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okay. yesterday, my bf and i kissed for the first time and today i have scrapes on my hands. do i have stigmata? can you get stigmata from kissing other people? also, does this mean i could be pregnant?
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you cant get pregnant from kissing. You have to have sexual contact to get pregnant.
I dont think that you can get stigmata from kissing people. But im not sure.
Hope i helped!
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ok you guys said that frequent urination is a symptom of pregnancy. but how often is frequent? like i've been peeing every two hours maybe? is that what you mean by frequent? (i usually do not pee that much) (link)
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My health teacher says that having to pee is good for you, because you are cleaning out your body toxins.
You can go to the doctor and ask for his opinion, you could also get a pregnany test. (unless you know your pregnant)
I hope i helped, and good luck with this..
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JW..but.....are guys less attracted to you when your having sex and your vaginal area is hairy....jw
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Um... Well i dont think it should matter. Whatever you are comfortable with, and if you care, ask him. He shouldnt care, and most guys, would be happy to be with someone having sex anyway.
Also, if (well just saying, if you are wonderin this) ther person could trim the hair instead of shaving it.
But i hope that helped.
(i just have to laugh at the "a hairy kitty is a smelly kitty"
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SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT IM FREAKED OUT!!
well in all my pictures i have a little white smudge. its usually by my head. and when people come over they are always like "whoa i just saw a flash out of the corner of my eye!" and i se it sometimes too, and i dont tell them about it so they cant know that i also see it. and it hasnt recently started. its been like that for as long as i can remember. and sometimes things move unexplained around me, like things laying on the floor with nothing around it, once my computer chair rolled back while i was sittingin it, that freaked me out alot. windows shut and open. could a spirit be attatched to me? im a skeptic just like many and ive resorted to thinking theres a spririt attatched to me. ive eliminated all other logical explanations, like camera faultiness, or wind blowing or things like that and most of the time it makes no sense.
this is scaring me, tell me what you all know!
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it could and probably is a spirit. Most spirits that stay after death are gaurdians. It is probably that. And dont be freaked out, your not the only one with a sprit/gaurdian. My friend has one.
But also, before i read the whole story, the flash and thing in pictures could be your aura. That is a light around you, that tells your emotion or state of being. Some people have the ability to pick up your aura, and cameras catch pictures of them too. Those are the only two things I can think of but dont be scared.
Dont be afraid or scared of it. If it is a spirit, it is probably more likely to help you and protect you, than it is to hurt you.
I hope i helped and i hope you figure out what it is!
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Alright.. I have an amazing boy friend who I've been going out for almost 5 months now, but lately I've developed feelings for another guy. I think about him all the time and he always smiles at me.
Is that normal?
What do you think I should do?
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This is normal. I've felt like that many times in my relationship with my bf (we've been toghether for 1 year and a half) and we are both 14. I dont know how old you are... but its normal in any relationship. You have to think of the good and bad things in both, and listen to yur heart. Its up to you. If you really love your boyfriend, dont get mixed up in a little crush. Take the time, and see which one you love more.
Remember to do what your heart wants. And dont let people tell you what to do, they arent you.
Good luck and i hope i helped!
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Okay I am so big. I weigh 186 pounds! But I'm tall so that helps. But the doctor says I should weight 145. What do I do. I am going to 4-h camp in ONE month does anyone know what I can do to lose my stomach and leg fat? (link)
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you can start eating healthier, and do crunchs (its better if you have an exersice ball) situps, biking, running/jogging, walking, Ab excersices, and just be more active.
You cant loose that much fat in one month, but i have to say, that be yourself, and remember to eat, dont try to lose weight by not eating, because that can make you sick.
I hope I helped, and remember people in 4-H camps (and everywhere) should like you for who you are, not what you look like.
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how do i make someone like me
how do i make someone kiss me
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well im sorry to say, you cant just make someone like you.
you could dress nice or something tomake them notice you... But remember always stay true to yourself. dont try to be someone your not, and someone out there will like you for who you are.
