hi everyone....
hay im sally, im 19. i love to give advice so ask me anything and i will answer as best i can!
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i am currently studying family and children studies certificate III at wollongong tafe and i love it. i love kids and one day i hope to become an early childhood teacher and work with 0-3 year old children. i'v been writing poetry since i was 13 and i hope that one day i can publish them in a book! that is one of my dreams.
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so keep those questions comming...please comment back, i'd like to know if iv helped or not thanxxx i have a blog! feel free to check it out: http://justsallyy.tumblr.com/
xoxoxoxo :) xoxoxo xoxox
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Hi, I'm 14, soon to be 15 in 13 days, female.
My family has recently become poor. I've never been a person to shop at Hollister or anywhere that expensive, buttt, according to my mom and dad, we're almost in debt, and we can't pay our monthly bills. We can't afford my school clothes, so I'm having a yard sale.
My dad, tonight, just told me that we might not have enough to send me to Drivers Ed this September. I got really upset, and he still has to look into the finances.
I told him I was angry because we were poor, and he said whatever and left. What do I do about all of this? I think I hurt my dad's feelings, and yet I'm literally crying because we don't have enough money for anything anymore, I can't stop crying.
... please help. What should I do? My birthday will probably be the worst ever. (link)
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hay... sorry to here whats happened, i know its hard but your family will get through this... a lot of familys have money problems so your not alone. i think you need to talk to your dad and say sorry b'cos you have to understand that he is doing all he can at the moment to support the family through this so you need to understand that. your birthday wont be that bad... i know it wont be as good as last year or the year before but it wont be as bad as you think. why dont you tell your friends you want money or clothes thats the best thing to ask for at a time like this... if your really struggling then another suggestion is getting a job... while there isnt a lot of money and if you dont like it you can always quite later on when everythings back on track...
it will help a lot... anyways i hope i helped you... good luck xoxox sally
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ok well for a long time when i have became close to girls like become there friends, i thought i have had feelings for them. I am really not sure if it just like a friend thing or if i actually have feelings for them. I have never had it for two people at the same time. (link)
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we are all attracted to people that we are comfortable around and who we can just be ourselves with. & we all get a lil confused about our feelings evry once and a while so its noral.
i no your confused at the moment but you have to work out for yourself if you like them more then a friend or not. but it is really easy to be attracted to someone after becoming close friends with them so that might answer your question.
hope i helped xoxsally
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why are people always like "oh you shouldnt have sex you're too young, wait for marriage." just because one person believes you should wait til marriage doesnt mean everyone else does and has to abide by that. people shouldnt be judged on what age they want to have sex at. it is THEIR opinion. and if they regret it, at least they learned from it. everyone makes mistakes. it is their OWN lives and people shouldnt tell them how to live or what to do.
i know I HATE when people tell me what to do.
i can make my own decisions. (link)
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there are lots of morals people believe in, some are because of there religion and some people just believe that there right. people believe all sorts of crazy things lol but your right different people have different morals and it doesnt mean everyone has to go by them.
i believe everyone has the right to make up there own mind...and i think you shouldnt have sex unless you have a bf or gf and you have been together long enough to trust them and that your first time shouldnt be with some random but someone you completly trust or love. and that you dont have to wait until marriage being in a strong relationship is good enough.
everyone has different oppinions towards different things...
xoxsal
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hey people,
im a young male and im talkin about my girlfriend
i had just had my girlfriend break up with me a couple of days ago and it was really hard on me. I was the cause of the breakup because i wasn't being open enough to her and when she said "i feel like im neglecting you," and just said no and she asked if something was wrong and i said no. when we hung up i had decided that i needed to tell her what i felt so i messaged her and said honestly i do feel neglected and she got mad because i didnt talk to her on the phone when i had the chance. so she got mad and later said you no i'm mad at you and im fed up with your shit. so she had ended it and she said i just havent felt like we are close like we were at first. this all hurt me bad and she wouldn't talk to me because i wanted to talk to her and explain to her how i felt.
so the next day she ignored me and i couldnt talk to her and the next day i tried to get her off my mind but it didnt work so i went to my dad and brother to talk to them about it. i had listened to them and they had the same points.
so what i did was go to her house the next day with out her knowing and had a bunch of nice flowers. She had a smile on her face and didnt seem mad at me so i take that as being good?. i gave her the flowers and went into her room to talk to her. i told her that i really like her and i really care for her. i said you no every relationship has rough patches and you have to try to get through them instead of just quitting on the relationship. (she promised herself that she would never give a guy a second chance by the way.) i just asked her if she could promise me that she will think about a second chance while she was in colorado (this was later in the talk that i had asked her if she would think about a second chance). she said i will and i said the way u had ended it really hurt me alot and i just wanted her to think about the second chance for more than just one day. just please think about it because the idea of being without you really hurts because i care for you and i want to be there for you. she said she would think about it while she was there. the next thing i said was you know this is my first true relationship and im goin to make mistakes and i will admit when i do and im willing to try to work on that and i really want to be open with you and try to stop arguing about little things. just promise me you will think about the second chance and get back to me when you get back. i really care for you and we gave each other a huge hug and i told her in her ear that i really care for you and i said i need to go because i just wanted to say this and be on my way and not get in ur way. and oh yeah i told her the reasons why i felt why we were growing apart earlier. and i also said im not goin to beg or force you for the second chance and i wont talk to you or text you while you're up there so that gives you your freedom to think. then came the hug and leaving part. some of this wasn't in the right order but you get the idea. so can ya'll tell me if i did the right thing?
