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alright so i take back the fact that im done with this advice column. but im just letting everyone one here know that i do have a life, and advicenators is not it. however, im here to help. i just wont be on every single day.

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Hey. A couple of days before Christmas I was in the hospital with heart and back pain. I recieved many heart tests indicating that I was okay. I have heard that it may be heart burn but I wanted to know if anyone knew if these sypmtoms lead up to that. Heart and back pain and then whether it be from that or fear dizziness and short of breath. Everyone has convinced me I'm ok but I'm really nervous and would like to be sure. Answer quick please
also if it is heartburn, i was perscribed omiprizol and does that help?
thank you so so so much to anyone who takes the time to answer this

hey, well if the hospital told you that your were okay then im pretty sure your okay. usually hospitals arent wrong about that kind of stuff. take the medicine that they gave you. if you still dont feel safe and sure that your okay then ask your parents to take you back to the hospital or even just to your doctor to check you out.

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Ok so for Christmas I got a new Vivitar Video Camera. And I was all, "YAY IT'S GOING TO WORK GREAT!" you know. But I had it on for like an hour and a half fiddling with it. And I had just put new batteries in and it had already died. o_0 I'm like, "...This better not be....what??" So I put new batteries in and sure enough, an hour and a half later it was dead. I do not have enough batteries to do this every hour and a half and I use it a lot. So one day I was uploading pictures onto the computer and the battery signal went up one bar. So my face lit up thinking it was a charger.

So the thing is, it doesn't work very well if it IS a charger. Because I went to bed last night with it still hooked up to the computer and when I got up this morning and looked at it, it had one bar..and then it went to no bars. It seems to charge more when I have it on while hooked up to the comp. But it doesn't last long. Right now it's dead.

So, my question to you is, how do I make it charge?? It didn't come with a charger or anything. Just with a hookup thing to the computer and the TV. The instructions don't say anything about charging it...so would you guys possibly know? Thanks a ton.

Here is the exact camera I ordered..and now have.

http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=5238363#What%27s+Included

Yes, I understand that it is a 99 dollar camera. xD Should have stepped up a bit.

hey, well thats not normal at all. i think its a defective camera. you should take it back to walmart and ask them for help. explain to them what the problem is. maybe they will give you a new camera.

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I really don't even know where to begin. My boyfriend found out two months ago that he was potentially the father of a two year old girl. He took the DNA test and he is the father. We have been together since a couple of months after the child was conceived. I have a 6 year old and we have a ten month old together.

The mother of the little girl was arrested for drug use and the child was put in temporary custody of the grandmother.
My boyfriend wasn't even in a relationship with this girl, it was just a very stupid mistake he made. Now they are trying to get him for back child support, as well as current support and medical bills since she got assistance from the state. Our children currently get medical coverage from the state so I don't see why he should be responsible for this other kids medical bills.

He has wanted to give up his rights to the child since we first found out about it. At first I tried to get him to do the right thing and try and get custody, but the more I think about it the more angry I get. I feel betrayed and hurt about this and it has me very depressed. I am trying to be strong for my children but I don't know what we should do. I love my boyfriend very much but I don't know if I can deal with him having a child with someone else. Just the thought of it makes me want to strangle him. If he had known about this child before I entered into a relationship with him I probably wouldn't ever been with him.

I sometimes think it would be best for him to try for custody for the sake of the child, but at the same time I feel I would have a strong hatred for her. Besides the emotional issues I'm not sure we could financially. I'm so tired of feeling like I am being torn apart inside. I just don't know what to do.

I'm really not a bad person, but I just can't figure out if I should stay with him or just leave. If I stay I don't know what we should do about this whole mess. Should I let him try and sign over his rights to her and just forget about it? He wants our lives the way they were before we found out any of this. I do too, but should we try and get custody of her even though it could ruin our relationship?

I really need some advice first of all to help myself feel better and not be so angry at him and the child(even though I know it isn't her fault, I feel like it is because she was born) Then I need advice about what we should do as a family. I would really appreciate some unbiased advice. Thanks

hey, well i would sit down with your boyfriend and have a long talk with him. like you said before it was a mistake he made in his life. try to think about that when your talking to him. if i were you guys i would take the child in. since she is only two, shes young enough to let you be the mother figure in her life. also since shes only two, thats young enough to let your kids get used to having her around. if you didnt want to take her in, i would at least make sure that she has visitations with her father. all kids deserve to see and know their real blood parents, unless they have issues with drugs like her mother does. i hope all goes well for you and your boyfriend.

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Ok i've posted many questions concidering this guy i'm totally in love w/ who's home from college. Well last year when he was a senior (i- a freshman) we talked ALOT and hung out quite often and that's how i fell for him. Well one day his friends told my friends that he had a "thing" for me.. what is a "thing"? and if he had a "thing" then why doesn't he like me openely? I mean the whole letter i wrote to him and he didn't write i like or even kinda like you back so.. what gives?

hey, well a thing means a liking for you. soemtimes guys are shy. they wont tell you that they like you openly if there shy. you could try asking him if you want a direct answer.

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how do i save pictures on a mac? like from google or something...... like an image??? thanku =)

hey, i think your talking about saving images to your comptuer? if so then just right click the image. then click save as. then name the image. then its saved =].

