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I need a job, I'm 14 and i havn't had much experience in a professional job setting. SO im looking to become a caddie. and this is on the golf website "Employment Opportunities, Send all employment inquiries to "email." what exactly should i write. I really want this job and i could really use some advice, thanks.
no one will hiar a 14 yo sorry. they dont want the responcibility of you
do girls like giving blow jobs, or is it just something that girls do cuz the guy asks them to?
Well it kinda madders I mean I dont think any girl would like it anymore then you would but then some do.It madders how much the girl likes the guy.
i was wondering how come when i go onto the myspace homepage it doesnt connect sometimes? when i try to sign in itwill say something like the user has been locked for 15 mins or something. everytime i try to sign on it goes to the page cannot be displayed? how can i fix this?
i had the same problem click on your home icon on the top of ur page well mines myspace so it says im logged on
Hong long do hair creams stay in your hair before it doesn't work anymore? Because I take a shower before bed and put cremme in my hair and it's so soft and stuff and makes my hair look nice but when i wake up it doesn't seem to have that effect no more and I don't want to take a shower in the morning because I want to save water.
Well you could stop taking one at night and only take one in the morning so your hair looks good.And I don't know how much you spend on your cream but some of the cheap brands don't work as well as other ones that may cost a little more money, you might want to look in hair salones and stuff and ask around for teh best type that wont empty your wallet.
Hope I helped~
Katie
ugh this sounds so wrong, and im so embarrased to write this. here goes.
i'm 13, and for a long time i've been.. well.. touching myself, and I guess masterbating. ever since I was like 5 or 6. I have no idea how it started.. and I didnt know what I was doing then, but I felt like it was horrendously wrong. Even now I do. I'm pretty ashamed of it, and I wish I hadnt done this so young, and learned some other things from bad places on the internet. I dont do the other things, but I know they're there. I'd rather be blissfully unaware till I was an adult and could handle it. But apparently I already know, and I dont wanna know any more. anyway, with the masterbating thing, i'd get some sort of object.. like cushions (i'd put them in the washer after), once a barbie doll (yes. i know. but im not a lesbo, I was like 8.), and like teddybears and stuff. It feels good, and sometimes I get horny and feel like doing it. All the time say it will be the last time, but its never the last time. I end up doing it again. So far, nobody has caught me or even known about it for all these years... I've been keeping it a secret. It even feels weird to post it here.. I've never told anyone about this, because I've been afraid... I mean.. how would they react? they'll think I'm some dirty little girl.. which is not how I act, though sometimes I may think a perverted thought.. because well.. I've heard it from other people online and IRL so I knew what they meant. I just dont know what to do.. I dont wanna like confess it to the world.. and im not even sure confessing it during church (which I hardly go to, because of my family's busy schedule.. but I wish I did. and im a christian.). its kinda scary.. because i doubt other kids do it, or even know what it is at my age (except for alot of boys) so at times i feel kinda... like.... wacko, and not normal. i know nobody is normal, but.. seriously nobody else really does this.. unless they keep it a secret, but I kinda doubt it. also, i forgot to say, that i got my period like right after my 10th birthday. I had it like a couple months before we had the talk about "periods and puberty" and stuff.. so I had no idea what I'd done, when I went to the bathroom and found blood in my pants. I thought that I either burst my bladdar, or it was because of me like.. humping stuff. then I had a problem with having really long periods lasting like more than week, so I went to the doctor, and the doctor and my mom asked if I'd put anything up "down there" or anything.. and I'm like "no", but I felt kinda pressured, like at any moment my cover would be blown. its so crazy.. i could go on about that.. but this is getting long already. sorry if i like disgusted you or anything, but like thanks alot for your help with your reply.
also, how do you know if your cherry has popped? could it happen from like.. doing what I've been doing? I hope not! I wanna be a virgin till I'm married..
umm i dont think sticking barbie dolls or anything wouldnt make you a virgin so dont worry about that but how about with the holl masterbation thing you like stick with your finger....
Hi, I'm a virgin(and I'm pretty sure about that) and I've never even kissed anyone before, recently I got a cold sore and I don't know where from. I researched what it was and it told me I had some kind of herpes infection- how did i get it then? Also I recently found out that I had little bumps around the head of my penis, and it looks somewhat similar to a picture of someone who has genital herpes. This is really wierd for me, and I don't know if it is what it is and I'm really embarrased. Please help. Thank you.
cold sores arent just herpes!
