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hey jessica, it's cindy well you know i just broke up with ryan like omg i need some advice this is my frist time asking like your away so i cant ask you like i know ryan broke up with me for a good reason but some times i think not good enough i really want him back but i don't know if he feels the same wayy what do i do should i move on or keep trying because i don't want him to do anything he doesn't want to do im like dying inside right now cuz i love him so much but i dunt waat to wait forever (link)
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Hey Cindy, you should ask him if he would ever consider going back out with you. And tell him to be honest, if he says not untill like 10th grade or something move on. I get how cute you are and stuff and that I don't see the best side of him when you do. You have been sticking with him forever and it took him forever to realize that he liked you. I think he started to like you when Victor did but whatever. If i was you I would move on if he says that he wouldn't consider going back out with you. Just talk to him about what you're telling me! You guys are BFF and he should understand how you're feeling. You fell hard for him :(.. Good Luck
♥ Jessie
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sometimes i finger myself and i can never get an orgasm..i dont know why..i tried so hard and i try all these different things and methods and sometimes my boyfriend does it but it just doesnt take me to my climax. do u have any advice on how i can reach my sexual peak. thanks babe
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Take your two fingers and like where your clit is like rub it and take your vibe and go in and out. Then take a warm wash cloth with vaseline and rub it on your vagina up and down. Or take your shower head and let it run on it. Or take mardi gra beads and put it in your vagina then pull them out. Wow, that sounds very weird and random, but I asked one of my friends. She is physically horny 24/7. Well, that's what she says. Good luck with that.. ♥
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ok i started masturbated recently and i really like it... but sadly i just can't seem to orgasm. i try using warming liquid but it doesnt always work. i tried vvibrators too...that really burns your clit you know so i stopped those. i have even gone threw desperate measures by freezing hot dogs and using those
nothin is working for me andit sucks =[
should i stop trying and find healtier habbits? do i jsut need to have sex like the other girls in my school? should i get a guy to finger or eat me out? plz plz plz help me im getting sexually frustrated and i need help pronto
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Take your two fingers and like where your clit is like rub it and take your vibe and go in and out. Then take a warm wash cloth with vaseline and rub it on your vagina up and down. Or take your shower head and let it run on it. Or take mardi gra beads and put it in your vagina then pull them out. Wow, that sounds very weird and random, but I asked one of my friends. She is physically horny 24/7. Well, that's what she says. Good luck with that.. ♥
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hey how do u have sex? i really dont know im 12 (link)
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Well, the hot dog goes in the hamburger. And if you don't know then you shouldn't be asking or trying it either.
♥ Jessie
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Last night I tried to kill yself by ODing on sleeping pills. It didnt work though obviously. All that I remember is my dad bringing me into bed and my body started spazing out. I woke up this morning feeling really sick. And really upset because it didnt work.And the sad thing is htough.. If it had... I'm sure that my dad wouldnt have noticed and my mother wouldnt have noticed becaused she was on drugs and passed out. I just dont know what to do with my self. I need some advice. I also feel embarassed.. because after I tok the pills (they were sleeping pills) I wasnt in the right state of mind.. and one of my teachers IMed me when I was online and we had a conversation about stuff becasue I asked them if they ever knew a friend that tried to commit suicide... I mean come on now! wouldnt that just blow your mind? ugh. I dont know what to do. Someone please help me. I'll rate...If thats what it takes to get a decent answer (link)
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Don't try to do that again, its really bad. Apoligize to your teacher and tell her that you were in a daze or something. You need to find someone that youre close with and tell them what happened because I'm sure that there is a lot more to this story then what I'm hearing. I would really like to help you out more so IM me if you need anything else. Just don't try doing that again because you would affect alot of peoples lifes wether you think you would or not.
♥ Jessie
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There is a girl i like who is 15. i am a few months younger. i have been hinting i like her but i dont think she is getting it. she probably doesnt like me but is there a way i can change that. we have developed a rly good friendship (link)
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You should tell her that you like her. She may be too shy to hint back. Some girls are just like that and they don't like to make the first move. Good luck and you need to be yourself. Don't change anything because then you will be something you're not.
♥ Jessie
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14/m,
Theres a girl in my school that i went out with last year only for a short time though. she broke up with me. now im starting to like her again because we have become more close. we talk alot online. i havent told her anything about me liking her and im scared she wouldnt like me. i doubt she would like me. wat do i do to get her to like me and try n hint i like her (without actually saying it) o and i only c her on occasion in skool. like once a day. Thnx (link)
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You shouldn't doubt yourself. That's something really bad to do. If you went out with her how would you think you wouldn't have another chance? You should tell her that you like her because you make her sound very up there like shes hard to get or something. I mean if not you should give her hints giving her hugs and kisses be like i miss you and stuff.
