hey hey welcome to my site! my name is alissa but alot of people just call me lissa, i luv to play the piano (8 years) i have 2 brothers a mom and a dad, i have 2 kittens and a dog. what can i say..i love the lord. attending youth group and starting point is something that gets me through my week. i teach sunday school, babysit at the church and im a stright A student.
helping people has always been one of my strong assets.
so if anyone has any type of question, please dont hesitate to ask..im here for support, comforting and obviously.. advice.
so just drop one in my inbox anytime and i will try my best to answer your question the best i can.
Gender: Female
Location: MN
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: loochalo
Member Since: November 13, 2004
Answers: 131
Last Update: December 10, 2005
Visitors: 9364
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I'm 14, and I have yet to wear a tampon! All of my friends do it, so I just pretend I do!.. I mean I've stuck one in there before, and it worked and it sticked, but I'm afraid like its going to go further, or I'm gunna try and pull on the stringy thing and its gunna break lose. Do you think any of those things could happen? Pllease help! (link)
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no it can never get lost up there because that thing up there is like way way to small for anything to go through so dont worry about that
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hey im 13 female and im not prepy and i dont play any sports im short brown hair i need ideas for screen names like just something funny (link)
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um... mmmmm well mine as you can see is loochalo. some other ones maybe cutie,adorible,kutebutsmart
well im not the best at that stuff lol! but good luck
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hey u kno how some people talk about a grl like having numbers sumthin like 36/25/34 or suntin like that?? what do those numbers mean????? (link)
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it means the size around you breasts/hips/waist
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Don't take this the wrong way. I'm 13/f and I'm ok with the regualr sex (WHEN I'M MARRIED) But even though I'm too your to think about it, 69 and oral sex I'm scared of. I just really dont feel comfortable with the idea. I wouldn't wanna lick the boy's thing, and I wouldn't want his tounge "up there" please help me becuase I really am scared. (link)
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well this is a conversation that you probally should have with your parents or with your doctor, ask them about this stuff they are there to help, im sure they would much rather that you ask them then any frined or some one that does not know to much about this stuff
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what are the chances of a condom having a hole in it?? i had sex with my boyfriend and i know it didnt break cuz i know what that feels like....and nothing has ever happened before.....but like im worried for some reason..... (link)
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make sure that before it is use that it does not have a hole in it or anything unnormal
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There is this guy in three of my classes and almost every single class he says things like
"I like you"
"I love you"
"You have pretty eyes"
"I'm gonna call you my boo"
and "You're so nice"
but most of the time when he says these things he says it in a dorky joking kinda voice, and I like him. We're pretty good friends and we flirt a lot but I don't know if he's serious or not. Is he? (link)
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usally boys are a little shy to say that they like a certain girl with out thinking that they are going to imbaras them selfs or something, so even though he may be pretending that he is joking about the stuff that he says he might really mean it.
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ok when do guys like really start getting perverted(sex,makeing out)..like do the start at 12,13,14 b/c i kno some guys that are perverted that are like 12 but i dont kno if others are or if its just those guys!!! help i rate good! (link)
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well they are kind of around that age when thats all they really think about i think that 12-14 is about when they start thinking about that stuff
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ok im kind of a shy person and recently i started making friends at another high school so im mainly with them. they are all so pretty...a lot of guys like them and they're so nice.i just want to fit in with them because when when im with them,i feel like the outsider. i want to b able to open up more...basically what i want to know is how to open up more!? plz plz help i really need it. (link)
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well to make you more confortable to opening up to people you could maybe join more after school clubs, try out for the school play, talk more
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i have this friend and shes like real bossy!!!
i don't hate "her" but i hate the way she acts!!
i can't tell her because she says i don't care and shes going out with this guy and she like always comes up to me and says "oh this make to weeks that we been going out"!! everysingle day ...but he just broke up with her and now i am kind of feeling bad for her what should i do???
i rate high (link)
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talk to her and let her know you feel sorry for her and tell her that you just want to be her friend and that your there for her
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i'll rate anyone a 5 who reads this and helps thanx!!