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hay
i think you did the right thing.you sound like a nice caring guy... by going to her after the break up and talking to her about it made her realise that you dont want to give up on the relationship and that you can realise your mistakes and are willing to fix them.
also you did the right thing by letting her make up her own mind in weather to give you a second chance or not and not forcing her... it shows her that your grown up and you will eccept her decision either way...
xoxsally
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does anyone have any ideas on how to get my parents trust back? (link)
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hay you need to show your parents that you want it back... show them that you can be trusted again by being good, doing as your told and do try to do things like (chors/ extra things) without being asked, that will show them you can be trusted again...
xoxo sal
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Im an extremely shy person, specially when it comes to guys, and I just cant bring myself to be more outgoing. Im not ugly, but I haven't had a boyfriend in the longest, and it really shames me to be alone when all of my friends are oh so happily taken. i dont even like coming out of my house at times, and im nervous about going out anywhere, because im so self-conscious. what can i do to convince myself that i should be a normal 15 year old girl, and what are some things i can do to be more outgoing. thnx for reading. (link)
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hay...
i know what you mean i used to be that exact person when i started high school. the first thing you really need to do is become more comfortable with yourself and stop worrying too much... you shouldnt care what other people think! try to make conversation, say what your thinking and just be yourself... once the real bubbley you comes out everyone will love you. it might take some time becoming comfortable with yourself and being around others but you'll get there! hope i helped you xoxox sal:)
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i need a new screen name for aim
(no symbols, less than 16 characters)
my name's julianna/julie
im outgoing, love to have fun, if that helps.thanks! (link)
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-itz[[julie]]BUTshhh!
-julie>>>lOVes To sMILe,LoVEs to LauGh,lOVes to LoVEs...iF uR luCKy lOVes yOu!xOXox
-julzZz!!(""()("( 'o', ) (")(")(,,)
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okay so. what are you actually supposed to put in "fan mail"?
and do the people you send it to even read it.
randomm question. (link)
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anything... ask a question about them that you would like t6o know or something. they usually have someone that reads there fan mail for them.
xoxox
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I have acanthosis nigricans, and ive been taking a kind of medicine that's saposed to help it. There really is no cure, and its not deadly. It's jus a sigh that if I get diabetes, it's a death sentance so yeahh im trying to lose weight and the medicine im using is saposed to get rid of the discoloration. I tried everything before i knew what if was.. and everything hurt ALOT. Well i started using this cream and it showeda diffrence immediatly. It was awsome it was clearing up and now i have blisters on the back of my neck and my moms telling me to stop using it until the doctor figure out why its doing that. But i dont wasnt to I mean it jus started goinf away and its gross looking and everyone at my school thinks I dont shower except a couple people AND I Do its not as easy as soap and water it grows up and out of my skin.. and that cream was my last hope and now i cant use it and i dont wanna be made fun of anymore. So at the moment im crying, lil depressed because I want chocolate and I cant eat it because ill gaina nother 100 pounds and be even fatter and it'll become more black and this SUCKS! I dont wanna tell anyone because i donno what they think and my parents my family no one understand why i feel so hopeless at the moment because its not going away anymore and its gunna get worse and my neck hurts and I just wanna go to bed because im fat, stupid cuz i got my hopes up and they came crashing down and I want chocolate god dammit! (link)
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hayy
keep trying to lose weight dont worry you'll get there! just dont starve yourself or go on any stupid diet cos they never work and you end up puting more weight on then before... eat healthy and excersisce. i know its hard to resist food that tastes so good! when i was trying to lose weight i was fine with not eating junk food until it came to chocolate i just gave in... so i know its temping! but you cant just give up.. try and stay strong! and about your Acanthosis Nigricans
even though the cream helped it start to go away you have to find out if the cream is making it worse... if the blisters are really bad then i think you should stop using it for a little while... even though you dont want to... if you tell your friends they might understand... and if they dont then there not really your friends....
dont give up
xoxox sally
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hey i have dark brown hair [but its turning black] that reaches the middle of my back
what i wanted to know is how do i make my hair grow longer faster ?
