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That's what life is about.
Loving people, trying new experiences, putting yourself out there, and getting the most out of life. Don't live in fear of ANYTHING.

I am a strong Christian and I am discovering more about myself and my relationship with God everyday.


I am open to help with ANY question and will do my best to help you with anything and if you have a question im unusre about i will ask pple and look up things and try my best to help!

I would be happy to recieve personal questions and answer those immediatly. I try to answer as many questions as i can that i know a lot about but with personal questions they were directed to me personally so i feel i need to answer that question as best possible.

Thanks for checking out my page and hopefully i help you in the future :]

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---HiChick :]

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My boyfriend and I had sex with our clothes on (both wearing jeans) in the missionary position (penis directly in line with vagina). we both came... but could i be pregnant?.. could the semen got through the jeans into my vagina? It was at such force..really hard.. we done this loads of times.. but now that my period is due now and i'm having no syptoms that i'm really worried! and can't calm down. my jeans are kinda thin material.. this was our alternative to sex and now i don't know if its that realible cos they would of been strecthing to to them being skinnyc fit.. this question is not a joke i cam genuinely concerned just encase i culd be.. i'm really young.. please help me

nope it has to be direct contact-sperm dies without a minute or so of hitting the air :]

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can you get your period sooner

nope it comes when it comes-sorry!

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13/f

I am a very high-performing student. I have never in my entire life gotten below an 86 on report cards, and have an IQ of 143, which I think is pretty good for my age.

I always used to sit in class and be bored as the teacher rambled on for days on things I could not grasp why others did not understand. There were a bunch of helping classes for low-performing students, but never any AP classes. I mean it's only middle school, but you know, it's four years in the same school.

Just this year (8th grade) they installed an AP Algebra class, but I am terribly bored in other subjects, especially English, which is basically full of idiots.

My question is, why did no one ever install advanced classes, but always gave tons of funding to help classes to kids who aren't going to amount to much anyway? I feel held back and kind of betrayed. Can someone explain it to me? I'm not too informed on the No Child Left Behind Act, but someone told me that's why we never got to get ahead. Now I'm learning stuff that's a year ahead of regular classes for Math, but what about other classes? I get really upset about this.

Thanks.

first off im sorry but i got to say it you are sooo wrong about those kids needing help and its incredibly rude and shallow to say they wont amount to anything. how do you know they arent having other problems in there life and dealing with things you cant even guess and therefore are struggling? and if God blessed you with brans then use them to help those not given smarts! thats what gifts are for ya know.

anyway pple see it as more important to help those struggling than to help those advanced because its better to help those not understanding so hopefully they can catch up and such. if there isnt much money or its a small school its completely understandable. they are limited on money and such. i totally get what your sayng tho because i am in advanced classes at my high school so ya. go to your principal and explain how you would appreciate it and benefit frm having advanced classes being taught because you arent getting anything from these easy classes.

and make sure you dont get full of yourself cause girl you will get a rude awakening and plus smarts arent everything you know. and pple make lots of money and are very successful at things like sports, art, music, etc.

hope i helped
~HiChick~

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Heyy

I was just wondering what lads get out of fingering a girl, like why do they want to do it?

thankyou xx

if the girl is happy she will make the boy happy, get it? a relationship is all about making each other happy. plus girls tend to hold the power when it comes to kissing, touching, and sexual stuff because boys are all for it but girls sometimes dont want to and stuff and we are the key to guys sexual happiness. thus if the guy makes the girl happy she will make him very happy hehe hope i helped :]

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Like I always wondred what goes on in the girls locker room...like i know the guys like are in their boxers and no shirt...but are the girls like freaken in their thongs and training bras?....like i know us guys like wanna be in there when they are getting changed and stuff...but what really happens in "THE GIRLS LOCKER ROOM" (with a voiceover announcer)

basically the girls wear bras and normal underwear(ya no thongs) and we change in front of each other cause we are all friends but thats it. we talk about how fat we are and stuff lol not really well a little but basically we talk about other girls and hott guys and whos dating who, i mean it is girls in there underwear but we are just changing not doing anything sexy and just put on makeup and perfume and stuff. its fun but its just like a social thing. we talk about clothes and compliment each other too hope i helped :]

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2 guys were talking to one of my girl - friends and they were talking about me and they both said "She has a nice ass! It's small, but it's nice!" and that doesent really make any sense to me...is that the same thing as "tight"?

they mean ur butt is small (like you dont have a lot of fat hangin off your backside haha) but it also is nice and isnt too small and possibly is a bit muscular it depends on what they like in a girls butt haha. but no tight is something havin to do with a girls vagina. hope i helped :]
~HiChick~

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Hii :]]

My boyfriend's birthday party is on the 26th and he's 15 and I'm 13/f and we've been going out for 5 months off and on . I was hoping to spend about $20 - $30 [ family is a bit tight at the moment ] ... So , he's into baseball , football , computers and his friends.

