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Q: my younger sister doesnt have her period but she is wearing pads what do i tell her?

Maybe she wants to feel older. I think you should let her continue. Just not let it get out of hand. She'll learn to put on one and be comfy with one...I swear if I had sence like her I'd do it!

Q: when a guy says that he regrets breaking up with you and that he's sorry....& that he wishes he would have tried to work things out.....well what does it mean. does it usually mean that he wants to be just friends or could it mean that he might want to get back together with you?

i rate...
13/f

Thanks in advanced

Depending on the guy. You know him....is he the sort of person that'll get back with an ex? I mean if ya'll are good friends after u broke up he wants to get back with u. But if ya'll rarely speak that'll mean that he wants to be friends and after a while become possibliy more. It could mean anything depending on the guy...n yeah as the person below said he's offering an open door...the desicion is pretty much yours!

Q: ok. i love making stir fry. i love my boyfriend who loves stir fry too. The other day i was cutting up some onions and salting up some broccolli when my boyfriend sexually caressed my rear quarters. i began becoming so exhilirated until the point I COULD NOT TAKE IT ANYMORE! in a blink of an eye IT WAS ON! the next thing i know im naked on the floor laying on broccolli. i was upset because my fry was burnt and looked like crap. i love my boyfriend but if he keeps turning me on and messing up my stir fry then its over. what should i do? i really need stir fry in my life..ha as wierd as it sounds. stir fry over sex.

LolI LURVE your QUESTION! loooool.

I think you should make your stir fry when he's not around. And if he is around...tell him wait and just let yah cook ur food and then you can do yah thing

Q: Hey all I am a 15/f.
Ever since I started watching the T.V show Grey's Anatomy I have been kind of attacted to Kate Walsh (Addison). It's not in a (very)sexual way though, I guess I kind of admire her. But, it is more then that though because I don't want to be her, howeve,r I would like to meet her. I guess I look at her as kind of a mother- figure, because I am not all that close with my mom.
Kate Walsh is not the frist woman that I have felt this way about. I has been the same way with people that I know in person as well, like my middle-school counsoler (as well as a few other people).
So I guess I am not really sure what I am asking for, I guess I want to know if this is this werid? Would You call it a girl crush? Just Kind of helping me clarify my feelings would be great.
Thanks!

IT could be a 'girl crush'....or it could be a role model figure. Sounds more like a role model to me!

Q: k well i was watching thats so raven with my cousin and i realized that the mom is never in any of the newish episodes. where did she go? lol. i know she must have quit or something in real life, but where did she go on the show?

In the show they say she's in london studying law...

Q: How come Zac Efron isn't in the High School Musical concert tour thing? Will he be in High School Musical 2?

He doesn't sing all the songs and also yeah cause he's shooting a next movie. Well anyway ....he Is GOING to be in hsm2 forr surreeee!

Q: Hey. Well on the Grey's Anatomy commercial that plays on Lifetime(show), there's this song that's starts out like

"The first love is the deepest..."

Well I don't know the rest so if you know what I'm talking about I would really appreciate it you told me what the song is called and who it's by. Thanks

Well it's 'the first cut is the deepest' and it's be Sheryl Crow.

Q: okayy i asked this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=467271

But i still cant get my iTunes to work.
I updated my QuickTime
I restarted
then reinstalled iTunes.
then restarted again
then it still wouldnt open!
i really dont wanna delete it and start over.
I have 1050 songs, its not to easy to get them again.
What should i do!?

I think you should either call or write an e-mail to the iTunes Customer Support on their site! There might be something wrong with the version you downloaded...or the computer is not compatable with the version!

Q: is vanessa minnillo pregnant?

2. what color is this kind of hair?

and where can i get one.. what brand? how much?thanks!

http://img324.imageshack.us/img324/4706/vanessa30sv.jpg

...about her being pregnant, well I'm not to certain about it but from what research I have done it seems she has something to tell E!tv. I'm not sure what it is....but it will be on msn if she is!

And..the color...I'm not too sure but you should carry the picture by a salon and show them, they'll have a better idea. See...celebs use mixed colors in their hair so no matter what you do with normal dye, it'll never look the same. HOWEvER, I'm positive she has some highlights and it's not one solid color. The base might be a chestnut.the highlights...I relly am not sure!