i really want my hair to be to my jeans line [the very top of my jeans] by the time school starts [august 15]
any tips would be very helpful
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hay
take care of your hair by treating it every so often that should help but i dont think there is much you can do to make it grow... get it trimmed that might help too... hope that helped xoxo sal
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ok so last night was the first time i drank w/ my friends and we did a few shots. But nothing happen and we didnt get drunk or n e thing but then my other friend found out and got really mad...what should i do? (link)
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hay
just tell your friend that you were only trying it and that you didnt get drunk. you are growing up and a lot of teens your age drink so its no different if you do. why dont you ask your friend axactly why she got mad and find out the reason and then you can sort it out with her...
hope i helped xoxox mwa sal
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I am totally in love with my boyfriend right now. The happiest I've been in my whole life. Does anyone know any really cute quotes about being in love? Thanks (link)
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hay,
this is a really cute one...
i ♥ love,
love is you,
so if i ♥ love...
then i love you!
go to this website its really good:
http://www.lovepoemsandquotes.com/LoveQuotes.html
xoxox ♥sal
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alright so this might sound really stupid. ok well i go to this daycamp thing and there's this kid that's 11 and going into 6th grade. and im 13 and going in 8th. so he's really cute. and he likes me. and i like him. is it weird if we went out because of the age difference? and also he's short for his age, but i don't mind. thankss (link)
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hay
i dont think two years difference really matters... you should go out with him. people might trease you or say stuff to you about it but just ignore them. in the end all you can do is what makes you happy & you shouldnt worry about what people think cos that wont get you anywhere in life... hope i helped xoxox
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So like i was having the time of my life with my boyfriend,
and i was like blowing him,
and his balls were like soo sore.
and appartently he said he is allergic to something i put on them when we make love.
he says i should switch brands of lubricant..
what kind? (link)
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well what kind are you using? try an alternate brand but he should really go and see a doctor incase it is serious... things like this happen all the time, its a good idea to find out the cause of the problem to prevent it from getting worse. hope this helps.
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im 13 and havent "grown up" yet. im not comfortable with going to either of my parnts when it happens. only my grandma. but i cant see or talk to her. what should i do when it happens? (link)
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hay..
you should talk to your grandma or if you cant is there anyone else you can talk to when it happens? just make sure you have some pads handy and you should be fine... if you have any other questions im here to help! xxx sal
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Hello,
I think I have a problem. I have known this guy since we were in diapers. We used to be best friends. He is so sweet and he loves the lord as much as I do. And I think that that is great. I told him how I feel ( I like him) and he told me that he wants to be friends right now but he wants to have a girlfriend when he is older. But he is flirting with me alot and he has told me that he likes me but is afraid that if we ever do break up then he thinks that we might loose our friendship. Please help me. I think thta i love him!!! (link)
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hay.
i think he likes you a lot to be thinking that far ahead and he definatly doesnt want to ruin your friendship cos it means so much to him. Maybe he doesnt want a girlfriend at the moment b'cos he isnt ready yet...
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if i walk for two hours a day (leisurely pace) and cut out junk food from my diet, drink a lot of water.. how much weight will i lose in a week? any tips on how to lose the fat on my face? will walking help this? (link)
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hay...
i cant exactly tell you how much weight you will lose. everyones bodies are different and some people lose weight easier then others and some people find it hard to lose weight but if you exercise for an hour a day and eat healthy you should start to lose weight, so i think what your doing you will see results in a couple of weeks...
as you start to lose weight around your neck then your face will become skinnier, keep up the exercise and diet tho... GOOD LUCK! xxx sal
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i ended my period july 8th and then i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time 3 days later. he was a virgin too, he used a condom. what are the chances of getting pregnant? cus im really scared, but i doubt that i am. (link)
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hay...
i think if you used a comdon correctly and it didnt break then you should be fine. the chances are slim bcos condoms work 99% so dont stress...
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I'm 13 and I spend a lot of time at my neighbor's lake house and it's really fun. Usually, there's only 3 kids there. One is a boy age 10, a girl age 10, and a boy age 7 so I have to hang out with them. Sometimes a 13 year old girl comes and I hang with her, but she hasn't been making it down a lot. I bring my friends sometimes but most are on vacation right now. If the only possible people you could hang out with were ages 10, 10, and 7 and you were 13, would you hang out with them? Because it's not fun swimming alone or playing games. (link)
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hay
if there your friends and you like them then you should hang out with them and dont worry about the age difference. i mean im 16 and i hang out with all my friends my age(that are 16) but one of my best friends is 13! it might be hard to believe but she is like my little sister i never had! iv known her for 7 years and i love her to death!
so i guess i would besides they probably look up to you since your older... xoxox sal :)
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I'm turning 14 and I dont know what to do for my birthday. I dont want to go shopping, did that last year. I dont want to go to the movies. I doubt i can go to a water park or anything. I dont want to have a party or a sleepover. So what is there to do, because I need to think quick. Thanks. (link)
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why dont you go out for dinner at a nice restaurant with family and friends.. i did that for my friends bday it was fun! xoxox
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