me and my best friend have been great friends since 8th grade (were both in 12th now) so we've been friends for pretty much 5 years. i love her to death and i dont know what i would do without her. Were seriously inseperable. About a month ago she met this guy. All of a sudden its like she's dedicating her time to hang out with him EVERY day. I mean all three of us do hang out sometimes but i dont really like it bc i kinda feel like the 3rd wheel. Her ex boyfriend just told me that he likes me but i told him that i only like him as a friend. i told her that he said he liked me and all of a sudden she asumed that i liked him too and now she is mad at me. the reason they broke up was because she was lying to him and cheating on him with this guy she is with now. The guy she is with now wants to get an apartment. He said i could move in if i wanted but i dont want to because i cant afford it but i dont wanna loose my best friend to him because i lost her once before and i was miserable. Well today i left this guy a voicemail saying mean things and everything to him which i shouldnt but he is really rude to me. He calls me a slut and everything. i've told my friend this but she said well im falling in love with him and all that. I really dont wanna loose my best friend at all! i dont know wut to do and its killing me inside. I tryed to talk to her about it but she doesn't wanna listen to me at all. She told me a few weeks ago the only reason she is with this guy is because he gets her w/e she wants (he got her a diamond ring...a $500 stereo and lets her drive his new car and she doesn't have her permit or license) i dont know what to do!! someone please help!! since this is long ill rate u a 5!!! thanx!!! (link)
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just talk to her and find out how she feels about all this and u need to let her know how you feel when her and her bf are together
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well my older brother is think of moving to flordia with his dad and im not sure if im ok with it cuz me n him are really close and i dont want him to move. and ideals what i can say to himm? (link)
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maybe just tell him that u need him here back home and maybe you guys can make out a plan were he calls you at certain times and comes to vist often.
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I like this guy Max and i think its weird that I have never met him, but I catch him looking at me. I try to not believe it and think its my imagination. Like today i was working on something at school and and he was in the classroom next to mine and so as I was working I looked up and caught him looking at me and we locked eyes for a split second and then he looked down...was this my imagination? I HAVE NEVER MET THE DUDE! How can he look @ me?! I mean, i dont think i'm that attractive...HELP! (link)
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well maybe u should start a conversation with him or just say hi, introduce your self and take it from there
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my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back??? (link)
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sit him down and talk to him! tell how you feel about his absession
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Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!
xoxo (link)
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it sounds like to me that he likes you, i would give a chance and adn maybe call him, whats the worst that could happen? lol
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i am the girl that said she was anarexic for six months and was 5'8 and 13 years old... i now weigh 120 pounds cuz i checked into a hospital and they made me gain ALOT of weight... is 120 to fat for a 5'8 13 yr old? my doctor said that that is how much im suppost to weigh since im so tall... but is that still to much? (link)
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well if your doctor says its fine to weigh that much then i would not worry but there is nothing wrong with keeping healthy by exersizing and eating good foods!
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how do you kno when u need the next bra size up?
[wheneva a bend down i "fall" out, does that mean i needa new size?] (link)
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well that might mean that you need the next one up,maybe you need to try a different style, that may help
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My friend is going out w/ this boy. When he asked her out, he said that he didn't want to tell anyone. I'm the only one they told. His friends tease him because they hang out so much. She's starting to think that he won't tell anyone because he's embarresed of her. What do you think? If it's just because he doesn't know how to stand up to his friends, do you have any advice? (link)
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if he really like this girl then he should not be embarresed of her, he should be proud of them being together
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I have had my Shih Tzu for 1 year and one month got him when he was 3 months old. My problem is he is very difficult to potty train,,,sometimes he has accidents in the house, can't figure out why at his age he does, being I thought he was potty trained he goes for long periods without doing anything, then out of the blue he messes in the house..Can someone help me please??? (link)
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try to punish him for peeing in the house or give him a treat for doing outside or where ever he is soppose to do it
GOOD LUCK!
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ok well i just moved to a new town, where i noticed everyone goes to church. i am jewish, and only 1 of 2 jews in the town (the other being a 77 yr old man) some ppl here dont like jewish ppl...should i keep it a secret, lie..or tell the truth.. i need help. fast (link)
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you should never lie about what you belive in, jesus crist died for our sins to be forgive right? so if he died for us then the least we could do is let our light shine for him!you should never be afraid of what you believe in, you know you are off to a better place and thats all that matters
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Can english goverment depart me if i'm from EU country? (link)
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im not sure but i think so
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