ok lets see.. i have a boyfriend. and i love him to death. and hes older than me by a few years. but hes still a virgin.. we've talked about having sex. and i really think we both love each other and we're ready. but im just scared as to what might happen. and how much it might hurt. im on birth control and he said he'll still use a condom. but im still nervous. what should i do?
babe, if your ready then do it..i mean if its your 1st time then of course your gonna be nervous, i mean its natural. The guy is probably more nervous than you because hes still a virgin and hes older than you. but you have to stay safe and always have the person wear a condom! hope i helped :)
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Okay maybe i'm just over-reacting, but, me and my boyfriend have just recently become sexually active, and we had sex the first time without a condom, i know i know bad decisio, but it wasn't hardcore sex.. it was a put it in take it out kind of thing. Like an experiment. But non-the-less, it wasn't protected. But we've had sex about 3 or 4 times since then, in the last 3 months. I had my period after the first time we had sex, and I know for a fact none of the other condoms have broke. But, for some reason, I haven't had my period in over a month, going on two! I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said i wasn't pregnant, but i just cant' shake this feeling that I am!! Why haven't I had my period!? I know this is long, but I really need advice. Please help!
hey hun, i dont know what you should do cause i have never been in this situation but all i know is that you NEED to talk to your mom or go to a clinic and talk to one of the more skilled people in these situations. I mean before..i didnt get my period for almost a year, but that was just because i had an irregular period and i was just starten but you really neeed to tlk to someone and next time WEAR A CONDOM NO MATTER WHAT! IT IS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY!!!
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My bestfriend decided she didnt like me anymore because i have a boyfriend that i have been hanging out with more than her, although she had been hanging out with my sister before that what do i do to get her friendship back??
hey babe, i can relate cause im goin through the same thing only its the other way around. You just have to be strong! I mean, call this friend and talk to her..sit her down and talk to her face to face. I mean she probably still thinks of you as a best friend, shes just mad at you cause she probably feels out of the picture. Keep her in the picture..call her, ask her to hang out with you and your boyfriend or just make a time for her and make time for your boyfriend. Boys come and go but your girls will always be there for you! Tell your boyfriend that you wiLl chill with him sometimes but your best friend comes first..i mean your boyfriend and your best friend probably mean the same to you but you have to compromise. Chill with you boy one day and chill with you girl the other..or you can chill all three together..and maybe your sister can come! I mean all of you sound like tight close friends, do what makes you happy! Your friend will understand and im sure you boy will too. Tell your sister that you wanna all hang out together. it will work out great but whatever happens just keep your head up and know that im here if you wanna talk! Just talk to this friend and say sorry for keepin her outta the picture and just make her see it from your point of you and just see how you would feel if she did this to you! i cant tell you what to do, you dont have to make a decision between them but you do have to make a decision
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Theres this kid that i kind of like and hes on the same team as me and I kind of got a thing for him but it could just be because i heard he likes me. On the bus to are games we will sit with eachother and cuddle. We will hold hands and sometimes we will sneak in a kiss.But hes really shy when hes round the team like he wont talk to me much and show he has feelings.He says hi to me in school. I heard that he likes me but hes scared to have a relationship like he doesnt want to go out with me and start to like someone else. And he told me he doesnt want a gf and doesnt have time for one bc hes always working but idk if its the truth. I really dont know wat i should do like i like him and love to cuddle with him and all iwant to do his hang out with him but i think hes scared to. And like he really hasnt done much with a girl, jsut kiss. Me and him hung out before and it went well,he never seems like he wants to hang out when he doesnt ahve work and im scared to ask him but idk wat to do .. should i jsut wait and see wat happens or should i give up. he tells me we should be really good friends and get to know eachother and see what happens.
babe, im not really certain how to handle this cause i havent been in a relationship but when it comes to boys..tell him. I mean i know your both shy and you have feelings and if you tell that person, your afraid they might turn you down but babe, you have to be strong..i mean if he turns you down and says he just wants to be friends, you have to respect that..i mean having him as a friend is much more better than as a boyfriend. I mean boyfriends are great, but being single is so much better! hah. But babe, just follow your heart, tell him how you feel and never think of giving up what you want! IF YOU WANT IT, YOU CAN SURE AS HELL GET IT! I mean you much be a beautiful young lady with a great personality so why woouldnt he like you and want to be with you? just Tell him how you feel and maybe if you make the 1st move, he'll make the second! Just be confident
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i like one of my friends and wanna be more
and i dont know what to do can u please healp
oh yeha weve known each other for about 2 years
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i want him
hey babe, okay what you do is talk to him! Tell him how you feel and have confidence! When you guys chill by yourselves..tell him then, dont tell him when your around other people cause then he wont listen. Be like can we talk, i have to tell you how i feel, i love being friends with you but i would love to be more. I really like you and i wanna be with you. Tell him this and maybe you'll get a response, just be open and confident and if he asks you out say yes! but if he just wants to be friends..understand cause being friends with him is more precious than being nothing with him
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Okay, this may sound dumb, but im confused.