So as usual I was rambling to one of my friends and he like out of no where decided to mention that day after the recital...After a violin recital, i was packing up my violin and this guy who was like 50 (his little son plays violin too) came up to me and started caressing my arm going "That was really really good. That was fantastic." blah blah and I'm standing thinking "WTF GET THE H*** OFF ME!" (it took place for like a minute of him touching my arm and ew) and then my other friend who just now heard of that incident was like "Oh remember that one time. We were at the gas station (her dad needed to put gas in the car)." and I was like oh yeah...and this story goes: She was like, "Don't look to your left." and of course, me with my curiosity look to my left and there are two guys checking me out with one of them being the other guys DAD. And I was like erm...can we go now when they like smiled and winked at me. And my OTHER friend was like "HA, older guys are attracted to you." and i was like hmm...that seems partially true considering this dude working at a store was smiling and looking at me the whole time.
has this happened to anyone before and the thought that older guys are attracted to you go across anyone's head...?
14/f btw and I do not enjoy having 40yr olds checkin me out.
I have the same problem and yes its gross you need to nip this in the butt before they actaully touch you sexually I had this old guy touch my butt before and he sqeezed!!I screamed bloody murder no joke.Now everytime i go anywhere I still look awsome but if any guys are staring at me and winking at me i go to my guy friends cause i have ALOT of them and say really loud "o.m.g. Nick no you did not just ask me out ofcoarse i will" or something like that and my friend nick knows all about that ive done that with nick cawlin josh and every other guy so its a really good solution.Just try it but before you do it fill them in so they so scream WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT... alright
hope i helped
What are some good ways to let your creativity flow? I know that I'm really creative and I have some insane ideas deep in the back of my mind;I just have trouble utilizing these ideas and putting them together.
Im editing it because of your additional information.Not everyone can write im actually pretty good.You can read other books to spark an idea but you cant just sit down and see the words on the paper
I love him , as much as I try to move on I cant.
He says he doesnt hate me to my face
and he hates me , to other people.
I dont know what to believe.
Please dont say get over him, I honestly cant.
Theres a long story along with all this, and we used to be really good friends.
Does he hate me or not?
Okay Im going through the same problem right now, and as hard as it's ganna be you need to get over him but im not just ganna leave it at that cause not even i can do it.If he can say stuff about you behind your back like he hates you to his friends but he's so nice to you that's rude.He seems like a jerk, and if he cant treat you the way you deseve to be treated he doesnt deserve you at all.As hard as its ganna be just cut off all talking to him and find another guy that thinks of you as the angel you are.If you keep talking to him hes ganna grow more on you so just stop cold turkey if you can avoid even seeing him do it...
I know it will be painfull but leading youself on hurts alot more.
I wish you the best with him.
im only 17 a girl and i forget everything i need to smoke pot every day and thats the only thing that keeps my memory working properly before i have a cone i dont no anything and cant sit around nd take notice at whats happening what is wrong with me
Your addicted to pot!You need more help then what we can give you, a theripst or something I think you just think you need pot and thats why you keep going to it, its a hard habbit to kick but its needed everytime you smoke brain cells dissolve so i think thats ur problem STOP SMOKING!!!!! your 17 and have your holl life ahead of you but you have fallen into drugs your probably not a virgin either {{not saying your a slut}} just perpressure is alot to deal with along with popularity.So stop smoking and who ever got you into cigerretes and smoking dump them as well cause there just ganna get deapier into it so you can never excape.
Ok!!! Im tryin to find a really cute nickname for my bf!!! I really suck at thinking of them... And he has like 6 or 7 for me and i hate it.. PLZ help me figure some out.. If u have any good ones thank you
dont you think its kinda important to do this on your own????well anyway maybe sweeti, sweetheart, sugerpie,snuggle-bug? it madders on his behavior if he snuggles snuggle-bug i have pet names for all my just guy friends like Nick he's the man so his Nickadelic....Josh is a butterball so he's either pulsberry doughboy or umpalumpa.... It depends on what he does if you added more information on him then maybe people could help you better you cant just say "i need cute nicknames for my bf think of them for me!!!" what would your bf think?
seriously. why the hell does everyone have a problem with emo kids? like..i dress emo but that doesn't necessarily mean that i go around cutting myself. and even if i did, why do people notice emo people more than everyone else? and why do people say stuff about them? its stupid. half the kids are obviously depressed and i don't think people should make fun of them. then the other half just dresses this way because they really like music.
grr. it just really pisses me off.
i know that wasn't really a question, but still.