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ok well what happens if my friend humped someone and made out with someone and got naked with someone and they were both girls. she said she was not a lesbian but she said that it felt good and she said she wanted to do it alot more only with another girl. what if she wanted to do it with me

hey, well maybe she justs bi and not a lesbian. if she ever ask you to do it just tell her your not interested and that your not like that. its also normal for girls wanting to experience the feeling and the rush of doing things with girls.

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okay i want to make up a quote, something like "you're more out of style than nsync" (but i don't think that sounds good) i want it to be kind of a comeback and i want it do say "nsync".

any ideas that are funny and short?

hey, well i really cant think of any good comebacks that have to do with the word nsync. i think what you have is perfectly fine. if you want to use comebacks that dont have that word, try this link.

http://www.jokesnjokes.net/funny.jokes.amusing.humor.laughs/obnox.htm

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Is it normal for a 12.5 year old in 7th grade that is 5'0 to weigh 104 pounds? P.S. This is not about me, this is actually about my sister because I'm concerned about her. She might not seem overweight, but she looks kind of chubby in the stomach area and such. If so, what are some excercises to lose this babyfat? Thanks!

hey, a 5`0 person should weigh 100. just tell her to drop 4 pounds and tone herself up. do situps.

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okay so my boyfriend and i are thinking of different places to hookup(making out and stuff not sex).. yeah it may sound corny but i think it'll be cool.. so does anyone have any ideas?? thanks! xox

hey, MOONBOUNCE!

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I'm 14/f and I'm usually very "in-style" and girly-- not sporty. I easily get cold. I am also outside a lot, but i absolutely hate hoodies and North Faces unless im just at school or something. Does anyone know a winter coat that looks lightweight, very warm, and not sporty at all? I prefer under $50 but I will go up to $75 if it's excellent quality.

hey, i think hollister is the best way to go.

http://www.hollisterco.com

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I just got a Steelers jersey for Christmas. Unfortunately their last game is on this Sunday coming. I can still wear the jersey right? Like to school and stuff even though their season is over? I know a lot of you will say, "who cares what you wear?" But, I just want to make sure that other people are doing it too. Because, Steelers aren't that big where I live.

Thanks! =]

hey, if you like the steelers then wear the jersey! who cares what everyone thinks. i mean the steelers will have another season and there still a team even if there season is over.

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ive been taking a shower once a day washing my face 2wice a day and all that happens is i brake out more and im getting sick of it and i baught face wash and im starting to use proactive but ive been washing my face for a year and its still not working what should i do

hey, just like everyone said your washing your face to much. give your face a break. i found that proactive made my pimples worse. it made me breakout even more. using clearasil worked so much better for me. its cheaper and you can get it at like walmart. just use that when you get up in the morning and before you go to bed at night. get one of there face wash products and also there clearsil cleaning pads.

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what can i get to remove scratches from my glasses??

hey, i dont know how well this works. you could give it a try.

https://www.asseenontvnetwork.com/vdresultsmarketing/lensdoctor/198949/

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do the short uggs come in chocolate?

hey, i went to some sites and did some reasearch for you. the classic short uggs didnt come in chocolate. they only came in sand, black, or chesnut. but i did find the chocolate ones in other styles.

http://www.uggaustralia.com/ProductDetails.aspx?gID=w&categoryID=283&productID=5225&model=Ultra+Short

http://www.uggaustralia.com/ProductDetails.aspx?gID=w&categoryID=283&productID=5833&model=Classic+Crochet

http://www.uggaustralia.com/ProductDetails.aspx?gID=w&categoryID=283&productID=5854&model=Classic+Mini

http://www.uggaustralia.com/ProductDetails.aspx?gID=w&categoryID=283&productID=5245&model=Ultra+Tall

all those styles were from :

http://www.uggaustralia.com






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okay, i'm not sure i'm spelling this right. but i have two cladder(?) rings. like the irish jewelry. with the heart, and the hands and the crown. well i have two. what exactly do they mean? i know its suppose to like signify that you're taken or single but what else? because for christmas my boyfriend bought me a necklace with a charm of the cladder(?) thing on it because he knows i always wear the rings.

hey, its spelled claddagh ring. just so you know for next time. heres a link that i think will be helpful.

http://www.claddagh.kaijewels.com/claddagh-history.htm

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I got an iPod nano.. I added a whole bunch of songs but now i want to add more. If I add more will it delete any current songs on it and in the future can i delete every song on there? thanksss.

hey, your songs wont get deleted if you add more song. also you can delete all of your songs if you want.

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On the side of me, on the right side, down between my hip and where my belly button it, on the far right i have a extremly sharp pain. What is this? Nothing else hurts, Just this!! Help!

hey, go see a doctor asap. that happend to me 8 years ago in the same place and the doctors said it was my appendix.

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Is it okay that I discharge between periods? Right before my period it gets pretty heavy, other then that its just .. like a normal flow of discharge until the next period. Is this okay?

hey, yes thats the normal thing that will happen.

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okay soo i'm 16f, and me & my boyfriend have been going out for 7 monthss.. we've been going to his trailer to makeout & stuff (never had sex) but is there anything you could think of to make it more interesting and funn? any games or things like that? thanksss xox!

hey, well there are many different acts of sexual things without having sex that im sure you know about. theres really nothing else to do, unless you want to have sex.

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hey i was just there visting the college of MSU in Minnesota and i was just wondering if anyone on here goes there.. and if you do i was wondering if you could tell me how you like it or what is your favorite things to do there? thanks to anyone that answers!

hey, well i dont go there myself. but i was thinking that maybe this link could help you.

http://www.mnsu.edu/

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