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there's this guy i like. i always look at him and sometimes stare. hehe. he doesnt know me, we're just schoolmates. i sometimes follow him when i spotted him at school like when he went to the library and sat near his table, i kind of stalked him. (kinda creepy i know haha) i had this crush for the whole semester.. the next semester i decided to approach him and ask for his name and his mobile number, then his friend said, "hey you're that girl who keeps on following him right? (laughs)" and my friends we're like "ha! you're just jealous." then my crush just smiles and i saw him blushed (cute!). then we started texting and sometimes asked me to eat lunch with him. he sometimes say something like "did you really followed me around?" and say "yah cause i think ur really cute" and im not embarrassed about it because we became really close and im really comfortable w/ him. and also asked questions like "so do you follow other guys too?" and jokingly answered "yah. jealous?"
then one day while we're in his friends condo, watching movies and stuff, (w/ his and my friends btw) while we're watchin a movie w/ the lights out, he just started touchin me and kissin my neck, which kind of annoys me at first cause i couldnt concentrate on the movie. but later give in to it and started kissin him as well. but after that day, he started avoiding me, he always says he's just busy and we'll hang out w/ me again when he's free blah blah blah, at first i thought he's avoiding me because maybe he thinks im a bad kisser or something. (cause i think im not) after a few days i asked him whats up w/ him and whats wrong. and told me he was just really busy. we slowly started hangin out again but always keeping his distance from me (w/c i think is pretty immature), he cant look at me in the eye anymore when we're talking which is really annoying so i told him that if its about the kiss we had that night he shouldnt worry about because i dont like him that way anymore (LIE). and he was like "ok"
we're very opposite by the way. he loves to study, really smart and not a partyer but he's not a nerd. he's 4th yr accountancy student w/c i think is really cool. i sometimes asked him to help me with my projects, tutor me, etc. i always asked him to go clubbing w/ me and my friends but he always say no. i think he likes me but when i asked him if he does, he just laugh (uncomfortaby b the way) and say no. i really like him and want him to date him but he keeps on pushing me away every time i start to make a move on him (like when i tried to kiss him). but when i ask for his help w/ school stuffs he helps me, he bought me gifts, carry my purse for me, drives me home, text me goodmorning and goodnight everyday, he's always there for me when i needed someone to talk to, etc.
i once asked him about his past girlfriends and he told me had 1 back in highschool and 1 in our school, i asked him if he loved those girls and he said yes and smile. which really made me extremely jealous. good thing he didnt ask me back cause i dont know if i can tell him i dated a LOT of guys. then asked him if he still has feelings for one of them and say no. w/c really made me happy. one time at lunch i asked him if he finds attractive and he say yes, then asked "so do u like me?" and said yes, then i said "no, as a girlfriend" then he said no (ouch!) then i told him "cause there's a guy who's asking me out and if im having second thoughts if i should say yes to him" (i just want to his reactions) and he said "give him a chance" and im like "yah i will". i rejected a lot of guys when i started liking him. but he's doing the same to me :(( im not used to rejections and i never thought that it would hurt this much when someone you really like rejected you. but he asked me about the guy after a few days. and i said something like "he's hott but i dont know, its like whatever blah blah blah"
he also introduce me to his parents on his birthday, and played w/ her little sister.. after dinner he drived me home and kissed me. the called me when he got home. the next day he acted like he always does like we didnt kiss last night and just talks to me like nothing happen.. im starting to get sick of his mind games! i just dont know what he's thinking.
what should i do? should i wait for him? cause i think he's not ready to have a gf (or for me)? i really really do like him. i cant stop thinking about him and i sometimes had some sexual dreams about him. do you think he likes me too or im the only one who thinks so?? should i give up?? why does he always rejects me? (link)
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okay seriously I had to stop reading after para 2. He was only being funny with you after because he was emabrassed that at first you didn't want to kiss him, plus maybe he told one of his mates and they twisted about you following him around. Just think sometimes boys can be cruel, as girls get a crush and make a long great relationship. whereas boys lead girls on, kiss them and then get bored and ignore you. Not all of them, just some. It happens to nearly every girl. Just be kind to him, innocent until proven guilty right? Ask him why he dosen't really want to go anywhere with you and if he says its because he isn't interested say why'd you kiss me then. He's the one with something to hide, so don't get upset. You'll end up on top.just stay confident. If your not don't bother just ignore him too and try to get over him or find a new crush sometimes boys are just not worth the effort. it's possible that maybe if you ignore him too he'll feel the same way and start asking you to go places, as he won't like they shoulder, just as much as you didn't.
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for the past 3 weeks i went on a bit of a starvation diet.
i havr 700 TOPS calories a day, usualy from the 400-600 range, on bad days 700.
i got my period 4 times in one month and iALWAYS have to make number 2.
i feel like anything i eat just come out.
i dont eat enought to be making so much but i do!
is everything ok with me? is htis normal?
do you think me getting my period 4 times (maybe 3) in one month relates to this? i have 2 anorexic friends that DONT get their period bc they dont eat...
