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Ok im 13/f and my bf and i are really close weve been dating for 2 year now and we are pretty sure were in love with each other...For REal...and its so weird because when we are just hangin out with all of my bf's friends we are like allways fooling around with each other and like kissing and hugging and i feel sorta..turned on...and i like wanna touch him and stuff...but then when we actually wanna take it a little further he starts putting his hand down my shirt and feeling my boobs! and i chicken out...what can i do to make my boyfriend feel that i want to be like sexually involved with him but i dont wanna be like all the other girls and a "whore" and just do it all at once?

please help i rate fives!

talk to him about it.
just be like,
i think we should take this relationship to the next level.

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I know this might sound nasty but it burns down below when i go to the bathroom. and this morning on the way to school it still kinda burned and it felt weird, not normal. i dont know if i have something wrong with me and if its because of sexual activity? does anyone know what this might be? please dont tell me to go to the doctor because i dont want to do it right now. just tell me what you might think it could be! im so scared. please dont leave ride comments im just worried about my health! anything will help!


i rate good! for good answers

&&heaRts; scArEd anD WorrieD!

yeast infection?
or something from shaving.

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i dont think my bf honestly likes me i think he just wants me to give him head,well the only reason i think he is going out wit me is b/c i gave his friend head and he fingured me and all that stuff b/c he was my x and i think his friend told him we did all that stuff and thats all he wants from me is to have sex but, how do i no if he likes me or if he just wants to have sex? PLEASE help!

just have a long conversation with him and straight out ask him if he likes you or just wants you for what you did with your ex.
he might tell you the truth.
and if not you can tell when they lie

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hey everyone my girlfriend and i are coming up on two years i thought that maybe i would make her a CD with songs that make me think of her is this a good idea and if you think it is can u tell me some up to date good love songs and any other ideas we are only 16 too thanks ill rate

howie day-collide

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13/m
does anyone knhow why girls are so confusing? Also, does anyone know any good books or websites about girls. Not like physical features or sex or anything like that

girls are so confusing i know.
well some probly think there way better then the other.
and omg idk just pretend i never answerd this.

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a month, on Decemeber 15. We are always together, and I think that I love him. I know it's like, oh your a child you don't know what love is, but I really do believe that I am in love. We were laying on my bed on each other and I was thinking about how I love him, and I was about to tell him.. I asked him what he was thinking about, and he said, "I love you." It was like so strange though because I was just about to say the exact same thing, but anyways.. Wow, totally off topic. I'm 13, and whenever we are making out.. We get a little too into it, I suppose. Where it gets to the point when it's "dry sex", or having sex with your clothes on.. Yes, I know it's weird.. But, I feel the erge to want to have sex with him, and go farther, sexually. I am only in 7th grade, so of course I don't want to go that far.. All I have done with any guy is "feel up", because I refuse to go farther.. He was trying to finger me and I wouldn't let him. Basically, I am trying to ask..

Would it be wrong if I had sex with him?
I don't think I am ready, at all.
I could be wrong? Maybe, I am.
But - I am scared that next time we hook up that it will go a little too far.
And it's not like a 10 second hook up, it's more like 10 minutes.
Really, how far is "too far"?
I believe feel up is far enough for 7th grade.
But I'd love your views.

im 13 and i like this guy..
and i think im ready.
so i know how you fell kinda.
only you can pick when you have sex.
and if you do use protection.

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hi my boyfreind it seems like all he wants from me is sex..
its making me really sad.
and dissapointed.
i want a relationship where people dont care about my looks... they like me for me..
but anyways.
i dont know what to do i like him alot and i no he will leave me.
dont say break up with him.
i like him alot.
i no hes kinda a jerk but you dont know me so yeah.
i rate

do it.

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lately my gf has been having stomach aches that she has never had b4. we had safe sex and i rarely bust while im in her. i think she might have a strain..wat else could it b?

awe.
thats so sweet how you accully care about them..
my boyfreind sure doesnt.
well its normal for a girl to have that after sex.
but i would take her to the doctor and if something is wrong then the doctor will give her medicine and that might help.
aw.
i hope she gets better!
bye

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hi. umm i am 13f and i havent started my period yet.. which is fine. but umm i am completely am totally flat. im not one of those girls with small boobs who just says shes flat. i really am quite literally FLAT. and i hate it. all of my friends (again, not exagerating) have boobs. how come i dont? will they ever come? because i do see adults sometimes that are flat. i really dont want to be like that. i have never had a boyfriend. my friends have. guys like girls with boobs. and dont say its not true. sorry huns, but uuh it is. guys used to like me in 5th grade and below because i am pretty, and then, nobody had boobs. but now that they do, im just a "little girl" compared to all of my friends. i really hate being flat. i dont know what i can do. obviously i cant magically make them appear.. but aah i hate it. i dont want to wear a padded bra because if someone bumps into me it will be obvious. what is a water bra? and wtf do i do????????
i rate 5. just pleease give me some good advice.

big boobs make you look fat and guys yes hot emos have been telling me to my face that big boobs are going out of style. because this girl got fake ones and we were talking about it and yeah.
but get a water bra.
its a bra that is patted with water in the padded areas and if someone bumped into you they will acully feel real. and not fake like those huge padded ones.
trust me.

