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My name is Nikki and I am 17 years old & I have a daughter who means EVERYTHING in the world to me, I'd do ANYTHING for her...I love spending time with her and watching the new things she does everyday...I cant wait until she starts talking and walking..but yeah what mother cant right?..lol...well I love giving advice...I've been through a lot the past 4 years like being homeless and things like that which I'm not homeless anymore but i know how it feels and I've been through a lot so i know a lot...i know more about a lot of stuff then most 17 year olds my age but hey everyone can give advice but I am A teen mother and so I know a little bit, but theres WAY more to learn about being a mother...but...i want y'all to feel free day or night to ask me for advice because i love giving it..thanks...By the way...I love getting Feedback so i will know if i helped y'all out...so please send me feedback if i answer y'all's question's...Thanks Bunches!

My Favorite things are: Spending time with my daughter...Spending time with my wonderful boyfriend who I plan on one day getting married to...I LOVE YOU JEREMY!!! Singing, Writing songs, Shopping, Going to the movies, Meeting new people, and Giving Great advice!!

*Favorite Color~Baby Blue & Hot Pink!
*Favorite Food~Salads, Pizza, & Tacos!
*Best Guy-Friend~My Boyfriend Jeremy
*Best Girl-Friend~My best friend Hope
*Hottest guy in the world~Shawn Micheal Murray
*Favorite Person in the world~Eminem
*Favorite Music~Rap, Rock, & Country!
*Favorite Place~In my boyfriends arms....Pensacola & Fort Myers Florida!


.female come backs.

Yeah, we've had those guys that just come up to a random girl, with their only interntions being wanting to score some. Here are some quick come backs, so you can tell that guy to back off! **sexual references stated here**

M: Haven't I seen you some place before?
F: Yes, that's why I don't go there anymore.


M: Is this seat empty?
F: Yes, and this one will be if you sit down.


M: Your place or mine?
F: Both. You go to yours and I'll go mine :)


M: So, what do you do for a living.
F: I'm a female impersonator.


M: Hey baby, what's your sign?
F: Do Not Enter!!


M: How do you like your eggs in the morning?
F: Unfertilized...


M: Your body's like a temple.
F: Sorry, there are no services today :(


M: I would go to the end of the world for you.
F: But would you stay there :)


M: If I saw you naked, I'd die happy.
F: If I saw you naked, I'd die laughing :O


M: So, wanna go back to my place?
F: Well I don't know. Will two people fit under a rock?


M: I know how to please a woman...
F: Then get the hell away from me!


M: I want to give myself to you.
F: Sorry..i dont accept cheap gifts :)


M: Haven't we met before...;)
F: Yah...im the receptionist at the VD Clinic :P


M: Whats your number?
F: Its in the phone book!


M: But i dont know your name?
F: Thats also in the phone book.


M: Hey, c'mon, we're both here at the bar for the same reason..
F: Yeah!! Lets go pick up some chicks!!


M: I'm here to fulfill your every sexual fantasy
F: You mean..youve got both a donkey and a Great Dane!?


M: Id go through anything for you!
F: Great!! Let's start with your bank account :D
Got all that Off of a website..http://www.mysticscreations.com/

*What is love? Is it the same as lust?*

Tough question. There are lots of different kinds of love-- romantic, parental, platonic. Mostly, love is feeling emotionally attached to another person. You want to be close to that person. You want to share things with them, understand them and have them understand you. You want to care for them and have them care for you. Romantic love usually comes with a strong physical or sexual attraction. You want to hold, touch and sometimes become sexual with that person.
Lust is physical attraction. Lust can sometimes turn into love. Often, when two people are first getting together, they have a really strong physical connection. When two people fall in love, lust may fade over time but its replaced with a deeper, more intimate emotional connection.
When you're falling in love, its often tough to tell the difference between the two. Usually, time tells.

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E-mail: koolchick20022006@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: Mom *&* Work
Age: 17
AIM: Sweetroxygurl046
Yahoo: koolchick20022006@yahoo.com
MSN: sassy2dacore101@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 8, 2004
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Last Update: December 21, 2005
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Theres this guy. and hes my close friend and he tells me he likes me and thinks about me alot and loves my eyes.Then he goes out with my friend. But he apologized to me 7347 times and said hes goin out with her for the wrong reasons and that when we were with her the one time that all he could think was me and how he hurt me. And he still tells me he wants to be with me and that he likes me a lot and even told some of his friends he might break up with my "friend" n get with me. But then today on my advice page he asked me a question about her n how he still likes her n how he heard shes gonna break up with him n he doesnt want to ruin the relationship by doin it first if its not true. It hurt to read that and i dont want to ber mad at him because its not in my nature.idk if i should wait for him or should i jus move on?? please help when i ask him about it he says " ur paranoid i like u"

If i were you i would move on...because hes with your friend for one thing and if your friend found out that he was breaking up with her for you then it might ruin your friendship, tell the guy he should have thought about wanting to be with you befor he went off to be with your friend, and if you dont move on just play hard to get but if i were you i would move on and find me someone better.

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I went derrell online .we talked online for one months.I gave him my phone number ,he started to call me ,he's really funny.I think I like him
he also askedme out and I said yes.now he's the only thing I think about,dream about and talk about.but I'm having some doubts,he lives really far from me.I kind of scare to tell what I feel
when he asks me what I want to talk about I say nothing.what should I do??

tell him how you feel...just tell him you like him if you do but the distance thing isnt working out...thats what i would do.