Q: Hello, I just wanted to know any kind've a way to gain weight. I am 107 pounds and 5'4.5 inches and i am 15. I know i am a bit underweight but i dont want to gain just a couple pounds i wanted to gain like 10 more pounds or so. I was gonna start a high calorie diet, so like eat breakfast, lunch dinner, and have snacks in between each one and one before bed. Is that a good approach? If you have any suggestions, please let me know. Thanks :)

You are so darn lucky u have to gain weight!!!!

Well first off I would tell you..besides eating high calorie foods...u should work out because you really don't want to have a huge pot belly. Eat high caloried, nutritious foods that give u the energy to work out...and when i say work out not going to the gym and losing all the weight....I mean doing some squatts or a few push ups just to tone up.

You should comsume stuff like pasta. Remember you don't want to get sick...so don't over over eat!

Q: haha, sorry for the dramatical title.
i have hair on my back and arms, now i know everyone has hair, but im italian and my hair is dark. how can i get rid of the hair on my back, i get bugged about it at school and i hate wearing close that bear my back or even a bathing suit. how old do you have to be to get laser hair removal, would this be effective?

maybe u should consider bleaching...and no not clorax. Like the hair bleaching kits...they work and if you're fair it will not show. You can also wax..but that's pretty painful. I suppose the age for laser is 18...and althought it's that I suppose if you aren't that age....you can get parents' permission and do it!

good luck,
happy new year!
cheerio mate!

Q: I am a smoker. I plan to quit.

A high percentage of smokers gain weight when they quit. I am already overweight, and am trying to loose, not gain.

So, my question is this:
What can I do to keep from adding extra pounds?

Please, if you don't have an intelligent answer, don't bother wasting my time and yours.

Thanks

The problem why people gain weight, I think, when they quit smoking is because...they eat instead of smoke. That really...when u think of it, is horrid. Just try to eat in portions..and not snack too much!

Q: okay, well first off i shave down there and it gets irritated very easily, is there any other methods i can do rather than shaving?
i wanna try waxing but i would never be able to pull the strip off myself, so if i went to a salon or w.e-- would they do the whole downstairs?
or just the 'bikini' part, like the sides of thighs.

Depends on what you ask them to do. They can do either the whole thing, the bikini part alone...or both! You just gotta ask!

Q: i was wondering where i could get free mp3 music that has a size less than like 3000 kb.. thanks

limewire?

Q: how do i get my hair to look like this?

http://imdb.com/gallery/hh/0659363/iid_980505.jpg.html?path=pgallery&path_key=Panettiere,%20Hayden&seq=72

Well....how I've seen it being done is like this:

1. You wash your hair and blow dry it with the finger tips.
2. You have the flip over your hair, and use the finger tips to blow dry also.
3. Then use a big curling iron and loosely make curls.
4. Add some hair spray...and ur ready to go!

Q: most of the time when i pee it was this weird odor and when the next person comes in they can even sumtimes smell it why do i have this odor when i pee ? and how can i fix it ??

You may have an infection or be dehydrated! When ur dehydrated ur pee is relly thick and rich in color...it's a strong brown-yellow color!

You shuld check a doctor if it's not dehydration

Q: Are stephen colletti and Hayden Panettiere (sp?) dating? I saw him kiss her last night on the New Years Eve special on MTV (Im so jealous. Ha.) And I was just wondering, if theyre officially a couple.

Yeahhh they are..ever since the punk'd!

Q: I wasnt sure where to post this can your period color be black ever it jsut seem weird

Yeah...well it turns that color on the pad because of how much the pad had...and also cause it dried.

Also....if the 'black' color comes to the ending of your period...it's 'stale' blood. Hence the color

Q: my acne is horrible well i think its horrible i use products everydayy and they dont work i treid proactive for like a month or two and it didnt work at all can someone please sggest something that can make it go away fast like b4 the 12th of january it doesnt all have to dissapear just look better pleaseeee helpp meee !!

Well I use clean and clear and it seems to work for me. I use the sensitive cleanser//wash (so it isn't too harsh) and the blue astrigent and the oil free moisturizer. It's helped me alot...but if u have oily skin like me you might want to use it like 3 time instead of 2!!!

Q: ipod nano 2gb is only in silver huh?
they dont hav the colored ones (only 4gb)
and where can i get the red one?

the nano 2gb comes in both silver and black. The 2nd generation 4gbs are the colored ones. The red one is a special limited one for the help to fight against aids i think...and u'll get it on ebay or www.apple.com!

You might find it in other places...you should check google.com, search for red ipod!