kind of in a tough spot which is usual. If you want to continue with him tell him how you feel and explain to him how it makes you feel when your OWN boyfriend is just being straight up rude. If you don't want to continue then tell him it's over.
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my friendships with my lifelong 'best' friends are really fading away . for example, they were gonna leave me out of this thing we have done every year since grammer school .. some friends :[ when i found this out i broke into tears because i really don't know what to do i want friends but not if they treat me like this and make me so angry & upset and everything . any advice ? i rate fives (link)
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hey,
i know where your coming from...i use to have friends like that too! at one point.Since they are your best friends they should know how you feel and you shouldn't hold anything inside if this is blowing you up. go up to them and tell them how you feel If you feel left out or alone just tell them. They'll hear you out then you will be back in the crowd again!!
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okay well like any normal person i wear deoderant =) but the thing is whenever i get to school i've started sweating immeadiately. i have NO CLUE why and its happened just recently. what should i do or whats wrong with me??? (link)
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well armpits,
you have to use the right soap too. don't forget when your in the shower(yeah) it's nothing it happens all the time to people. No need to worry.Just don't forget to use enough deodarant and the right one. Don't always go for the cheap deoderants too.
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