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My exbf chris and I broke up 5 months ago. I broke up with him but heres my problem WE GO TO SCHOOL TOGETHER. He hates me and I honestly dont knw why. I am completly over him and I used to want to be friends with im but I just gave up. Everytime I see him in the halls I get this funny feeling in my stomach. IDK what it is. I am not gonna lie I still care about him, and its like he thinks that its a crime if I care about him. He is sooo mean to me and I try and be nice but it ends up bitting me in the ass. What do I do? Just completly ignore him or what!

Im 15 and a female

Hey, i went through something like that when i first started going to a new high school...i had a boyfriend and like on the 3rd day of school after school started he broke up with me...why i dont know, in the process he told me he still wanted us to be friends and then when i would say hey to him at school he would ignore me, he told me he wanted us to break up because he wanted to be single and focuse more on his school work which he lied about cause he went off and got him another girlfriend and has never talked to me again...for a while after that everytime i would see him i would feel the same way....the weird feelings in the pit of my stomach and sometimes i would even start to cry, because i missed him and i wanted to be with him again but how i delt with it is i just ignored him...acted like i had never met him and i got over him that way...alot of geys are mean like that you just have to find the right one who will treat you right...i hope i helped u...just ignore him is what i would do.

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There's this kid at school and he always flirts with me. He always follows me around at lunch and stuff, and always follows me to my locker too
He's a pretty cool kid n'd evrything..but i just dont like him like that. i tryed telling him we're only friends but it's like he doesnt even hear me. He always tells me how much he likes me on aol.. and our school dance is coming up and im afraid he's gunnah ask me. I dnoo what to say to him. I dont just wannah say no were just friends cuz he might keep buggin me bout it :/ What should i do!?

tell him to either back off and just notice the fact that you only wanna be his friend andif he gets mad about it then let him...if he cant just be your friend then he should just leave you alone...but dont lead him on into thinking you like him because thats prob what your makeing him think sence you havent talked to him about it...just tell him stright up how you feel.

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I was thinking about asking this girl out. The only problem is ... Shes my cousin. I mean shes not like my first cousin. Shes my grandmothers nephews daughter. Shes such a hottie. I love her. Is this wrong? Would it be considered incest? please give me your opinions about this.

Ok think about this...what if your sister was Fine to you...would u go for it?...its the same thing as your cusin and i know your hearing this alot but if you really think about it ...it really is sick and if people found out you were dateing your cusin then no one would be your friend and you would be called really mean things...dont date her...no matter how good she looks its still wrong. i hope i helped!

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Hey
I am 15 and me and my boyfreind have been going out for 2 months now and he has told my bestfriend that he has got me a ring and is going to ask the question and i want to say yes cuzz hes the one for me i just know it and he feels the exact same.I am just not sure if what people will say if they find out and i do not want to get hurt i am confused what do i do and i need to know soon!Thanks~Kristen~

Hey Sweetie, Listen, people say stuff to try to make us girls mad, i was going through something like this yesterday and this guy i was talking to his ex girlfriend told me that he was lieing to me and talking bad about me behind my back and it turns out its not true, people are just trying to uhrt you baby girl and you dont need to listen to them, just stay strong, everything will be okay, listen to what your boyfriend tells you not what everyone else tells you because if you and him are in love then yall will stay strong and not let anyone come in between yall, if you need anything else ask me...thanks Kristen for asking me for Advice...it makes me feel special :)...good luck girl, see ya l8er

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Ok i'll try not too many this really long but if u wanna help me out and know the whole story than e-mail or IM...but anyways I still wanna be with my ex-b/f sooo bad!!! We've been broken up for 3 months now and the break up was pure hell!!! I went through the hardest time of my life and i'm still struggeling but gettin better..anways he has gotten a new g/f he he is so inlove with but I still care about him so much....I dunno if I still love him if I should just wait and hope that maybe 3 or 4 months from now he will realize that he made a big mistake or realize that he ain't commin back that it wasn't meant to be. I was with him for 2 years...he was my first love...I dunno wut to do....Please if you HAD experience w/this reply *Natalie* /17/

Hey Sweetie, listen everyone goes through this, i went through it myself and its very very hard but think of it like this, hes the one who lost you, its his loss...try to forget about him and move on, i know its hard believe me, but you will find someone new just like he has and if you and him may get back together then it was ment to be, i'm going to tell you a saying i read from somewhere and its "If you love someone let the go, If they come back it was ment to be, but If they dont then it never was" i hope that helps you, it helped me out when whats going on with you happened to me, but just try to stay strong, you will get over him sooner or later and find someone new, it may take a while but it will happen, just know that everything happens for a reason, thanks for reading i hope i helped you!

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I am decent looking, & I am called hot a lot but not very many guys fall for me! I have dated about 5 guys & I want a boyfriend but I want to find the perfect guy so I want to make guys like me so I can get to know them if I like them. Not just looks but personality too. I already love to have fun and hang w/ them & I can be girly & sporty. I have a really good sense of humor but it doesn't feel like a lot of guys like me more than just a good friend. My question is, how can I improve myself in looks & personality as I am going into middle school in a month & I want to make a good impression to everyone first & just also for myself so I'll be happier & be more confident. Thankz, I'll rate you. Sry this is so long but thankz for taking time to read this!

~Lonely and Unconfident :-( 12/f

Listen Sweetie, you dont have to act like someone your not or try to change yourself and everything about you just to get guys to notice you, if they cant notice you for who you are then they are not worth it, but dont go stressing yourself because of guys, they are not worth it. One day you will meet the perfect guy and you will be so happy, theres someone out there for everyone and that doesnt mean you have to change yourself, be yourself, dont let anyone try to change you, life is not about impressing people, its about liveing and learning just be careful sweetie dont let anyone tell you your not beautiful because everyone is beautiful and its whats on the inside that counts, i hope you take my advice. see ya

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