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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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there is this guy in algebra class, and he's really cute. i think he likes me but i'm not sure. i mean, the other day he asked to borrow a pencil, when i put it in his hand he kinda just put his hand in mine and just kinda held it there for like two minutes. do you think this could mean he likes me or what? should i just ask him out or wait for him to ask me out? i'm so confused!! help me :(

He might have been flirting and if he`s the flirty type of guy he may flirt again. But don`t get obsessive over it because it was only a touch on the hand. Wait over time, and become friends first before anything else happens. ♥

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so .. this might sound stupid but i know its natural it just seems that most guys have there penis's circumsized.. i dont.. does this effect anything at all .. it would be sweet to have a girl around my age to answer this question because iv look this up on the internet so many times and i still dno what to think and i stress about it ALOT thanks :|

15/m

It won`t effect anything. & you can`t help you`re not circumsized. It really depends on the girl if they like it or not. ♥

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hey im a tomboy and some girls are not at my school what do i do i dont want to change?

Don`t change yourself for anyone. & Don`t care what other people think about you. If you got your friends, that`s all you need. If your even willing to change alittle (adding more clothes styles, make-up, and other things that make YOU feel comfortable enough to do) try seeing if a friend could help. ♥

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I just started dating this guy a few days ago and hes already saying "I love you". We havent even been on a date yet! I told him not to say it unless he means it and he said that he does. I feel a little uncomfortable, what should i say to him to show him that its too soon?

Next time he tells you, tell him you think it`s too early and you`re not ready to say it. And that if he really does mean it then he can keep saying it. Be honest with him. ♥

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over the summer....i met a boy. we liked each other and made out the swimming pool, bedroom, basicly all the time. We weren't bf/gf though (i was single)

I go back to his house about to get jumped by a girl who was his girl-friend. Is it my fault for not asking him if he had a gf of his fault for not telling me. i have been so depressed since then....i can't get over him, he seemed so perfect.

It`s his fault! He didn`t even tell you. Don`t blame yourself and feel depressed about it. He`s not worth it. Hope things get better for you. ♥

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16/f
someone once told me that i have a mustache (like upper lip hair) i dont think you cant really notice it in my opinion so here my question, what should i do? should i pluck it or get it waxed or whateverr? how fast will it grow back? will it grown back darker and more noticeable?

thankss for any help

You can go to walmart and buy some facial hair bleacher. It`s call Sally Hansen - extra creme hair bleach for like 5-6 bucks. All you have to do is bleach your upper lip once every week and it won`t make it thicker and won`t be that much of a hassle. Plucking it might take too much time and even if you wax it they will both still grow in thicker. Hope this helps. ♥

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okay, this guy who is my BEST friend is completely in love with me. He asked me out to the school dance and i got pressured in to slowdancing with him. now he is like, obsessed with me. this is ALREADY ruining our friendship, and it'll get even more ruined if i ''break up'' with him. even tho we didnt really go out... [[he just thinks we r...]]

help!

You should reassure him you two aren`t going out and you`re just friends. Tell him you only like him as a friend and only want to be friends. ♥

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My friend's are into druds, alcohol, smoking ,ans sex. I'm just not interested in any of that stuff at all! I think it's just wrong, but my friends say it'll make me look cool, but, i don't think it will. I think it'll make me look stupid. I'm afraid of giving in, what shoul i do?

They`re not your real friends if they pressure you to do the things you don`t want to do. I say tell them to stop and try to make friends that won`t be a bad influence on you. ♥

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ok. well me and this guy have been "together" for about 6 or 7 months now. and like we have seen other people but we always end up coming back to each other because the other people just dont compare...as we say. and he told me he doesnt see himself dating me so i basically have no chance is what is he saying right? but hes always so sweet to me, and we have these nights. on fridays, where we just every friday were together and hang out all day from after school until like curfew and its amazing cause we are like a couple, but then we get to school and hes the total opposite, he'll ignore me and will just sit there and stare at me. i know he knows that i like him alot, and i know he knows that i know that he still likes me, even though hes said that hes liked 2 other girls and were seeing where it was going, but still came back to me. how can i say to him, that even though hes been with two other girls, and just because he doesnt see himself dating me, that we can still give it a try? or what do i say to him to make him realize that i am the girl for him? i dont know what to do with this situation. i love the boy to death, and i cant move on no matter how hard i try, yet.. thats all i want to do. but i still want to date him. im 15/f if that helps..

Just be friends with him now and wait till he`s ready. You can tell him exactly how you feel because sometimes that helps the relationship. There`s not much I can tell you except wait over time. Good luck. ♥

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My bf acts like i'm tickling him with a feather or something right after he cums. I've given him a bunch of HJs and he wiggles away from my hand soon after he cums, saying he "feels funny" and wants me to let go of his ..ummm ..you know what.

Is this normal?

I`m sorry I don`t know. Try asking him why he does that? ♥

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well this guy and i have been broken up for about a year and when we were dating it was like for 2 months and he broke it off with me but he told me he still loved me as a friend but somehow we stopped talking and i started dating other guys but my feelings for him have never changed for him and once school started this year he started talking to me again and everything's been good but i want to be with him sooo badly and im afraid to tell him so one of my good friends recently spoke to him about me and he said that he knew that i liked him..but i still dont understand why he wont talk to me about it and im afraid to talk to him about the way i feel because i dont want to ruin our friendship but im in love with him. what should i do? and im a 16 year old female.

