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how do you make this super hot egyptian chick forget about her boyfriend and fall for you?

You dont. Just wait for her and her boyfriend to break up, and then you can go for it.

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does it hurt you or feel weird when you take out a tampon?!?!

thanx,
anomonyous

No. But sometimes it can be kinda hard if it's not full enough.

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A lot of people judge people by their looks and not by their personality. i used to do that too. i realized you arnt going to become a better person and your not going to meet people by judging other people by their looks. It makes me want to cry how i am experecing this. I realized i have been doing that too. i told some people about this person awhile back whom i liked. he wasn't the greatest looking person and the people i told knew that. when i told them, they all looked at me in discuss. that night i reconsidered liking him because of what he looked like and how dorky he was. Now i could have become really good friends with that cretin guy, but because of people and myself judging him, i am not friends with him. Everyone will not notice this, but every look you give a person, if its bad it will bring him/her down. just think about it. How would ypu fee; about it, people making fun of the way you look, or the cold looks you get every day when you walk down the halls. you see every popular boy and girl with someone, having un. Then you see yourslef looking at them wishing you were them. Christina Auhulara has inspired me to write this paragraph, Her song "Beautiful" is a great song. I hope some day you will listen to this song and think the same this i do.

:) I think the same way :) I will be friends with everyone, I dont care what they look like. Nerdy people need friends too right? Christina's song IS great.

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ok i'm scared to go to high school because i hear you have to shower in front of all the other girls!!! i really don't want to do that it's really gross!! what do i do??!?!?!

We dont do that at my school.

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Im a girl and I wanted to know is it wrong to like boys???? Both of my moms said it was bad!!!!! Please tell me!!!!

no its not

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Since you didnt finsh in the pubic i am sending this to myself so I can reply.....

1) bush supports abortion for rape victims only...killing a child 4 any other reason is wrong and is nobodys right.

2)Hes doing ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING BUT relaxing. dumbass.

3)gay marriages go against what this country stands on.

4)you get paid for adoptions and the child gets to live. youre stupid. its not leaving it behind. it giving it a loving family that a new form of adoption lets you choose. Im adopted and i have NEVER ONCE felt that way or wondered that. im thankful that i am blessed with a great family that loves me. even thought they arent biologically my parents they love n support me n im thankful that my real mother gave me up cuz she wasnt able to be responsible for me.

5) sadamm deserves to die. the end.

Ok, Look... You are such a freaking hard headed hypocritcial immature child. If you cannot answer in a civilized way then I think you should just go ahead and punch yourself in the face before someone else does it, because you really deserve to get the living crap beat out of you.
Abortion is not wrong. IN NO WAY. Keep your opinion to yourself. Also, in your first letter, you could have atleast used spell check, and proper puncuation. We go to school for around 18 years to learn, get an education, and If you cannot figure out the difference between your and Your'e then obviously you are a hard headed dumbass. End of story. Get a life. Go back to school.
Just because he is the president does not mean that he shouldnt praticipate in the war. If he cares about our country he should stand up for it instead of having other people do it.
This country does not depend on wether or not gay marriages are allowed. This country is supposed to be about your freedom of speech, your freedom, and independence. This includes GAY people and marriages. Gay people are excatly like you and me. They are people, not objects.
So, you would give your kid up for adoption just to collect money? What does money have to do with this? I, for one, am not stupid. I am edjucated, it seems that however, you are not. Adoption is kind of like abortion if you think about it, either way, youre giving your kid up. If you dont want a kid, then dont have sex.
Yes, Sadamm deserves to die, along with other ignorant people in this world. SOoooooo yeah. Now, this is the end. Go one, rate me with a one again. Ouch that hurts.

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Everythings set
No ones home
Liquid on me like a net
Making this dome

Im not turning back
This worlds just not for me
Im starting to pack
I know you wish I could see

This river makes a maze
Up towards me
Im so afraid of this blaze

It flickers in the dark
I dont want to let it go
On my fingers its leaving a mark
But its ok because no one will know

Its falling
I close my eyes
I hear my mom calling
I realize i dont want to say good-bye

I jump up and run so fast
Flames
They all pass

Im almost to the door
But its to late
I fall to the floor
I dont want this to be my fate

I screamed so loud
My bodies burning
Wraping around me like an orange cloud
My skin is turning

I stop breathing
I am almost gone
My bodies seething

My brain stops
Its all over

I finished the plan
My ashes they'll keep in a golden pan

And everyone will see
They'll know i commited a sin
They thought it could never be
I tried, but the flames, they always win

Nice

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i'm starting to get some things ready for back to school. i'm gonna go clothes shopping soon at the mall and I want some really great clothes to "wow" everyone at school. anyone know where to get cool clothes??