♥ Jessie - good luck.
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Is there any way to make it clear to a guy that I would like to go to prom with him, with out actually asking him myself? We are friends, and I actually like him as more than a friend. We meant to go to another school dance together, but it just never worked out, some other things got in the way. He is kind of hard to read, but had seemed sincerely upset when we couldn't go to the last dance together. How should I let him know that I would love to go to prom with him, before I get asked by someone else? Or before he thinks I won't say yes and asks someone else?
Thanks in advance for your advice, I will rate high, if that helps. Oh, and I'm 17/f. (link)
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Tell your friends to say like hints aww like ___ and __ should go to prom together. Just give him little hints like it would be soo fun if we went together and stuff.
♥ Jessie
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my friend who is in 5th grade is really bored and looking for a site to go on. can someone give me a fun site that's age appropriate? thanks! (link)
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www.bored.com
www.ebaumsworld.com
www.funnyjunk.com
♥Jessie
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hi jessie, u know me but i am REALLY not telling you who this is :) sry...
anywayz i fell in love last year with a guy i used to hate. we went out and i used to think i miss him but now i kno dat we wulda neva worked owt. i lost my virginiti to tha kyd and now he wnt eva say haylo or nuftin. he waz mi 1st tru luv and even tho im 14 and waz 13 at da tyme...i kno it was summin i neva felt b4..even muh parents noticed it. now he lykes muh good friend and iym fine wit it kuz i wanted hym to be happy and evurythin' but styll...it hurtz...but i kno he wun ever wanna chill agayn even tho he gav me a secnd chance...he hurtzs me alot kuz i feel lyke all the tyme we had 2gedda was wasted minutes...wat do i do about hym?
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I think i know who this is, but you can't let him push you around like that.. He probably knows that he is pissing you off by not saying hi to you and you were probably his first love also if he doesn't admit it. Just talk to him normal and don't try to get all close with him. It will take time to get closer to him so don't try to become best friends with him right away. This guy that you're talking about. I think i know him to. Sometimes he can be really mad and moody but he is really nice and you really didn't waste all that time. Right now you just need to let things cool down between you and him and then later on talk to him like hi what's up. Just try to be nice and if hes mean to you, you need to take it up with him and ask him why he would say something like that. If he is still an asshole to you say something like i know that you loved me and i know that you're jealous now because i have a boyfriend but you have to deal with it. Tell him that you don't need anymore of his bullshit if that's the way hes going to treat you. You guys were meant for eachother but he doesn't see it anymore.
You're just jealous cause were young and in love.
He's scared of being in love young. He said it himself that he doesn't know what love is but i really think he knew when he was going out with you. ilysfm and im always here for you babe&hearts.
YOUR ADVICE BUDDY ♥ Jessie
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Hi im a 13 yr old female. My boyfriend is the best thing that ever could happen to me, i just feel like hes the one i want to marry and have children with i went out with him for 9 months one time then we broke up. But sometimes he can be so immature. What should i do to make his little immature foolishness go away to make this relationship work. (link)
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You should let him know what bothers you and what immature things he does. Sometimes people don't even notice that they are being immature they just are, then someone reminds them later and they were like "Oh i was just being myself".
Hope everything works out
♥ Jessie
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on saturday i was out in the pub with my older sister, she went to her mates next door for a while and left me wif her mates,which i was fine with. i ended up snogging my sisters mate the thing is i was drunk and so was he.im 16 and hes 24.it was such a huge mistake and regretted it as soon as i ahd done it,he wanted me to go home with him but i refused,he got mad and stormed of home.i cant seem to foget about it. what if he tells her?no one elses saw us so shall i just deny everything.?please i dont know what to do. (link)
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You should tell your sister and not deny it. She will get over it sooner or later because she is your sister. She will probably be happy that you didn't go home with him.
IM me and let me know what snogging is PLEASE - so if someone asks about that i can tell them what it is - unxreachhable. ( my screen name )
♥ Jessie
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hi. i just wanted to know for the proactiv mask thing.. are you suppose to put it on after you use the cleanser and then after that do you still use the toner and lotion or do you just finish after you wash off the mask? thanks (link)
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You are suppose to use the face wash and then the bottle of green stuff. Don't use the lotion. Then use the face mask stuff, and you just wash it off with water when you're done. Don't leave it on too long though.
