I'm Dominic Mayfield. I'm 6'1, green eyes, black hair. Around 200 lbs, thin but got meat on my bones. I've been through many situations in my life, which is why I can understand most other situations. Ask away and I'll help as best as I can.
E-mail: dmayfield87@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: MD
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Age: 23
Member Since: August 14, 2004
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I am 13 years old, and I'm going to a new school. I really wanna be happy, because the last school I went to, people made fun of me and teased me because they knew I was sensitive. How do I make a good impression? What if someone teases me? How do I handle it? Btw, my school starts in a week! (link)
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Well what i would do is not show off in your new school unless you have to of course:P lol well if someone teases ya just stay away from the person who knows you might get a lot of friends and also some people like a sensitive person sometimes so dont be ashamed of that if you are. And of how you make a good impression just be who you are sometimes that impresses people when you dont act all macho and everything. Well i hope i helped.
~Dom
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Okay,my friends bf told my friend that he made a "uh oh".And he went to his ex-girlfriends house last night and they had sex and like he said that he made her pregnant.And my friend is really pissed cuz he cheated on her and she is also not really believeign that he made her preg. Cuz like how long does it take to know if you got someone pregnant?Well thx for the advice.BYE (link)
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Well some of the new tests that let you know within 3 days and such but also if the girl misses her period after sex shes probably pregnant. Hoped i helped.
~Dom
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I've liked the same guy for 2 years. We are friends and all, but I know he'll never like me...But now I have two questions. My best friend EVER likes him now, and she always gets the guys she wants. I'm so mad!! What should I do about her? Also, how do I get over him and move on to another guy that might actually like me? I really need help so I'll have a good school year without losing a friend or being obsessed with a guy that'll never like me!!? (link)
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Well i would make sure if whether or not if the other guy actually likes you for one thing and if he does consider it if you like him. And do you tell your friend about all the guys you like? It may be that your friend doesnt want you to be with a guy and takes them away or wants all the guys you want cause its an easy pick im not sure exactly but i would just sit down and think of what to do with her and also consider your feelings with the other guy if you like him. Its not much but i hoped i helped.
~Dom
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im in 8th grade and ive never had a boyfriend or been kissed. im really pretty (every1 sez so atleast) and idk whats wrong with me! im always smiling and happy and im really funny and goofy..whats wrong with this picture? (link)
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Well actually it kinda sounds like me. But i had several girlfriends, its just i never kissed anyone or done stuff like that. some say im not bad looking and im happy and funny and goofy but i found out what was wrong with me i was kinda afraid of the change afraid of my first kiss and such grr im 17 and still havent kissed a girl:P lol but maybe thats what it is maybe your afraid of change i have no idea but when you find the right person, i believe that will change:) I hope i helped.
~Dom
p.s. dont ever be afraid to change a lil it maybe a good thing
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I just got hives(itchy big bumps on your skin) and its from an allergic reaction. I've been taking a pill everyday so everyone thinks its from that. Does anyone know anything that can help them go away? (link)
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yes i believe its the pill it depends on what it is can you tell me what the pill is? and if im thinking its the pill you need to stop taking it. hoped i helped.
~Dom
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ok hi my name is Anik I was talking to my boyfriends friend and well he was getting all jealous about us and now he broke me and my boyfriend up cuz he kept saying I was his girl friend and told my boyfriend I was breaking up with him which is a big lie and well I want him back but I don't know what I can do cuz his friend Nathan is always there blowing kisses my way and stuff...help me plz
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Well what you should do is round up some girl power to get on your side :P lol ehh what you need to do is talk to your boyfriend alone while his friend is away at any point and tell him the truth about what happened. If you stay scared of his friend then really get some girl power on your side (H) but other than that you need to show your true feelings for your boyfriend before its too late. Then afterwords you can either yell at his friend or watch your boyfriend yell at him:P. Hoped i helped.