I was kinda thinking about making him a scrapbook , of like all the good times.What do you think of that ?
Please give me like 300000000 suggestions if you have them ! I'll love you forever !

scrapbooks r really sweet and im sure he'll love it! my friend got a scrapbook from his gf of 8 months and really liked it. you don't nessecarily have to buy him something making him something is just as good. i wrote my bf a couple pages and the lyrics to 'our' song for Christmas good luck! ;) or also maybe a stuffed animal in like a little shirt of his fav team

HiChick

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About 1 yr ago, I used proactiv, and it has helped me so much, and I stopped using it, cause after I put it on, my face would be red, and it'd be chapped.

and when I put make-up on it looked so bad. Should I still use proactiv or not? I'm breaking out again, and I hate it! I use to wash my face with other soap, and use other medicines, and I think I wasn't suppose to do that. Like if I had a pimple, I used some acnefree wash stuff.

Clearsil or anything never worked, only Proactiv.
What do I do?

try Clean and Clear. the smae thing happened to me with Proactive but i think thats cause i used it worng-now its ok and i use it sumtimes but not regularly or often because it still kinda makes my skin red and dry. so i use sumthing else-i dont use clean and clear but im going to and i've heard great stuff about it! :) hope i helped and merry Christmas!!!

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14/f.
Lastnight me and this guy G were going to go to the movies, he said he would call me. So he never did but i went anyways with my friends, after my movie was over we went outside and i saw him there with some other chick. I looked at him so coldly, then he tried to play everything off like it was cool. His friend was there too, which i also was talking too, but i didn't know they were friends. So I went in the movie with them and then I told G something which had happened that morning involving him, so I sat down on the other side of him since the girl he was with sat where I was. He told me "you can sit down if you want to". At that point i was so pissed that I just left, and he called me this morning. I was asleep but idk if I should call back or what. Any advice on what I should do?

i would call him too and i wouldnt be that mad because you guys arent dating right? well ok i would be mad but it could be a good friend of his or a cousin or maybe for some reason he had to go or didn even like the girl. you never know but give him a chance and dont act really pissed off when you call him. you can if he sayd oh ya that's my gf or sumthing but be calm in the begginning. and idk just give him a little slack maybe he forgot to call or didnt have time or sumthing. just ask.
Hope i helped :]
HiChick

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I know this might be kind of weird ,believe it or not ,im an 18 year old virgin but the thing is that there are a lot of girls who keepin tellin that im cute ,i have dated numerous times before but i just never got to that stage ,do i have a problem guys

no way! i think its great that you havent had sex and is in no way weird!!!!! girls are more attracted to that anyways! wait for the right woman and make her the one you lose your virginity to! im waiting until im married! and i expect whomever i end up marrying to have to as well. if you wait for the right girl then it will happen and will def. be worth it! :)

HiChick

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My girlfriend keeps tellin me that she cant have sex with me because she is on her periods ,is she right or is it just a trick girls use as an excuse not to have sex

you can, but first she is probablly embarassed about it cause she will get blood all over you and is afraid you will be grossed out and she might be in pain too. Hello! be more sensitive she probably has cramps or back pain or whatever and it sounds like your a little forcefull about sex if you are saying 'trick girls use as an excuse not to have sex' is she wants to have sex she wont. she should just say that. you should be a considerate bf and respect her and only have sex if she wants to and not preassure her. hope i helped

HiChick

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okaaay so heres the story, me and my bf had reggg sex, then anal, then reg sex again in the same daaaay. welll he wore a condom and he sai dhe checked it and it didnt breaaak, but when we were having anal i felt really light headed and dizzzzzy after he stuck it in. then the following weeek my stomache was acting up so i got really sacared and took to pregnancy tests and both came out negaaative..but its been two weeks now and my stomache is really like feels like its pushed out or i get sharp pains in itttt and right under my breast bone? i dont get my period im irregualr ive only gotten it twice in my lifeee and the last time i did was last summmer..i dont get morning sicknesss or anything like that. am i paranoid or could i be pregant? im going to the doctor on monday..do you they do prenancy testing? sorry this is soo lengthy..14/f

ok first to all you dumb teen girls out there that have sex with your bf's YOU CANNOT HAVE SIDE EFFECTS OF PREGNANCY FOR AT LEAST A WEEK+ since you are all so unaware i have to ask myself wth are you having sex!?!? Do you honestly think the baby is already big enough for you to feel it? come on! its like a centimeter at the most!!!!!! you have to pay for a pregnency test so i suggest not taking one if your mom doesnt knw you are sexually active cause it shows up on the insurance papers and she will know. Now you could be pregnant but its impossible for you to have side effects in a couple days and just stupid to think you could in a couple hours!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope i helped and yes your paraniod(but could be pregnant) and why are you having sex if you arent married, are 14, and are afraid of having a baby?!

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I like this guy at my school, I'm 13 in 8th grade. I have 3 classes out of 6 with him. He is really funny and talks to me. He sits behind me in math. He asks me for homework help and stuff like that. I'm not one of the 'popular' girls and he is popular. I don't know if he would ever go out with me if anything like that comes in. But we do have some stuff in common. Also I've never had a boyfriend before either. So any advice that you think would help?

One great thing is guys really dont care if you are 'popular' or not! just make an effort to talk to him and flash him a smile so he picks up on your flirting and that you like him. Maybe let him catch you looking at him a couple times, you know that stuff. Try and make connections and one day ask for his IM. hope everything works out great! inbox me if you have more questions :]

HiChick

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i dont know why but when ever i make speghetti they never meet my expectation does that make me crazy because i obsess over my food

Just boil the water, then put the spaghetti in and check it after 5 or so minutes on medium heat. then check every 3 minutes or so and make sure they arent hard or crunchy but be very careful they dont get soggy. you can probably wait a little longer than i suggested but if you want to make sure your spaghetti is good than watch it carefully! if u have more questions im always here! :) good luck with the spaghetti and i hope u enjoy it! :D

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me and my boyfriend had sex last weekend.
so it went like it normally do. but when he had it in, it felt like he ''cumed'' so i kept saying take it out take it out i think you cumed and he was like no keep it in, it feels good, but i was like YOU CUMED and he said no i didnt i would know now lets keep going. now i was trusting him. so i kept going believeing him. so 10 minutes later he took it out but it was halfway in and felt like he really did cumed. so i was like i think you cumed and he said baby i didnt and he starting kissing on me, and he kept going down like he was trying to eat me out. so i left his head back up and we started tongue kissing again, my perious was suppose to come this week, but it didnt, and my tummy has been a little puffy from usual, what do i do?
should i break up with him? we been together for 2 years. && both madly in love, but then again i always had iiregular period, should i be worried?
oh if it helps 13/f, im in 8th grade
i wear a 34 b, && my body is pretty mature, && im 5'7 or 5'8,

omg you cant get pregnant that fast! you are so ignorant! (bet you dont know what that word means!) anyways get a test tell your boyfriend you arent having sex anymore cause you dont wanna be the middle school slut that got pregnant. if he freaks dump him. honey, you are only 13! and im not much older than you and i think sex is disgusting! arent you scared about having a baby? can you imagine holding a little baby? walking around having everyone stare at you because you are a pregnant GIRL?! girls at my school have gotten pregnant and everyone talks about them and is disgusted with them. its not to late to stop and fix things even if you are pregnant. but its impossible for you to have a puffy tummy right now. showing u are CLUELESS which isnt really a bad thing. but it takes a while before the baby even starts forming. and if you get an abortion you ARE killing a sweet little baby girl or boy. Think about it and if you really want to put yourself in this position and always be scared like this. imagine telling your friends or family. your teachers staring at you and people at random stores just staring at you. its not something you can hide. and they would all know you had sex with sum boy. please hun, think about it and make the right descicion. i pray you arent pregnant because everyone deserves a 2nd chance and you or the baby could get terribly sick with you being so young. my friends have had sex and had pregnancy scares and its the worst thing ever. knowing what you might have gotten yourself and your baby into. they have turned around and you can to. if you need more help or advice feel free to inbox me. Good luck and may God be with you

~*~HiChick~*~

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This is for either girls or guys.

What are your standards for someone you would date?

Sometimes I think my standards are a little too high, so I was just wondering about other people's. Looks; type of personality; color hair; height; style; family; beliefs etc. Not really your ideal person, but rather (Put bluntly) what MUST they have or be?