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How do you know when a girl gets horny or not (link)
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well if you are "down there" she will be wet. She could feel herself, or the guy, and other times you just cant tell. She could act like a slut, move her hips, and want sex or to make out, but other times girls dont even show that they are horny. SOME girls are always horny and just want to make out, and have sex all the time.
It really just depends on the girl, but those are some tips.
I hope I helped.
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help!!! i don know how 2 dance!!!!! at all!!! no grindin and no hiphop nothin!!!! (link)
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I dont really know either. just copy what others do, or just move to the beat. Follow the beat, and if your a girl, just move your hips, and swing with it. If you are dancing with someone, let them lead.
Thats all i can tell you, because you didnt really give much information about yuorself. But i hope i helped. and i hope you have fun learning how to dance!
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I just can't study or get anything into my head when there's music on. I listen to music a lot but not when I'm studying. My sister always cranks the music up and it drives me nuts because she says it helps her study. but sometimes she gets low marks so I kind of doubt it.
Does music help you study? (link)
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it helps me study, but it annoys some of my friends when they study. It just depends on the person. and with your sister if she gets low marks, she might have something else on her mind, or she might just not understand it totally.
Well i hope i helped.
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i like this guy but he has a girlfriend!He kinda flirts with me,but only when his girlfriend is not around. They dont make a very good couple and dont want to be together .What should i do? (link)
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Well are you friends with her???
If they dont want to be together, then sit down with both of them (separatly)
and tell them that, you and everyone else knows that they dont look good together and that they dont want to be together. Tell them "it's not right, to try to like someone, if you know you dont. Dont lie to your heart, its not right, and in the end will only make things worse"
If you tell them something like that, then they break up, wait a few days, and make your move on the guy, and ask him out!
I really hope I helped and if you need anything else just ask!
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im so confused as in who am i?
i can be really nice and listen to all my friends probem and never mention my own and then wouldnt give two shits about people! im stuck in between this good little girl to this horrible, lazy girl and i dont know how to balance the two! ive jus had enough of everything...im popluar at school..i sing and dance...but i just want to be in this dark mode were no one can talk to me! i sont just want to escape but i don know what im escaping..and when i have escaped i feel lonely and wan to come back! does anybody know whats happening to me? and does anybody feel the same way? thnks really need help! (link)
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All i can say is I feel like this. I used to be a good girl who was a teacher suck up and everyone loved me and thought i was perfect. Then i felt like i had this other side, like a real me, that had to come out. SO i am horrible and lazy and everything, but when the time is right. LIke when im around really good friends. They should accept you for who you really are. and if they dont, you shouldnt be friends. and dont forget popularity isnt everything. I dont know, what is happening to you, or me. but it might just be finding your true self. The person inside you, that has always been bottled up. Let that person out! it will make you happier in the long run!
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I'm 15/f and over the last year or so, I always feel so irritated when my parents talk. Like I find them really annoying, even if they're are asking me something like ''what do you want for dinner''
I'm wondering if this is just a teenage phase or if there's something wrong with me?
I mean my parents are cool and I like them, but I always feel annoyed when I'm talking to them, and I hate it.
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i think its just a phase, but maybe they are just annoying people! (im jokin about the annoying people, im sure you lvoe them very much)
im kind of starting that phase and im 14, so i dont know how long the phase will be but im sure it will go away sooner of later.
hope i helped.
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ok so im 13/f
and i look alot older.
and iv only kissed one guy and it was
only a peck.(like 15 times tho) and im scared to kiss anyother guys
cause im only use to how he kisses and now im scared cause i dont want a guy to think im a freak cause i dont know how to kiss lol.
so my questions are
-how do you make out?
-how do you make out w/o toung.(miss spelled i think)
-how do you get use to the way other guys kiss.
