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Q: Hey, i have a problem. I have this friend and she has a Boy Friend i really want to spend more time with her but she always is talking about him or with him. I HATE IT. i really hope you can help me with this problem, thanks.
Amy =(

Tell her how you feel. Tell her that you feel she is putting him before you and she shouldn't be doing that. Its chicks before dicks. If that doesn't work she wasnt truely a good friend

Q: i haven't had a b/f for a long time and i really want someone because my friends all get guys i know i'm not ugly or anything but i hate competing with other girls expecially ones that are prettier then me but when i go out to meet guys i always bring a friend because i get shy around them sometimes what should i do to boost my self confidence and my luck wiht guys

You seem like you need more confidence in youself. One day just go up to a guy and start talking to him. Or invite a guy on a date, you gotta make a move to get comfortable, the guys can't do all the work. And dont feel like you are "competing" with other girls. Because its not a game

Q: i have had this one love of my life for 2 years. and then we just broke up like 2 weeks ago. and i miss her so much and i wanna see her again!!!But she hates me we both broke eachothers hearts but im in love with her and she lights up my day.i dont no what i sud do?sud i call her up or no?

If you love her then call her!!! Tell her how you feel..

Q: female/15 ok this guy that i have been going out with for almost a year really wants to have sex, so do i though. I just am not quite sure if i should be having sex yet...what do you think? i really want to and i love him SOOOOO much! yes or no

That is your choice, it is a big decision. You are only 15, think of the downsides... you could get pregnant, or he could have some kind of disease, also what would your friends and family think about you? What would you think about yourself? On the upside you said you "love" him and that you want to. Just really think about it.

Q: Whats the average weight if your 5`1 - 5`2 ish.

It also depends on your age, but im pretty sure its between 95-110

Q: what if I have a friend that I care about soo much but i know she is hurting herself by smoking weed and doing other drug. but she gets all pissed and says its none of my buesness when I tell ehr to stop. what should i do keep trying or let her do what she wants to do
Signed,
lost and confused
15/f

Try talking to her again. If that still doesn't work I would tell an adult like a school consuler, or a teach or a parent or something. Your friend might get really mad at you, but just think about how you could save your friend. Your friend will thank you in the future, I am sure.

Q: I keep having wet dreams about you? what should i do? i cant stop them! help!

Who is this directed to? lol

Q: I have a big problem i need to get layed, what is the best way to approach a girl so that she will sleep with you?

You NEED to get layed? Well I do know that you NEED water and food to live, but i didnt think u NEEDED to get layed. I dont think you will have any luck getting layed unless you go down to colfax

Q: hey there is this gurl that i like alot but she seems to like every other guy but me and that is ok i guess but i mean i like her so much that i can't stand how much she like every other guy in the skool but me i can't stop thinkin bout her and i think she is perfect in every way but i can do ne thing bout it i can't seem to make her realize how i feeli have kno this gurl for a long time but i can't seem to tell her a get her to realize how truely i feel bout her wut do u think that i should do ?

Tell her how you feel. If you dont let people know how you feel... how will they ever know?

Q: Okay well i was reading through your advice and you do give some good advice. I dont have a question,just a comment. I really would apperciate if you deleted people's names in here, like Mokes, Chris Roberts, and Kelsey. Some of these names are obviously to bring someone down or embarass them. If you can't delete the names then you should delete the entry! Thanks

I can't delete the entrys... not that i know of. But I have asked that no one uses names in my advice column.

Q: does anyone kno any sites where u can make ur own profile like www.xprofilen.net somethin like that cause im lookin but i cant find any.....

Here are some....
www.buddyprofile.com

www.subprofile.com

www.xanga.com

Hope that helps u =-)

Q: hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?

That is really awsome that you want to have a baby, but considering you are 14.. I would not reccommend it. You have only been with your boyfriend for 5 months... you dont know if you are going to be with him the rest of your life, and you dont wanna make a big mistake. Think about your future.. and what the babies future would be like. Dont rush into things.

Q: Pepsi is my life. That is all i drink. When I am hungry i will wip out a can of pepsi. when i am thirsty same problem! and for no reason at all i just wip like 5 out and chug!!!!! i can't help it. pepsi is like a drug it is so hard to quit!!!! i dont know how to get it away from me considering my mom buys it all the time and when she doesn't i go to my friends house and drink there and sometimes i even steal money from my mom to buy pop. IT IS TAKING OVER MY LIFE!!!!!!! people i am in seriopus need of help. If anyone else has this prob send me ur prob with people to my inbox! |P|E|P|S|I| My ANTI-DRUG.
~*~*~hooked on pepsi*~*~*

Try Coke

Q: hey i gotta problem u see my friend is alwayz choosing her boyfriend over me wat do i do!!?? do i tell her do i tell him??? uh......help me!!!!
thanx~
~*RiSs*~

I would let her know how you feel. And if nothing changes, then she wasnt really that great of a friend in the first place.

Q: how old should you be before you have sex? before you make out? date? thanx

It all depends on what you think and when you think the time is right. Be sure to make sure it is ok with your parents as well, they play a big role in the "dating life". Having sex is a huge step, make sure you are ready and aren't just getting used.

Q: I have this problem thats been bugging me since 10 years of age. I always see to get a hard on even when I am just sitting in class, looking at ugly ass teachers. I mostly find myself pitching a tent right before I walk in the mall. I don't think its because I am horny it just always happens. Is there some kind of cream or band-aid I could use to keep it down. Cause its like a redwood tree, it stays up even when I try to knock it down. Help me, or maybe we can get together and talk about this matter face to face. Thanks 143

I am incredably sorry I cannot help you out, for the fact that I am not a guy and know nothing about that issue. Sorry

Q: is a fish a good pet? or is a dog better? i cant decide, people help me!!!

Both are excellent pets, I have had both. Depending on how much effort you want to put into having a pet and how long you want it to live will decide which is better. I would personally recammend the dog, because you can play with them, and it will teach you more about responsibilty. But only if you have time, if not I would get a fish. Both need time spent on them, just dogs need more Loving =). But if you do get a dog, be sure to get it when its a puppy! Thats always fun!

Q: Are you supposed to wear underwear while playing volleyball in spandex?

Haha. This is kinda silly. I would say that is up to you. I mean I would never wear WHITEY TIGHTIES... always wear a G-string or thong... or just go camando. Haha.

Q: I have a friend named Chris Roberts, and I think he is gay. I don't have a problem with homosexuality. But he got a hand job from his ex-girlfriend and he sayed and I quote, "Oh Jimmy!" I am worried about him and don't know what to do, or what kind of help he needs. I would think pussy might change him around but he just keeps mention other men. What should I do, I am clueless. Please help me lady. Thank you.

Mokes

I would never question someones sexuality until you know for sure. Accidents happen. We are teenages, we have a few drinks here and there. And also I would appreciate if you wouldn't use last names in my advice column and if you would not sign your name.

Q: ok if theres someone that i like and i wanna start talking to him..what should i talk to him about?? like what types of things should i ask him & stuff..?

Ask him what kind of things he is interested in. See if you have anything in common and if you do, it should be easy from there. Always get a background of his passed relationships and things. Always remember to be yourself! =)

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