~Dom
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I've been friends with this girl heather for about a year or so now...she's a good friend, dont get me wrong, but all summer she has been ditching me and my other friends for her family..i know she's busy with diving and everything but whenever we ask her to hang out she usually says sure and then blows us off to go hang out with her family. she was rude to her boyfriend and drug him out to visit her relatives whenever they were supposed to have alone time and it interfered with their relationship and they are now just "friends" I really don't know how to tell her she needs to come out with us instead of the family without hurting her feelings... what should i do? (link)
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Well family is important but friends are very important. If you think about it even family are your friends. What you need to do is tell her that you need to talk and also get all of your friends that are also friends of hers and get together and talk this whole thing out. Cause everyone in life needs friends...and if she doesnt figure that out her life could crumble cause she could figure out that she has no more friends. I would talk it out with her and her friends at the same time basically have the conversation with you and her first and then have people come in at different times so she can notice the people in her life. Well i hope i helped a lil.
~Dom
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Hi do u have MSN Messanger? if so talk to me , mines jenipher_1989@hotmail.com or just Jenipher
Im a female age:15
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sure :P ill add ya now im male age:17
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you give really good advice and you seem like a really good guy... just thought i'd be nice and let you know... (link)
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well thank you and i try my best to give good advice.
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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex? (link)
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Well my idea is that if anyone starts wondering when the best age is to start having sex should be that year cause if they are wondering then then that is the best time to know that your ready but you have to love someone and have to be 100% sure that you love him/her and also that they are ready too and also consider what will happen if you do have sex if your friendship will break if it will go on to a higher level that kind of thing hoped my advice helped
~Dom
p.s. there is no actual age to consider of having sex like everyone says you just know and you got to be ready for it
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ok my friends going to court to see if her dad will get custody of her....she leaving in like 10 mion so i NEED help SOON.....whats it going to be like? will she have to talk? how should she dress???? HELP (link)
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Well i went through the same thing and i didnt have to talk alls you have to do is dress casually and dont have to dress fancy basically a good shirt and a good pair of pants nothing really fancy or bad looking i guess and also im not sure if she will have to talk or anything but if she does just let her speak what she has to just the judge or the lawyer will ask questions is all for that i have went through the same thing hoped my advice works for ya
~Dom
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okay so there is this boy james we went out last year but i broke up with him b/c i didn't want a bf over the summer. well after i dumped him i relized how much i needed him he is always soo fun to b around and cute and funny and play-ful.
well my friend is gonna have a party and she invited 3 gurls and their bfs her bf and me..but im single so she asked if i wanted any particular boy to come so i said james. well i knoe their all gonna b makeing-out with all of their boyfriends and me and james....prolly just talkin about our relationship...how can i brake the ice nd just lay a kiss on him with out it being too....akward?