~thank you sooooooooooooo much
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dont worry about it, i didnt know how to kiss either. normally the guy leads it, so you can wait till the guy does it.
just learn how they kiss by practicing kissing him. they wont think your a freak if you really love them.
making out is with the tounge. normally (with me and my bf) the guy starts, but putting his tounge in your mouth, then you just kinda move your tounge around in his mouth. its easier than it sounds, and dont worry about it. (seriously, the 1st time i evr french kissed was with my current and 1st boyfriend [of 1 and a half years] and he told me it felt like i was trying to suck his tounge out of his mouth!!! but we just laughed it off) if you mess up, and he says something, just laugh about it. he shouldnt care.
and remember the way to get used to the way other guys kiss, is to kiss them, and see.
good luck! and dont do anything you arent ready for!
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lately ive been having such random dreams about this guy who i used to be friends with.
we havent talked in about a month though, we have just gone our seperate way. i know that i miss him a lot, but im not sure if he misses me.
my question is why do i keep dreaming about him? could that be a sign that he may be thinking about me too and that we are going to make up? please help (link)
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it could be that you just miss him, it could be he misses you, it could be you have a crush on him, or it could even be that your mad at him. You never truely know with dreams. its just subconcious thoughts inside your brain. You can really know what it means. but i suggest if you miss him, call him and see what he's been up to. maybe you could make up.
I really hope i helped!
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Okay, so I recently got a new laptop and need to transfer the songs on my old itunes to my new laptop. How do I get the songs off my ipod to the itunes on this laptop?
I've tried a few online tutorials but can't seem to get it to work. When I plug in the ipod and go to My Computer, about 200 songs show up but none that are on my ipod. I really don't want to download anything, so please don't suggest that.
So does anybody have any good tutorials or ideas? Thank you so much. (link)
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on your old computer, get a CD, and burn a data disc, with your old songs and put them onto your new computer. that is the only way i know of how to get them on your new one!
Hope I helped!
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i went on a calorie less diet. i only take in more or less 1200. soemtiems i take in 1400 but i do a lot of exercise if i do that.
on saturday i ate soooooooooo much and gained 2 pounds do i went form 112 to 114'!!! i want to weigh 100. i need my stomich to be flat.
any ideas.???? i do 30 min abb exercises an kcikboxin (link)
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one thing, is your weight is fine!!! I look relatively skinny, and i weigh 165-170 and im a 14 year old female!
You could get one of those exersice balls and use that to strech and do crunches. those make your abbs great!
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does anyone know a good brand of hair coloring products for highlights, like the ones you do yourself or should i get them done professionaly (link)
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you can do them yourself, dont get sun-in. it messes up your hair. I think you should get it done professionally, but its your choice. you would get better highlights, and more of what you really want if you get someone who KNOWs what they are doing.
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youre not supposed to wash your hair everyday, but what if you exercise every day? (link)
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you can wash your hair everyday, just brush it alot, because it brings the good oils down into your hair, from your scalp.. so you can wash your hair everyday!
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Okay, I'm not fat, I know I'm not, I may have a little more meat on my bones than the typical person but I'm NOT fat.
The thing is, I have stretch marks between my legs, a LOT of them, my mom says its from where I was a cheerleader, I think otherwise, they go down my legs about 4 inches. & swimsuit seasons coming up, ofcourse, like everyother girl I LOVE bikinis, but this year im not getting on. I'd much rather have a camo one, but I dont want the bottom, I just want a pair of camo swimming trunks, what should I do.
I feel so stupid wanting trunks, but I am so self concious, is there any way to make the stretch marks go away? fade? i really need help.
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any lotion, but coco butter or vitamin E lotions are the best.
Its ok the have strech marks. I have them, but well i am kinda chubby (though my bf yells at me whenever i call myself fat) but anyways,
You should be able to get coco butter or vitamin e lotion about anywhere, and remember, put it on often, and it should start to fade a bit, and also as you get older and everything, keep putting lotion on because it helps prevent any future strech marks as well!
Hope i helped!
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