whats wotn with me! (link)
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Don't fret, its no panicking time. Go to your GP as soon as you can and explain to him. Maybe its something simple but he can help rule out anything malicious or dangerous and calm you down hopefully
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I think I have anxiety issues. I will list some things to help you decide. I think alot about my future, what I'm going to do, what I'm going to become and sometimes I think to much about it and I realize I have no clue what I want to do and I'd cry because I think I am going to get nowhere in life, sometimes I get mad at myself for being three pounds over my normal weight. But I don't really know what anxiety attacks are which is the reason I am asking this question, to see if someone can explain to the fullest amount what they are. What the anxiety attacks are, uh, so famous people you know of that has them and how it's affecting their life (I only say famous because I would know them, as well. "Oh, my best bud Jimmy.." I wouldn't know him) I believe Alex Gaskarth has attacks. Uh, yea. Please fill me in, that'd be great! Thanks! (link)
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honestly, I don't believe you have any anxiety. your more insecure, but don't worry. Some people are worriers in life, I know I am but that dosen't mean theres something wrong with you, you just need to get a bit more confidence. look on the plus side of things, try to help others than you know your going somewhere in life. To help yourself sometimes it means you need to help other people to fell you have purpose. Confidence is the key, you'll feel like so what if I have those 3 extra pounds as long as I wear them and be happy who cares because no one else does and if they don't why should you. Be happy about yourself and think you can be happy if you want to be.
However, you asked about anxiety attacks, its where every bad thing in your mind comes at you and once and you can't breathe and feel so bad about yourself and scared that you fell like your at breaking point. If not helped straight away can eat away at you till you hurt yourself, others and can even end in suicide. Don't worry, we all hit a midlife crisis at somepoint just keep telling yourself you can get through this and with help from others, you will. Tell a famly member or a trusted friend, so they cna suppourt you. it will help you get throught it faster and better with someone by your side.
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I have been watching my mother in laws children for almost two years now. One is three and the other is six. I have a three year old as well. I am started to think I would like to try to get an actual job. My mother in law hates daycare and preschool and I am the only person she really trusts to watch her children. I am afraid to tell her that I don't want to watch her children anymore. My husband doesn't want me to get a new job because I'm helping his mother so much. We could really use the extra money though (I only get paid $305/2 weeks from watching her kids.) Should I tell my mother in law I want to quit or should I just keep watching them until they are all in school? (link)
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you can't wait years wasting precious time while her kids grow up, try to explain to her that you'd like a chance at a good future and well paid job if not for yourself for your family and kids. I'm sure she'll understand that its not becuase you don't care or your selfish, its because you want the best for your kid. Which in her not wanting her kids to go to a pre school doesn't she want the same for hers?
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So why does everyone hide someones eyes in pictures or on tv when trying to keep them anonymous... like anyone who knew them well would probably still be able to tell by the rest of their face and their hair and body... I never understood that. Really random question I know haha I'm just curious if anyone knows.. (link)
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sometimes its like a legal thing, so the TV company want a less blurry pic so you can see the lips and everything talking but the person wants to be unknown so they cover up what they think is the most identifying part the eyes stupid really but yknow
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Alright, I have one of those movie friendships. Everyone thinks my friend and I are going to fall in love, get together, get married one day and live happily ever after. I am a 16 year old girl as is he 16. We have been best friends for.. well, forever, since the first day of third grade. We had this little clique, me, him, and two boys that both had turned out to um, like boys. They had since moved away and it's just me and him left from that third grade class. We have our own friends but we are both close as well. Everyone thinks since we are so close, we're hiding a relationship, that we really like each other.
I just want to tell you a few things about our relationship and you can tell me if you believe everyone else or you think me and him are right in this.
My friend is really shy, he's an amazing guy and he would take a bullet for me but he doesn't talk a lot. Leading to low self esteem and hardly any confidence, I really have to watch what I say around him or I know he'll get kinda down about it but when he does I do whatever I can to make him happy, I give him little confidence boosts, I guess you could call them. On the off chance that I am having a bad day, he knows it and he asks, he won't make me tell him what's wrong, he won't push the subject (even though I always tell him anyway), I then apologize for dumping all of my problems on him and making him feel obligated to help me out and he always comes back with a remark similar to "you don't have to apologize, I want to know what's bothering you, I care." We talk all the time, we talk in school, at band practice, at fundraisers and when we aren't together, we text. We talk about a lot of random things and that's what I like about him, he can just be laid back, we don't have to talk about anything serious. We are both in the marching band at our school and everyday after practice, I give him crackers, the same kind everyday because he loves them. Every one said I'm like his mom. The first time I got silly bandz when the whole thing started at my school, I was talking to him about them and he said he doesn't like anything on his wrists, he likes nice and bare but when I put them on his desk and showed them to him, he picked one up and wore it until it broke a lot of months later. I have trouble in a class that he excels in so I text him and ask him if he can help me with the homework or the notes and he would ask me what exactly I needed and he would help me so much. His mom is quite fond of me, ever since we talked for a while at a band function. The last time I saw her, it was raining quite heavy and she told me to not get sick and stay bundled up. Lastly, my friend has such a passion for music, he writes songs and plays guitar. He plays his guitar for me when I'm sad but he doesn't sing for me. Ever. He said he can sing in front of his other friends and he sings at parties but he won't sing for me.
So, what do you think? Do you believe everyone else? I'd really appreciate your input. Thanks! (link)
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just because you two are great friends dosent mean there has to be something else there.. does it? Maybe one day, yeah he will turn around and say he has feelings for you, but thats not likely to happen at the minute with him being so shy. carry on with what your doing boosting his confidence and being kind and making him feel good. Keep it simple though, plainly friends ship, if you tell him you like him it could ruin everything, ask him - what do you think it would be like if me and you ever got together?
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