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does anybody know a good brand of men's deoderant(stick, not spray, please)?

old spice
and
axe.
hot.

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hey im a really horny girl.i think about sex a lot. im not a virgin. but my bf is and he thinks i am. what should i do.i dont want him to know. but we agreed to communicate. i want to be sexual with him but i dont know if he is ready. and i dont know what to do to tell him both things. im not a virgin adn that i watn to have sex. not becuz im horny cuz i no i love him. i didnt loose my viginity to willingness either. just to help. and i dont know if i want to tell him that. we have been dating a while. i was 13 when i raped then again wheni was 15. me and him have dated since i was 13 and i never told him. we r now 16. what should i do
ill rate so high
hearts

OK.
my sister just got married.
and her huspand left for awhile.
she was rapped.
she told him and said please it wasnt my fault.
he forgave her because he loved her.
so just tell him.

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Last time my question for deleted.
can someone please tell me what SPOONING means?
Like... i have no idea what it means.

please help

ill rate high

thank you

cuddleing

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What are some good songs about relationships...like sweet ones and then the kind were the guy leaves you sorta stuff Thanks

howie day-collide






LISTEN TO THE WHO SONG.
its so good for relationships

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my boyfriend and i are in a weird situation. we barely talk and i want to get closer. and he thinks i'm cheating on him with his best friend.

i can't really explain my feelings, so i decided i should make him a mixtape(well, cd)

sooo..

any songs about regaining a love that faded
and/or letting someone know you don't love anyone else more than them?

blink182-i miss you
howie day-collide

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my 8th grade graduation is at the end of this year ...ive been looking for songs i found a few the class might like but if you have any you think fit to a 8th grade graduation that would be really helpful ill rate high for some good ones ...thanksss

howie day
(collide)

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Hey .. does anyone know some good websites where i can just listen to music ? Not from xanga or anything .. most of them dont work anyway. But please if you can give me some sites thatd be awesome ! Thanks ..

videocodezone.com

yeah thats all i go to
its easy

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heyy! ok well this guy that i know pretty well goes to my school, and hes in the same grade as me. well he cheats on every single girlfriend he has... and see last year, he would try and hold my hand, touch my thigh, and touch my butt...he was touchy feely... hahaha. well anyways, this year, like 2 fridays ago.. i kinda started to like him... and well i gave him a HUGGEEE hug when the football game was over! like me and him were linked together... we were flirting big time... i just dont know if i should go out with him ((if he asks)) cause like i like someone else to... PLEASE HELP!
will rate 5's((if good))

aww!
no hun.
go out with the other guy you like.
if that guy cheats.
he will most likely cheat on you.
go for the one you like.
and keep the other one as a freinds.

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does any of you have btothers???? because if you do when they know that you get mad at what they are doing do they do it even more to make you madder because my kind like brothers always do that do boys always do that please help me
i will rate high if you give a good answer
(sorry for not capitalizing it or any thing they could just walk in here anytime and see what i am writing)

thanks

yeah.
they try to annoy you.
just pretend to laugh.
and they will stop.

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hi there.there is this guy who i have heard has a crush on me and i like him too. he was texting me but and was replying without giving him any hint that i like him too cause i am conservative.one time asked me to visit me at home but i refused.our common friends would tease us but i wasnt taking it seriuosly and he would to try to make a comment about how i look and compiment me but i would just ignored it.does this guy like me and should i let him see that i have a feeling for him too?

yes.
he likes you.
and you should DEFINENTLY let him know.

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i want to get my hair redone. It light brown with a few blond highlights. it like right above my boobs and i have these long grown out bange a little below my chin. I also have an onval face and bigish nose. I want to get a hair style but keep it the same length. Can you please help and also i have some suggestions and please tell me which one is the best. http://www.dvdtimes.co.uk/images/TiffanyBradford/meangirls_c.jpg
http://www.meangirls.com/downloads/wallpapers/regina1024.jpg
http://www.meangirls.com/downloads/wallpapers/gretchen800.jpg

3d.

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