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To make my love life over the course of high school short, 8th grade I dated a guy (for 6 months) who was an airhead. Freshman to sophomore year I dated a guy (1 year) who was mentally/physically abusive and also raped me. I should also mention he took my virginity. I ended sophomore year on a bad note of one night stands that were alcohol induced out of depression. I started junior year off by dating the same airhead from 8th grade until we ended it about 2 months ago (I'm now a senior).
I feel myself slipping back into what happened to me sophomore year (drunk hookups based off of my need for intimacy). Often guys that I'm friends with will ask why I hate hugs, hand holding, any form of touching. I can't stand to be touched by guys, that is unless I'm drunk. I never used to be this way until I dated the guy who abused me, and it continued into my relationship with the airhead I dated. I don't want to believe that I'll be this way forever...but it's been 2 years and I'm still not okay. I'm going off to college in the fall and it's hard for me to not think of how dating in college is twice as fast as high school. The steps of holding hands or cuddling will be skipped over completely for just sex. I need to fix my issues but I just don't understand how therapy could teach me to like hugs or to be ticklish again. The only person in my life who knows that I have this issue is my best friend and she says I should go to therapy...but I just don't see the use. I just want to set things back.
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Above you said only your best friend knows, so I am asuming your parents never knew about this. You should tell your parents and go to a discussion group. This will help you come to be comfortable bein touched by men. I agree with your friend. I hope I helped.
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I'm only 17 and i have a five month old baby would the best thing to do is ask her to marry me? (link)
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Yes, that child needs a mother, but make sure you are ready for a commitment. Since you are at a young age, you have to be sure its what you want. I would say yes though. Make sure she is ready too. Talk to her about it, and bring up marriage a lot. I hope I helped.
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how do lesbians have sex? I mean.. is it possible without a strap on? lol. (link)
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Yes it is possible, many differnt lings are considered sex, there is fingering eating out playing with each other.
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okay im female 16 and have only had boyfriends
but lately ive been looking at lesbian porn :S i enjoy it .. does this mean im bi??? (link)
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No, this in no way makes you bi. That is something you must decide. Statistics show, roughly 48 percent of all girls/women watch some sort of "gay, lesbian" porn. It just depends on what turns you on.
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Hey everybody, can anyone suggest a cool MySpace display name for a guy? I guess I am not very clever because everyone I've come up with just doesn't sound quite right.
I would like it if it wasn't perverted in any way because heck even my grandmother has a MySpace these days! :-)
Thank you everybody! You will be rated! (link)
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here are a few suggestions.......
iliaz - smart guy, who knows how to do some things
colin curtin - a super coolpreppy guy
stiks - a cool tough fun sized guy
the rest have no definition
big daddy, captain hook, The man from Del Monte I hope I helped.
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If somebody says, "Wow! She's a mother hubbard!" What does that mean exactly?
Does it mean her hair and clothes are outdated or have poor style?
Or does it mean something like the woman is really ugly or manly looking?
Maybe she's just rude or something???
It sure doesn't sound nice...
I'm confused. Please explain? (link)
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Most likely that you are very busy, run off your feet, too much responsibility,
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Is sex during pregnancy safe or not? Should we have sex during pregnancy or not?
I'm pregnant for the first time and I'm concerned about the effects of having sex while pregnant. What is safe and what isn't? Will it hurt my baby if I have sex with my partner? Will I lose my baby if we have sex? (link)
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If you're having a normal pregnancy, sex is considered safe during all stages of the pregnancy. It is up to you if you want to, but you will find as you get further into the stages you will not get as turned on or even feel the desire. All of it is safe, there ahs only been a few rare cases of the baby having defects and being lost, hope I helped.
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15/f
What are good ways to detroy my enemy/make her jealous? (link)
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use the power of words and wit not the power of physical contact and bleeding.
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What charities need more donations? What type of foundations and services? I would preger it be more of a local type answer rather than donating to other countries such as Africa. Thank you. (link)
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Red Cross, TIB patients, Ronald Mcdonald house, ronald mcdonald house is my favorite one it is for families to stay at while friends or family are in the hospital they provide free staying clothing and food and games for kids it is an amazing place.
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So if Christmas is a holiday that is celebrating the birth of Christ, then can someone tell me why non christians celebrate christmas??
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Because Christ was not born on Decemeber 25, this seemed like a holy day to make it, he was really born in the summer/spring time. But they do not care about faith or spiritualism they only care about items, its just like easter, people through in presents and candy and take the origanalism out of the holiday for chirst (trinity)
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How do you know you are save? what about judgment day, only god knows who goes to heavan, we only have a hope of eternal salvation (link)
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When you truely beleive in your heart God sent his son to die on the cross, and when you know you are a sinner and need his help to become clean, and believing he is your savior, but you must ask God into your heart. No we do know if we are going to heaven, God knows if you believe or dont believe but so do you, he can just discern the two in a second.
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I'm a Christian but I love translating my dreams. Do you think translating dreams would be against God's word or that he wouldn't like that?
Thanks :) (link)
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No not at all as long as it involves him, do you remember when Joseph got the coat of many colors from his father, then his brothers threw him into a pit and sold him, well he was released from prison and put as the kings dream interpreter, God made it so good things came from the dreams, hope I helped :)
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where dose it says in the bible that preacher sould or not get paid? (link)
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its does not delibrately say that. It is made through accusations whether this is false or not, prophets have not been able to discern it, he said he will provide for the preacher, for ex. giving them food house and prosperity. But no in the bible it is not directly staten, it depends on what religion.....
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Okay So Me And This Guyy Have Hadd Sexx A Couple Times And We NEVER Use A Condom. But Theres No Need Forr A Condom If He NEVER Cums, Righhtt?
I Askked Him Why He Neverr Cums And He Saidd "I Cann Handle Mines" ;
Is That Evenn Possible? