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My name is Erin.
I'm almost 16 [17 days!]
I love this site so much, I always ask a billion questions on advicenators and I do my best to answer as many as I can too.
Most of the time when answering questions
I give you my opinion,
then I go through different senarios [2 or 3] that are on each side of the issue
So ask away :)

advice

whats the 69 position what do i do? what does it look like?

14/f i rate high!

pretend the cicles in the 6 and 9 are heads.
his head in your area and your head in his area.
get it?

hope i helped

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ok..so there was this girl and she was like my best friend all thro 8th grade...then my b/f broke up with me and she went out with him a DAY later. how horrible is that?! well..he is so mean to her and he talks so bad about me and my other friends..but she wont stick up for us..AT ALL! she sits there and laughs about it. she said she was sorry and i was like.ok..and i have forgiven her and everything but now its like evrything she does gets on my nerves i cant stand this girl. and its hard because she still thinks we are best friends and i dont know how to just tell her..Hey girl..we arent friends...i thought it would be easier to forgive her but it keeps getting harder cause she is like the fakest person in the world. idk what i should do because now we are in a huge fight and she is making it seem like its MYYY fault.and ignoring her doest work because she is good friends with another one of my best friends so its like everywhere i go with my friends she is there too..ughhh please help!

I think Somegirl is right couldn't have said it betta. But with the whole thing when your hangin and she is there sit the friend thats friends with the bitch and say "listen lets hang w/o her and you can hang with her w/o me. k? I just don't want you in the middle."

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I made the cheerleading squad this year and i love it.. but our coach said any girls that argued or talked about each other behind their baQs or caused drama were going to be kicked off the squad.. and there is a girl on the squad that is so mean to me.. she makes fun of me but says she is just pickin but it bothers me and she says rude stuff that makes me mad.. but i havent said anything to her about it because i'm afraid it will make her mad and start a fight but i'm rele tired of being treated like that... wut should i do?!?

write an anonomus note to ur coach.

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esoccer1717

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I ounce went out with this girl, but then she dumped me. I still like this girl but i dont know if she even likes me the littlist, i cant figure out if i should ask her out or just get over her.

ask her friends.

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esoccer1717

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ok well ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months,and we never go anywhere, and thats because of me, i just dont feel right around him but i like him and all, and im pretty sure he likes me more then i like him, and in the past couple of days, well ive been talking to this boy johnny, and hes absouloutly my type, and i told him i liked him and he said liked me back, he said he would wait till me and my boyfriend brake up, but i like my boyfriend to!, so i dont know what to do cause he likes me so much and i dont want to hurt his feelings, but i like him and johnny, please help im stuck

You should go out with johnny. If you don't feel comfortable around him than you shouldn't be with him. You might find that you like this johnny guy betta.

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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i like 2 people and im going out w/ 1 im not sure what to do so i can really use some help here thx

Make a list pros and cons of each person add it up and there you go.

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eoccer1717

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well i shaved my 'lower area' for the first time the other day and i got this big rash there. i asked my friend what to do and she said to put unscented lotion on it and make sure i wash it. so i did both and nothing is helping. i still have a rash there and the skin is kind of dry. please help..

One of my bffl, Steph, did that once (never to do it again) She said it hurt so bad, she wouldn't even sit down. I think in the end she just kept putting lotion on it and tried to ignore it.

Keep putting the lotion on. (mabe when your alone a little ice)

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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My sister asked me to ask the following question since she is too young to go on this site...
My sister got a gerbial(YUCK!) but anyways.. she doesnt know what to name it! Its a brownish/tan Male.
Could someone give us some idea's for my sisters pet???


-Luv-
Meg


P.S. Please no websites.

ginger, cinomin, chippy, coco,

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OKay, my BF is way smarter than me. Perfects on any test and he doesn't study. I use to be known as the really smart kid but i kind of fell back because i didnt care if i was the TOP ya know? well now it seems he gets frusterated when i get a B or don't understand something. its almost like i'm to dumb for him. i really like him but i feel so inferior and when i do/say something dumb he just gives me this annoyed look. what do i do?!
i rate ^^

Mabe you can start studing and care if your the top. You and your bf could study together.

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ok my step bro (hoo i reallllllllllllly like) os going to camp for two months and i will miss him so much what do i do to stop thinking about him

PERVIRT u LIKE YOUR STEPBROTHER!!!!!!!!!!
i'll tell u what to do, go see a shrink!!!!!!!!

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if a blind person got shampoo in their eyes would it sting? dotn tell me its a stupid question i know ! i rate high!

Yes they can feal it.

hope i helped
esoccer1717

kElLi tHiS a StUpId QuEsTiOn

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A guy I know said he wants to neck with me. What does that mean?

OoO someone wants too "make-out" with you

necking = makeing out

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I have an anger promblem,i mean i get mad at the litte things.And its hard to stop ,all my friend know i lose it fast.But i've been getin to fights more and more with friends.And they say i need to be clam and stop getin mad.I've tryed siting in my room in the cornor with music on.It works for a bit but,after that i go crazy.

Have any ideas ?

Any one who went to my elamentary school knows i have an anger problem. i had to go to anger management!

Tips:

- Think why am i so mad at ___. Are you taking anger from somthing else and thats why its so bad?

-Scream into your pillow. scream and scream till you are so tired you can't scream any more.

-Get into sports being aggressive and focesing your anger on it will make you fell great when you win

-What happen to make you mad? After you think about it most of the time it's silly

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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Tommrow im going with my grandma to her "Bring your kids to work day", and I have no Idea what to wear?


Any Suggestions?

Thanks;)

THANK GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Finally a fashion question! Don't wear jeans n a tee, What will Grandma's co-workers think? wear a button down shirt and really nice pants, if you wear a skirt make sure its not too short (don't want to give the old girl a heart attack!) make sure it's not too long eather (looks faggy and what if some one brings there really hot greandson to work?)

hope i helped
esoccer1717

ps. i love fashion so next time u have a question ask me directly!

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Me & my guy friend had a fight like 2 weeks ago, then last week I called him to apologize (it was nothing big i swear...just stupid) and i don't think he was happy to hear from me. He went to out of town for a few days and just got back today and now he's leaving again tomorrow for a week and a 1/2. I havent talked to him since I've called him. He told my friend that he's not mad but he just doesn't wanna talk to me bc he's afraid then I might start to like him. I sent him a text asking him if he was still mad and he never texted me back. I need to know if I should try calling him again TONIGHT before he leaves again bc I really miss him sooo much and I don't want our friendship to be over because of this bc we've been friends for 6 yrs & have been thru soooo frikin much together! HELP PLEASE!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO???? And if I call him, what should I say to get him to listen to me? Thanks!

i say call. Leave a message if he dosen't pick up. ask whats with the cold sholder and you want to be his friend. Personally I would give this guy the finger than the cold sholder but if you like him and you think he is worth it, Go call him.

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This guy is really cool. But, it's so confusing to tell if he likes me. First, he has a cute nickname for me, and he touches my shoulders a lot when we're walking. Also, he gives me complements and looks right into my eyes when we talk. I also catch him starring at me during class sometimes like at my legs or at my face. Does it sound like he really does like me?

thanks! ill rate 5's!!

Sounds like it but trust me on this (experance) don't go out with him unless you like him! The worst thing you can do to a boy is go out with him when you don't like him.

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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