please help asap! (link)
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well what i would do is that if hes like me i would probably recommend just leaning up against him like on a couch or just stand besides him and talk a lil and tell him that you want to be together again and first kiss him on his cheek near his lips if im thinking of what he will do he will either kiss you first on the lips while your trying to kiss his cheek or he will either let you kiss him on the cheek and then kiss you back on the lips so im not sure what he will do but im just thinking that might work hope my advice works
~Dom
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i plan on having this hardcore party at my new house when its done being built. all the people im friends with are into really hardcore music and skateboarding and having fun. but i want the party to be really awesome, not just sitting around the whole time talking. i know i should have music and food, but what else can i do to make it really fun? if the party gets boring, everyones gonna wanna start drinking or smoking and thats not good. all of the "spin the bottle" games are getting old. and i dont want everyone at school talking about my party if its lame... (link)
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Well get some movies and somethings that your friends like to do like skateboarding if your rich get some skateboards that are top and go around town after the party or if your not rich just get some movies good food good games best kind of music and just have an all out party and if the spin the bottle games are kinda getting old get some "truth or dare" games:P which are a lot funner lol ehh which ever you decide its your party but its my advice hope it helped
~Dom
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Well, I like this boy, say his name is Bob. But he has a girlfriend, named let's say Lori. Now Lori is one of my good friends, and Bob is like, my best male friend, but I really really like him. And he flirts with me a lot like online, and in person when Lori isn't there. Now I don't want to ruin their relationship, but they never see eachother and stuff, I so know eventaully, they'll break up. Should I just wait for them to break up, because I know he likes me, and he knows I like him, or what. I am s0o Confused. (link)
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I think you should wait cause they might just had a fight or something like that you dont know about and they are just having time off between each other if you go up to bob right now and ask and such it could ruin what you have or it might even make it better than what you have it all depends you just got to wait i guess and if he breaks up with her then go around him much more and talk to him a lot and maybe you'll go with him and be happy hope my advice works:)
~Dom
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hey okay well i have been going out with my boyfriend for only about a month...well he has only been my like 3rd realy relationship and the only guy outta them 3 that i really really like. in my past ive always been known not to be the girlfriend type just someone to hook up with or do whatever with because everytime i see someone i like or they like me i just wanna hook up with them or do anything else. Im really scared that im gonna cheat on him and i don't want to because im actually starting to fall in love with him! what should i do? (link)
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well if you really do love him and your actually falling in love with him just think next time if your about to cheat that you love him and you dont want to cheat and when you think of that just call your boyfriend and talk or go over to his house or something cause if he loves you and you love him then nothing can be more better than that i would suggest thinking about it more :)
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can you get an orgasm from a guy fingering you? or just sex? (link)
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yes if you do it long enough you can
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ima 14/f, this guy *Nathan i liked smokes weed.. he didnt really notice me, so i started smokin weed with all the people he hung around with. Now, im kinda like addicted to weed. I got Nathan, and im in love with him... but he wants to have sex, im scared that if i dont he'll break up with me. but i can't tell my dad any of this, so he can help me cuz he would like flip out on me. what should i doo, please im really scared, and i really wanna stop smokin and go back to the old me, but than nathan wont like me!! just please someone help me!!
signed, scared n wants to stop! (link)
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Well the first thing is to stop smoking and if you really love this Nathan of yours, would you want to be with him forever? If you do you can always stop and try to get him to stop along with you you can persuade him that there is a better life out there other than smoking weed your whole life, instead of just stop smoking and just get away from him you can stop smoking and try to get him to stop too. That way since you love him you can also try to change what he is to something better to where you both can live on in happiness. If he doesnt want to quit then just tell him that you've stopped and see what he says. If he says ok then your good and dont have to smoke weed anymore. But if he says that he wants to get away from you and just doesnt care about you then you will know that he doesnt truely love you and it will make it easier on you and not break up your heart as bad since you will know sooner than later. For the sex part i dont know if your truely ready for it then go ahead but you got to consider the protection and also if you really do love him and if you really do want to have sex with him. If you think hes with you cause he just wants to have sex then i wouldnt consider it. I think what i would do is say no and that you need time and see what he says. I think that your own judgement will come when he answers. He answers no ditch him cause he just wants you for sex he says ok in a good manor and all good stuff then maybe hes good and maybe he does love ya. Well i hope i helped
~Dom
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okay, so im taking my school picture in two days and i was wondering how i should look i guess, quick description of me: really tan skin, medium dark brown hair (long and straight), not skinny or fat, big hazel eyes, straight smile i guess, im really lost on what i should wear and how i should do my hair if anyone could please help me quick it would be greatly appreciated thanks (by the way im a freshman) i rate! -Nicole (link)
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Well it depends on your personallity some people look good in different fasions. What i would do is have yourself some options heres my first option first is get all the clothes you like and get someone else to examen you like two or three people and ask them for an opinion or what you would do is get a big mirror and just try out clothes and see whats right for ya go with your instincts and just decide which is best for ya, i do that and my instincts havent proved me wrong yet :P
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