♥ Jessie
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Ok i am 14 and me and my bf have been having sex i aint got my period yet so its good but he wanted to f me in the back door(butt) i wanna let him because it sounds like it would b fun but i dont wanna acidently let a lil poo on his penis id feeel wierd sooo do u think i should use the bath room b4 we do it...pllz answer ty
luv ya
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You sound like you're not sure about what you're doing. If you really don't know anything then you shouldn't be doing it. But i say if your going to do it.. wash good. Hope i helped, and have fun f*ing in the back door.
♥ Jessie
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okay, so i really love that punky makeup look, sooooo i was wondering where i could get some good products. especially eyeshadow. i've seen some girls with hot pink eyeshadow and it looks awsome but every single time i've gotten a pink it just ends up looking too pastel or fuchia-ish! any good products or ideas? (link)
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You can go to Mac, it's normally in a mall or something. Also a tip is wearing eyeliner like on the bottom of your eye and the top, i guess that can be considered punky. Hope you like you're "punky makeup tips"
♥ Jessie
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Hey I was wondering how do you make a collage(on the computer)? Like with all your pics and stuff. Do I do it on paint? Can anyone give me step by step instructions on how to do it? (link)
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You do it on paint and just right click and do paste from and choose the picture and line them up next to eachother. =] if you need it more detailed IM me @ unxreachhable♥
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there's this girl in my class and i not sure if i should as her out because of two reasons 1)shes in my class and not sure if i can focus on learning as much. 2)im also not sure if she likes me
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Heyy, If I were you I would talk to this girl and ask her if she likes you or not. Ya know, straighten things out! =) If she doesn't like you, sorry. If she does like you GOOD LUCK! She may like someone else. She may like you. You never know. But the learning part... is really important. Some people really don't lik eit when they are going out with someone in their class because they are distracted. GOOD LUCK! =)] IM me if you need anything else. ♥ jessie
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Hi, my name is Lindsay. I don't know you or anything but I found your livejournal (its very cute by the way) and I looked into this & I thought it was very cool. You probably think I'm weird but I need some advice lol.
- Okay I have a boyfriend (his name is Jason) and we've been going out for about 2 months. I know that doesn't seem like a long time, but we have a pretty serious relationship. Next year I'm considering switching schools & going to school with my cousin. Hes not to excited about the idea. Because we won't ever get to see each other he thinks we'll end up drifting. At first I thought he was crazy but now I'm not too sure. I'm scared that if I leave we'll end up breaking up. & It'll be my fault because it was my choice to leave. I was completely set on leaving next year and now I'm reconsidering. I don't want to lose him & I'm worried that I will if I leave.
What do you think I should do? Thanks :*
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You need to let him know that your doing it to be with family. Tell him that your parents were also planning this for you and they think that you are already going there and already enrolled you and you don't have a choice. Tell him that you love him though, and you want to keep going out and that you don't want to lose him. If he really loves you he should support what you choose to do. It may not be "long distance" because your moving but you're at different schools. Hopefully you guys have good trust in eachother! =)) I think that you should follow your heart.. even if it means loosing him. He should understand. I hope he does!
Good luck, Jessie xo
If you need anything else IM me @ unxreachhable♥
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heyy wuts ^ ? i need advice and i was going to do it on ur site but i wouldnt get an e-mail back because i am not a member or w/e so i m just e-mailing you...okay i like this guy and hes in band...i know i never thought i would like a band kid but hes an exception...i want to talk to him tommorow but i am so scared...and nervous...i dont know what to say and i am scared that i will have to initiate the convo..some of his friends that i m friends with said they would stand with me and make it so i just start talking but i am not that good at that ..well i m notgood at talking to guys i like..i always get shy and then i am not myself...i really like him but hes in 11th grade...i see him alot but i dont even think he knows who i am...although the other day i made eye contact ! lol..well just thought u could help me get him !! i liek him alot and i think you know if you read my journal....thanks so much jessie ...i love you xo0ox...
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awww, heyy babe =)) well what I think you should do is go up and talk to him with some people that know him. Then they can introduce you and maybe you will get to know him better! Its worth a try because you never know what can happen! And dont be scared or freeze up when your talking to him. Think of things that he would like to talk about before you talk to him and everything will be alright. Dont worry about it! Youre gorgeous and everyone loves you so why wouldnt he! Maybe if you get his number and screen name or whatever and you talk to him more often, in time you guys could become an item ;-) lol ! well, sending all my love to you! Good luck! xo♥
best friend / color guard buddies! .. miss ya!
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my sisters know almost all my business. i tell them almost everything and there 11 and im 15. is it bad that they know about my personal stuff? (link)
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No, that's good that your close with them. That's really cool! I wish i had an older sister.
-Jessie xo
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