If you call a suicide hotline, do they call the cops? Especially since you are in danger? I have always wondered this and my councelor at school gave me a list of hotlines because I am always thinking about suicide.
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OMG babe, i can totally relate. Im always thinkin about suicide..cause it seems to me i have no better option and i just hate everything. BUt babe, suicide is not the answer and i finally understand that. I mean its not gonna solve anything. ANd if you do kill yourself..everyone will just mourn over your death. My friend killed himself about 2 years ago and everyone was really sad! He just couldnt take it anymore..and i cant either but im not gonna do it! KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!! DO THINGS THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY AND KEEP SUICIDE OFF YOUR MIND! and if you ever need to tlk..IM Me on my screenname HIXIMCHRISTINE
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How do i know if my bf is just using me?
We went out last year for like almost 9 months but i broke it off because i started at a new school and i couldnt handle the relationship too. He begged me to take him back and after 3 months of getting settled and really missing him...i did. But it just doesnt seem the same anymore. Now when we do see each other all he wants to do is make out, feel me up, get down my pants. Ya know. Its not like we're hanging out. Its like i'm just there for sexual stuff. What should i do? Is he using me?
female, 16.
hey sweetie. well if your feeling this way,you should deffanitly tell this boy how your feeling. I mean, from what you wrote, it doesnt really seem like this kid wants to talk, he just wants sex. DONT LET HIM DO THAT TO YOU! I know you miss him but if hes gonna take advantage of you or use you for sex, then he is NOt worth it! Tell him how you feel, get him off your mind and just avoid him and then maybe he'll leave you alone. If he has sex with you, without you wanting it but you do it anyways then get outta that relationship! But babe whatever you decide to do, just follow your heart and NEVER let a boy take adventage of you, Have fun but at the same time, be safe
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i hurt my wrist playing volleyball about a month ago. my dad told me it was sprained and it would stop hurting in about a week or so. but my wrist has been hurting for a month. i can't do pushups or lift anything without it hurting. what do u think i've done to it? i rate high!
hun, i dont know what you did to your wrist and i dont think anyone here would know but talk to you dad or mom and tell them whats goin on, how this pain is still constant and how your wrist is still hurting. Just talk to your parents, tell them whats goin on and i bet it will be taken care of! But try not to play volleyball until its healed!
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What are the signs that let you know that you ARE ready to have sex for the first time?
Well, physically&logically your ready for sex now but if your not ready, dont do it. I mean the signs are hormones really. Hormones make you do crazy things and get horny. If your ready to do it, always wear a condom! There is nothing better than being safe than sorry! If you dont wear a condom, it will lead to pregnancy or diseases so talk to your parent, friend, anyone who will help you. You have to love the person you have sex with, i mean dont just give it up because your friends are doing it or the guy is making you feel like you have to! Thats not right. Follow your heart.
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ok so i have this friend, brittany, and we just became friends like over the summer. we were really really good friends and we did a lot stuff together until one month ago. she started blowin me off at skool and not invitin me to her house but other ppl. so i got mad and she did too so we were mad for a while until i decided that our friendship is too good for us to be mad at each other. so i apologized. and i told her that i was only mad cuz i felt left out and stuff like that. well when i told her that she got mad at me!! but then a week later i just said srry and nothin else. so now she doesnt talk to me as much and she still invites friends over but not me. oo yea and i cant just not b friends with her cuz she is on my soccer team and her dads tha coach(i no im screwed) so please help me fix this!!!! 13/f
hey babe, my names christine. omg i totally can relate to your situation, cause im going through the same thing with my best friend. But babe, you just have to stay strong, i mean you have other friends right? maybe if she sees how good of a friend you are and realizes you have been there for her soo much, then maybe she will come back. just give her time hun, and sit her down and talk, call her. I bet she'll understand. Just be strong and cheer up! and if you need me IM me on my sn Hiximchristine..
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