Telling how you feel will make you feel better. It`s better than him not knowing and maybe hurting your feeling if he does something like hooking up with other girls, ect. Try being just friends. Sometimes feelings never really go away but just wait over time maybe you`ll hook back up. Hope things work out. :] ♥

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ok so i like this girl in my class and shes a 7th grader.im in 8th grade.we are friends and talk alot.i wanna ask her to the movies and stuff but i dont wanna scare her off.so im not sure if i should not act on my feelings or like go for it.13/f

Try asking her for her myspace, aim screename or phone number then ask her when you feel ready. ♥

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i really like this guy. hes amazing. lol. all my friends say that they heard that he likes me. hes always flirting with me and i always flirt back. today we hung out so much at our school basketball game that even my ex got mad. does this mean anything? do you think i should ask him out just to see what happens?

Sounds like he likes you. I`d say give it alittle more time and then ask or just wait till he does. ♥

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k so im scared.
me and my boyfriend i think are going to have sex at his house this weekend. idn how to!! help me please. i am a virgin. =p
if it helps im 15/f

If you`re not ready yet, then tell him. And if you feel you are then make sure you use protection and be safe. ♥

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okay, so, here's the deal: this guy that ive known for a while might like me. he used to be my neighbor when i was little, then i moved away and went to another school, but then i started coming to the same school 3 years later, i just dont live by him anymore. well, anyway, so my friends say he likes me, but hes to shy to say it. and i like him a LOT!! he sometimes talks to me, you know, he just says something to make me laugh, or to try to impress me. he always looks at me, and when we're at school watching basketball games with our friends, every time i look at him, hes looking back at me. i think he MIGHT have a crush on me, but i dont know for sure. i just need your opinion on if you think he likes me or not.

Aww sounds like he does! Talk to him more and tell him how you feel. :] ♥

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Well im 14 and i have this ex boyfriend we dated for a year and a half then he dumped me and i took him back and he dumped me again. Now hes begging me for a third chance and i dont know what to do. I have a boyfriend now also and i love him more than anything in the world and i just dont know what to do...i guess because i was with my ex for so long im scared to let go. I feel bad to because i still talk to him and my boyfriend dosent know. How do i let go of my ex? Without hurting him so bad. Hes the "ill kill myself" type and im scared of what he will do. SHould i tell my boy i was talking to him, and how...thanks so much!

Hml

I would tell your ex boyfriend that you have moved on now, and that he does still mean alot to you and you want to be just friends. Tell your current boyfriend that you still talk to him. He should understand because you don`t want to throw a relationship with your ex. Hope things work out. ♥

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ok so theres this guy that i like. i'm 14 and last yr we went on this trip and he was there too. we hung out a lot and you could tell that we both liked each other. i would sleep on his shoulder and talk w/ him when every1 else was sleeping. i finally felt like he understood me. After that trip i didn't rlly talk to him in school. but we had like 5 classes togather. Then there was an after school ski thing and we continued to talk again like the same way. After that we talked a little more but not as much as we use to. Now i'm in 9th grade and we're both in the ski program again. i'm hoping i'll b able to do the same thing but how will i be able to talk to him more outside of the ski program??
^srry its so long :-/

Just start having little conversations with him and try to hint to him about if he has a myspace, screename, or email so you can talk. Sounds like he does have interest in you. Good luck. ♥

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ok so i have these friends.lets call then jan and jen.well when i went to school on monday jan was totally pissed at me and she wouldnt tell anyone why.so later on jen started getting mad at me and i think that jan told jen why shes mad and jen got mad about it too.i wasnt there on the last day of the week so i think maybe jan made all our other friends pissed at me.what should i do?

First try thinking what you might have done to make her upset and mad. Then call her and ask if she mad at you and what you did wrong. Then try to handle the situation from there. If she continues to do that then she`s not a real friend. Hope things work out. ♥

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well..theres this guy..and he liked me and i liked him and we went out and den he broke up wit me and he still liked me and i did too...and yesterday i found out he desnt like me but im having a hard time getting over him and we arent partners for this one event thats a couple of months away and im juss pretending like im ok and im not hurt inside

Sometimes people`s feelings change for eachother and we have to except it. I know how you feel because I am in the same situation as you right now. Try being friends with him, and tell him how you feel. It`s going to be hard and take awhile until you start to feel better. Try meeting other guys, hang out with your friends, and have fun. You never know maybe you`ll get back together. Hope things get better & Good luck. ♥

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I really like this guy. We hang out sometimes, not all the time, but like in groups, never alone. But yesterday we went on a field trip and we stayed together pretty much the whole time. He had his arm around me and we were flirting a lot. He sat with me on the bus on the way there, but i told my friend i would sit with her on the way back so we didnt sit together then, so he sat infront of me. He was with some of my other friends, but he kept turning around to talk to me. And when we got back he was blowing me kisses and stuff. Is he just playing around or flirting? Does he like me or does he just want to be friends?

Since I wasn`t there I wouldn`t know if he was really flirting lol. But it does seem like he has some interest in you. Try to flirt & talk with him some more and take it from there. Hope things work. ♥

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