about

Im Holly. Im 17 years old and im here to help, so ask me anything. I would love to help you.

advice

I am soo confused I cant figure it out...how would you know if ur bi or straight bc i thought i was straight but now im trying to find out bc i dont think its wrong to be bi and theirs nothing wrong w kissing another girl to me that is so please answer back ill rate also

well i mean if you kiss a girl and you like it and want to do it again you might be Bi but some people in their teens go through a phase where they are attraceted to the opposite sex mostly girl though if the phase goes away and you dont have those feelings anymore youre straight but if they dont go away then your most likely Bi if you have anymore questions put them in my inbox and ill help you

[view]

i have a 250 word essay to write about how to survive my teenage years. i have no idea how i am going to do that. what am i supposed to write about? does anybody have any ideas? any comments and ideas are welcome.

this essay is due 4/19/05.

~~Chelsey~~

write about peer pressure and people talking about other people behind their backs 1) give them a good look at what teenagers go through 2) tell them how you are goin to deal with the problems like drugs and maybe losing best friends and gaining best friends and rumors

[view]

I am desperate to get my ex-boyfriend back. He doesn't want to get back together because we fight alot. I will do anything. How can I get him back?

start being his friends first when u are friends you will have a better chance of getting back together with him && about the fighting just try not to say anything that COULD possibly cause a fight between you two hope i helped!

[view]

Hey. Does anyone know how to get fit and look fit -like, have a six pack and nice bicepts- the shortest and easiest way? I do not have access to a gym nearby and I've been doing sit-ups, but it isn't working fast enough. What should i do to speed up the process? I'm not fat, just real thin.

Go to www.toneteen.com it has workouts for all muscles of the body it will tone your muscles to make you not look so skinny

[view]

is it safe to try inserting a tampon if you dont hae your period? (just for practice)

only if you do it a few times because you could get toxic shock syndrome so it is perfectly fine to try it a few times so u can learn how to do it properly

[view]

When you are making out with a boy (yes I am a girl) where do you put your hands? Where does he put his. When making out what do you do with your hands? sorry i just want to know if you answer this with a good answer I will rate a 5

its just natural where your hands go you can put them around his neck then he will usually put his hands around your waist try your hands in other places too when u feel most comfortable with where your hands are keep them there! some people run their fingers through hair and touch their face and stuff but whatever you feel is right for you!

[view]

I hate myself and want to die. There is no way out. There is no definite answer to anything so how can you ever be right? Why do my friends always want to know what i am thinking when they dont care, they dont listen so why ask. Counsellors get PAID to listen to you. no one will remember me a year from my death. Anti depressants leave you numb and emotionless. Doctors dont issue sleeping pills coz I am a depressant but I cant SLEEP all i do is stare into senseless nothing seeing nothing but black shadows. The only releif is a razor blade and salt. Nothing will ever get better i will have this hopeless feeling of nothingness and desperation for somekind of peace of mind which i wont get. Things will always be the same and then ill die anyway. Im a selfish ugly fat bitch and the only way out is death. nothing can help me. im searching for a solution to get past my pathetic problems asides from counsellors, therapy, rehab, cutting, not cutting, anti depressants the only thing i can think of to a solution is death. no will will ever be able to stop this drowning feeling

do NOT kill yourself you should never ever do that! do not cut yourself either! that is not a way out TRUST ME! i learned the hard way! just dont let anything get to you just dont let anything get to you and ignore anything that any bitches ever say about you if u want to change how you are you are the only one who can do that so if u think you are fat dont eat fatty foods and go to the gym hope i helped!!

[view]

I am 15 and 5'3 and 142 pounds..I used to be 112 when I was 12..I had gained 30 pounds :-x..I can't do sit ups for some reason or anything like that, I need to use my elbow to help me up. I have a breathing problem and I can't really run w/o having to stop and catch my breath every few yards. Is there anyways I can get to about 120 by summer?

start eating healthier and do as much working out as your body will let you do i dont think you will loose all that weight by the summer but you will loose some! try taking out all the fats and sweets that you might be eating and eat more healthier foods!

[view]

Hi.. I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 8 months now. His birthdays coming up and i have no clue what to get him. Mine just past and he got my soo much nice stuff. Hes into skateboarding and stuff like that but im really having trouble on deciding what to buy. If you have any ideas.. Please let me know!! THANKS!

talk to his friends about what kind of skateboarding stuff he wants and have them help you find it or get him a girt card to a store he likes to go to

[view]

i skipped all of my workout classes for the past month cause i've been sick. yesterday i came back, worked out SO hard, now my muscles are so sore that i could hardly get out of the bed. i want to know what is the best thing to do (esp. for my legs, they hurt so bad)...

a) rest for the next couple days and do nothing until they feel better
b) keep working the muscles, continue running and conditioning today
c) stretch them?... or what, i dunno.

only answer if you know what youre talking about. thanks

I kno what your talking about i just started track && that happened to me you should keep trying to run and help the muscles become stronger but when u get home relax and try not to walk around alot and before whatever your doing to workout you should stretch out really good to loosen up the muscles

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker