Well i apologize first hand if this is kinda long but ineed help! 13/f ok so i have this guy friend(13)hes practiacally one of my best friends, like we tell each other everything. So i was talking to him and he says that he likes someone new and hwen i asked he described me and i was just like oh the thing i dont really see us as being more than friends liek were s close i dont want anything to change it we talked last night again so its notlike were not talking anymore and im just really afraid that when we go back to school tomorow itsgonna be awkward. I dont want it to be
different but the hard part was that hes like one of the sweetest guys ever (to me especially)and i feltsoo bad, and i aslo think hes mad a lot b/c before he told me he liked me he asked if i liked someone and i said yes,and wht can i expect tomorow and how can i prevent it?
That was definitly a hint that he likes you, if you guys are such good friends, you might be an even better couple!, if and when he asks you out, i would say yes!!, it could make for a new experience for the both of you, and if things don't work out you guys could always break up, i would think outside the box, you two can be more then friends, and about tomorrow, yea it's gonna be awakward, but i would tell him that you like him too, if you do of course, or tell him who you really like, things will go naturally,it's unfortently not a thing that is easy to avoid, if you do try that, he'll think u might be ignoring him and he'll notice, so i would ask him who he likes and make sure it is you, just listen to what your heart tells you before you talk to him, you would not want to miss a great oppurtunity! hope i could help !!
Jasmine,
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Hey, my name is Renee, I'm 13. Even though everyone says im decent looking, I still have no self confidence in myself. All the guys in school seem drawn to the beautiful girls and the guy I'm crushing on likes this drop dead gorgeous girl at his church. How am I supposed to feel I have any appeal if all the girls are 10 times prettier than i am? Or are guys just going to go for the perfect girls?
sometimes, guys can be shallow, there is some 1 perfect for every 1 no matter who they are or what they look like, maybe you have not yet found the perfect guy that's right for you yet,and if it helps, do something that makes you feel great,something realaxing,like meditating, or a nice hot realaxing bubble bath, you'll feel great afterwards, or you can buy a new wardrobe try on something different thats outside your style, if you feel great , you look great, and feel better about yourself,hope i could help you!!
Jasmine,
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okay im a girl.. wen i straighten my hair the right side always like curls out within an hour..its so annoying does anyoneee know how to fix it?
i'm not really that great with hair styles but just try lots and lots of hair spray, lol , and you should try to permantly starighten your hair if you really want no more curls, i'm a better with the dating quetions, lol , i hope i could help you though!!!
Jasmine,
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hi everyone its me kate! im back! and i need your help! so nikk (u should rm him if you read my last question) is telling me how he feels everyday and its wonderful but a lost love is coming back into my life. chris. he was my first true love and then he and i split up and i told him i never wanted to talk to him again and just recently i realized how i told him everything and ever since i stopped talking to him i became depressed so i told him i wanted to be friends again but now im having feelings for him again. and he keeps telling me how much he missed my beautiful voice and all that jazz. i dont know what to do because all ive ever wanted is him and now im getting him back but i dont want to break nikks heart. what should i do? someone help me im starving for answers!
much love
ok, this is a tough one, I can't lie, so i'll have to say pick one or the other, oddly enough i'm in the exact same situation right now,I would have to say, tell the guy that you don't pick, that you still like him and always will but that right now is not a good time for your realtionship with him, you should see if he loves you enough to wait, i would pick whoever you have a stronger bond with , or who you see more, long distance makes things harder, sry i can't help more, i really hope this helps you!! good luck!! hope everything works out ok
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Hey.
I'm 15/f. I just moved states & I miss my friends a lot! The problem is, I feel really left out. I talk to my one of my best friends two times a week. The problem is, she'll never tell me her secrets. We were like the "quad" I had 3 best friends, and we'd tell each other everything. Now it's just them three. I don't know what to do. Does anyone have any advice? They never tell me anything.
well, i don't know if i can so much help you it's just that the reson she won't tell her secrets is maybe because she does not know you well enough for her to know you can be trusted, its hard sometimes for people to open up , she might have been through alot and just keeps everything bottled up, but try to find a way for her to tell you these things, it hurts sometimes not being able to tlk to any 1 about things
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months but it seems like every week or so we have some misunderstanding anf get in a little fight. It's never anything big and we make up pretty quickly, but I'm starting to wonder if there's something I can do about it or if maybe I should just break up with him.
I really love spending time with him - he makes me laugh, treats me well, talks things out - but maybe we are just on two different levels and I should keep my options open.
What would be best?
P.S. He's a little older than me so he has more freedoms than I do (something that gets in the way)
Yea, this happened to a friend of mine before, it just keeps getting worse and the fights get harder to get out of, You can either dump him, or tlk to him about what he thinks and get his spin on it
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Help!! Mine and my girlfriend's 1 year anniversary is tomorrow, and we're still searching for something to do in the daytime. We have the whole evening and night planned out, making dinner and all that, but we need ideas for what to do during the day other than our usual movie/mall/stay at home.
We're 17 and 18 and neither of us have our liscense, so we're kinda limited, but her parents are willing to take us if its not too much.
Well, what i would do is, see what your girlfriend wants to do, and get ideas from your parents, it sounds crazy but i'm sure your parents have been on plenty of dates,i'm almost sure you have already tried that though, so i just suggest, maybe something avtice like laser tag,or paintball , because it sounds like at night you'll be calming down for dinner and things, I hope i could help!! have fun!
Jasmine,
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ok so there is this guy we like eachother and i told him i liked him like one month and a week ago in a note but he didnt write back so now alot of guys are flirting with me and i think he may think i like one of them since he doesnt have good self esteem but he asked this girl a grade younger out and he knows she absolutley is obssesed with him and will say yes but its hard for him to ask girls out so i dont think he likes her but i dunno wat to do cuz the other day i told him i didnt like him i dunno if he heard but lately hes been standing next to me staring at me more than usual and trying to start conversations wat should i do??
THANX!
well, that's actually a really good question, I have been through this and so have some of my friends, I can bet you that he does think you like those other guys, but if it is possible, try to just stay with him and as far away from the other guys as possible,If he notices you are flirting with him and not the others, your connection with him will grow stronger, I hope this works for you, it's helped my friends, so good luck, hope everything works out ok!!
Jasmine,
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I have a question about this guy that isnt my boyfriend, he is just a friend of mine. Well I was talking to him one day about my grandmother and how she was coming down from her city which is about a 6 hour drive away to see my appartment for the first time. While anyways, after telling him this he said quote " and how is grandma doing"? I thought this was strange since he isnt even my boyfriend to refer to her as "grandma" instead of "your grandma". I mean by the way he said it it sounded like he already thinks of my grandma as his grandma too! Does anyone else find what he said strange? I would never refer to his mom or grandma like that!!
It seems like he was just wording it that way to show that he cared about your grandmother as much as you did,
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