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My names Amber, I'm fifteen & pregnant at the moment. I'm due around November 26th.
I love giving people advice about anything really, I've been through a lot for my age. I
have no problem answering any questions you may have to ask, I will not judge you for
anything you have to say. I'm very honest. =)

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Location: Kentucky.
Occupation: A mommy.
Age: 15
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whos bonnie and clyde? (link)
* http://www.fbi.gov/libref/historic/famcases/clyde/clyde.htm

Hope this helps.


Can anyone suggest a curling iron for me that gets really hot, really fast, and won't fry my hair?

Something below $75, please. :) (link)
You can find anything you need for your hair at the nearest beauty salon that is good for your hair & won't fry it.
* http://www.beautybasicsupply.com/Hot-Tools-Spring-Hair-Curling-Irons-s/136.htm?gclid=CMWizP7DyZQCFQZinAod1jpfrw


Sorry if this is under the wrong category.
Im 16/f and I have naturally curly hair. I have had it long almost all of my life, it was down to my waist when it was combed out wet before. About a month ago I got it cut short. Now it is kind of short in the back, since it was shaved pretty short when I first got it cut,and is about an inch and a half long everywhere else in a million curls.My curls are very tight normally, like corkscrews. My hair color is medium brown naturally, I have dyed it a reddish-brown color before which I liked.
I am going to wait for it to grow out again, but only to my shoulders this time.
My question is, what can I do with my hair to make it more stylish, unique..just different. It is long enough to put in little ponytails.
Basically any products i can use or styling tips :) I am hoping to find a great stlye that suits curly hair and has personality. Thanks :D (link)
From the way it sounds, I think if you straightened your hair on some days It'd still look good. Theres good straightening products people use on really curly hair.
Such as :
* http://www.hairstraightening.net/Hair-straightening-products.html
.
You could always scrunch it, even though your hair is already naturally curly. You could make it look wet/curly :)
* http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip18011.htm



Hope this helps.


I asked about limewire, but what about bearshare. is it legal? and if it is, what is the quality of using it? (link)
Heres everything you need to know about bearshare.
* http://www.bearshare.com/
I've never been a big fan of it myself, I always preferred lime wire.
It is illegal unless you are paying for all the songs you download.
I downloaded ares a few months back, an Like it much better.
It's actually faster than lime wire.
* http://www.toggle.com/lv/group/view/kl22461/Ares.htm
:) Hope this helps.


15/f
most of the summer i haven't been home, now my best friend is grounded and my boyfriend is going away for a week. ha i have like nothing to do. i haven't done really anything this week and next week might suck. so what should i do to keep busy if i can't find anyone to hang out with?
like i know staying home 2 weeks outta the summer isn't gonna kill me but i'm starting to feel lonely hha so any ideas to keep my busy would be awesome! thanks =] (link)
I'm the same way as you,
I'm currently 21 weeks pregnant & Spend every single day of my summer with my babys father/my boyfriend.
I practically lived with him before summer started also, now I come back to my grandparents one night a week to see my puppy since it's not allowed over there, because it is a house dog & they do not allow dogs in their house.
I should be spending time with my grandparents which I hardly do, But instead I usually get on the computer & find websites that have things I like doing, or find out what things mean on google, go out to eat by yourself & go shopping or something.
It helps.


I have a painful bump inside the left part of my tongue. I was just wondering if this is normally what happens if you accidentally bite it-- or if I should be concerned that it's something serious.

Has anyone else had this happen as a result of biting their tongue? (link)
I've actually had a little bump by the end of my tongue & When I got it checked out, It was simply caused by eating to much salt or biting down to hard on my tongue which i tend to do both sometimes.
But just to be safe, I'd go get it checked.
It could be syphilis.

Syphilis is a sexually transmitted disease (STD) caused by the bacterium Treponema pallidum. It has often been called “the great imitator” because so many of the signs and symptoms are indistinguishable from those of other diseases.


How do people get syphilis?