Most people point out 'emo' kids because there diffrent from the rest.I know not all kids that love music and wear black cut, but some do and that's what there feeding off of.People label all the time and it's ganna be a factor of life, but that doesn't mean you have to join.I think the main reason they dislike 'emo' kids are because they stand out of a crowd- which is what they want, they want someone to notice that there their and for someone to help.Other kids fallow the crowd and if one kid hates 'emoness' then the rest do.But you don't need to dress diffrently just speak your mind and stick up for what you believe it's ganna give you alot more credit then 'cutting' which the only reason they cut is for all the problems in there life or for attention.They cut to know that there incontrol they know they call the next shots.But the kids that do it on there arms and wear short sleeved shirts are doing it for attention.But the others that cover there scars dont want people to know cause they'd blow it all outa paportion.
Sorry if i rambled on:(
There is this Jack Black movie where he is a wrestler in Mexico (I think). Can you tell me the name of it? He always seems to be in funny movies.
Thanks a lot! :D
Nacho Libre is the movie with Jack Black as a wrestler.
fake lip rings? is there such a thing? where can i gt one? besides online? i dont want my mom to know. SHE'D FLIP
You can get fake lip rings anywhere i think.I would look in hot topic or claires Might have them.
Well to make a long story as short as possible, I've been under stress lately. My mom doesn't talk to me, my sister moved out a while ago, and she just told me that she and her boyfriend are moving far away soon becasue he's joining the Army.
I love my boyfriend more than anything, we have a great relationship and I know he loves me. But Something has been wrong lately. Whenever I have to leave his house I get really depressed, and all these terrible thoughts come to my head, I can't stop them, like that he doesn't love me anymore, or that he's not attracted to me. I can't stop these thoughts, and I wish they would go away. I know they're ridiculous and I can't take it anymore. It's happened so amny times before, I'll be doing something, and somethign he'll say or so will automatically make me think that he doesn't love me anymore, or that he's annoyed with me. I'm so scraed to disagree with him or raise my voice or tell him not to do something because I'm terrified that he'll get mad, and it kills me to think that I could upset him. (I'm like that around most people, I hate thinking that I could have upset someone because I can't stand the idea that someone could be mad at me.) My boyfriend has this habit of pinching my butt and honking my boobs, and I really wish he wouldn't. I dunno how to tell him to stop though, I'd rather just be around him without all the pervy physical stuff.
I dunno whats wrong with me. Please give me advice, information, reassurance, anything!
if your having doubts on your relationship you should tell him.I know it must seem hard cause im the same way i hate disipointing anyone but he maybe a little more into it then you.About the touchy touchy stuff tell him to stop that you only want him and nothing sexual and if he's a good guy he should respect that.Say it nicely- you cant be walking on egg shells in your relationship he needs to know that you have feelings to and that he has NO right grabbing your boobs!im sorry but i'd flipp out unless your ganna get more into the holl sex which by how you talk you might've already but if its not ganna happen that night he shouldnt do it.
hope i helped
katie:)
I am so stressed out and depressed right now. My grades keep dropping and I try so hard to keep them up but some times it's so hard.
I went to the ER a few weeks ago because of my depression and my parents were so mad! I did counseling, so when I told a counselor about my suicidal thoughts that's when they directed me to the ER.
Now, I am afraid to go back to counseling, because if they send me back to the ER my parents will be pissed, also because of the huge medical bill we got from going to the ER last time. I'd hate to waste my parents' time and money over my mental health.
It's so hard to be happy right now, even when I try to. My friends tend to think nothing about it, and leave me alone. And at some occasions, even ignore me.
I feel so overwhelmed and stress, probably mainly because of school, my job, and christmas.
Please help me out, give me advice how to overcome and/or deal with this. =[
Thanks.
Well I can kinda understand where your coming from because my parents would care if I made a hostpital bill that was really expensive but expescialy about suicide they should help you.Get you a tutor for grades that are the lowest, if this is your hardest time your friends should be there and if there not they might not be true friends and you should drop them as fast as there dropping you.Remember that suicide is never the answer and when it seems the only way out its not.Try your hardest in class it maybe hard but ask a teacher for extra help and let them see that your trying.Tell your parents your trying- and say that you need a theripst. If you don't have the money talk to your guidence counciler.She may not seem like much but they give good advice but wait a bit to tell her about suicide again.Kinda keep off it and let her but the peices together.
