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About Me: Hello & welcome to my advice column! My name is Jennifer and I'm 19 years old. I'm married to my high school sweetheart, Eric, as of 06.09.07! ♥ He is in the United States Navy, and right now we are stationed in Virginia Beach. Eric is my best friend, and my hero..I love my sailor! I also love helping people and giving advice on all kinds of things- I'm a very good listener. I'm in my sophomore year of college, majoring in psychology, and will eventually be going to med school to be a psychiatrist. Feel free to leave anything in my inbox. I'm always looking to meet new people and give advice!!

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Male 15
Why is it that i am never able to ask a girl out?
Most people say im just a stupid chicken and make fun of me. I need help :( Wats ur opinion?

I don't think there's anything wrong with being shy. Maybe you should try asking girls out over the phone? Or like..if you really THAT shy- do it with an email? Anyways, with the whole being chicken thing, I wouldn't worry about it too much. It's probably just a phase but don't think of it as such a big deal. The worst thing that could happen is she would say no, and in that situation- just get yourself out there and find someone new. There's plenty girls out there and I'm sure there's AT LEAST one that would go for ya! =) xo| Jenn *

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iv had sex but it hurt at the begging then it felt good...is it posible for me to rip a little?if so what do i do?

Yes, you might have ripped a little but don't worry it will heal up in time. It only gets better too- so don't worry about it hurting every time. You probably just needed to stretch out a little the first time. Things should be better from here on out. Just remember to be safe and use protection. *hehe*

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im so toatally straight but is it ok for me to get horny by lookin at naked women on porn sites?

Yeah, lots of girls do that even tho they won't admit that they do. It's perfectly normal.

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I really like this boy who lives up me street. I go to the same school as him but he's 2 years older. I really like him and want to talk to him but i don't know what i should say/do. Please help!

Well, if I were you I would definately talk to this boy. You should tell him how you feel and maybe he will even be feeling the same way you are? See if you can get his screen name or something like that so that you won't be all nervous talking to him face to face. Good luck! xo|*Jenn*

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ive been goin out with a guy 4 about a month, and we are really boring lol... like the only staes weve ever been on have been 2 the movies.. one time we went out 4 ice cream, but it feels like its the same old same old.. any casual dates that most regular suburbs have that dont cost way 2 much? thx guys mE

You can do something like put-put golfing or goKarts if you have anything like that in your town. Or have him take you on a picnic or something.

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when an embarrassing topic comes up, i can feel my face heat up and i'm sure it's really noticeable - is there anyway to prevent yourself from blushing?? i doubt it but i figured it doesn't hurt to ask

Yeah, definately don't know of any ways to prevent blushing, but if I ever hear of any I'll be sure to let ya know, lol.

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im only 13 and i really like this kid but he lives too far away. i met him at summer camp. he's really cool and fun to hang out with. but im not sure if he likes me. I want to go out with him (if he likes me) but i dont know if it would work because its really long drive. im going back to camp in a few weeks and i dont know what will happen...HELP PLEASE !!!!!
tysM!
PS. I RATE IF ITS GOOD ADVICE!!

Long distance relationships can be hard, but if you two really like eachother it could definately work. When you go back to camp in a few weeks- talk to him and see if he feels the same way. One of the biggest mistakes humans make is not telling people how they feel while they have the chance. Make sure he knows how you feel and hopefully things will work out between you. Good luck hun!

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ok moderators im very serious about this question its not a joke so please please please dont delete it, ok i had sex once, and i dont really get any feeling, supposedly its supposed to feel good but i dont really feel anything, and when we were done my stomach hurt alot and my back did too, so yeah umm whats going on? please dont delete this i want to know.

For many girls that I know, sex doesn't feel good the first time. Usually for most people, it doesn't really start to feel GOOD until the 3rd or 4th round. The reason you may be having pains in certain areas could be from putting yourself in positions that you aren't normally used to being in? Or maybe he was just being too rough with you. Anyways, good luck. * xo; Jenn *

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