Thanks

I personally think you should pretty high expectations because dating is all about finding the person you want to spend the rest of you life with (when your young that almost seems funny! but its def. true btw im only 14 myself ;] )

My standards are:
-don't really care about looks as long as he is not really ugly!
-must have self-confidence!!!
-has to treat me with respect and abide my what i say is ok and what i say isnt-there is NO even trying to persuade me-im worth the wait ;]
-must be a strong Christian and have a good relationship with God so he understands and agree with what i think is right and wrong and can help and support me with a Christian standpoint
-We have to be good friends first because i have tried staright into relationships and that NEVER worked well
-Must be kind and have a good sense of humor
-He has to really understand me and that is difficult for sum people but the special few that can are my amazing friends ;]
- i will not limit myself to what they look like but they shouldnt be shorter than me im only 5'3!
-and he just has to trust me and love me for who i am and we have to make sure to have a great friendship underneath the relationshop and remember that we are still living for God only now we are doing it together

things like that and i actually think i have found that boy! i know it's pretty religous but thats who i am-hope i helped!!! ;]

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What makes you believe in a higher power that plans your fate over random incidents?

i'm doing an essay in which i have to defend my beliefs (its not even a religous school) and i need one more idea

pretty much what im asking is;;
what is evidence to you that there is a god?


i'm sorry if you don't belive in god, adn di dont mean to affend anyone..but i dont want rude answers about it. if you don't believe, don't respond


thankyou so much!

Ok well first actually i go to a christian private school and the other day in Bible we were talking about society and how everyone tries not to affend other people in stead of standing for what you believe in. I feel strong enough and passionate enought to not care at all what people say about me so you know what-all you people who aren't religous im just sorry you aren't in some cases i HOPE i affend you because i DISAGREE with your thoughts. don't worry about hurting people's feelings because if they get affended then they are not comfortable with themselves and self-confident. those people would tell you what they thought not whine about being affended.

ANYWAYS (sry bout that lol) I believe in God because it seems so well let me say EASY first off. There are so many different historical things and proof that backs this up coming from people who arent religious at all. The LEADING ATHEIST has now said he believes there is a God. Because he spent so much time researching it and discovered that there really is a God. There are TONS of different things to prove it but i wont bore you with details.

I dont really believe it because of that tho but because of all the things going on in our World and how bad things are sometimes. God has proved himself to me NUMEROUS times. It astounds me everytime but if I really sincerely pray for sumthing i really need and believe in Him that he will help me and bestoy what i need upon me (more so oppurtunities then actual things ex.: if you pray to start making more, better friends God will give you oppurtunities and bring people into your life and he will have already given you what you need to go and make those friends. You just have to push yourself a bit and meet God halfway and then start talking to those people who become the new friends you prayed for) Sometimes I can just feel his presence and it is SO amazing i wish so much that everyone could have a gret relationship with our Lord and Savior.

The more i praise God and trust him and do what is right the better I feel happier and healthier and like even when life is really hard (which it has been a lot lately) i feel like it's going to be ok and by surrounding myself with close friends who area ll strong Christian I also have amazing support and love come from them as well as the Lord.

You supposed to share ♥ God's love ♥ with EVERYONE and even if it is hard it's the thing to do! :) If you have ANY more questions feel absolutely free to inbox me! :]

~*~HiChick~*~

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why do girls shake thier legs while siting in chairs?

I asked my mom about this a while ago because I HAVE to be moving in some way or i go crazy. drives my mom mad at church but ANYWAY lol yeah its just a habit your nerves have adopted or a nervous habit (basically same thing) I have watched people (like i have anything better to do in class!) and many people do it, girls and boys alike. Kind of a weird question but i wondered too before :) please rate!

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i've been friends with benefits with this guy (my best friend) for 2 years! well on and off. there were some actual relationships with other people scattered through the years. anyway...we have never kissed!! not even a little peck! I always found it weird that we haven't....considering we've done almost everything else with each other. he's said that he wants to kiss me and i've told him that i did too and we've had sooo many oportunities but neither of us just went for it.


help us please

how are u friends w/benefits and yet you never kissed him? im sorry but thats pretty weird.....anyway ya just go for it! kiss him it will be hott and sexy like the other chica said. and didnt that make um whatever else you did kind of weird. i cant imagine doing other stuff and NOT kissing. anyways best of luck and message me if you have any other questions. hope he loves it! ;) and why dont u giys try a relationship?????

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okay my boyfriend we've known each other for 3 months asked me out in november 15 and we didnt really talk to each other that much and then we didnt talk for the whole week because of the day off in school and today we got back we talked and and today we kissed (just a peck) 2 times are we going too fast?

It depends on what you think. If you think you are dont be afraid to speak up and tell your bf this. I had to do it with one of my bf's. I think it's perfectly fine if you guys' truly like each other. But if it makes you uncomfortable or you are worried or dont like it tell him. hope all goes well ;) if u have more questions send me a message and please rate!

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