Abercrombie and Fitch
American Eagle
Wet seal
Hollister
Rave
Pac Sun
The limited
Express
Gadzooks

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ok i dunno if i like this poem i wrote can you guys help me

Checking my pulse:
checking my pulse
trying to see if i'm alive
as i lay here
me sweat making my hair stick to my face
my heart pounding
my stomach spinning
checking my pulse
becuase i just told you
how i feel
i feel as if i've been lifted away
into a world unknown to me
into a world lead by you

I love it. Reminds me of a certian guy

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hey it doesnt matter if i know u.i fell in love at first sight.sorry for any mistakes.so how did u pass the day.i was a little sick.bye sweety

Youve never even seen me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW IN THE HECK COULD YOU FALL IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT!!!!!! YOUVE ONLY SEEN PICTURES OF ME!!!!!!! Please, leave me alone like NOW

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Many people have been saying that proactiv works to clear up acne but proactiv is from the infomercial, and I'm really scared to try it. Do they have it available in stores? About how much will it cost?

I use it. It works great. Now i just use it for prevention. Yes, they sell it at most malls, $40.00 to $80.00 for the complete system

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I didn't know wut to put this under so i put it under love life .. buh im gettin my belly button pierced august 11th and im 14 and im still gunna get it cuz like my best friend is in poland . and she comesz bak aug 7th and her b-day is aug 8th and then were gunna go shooppin on august 9th and shes gunna sleep over on the 10th and on the 11th were gettin our belly button's pierced .. im reely scared .. kan someone tell me if it hurtZ?

Its all in your head weather or not its gonna hurt. I have mine and It didnt hurt that bad. Just keep telling yourself over and over that it wont hurt and it will make it better

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k soo ..i kissed my best friend and i want to do it again but he gut a girll who is older than him ..but i dont like her that much..but still..its funn..and i think i like him..do i keep doing it?

I used to make out and stuff with my really good friend, it was fun lol/ But umm I would say dont do it if he has a girlfriend........

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On the last day of school, these mean popular girls came up to me and started to pick a fight just for the fun of it. I got a little emotionable. Now next year I dont want that to happen again. What should i do to avoid that?

~*AhHhHhH*~

Stand up to them. Dont let them get to you. Either that, or ignore them either way.

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I have a very busy schedule...and i dont have time to go to a gym...so does anyone have advice on what I can do to help me lose weight? or at least to get in great shape and to have a nice firm body?

If im out somewhere where they have stairs, I take those instead of the elevator

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ok well u no how they have bases on yer personal life like homebase is having sex well whats 1st 2nd and 3rd base??

1st kissing &making out
2nd feeling
3rd like uh fingers and stuff
Or the 3 F's , French, Feel, Finger, and uhh F**k

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ok...i have music on my colum and i want to change the song. i went xanga.com and stuff and i everyone is saying to copy the code...what code? ive dont this b4 but i forgot! PLEASE HELP and i will rate

Right click, click on properties, and copy the code

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well ok ive never had sex before....and every guy i have ever dated always wants to have sex...ive gottin fingered before 3 times but like im scared to have sex...does it hurt really bad yer first time? like i dont know im kinda scared and i want to do it i just dont know what should i do?

it depends on the size of the guy and well, the size of you. Just go with the flow......and use protection

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okay, so here's the situation..in 7th grade i used to be how do you say it..the ugly duckling..then in eighth grade my body matured and i was still unhappy with myself..then people started complimenting me and i have had no trouble finding people to do stuff with..not meaning sex but...yah know..i just don't know what to do ..because as much as i want a boyfriend im soo used to my usual thing..i don't know what to do..what if i cheat on that boyfriend..or what..is it like wrong not to have boyfriends..becuase i don't think im ready for a relationship..maybe in time but i mean right now im not gunna settle down ..but is it wrong or what?
signed-
-what to do?

No its not wrong. I went through this stage where I didnt want a boyfriend for about a year :)

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what is a moderator?? i realy wana know

Someone who like "watches" the site. Like right now Im a level one, and I just get to rate questions on a scale of one to three. Level two's get to Ban members for up to like 5 days and I THINK delete questions. Level 3's well....... dont even worry about that lol I doubt anyone will get that far :)

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