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Does he likes me? or im the only who thinks so??
there's this guy i like. i always look at him and sometimes stare. hehe. he doesnt know me, we're just schoolmates. i sometimes follow him when i spotted him at school like when he went to the library and sat near his table, i kind of stalked him. (kinda creepy i know haha) i had this crush for the whole semester.. the next semester i decided to approach him and ask for his name and his mobile number, then his friend said, "hey you're that girl who keeps on following him right? (laughs)" and my friends we're like "ha! you're just jealous." then my crush just smiles and i saw him blushed (cute!). then we started texting and sometimes asked me to eat lunch with him. he sometimes say something like "did you really followed me around?" and say "yah cause i think ur really cute" and im not embarrassed about it because we became really close and im really comfortable w/ him. and also asked questions like "so do you follow other guys too?" and jokingly answered "yah. jealous?"
then one day while we're in his friends condo, watching movies and stuff, (w/ his and my friends btw) while we're watchin a movie w/ the lights out, he just started touchin me and kissin my neck, which kind of annoys me at first cause i couldnt concentrate on the movie. but later give in to it and started kissin him as well. but after that day, he started avoiding me, he always says he's just busy and we'll hang out w/ me again when he's free blah blah blah, at first i thought he's avoiding me because maybe he thinks im a bad kisser or something. (cause i think im not) after a few days i asked him whats up w/ him and whats wrong. and told me he was just really busy. we slowly started hangin out again but always keeping his distance from me (w/c i think is pretty immature), he cant look at me in the eye anymore when we're talking which is really annoying so i told him that if its about the kiss we had that night he shouldnt worry about because i dont like him that way anymore (LIE). and he was like "ok"
we're very opposite by the way. he loves to study, really smart and not a partyer but he's not a nerd. he's 4th yr accountancy student w/c i think is really cool. i sometimes asked him to help me with my projects, tutor me, etc. i always asked him to go clubbing w/ me and my friends but he always say no. i think he likes me but when i asked him if he does, he just laugh (uncomfortaby b the way) and say no. i really like him and want him to date him but he keeps on pushing me away every time i start to make a move on him (like when i tried to kiss him). but when i ask for his help w/ school stuffs he helps me, he bought me gifts, carry my purse for me, drives me home, text me goodmorning and goodnight everyday, he's always there for me when i needed someone to talk to, etc.
i once asked him about his past girlfriends and he told me had 1 back in highschool and 1 in our school, i asked him if he loved those girls and he said yes and smile. which really made me extremely jealous. good thing he didnt ask me back cause i dont know if i can tell him i dated a LOT of guys. then asked him if he still has feelings for one of them and say no. w/c really made me happy. one time at lunch i asked him if he finds attractive and he say yes, then asked "so do u like me?" and said yes, then i said "no, as a girlfriend" then he said no (ouch!) then i told him "cause there's a guy who's asking me out and if im having second thoughts if i should say yes to him" (i just want to his reactions) and he said "give him a chance" and im like "yah i will". i rejected a lot of guys when i started liking him. but he's doing the same to me :(( im not used to rejections and i never thought that it would hurt this much when someone you really like rejected you. but he asked me about the guy after a few days. and i said something like "he's hott but i dont know, its like whatever blah blah blah"
he also introduce me to his parents on his birthday, and played w/ her little sister.. after dinner he drived me home and kissed me. the called me when he got home. the next day he acted like he always does like we didnt kiss last night and just talks to me like nothing happen.. im starting to get sick of his mind games! i just dont know what he's thinking.
what should i do? should i wait for him? cause i think he's not ready to have a gf (or for me)? i really really do like him. i cant stop thinking about him and i sometimes had some sexual dreams about him. do you think he likes me too or im the only one who thinks so?? should i give up?? why does he always rejects me?
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okay seriously I had to stop reading after para 2. He was only being funny with you after because he was emabrassed that at first you didn't want to kiss him, plus maybe he told one of his mates and they twisted about you following him around. Just think sometimes boys can be cruel, as girls get a crush and make a long great relationship. whereas boys lead girls on, kiss them and then get bored and ignore you. Not all of them, just some. It happens to nearly every girl. Just be kind to him, innocent until proven guilty right? Ask him why he dosen't really want to go anywhere with you and if he says its because he isn't interested say why'd you kiss me then. He's the one with something to hide, so don't get upset. You'll end up on top.just stay confident. If your not don't bother just ignore him too and try to get over him or find a new crush sometimes boys are just not worth the effort. it's possible that maybe if you ignore him too he'll feel the same way and start asking you to go places, as he won't like they shoulder, just as much as you didn't.
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you should start hanging out with other guys and give him the 'cold shoulder' and be noticeable about his reaction. if he's still ignorant ,that means he probably has no deep feelings for you and just treats you like a friend. if he reacts wierdly then that probably means he's still uncertain about his feelings towards you. maybe he's afraid to admit to himself that he likes you deep down under..
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