I hope you don't turn to the worst exit.
I hopeyou the best inlife and happiness
Muah
Ok put it this way.
I eat way to much, im not even kidding.
I dont eat anything bad though , i eat all healthy foods but i just eat to much of it!
Like for example fruit.
I could sit there and eat it for like 30 minutes without stopping.
Or like cereal, i dont just eat one bowl. I eat like 3
I exercise all the time, but maybe im just bored?
i dont know! i need help!
i do the same thing when you go shopping or when your mom does buy one apple so you cant eat so much or just tell yourself you dont need that and try to accuply yourself
I really like one of my good friends. He has a girlfriend, though, and she goes to a college about an hour away. She's a year older, and they have had a long distance relationship for over a year. They've been going out for almost two years.
The boy has been increasingly friendly ever since I broke up with my (long distance) boyfriend. I really love being friends with him, but I can't stop liking him!
So,
a) how do I find out if he actually likes me?
b) how can I let him know that I like him without looking like a bitch trying to break him and his girlfriend up?
c) how can I stop liking him so I can go back to being just friends?
Thanks!
You can't just stop liking someone, trust me I've tryed and it just makes you think of him more.So if he's being more friendly that may either be a sigh of he likes you or he feel sorry for you.Which me personally I don't think that.So just tell him straight up that you like him.Then wait.Guys aren't like women they can keep there secretes in forever so your ganna need to wait.
So I give you the best of luck
tootsierollsweet999
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I just moved to a new school. My old school was an all-girls school, but my mum was a teacher at an all-boys school, so it wasnt that awkward when I moved to a co-ed school (if that makes sense??)
Anyway, now I'm actually going to school with guys, and they are in my classes and I don't really mind. But when it's sport I get really self-conscious. Like I can't be good enough for anyone. I want to make a good impression on people that I am meeting for the first time. I don't want to tell my new friends because I don't really know them that well yet. I know this sounds a bit weird but in my last school I wasn't at all popular, and suddenly, at this new school, it seems like everyone wants to know me, and a few guys have told me that they have crushes on me already!! I think I am panicking, but I don't know what I can do to calm down and focus on schoolwork instead of being so worried about making good impressions on everyone. Someone please tell me what I can do??
There's nothing acward about being around boys i love them and if they say they like you already they must not know you to well...And in sprots just try your hardest and ur coch or teacher will notice how hard you working and for making new friends i know what your going through this year i stayed back so came back to school with a puch of kinderganden kids!!!they should like you for you not how fast you can run and yeah i understand inpressing but try to do you hardest and there has ot be kids that suck more then you do right??and i have to change my cloths before gym where GOOD cloths when your ready and confortible with the guys wear a shirt that when you lift your arms up shows a little and when you bend over...haha just kidding be yourslef and let them come to you
SAVE THE ANIMALS!!!!!
katie
okay i'm 14 and female.
i have this guy friend that is really fun, and hot. but there was all this stuff (nothing bad) that went on between us last school year. and of course we hadn't talked for 2 months (summer break) then at lunch yesterday (we were outside), he came up to me and started talking to me (for the first time this school year)and then he started flirting with me BIG time. and i mean he was hugging me and wouldn't let go (and yes i liked that but that's something he normally wouldn't do) and he said something that i liked but i'm not going to say. of course i like him, and i asked him out last school year and he said no because he told me his last gf cheated on him. he's way more outgoing than last year and i think he likes me more than last year too.
but with the flirting...when guys act like that, what's it supposed to mean? and when we start talking more this year, should i ask him out again at the right time if he shows more signs of liking me? or would that not be such a good idea? thanks for the help.
Almost the sam ething is happening to me and im confused too so dotn feel bad.
Men hate them but cant live without them and they do things that we dont get maybe the holl hugging thing was just a way of saying hi but highley doubted i dnt understand men and i dont think anyone does but id wait for him to ask you out so you dont through the holl inbaressment not that it shoudl be but if he says no???so just wait and if he doesnt ask you in two weeks and still whispers things to you and hugs you then be like ask me out or dont but you flirting with me is ganna stop if were only friends and he should respect that you wanted to say that
hope i helped-
look at my question simalarities!
tootsierollsweet999
katie