Syphilis is passed from person to person through direct contact with a syphilis sore. Sores occur mainly on the external genitals, vagina, anus, or in the rectum. Sores also can occur on the lips and in the mouth. Transmission of the organism occurs during vaginal, anal, or oral sex. Pregnant women with the disease can pass it to the babies they are carrying. Syphilis cannot be spread through contact with toilet seats, doorknobs, swimming pools, hot tubs, bathtubs, shared clothing, or eating utensils.


What are the signs and symptoms in adults?

Many people infected with syphilis do not have any symptoms for years, yet remain at risk for late complications if they are not treated. Although transmission occurs from persons with sores who are in the primary or secondary stage, many of these sores are unrecognized. Thus, transmission may occur from persons who are unaware of their infection.

Primary Stage
The primary stage of syphilis is usually marked by the appearance of a single sore (called a chancre), but there may be multiple sores. The time between infection with syphilis and the start of the first symptom can range from 10 to 90 days (average 21 days). The chancre is usually firm, round, small, and painless. It appears at the spot where syphilis entered the body. The chancre lasts 3 to 6 weeks, and it heals without treatment. However, if adequate treatment is not administered, the infection progresses to the secondary stage.

Secondary Stage
Skin rash and mucous membrane lesions characterize the secondary stage. This stage typically starts with the development of a rash on one or more areas of the body. The rash usually does not cause itching. Rashes associated with secondary syphilis can appear as the chancre is healing or several weeks after the chancre has healed. The characteristic rash of secondary syphilis may appear as rough, red, or reddish brown spots both on the palms of the hands and the bottoms of the feet. However, rashes with a different appearance may occur on other parts of the body, sometimes resembling rashes caused by other diseases. Sometimes rashes associated with secondary syphilis are so faint that they are not noticed. In addition to rashes, symptoms of secondary syphilis may include fever, swollen lymph glands, sore throat, patchy hair loss, headaches, weight loss, muscle aches, and fatigue. The signs and symptoms of secondary syphilis will resolve with or without treatment, but without treatment, the infection will progress to the latent and possibly late stages of disease.

Late and Latent Stages
The latent (hidden) stage of syphilis begins when primary and secondary symptoms disappear. Without treatment, the infected person will continue to have syphilis even though there are no signs or symptoms; infection remains in the body. This latent stage can last for years. The late stages of syphilis can develop in about 15% of people who have not been treated for syphilis, and can appear 10 – 20 years after infection was first acquired. In the late stages of syphilis, the disease may subsequently damage the internal organs, including the brain, nerves, eyes, heart, blood vessels, liver, bones, and joints. Signs and symptoms of the late stage of syphilis include difficulty coordinating muscle movements, paralysis, numbness, gradual blindness, and dementia. This damage may be serious enough to cause death.


A movie that disney used to play a long time ago. Maybe about 10 years ago. Its about a young girl going to prom and on her way there, she has a car accident on a bridge and dies. Years later, a family moves into her house and the teenage boy can see her. They then try to figure out how she died, etc. Anyone remember the movie title? (link)
Suzie Q.
I miss that movie.


well i dont live wit my mom anymore. i live with my aunt so i want her last name. can i do that? im 15 and my aunt will come with me to do it. does it cost money? (link)
You have to have your legal guardian sign something, If I'm not mistaken.
It does cost a lot of money, Not 100% sure on the real price though.


Hope this helps.


okay so lets say im giving a guy a blow job and his cum gets in my mouth. then ill either swallow it or spit it out, either way i might still have a little in my mouth and not know it. then i go back to kissing the guy and he later eats me out. could i possibly get pregnant? (link)
I highly doubt you could get pregnancy by that.


this may be a dumb Q but... When a girl does it for the first time she bleeds. right? but when, right after, later, how does that work...if Ima do it...should i bring a pad???


sorry if its a dumb q. (link)
I doubt you'll bleed all that much.
It'll probably just be a little spotting, But everyones different.


I'm thinking of getting my nose pierced pretty soon. Are there any ways to numb my nose or to reduce pain during the piercing? Also, about how long should I expect to wait until I can change out the stud? (link)
I don't really believe you could do anything to make it hurt any less, Other than placing ice on it for like five minutes before getting it pierced to dumb it.
I'd say wait six to eight weeks before removing it.


Oh kay so my boyfriend wants to like have sex with me and shit-i mean he already fingered me and i gave him a BJ but i don't know if i should have sex with him i am only 13 and i don't want it to get around my school! HELP!! (link)
If you think your ready, Go for it.


Hey, Are you considered a lesbian if you get turned on by other girls kissing like 2 girls kissing each other?

[im a girl myself] (link)
Sounds like your bisexual.
You have to enjoy doing things with girls yourself to actually be a lesbian.


Is it possible to get pregnant by having anal sex? (link)
Nope, Not unless the cum leaks into your vagina which is very likely to happen depending on the way you have sex.


Does sex hurt the first time you do it? I've never done it, but stories of pain sort of make me nervous. Does it? (link)
It hurt me the first few times I had sex & Sometimes it still does.
Use Lube. =)


my boyfriend and i are in love and we are perfect for eachother, we have so much in common and we agree on everthing.. well almost everything

the only thing we don't see eye to eye on is sex.
we both want to have it, we've been waiting a long time for eachother until we were both ready and everything. the only problem is i want him to use a condom and he refuses. he claims he can't keep the erection if he uses one. i want to protect myself from possible std's (he's had 7 partners in the past and obviously does'nt use protection) and from pregnacy because at this point in my life i am in no way ready to have a baby. his swares he doesn't have any diseses and claims he'll pull out ebfore he ejaculates.

what should i do?? thans so much (link)
Stick with what your saying now, Use protection or no sex.
Simple as that.
Your very smart. =)


I had sex with my boyfriend like three times while on Yaz. We didn't use protection, but he didn't cum inside of me and I know there was no precum cause we didn't even finish or anything. but anyways.

okay so this is my fourth month on it and I finished the active pills on tuesday. it's thursday and I still didn't get my period. I'm probably just paranoid. but fuckkkkkkkkkk

IS THIS NORMAL (link)
I'm not really 100% sure, I've never taken Yaz.
He could've pre cumed also, Pre cum is before he actually gets off or finishes as you say & He didn't finish, But they still could've been pre cum.
Delayed periods can be caused by stress.
Take a pregnancy test. =)


can i make a homemade hair and body spray out of conditioner and water? (link)
I highly doubt you could make anything out of just conditioner & water together.
It'd take a few more products, Just watch what you mix together & what you put on your skin/hair.


Just out of curiousity, is it considered wrong to wear a bikini at a public pool or beach if you are pregnant?

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I personally don't see anything wrong with wearing a bikini to show off your baby bump.
I wore one at four months to a friends house to go swimming with her, But I wouldn't wear one now because I'm now 21 weeks along & Started getting big love handles from gaining to much weight to quick because I was 94pounds & 5'2 when I first became pregnant & Ive gained 22pounds & Theres really no where for the weight to go.


My boyfriend and i are ready to have sex, but I'm a little scared. He says he can get me birth control to take, and we would also use a condom, of course. I'm not worried about any diseases (we're clean). I'm only worried about getting pregnant. By using condoms and taking birth control, am I really at any risk? (link)
Your obviously not ready to have sex if your a little scared.
I was scared when I first had sex to.
Don't let him just randomly find you birth control to take, Go to the doctor, they'll give you a paps smear, give you condoms & put you on the birth control thats right for you. Its not all the same.
I'm 21 weeks pregnant at the moment.
The condom could tear or anything, & you could get pregnant.
It could have a tiny hole in it & You'd still get pregnant.
You can in fact still get pregnant while on birth control.
So, you still have the risk of someone who isn't on birth control & not using condoms.

Hope this helps. =)




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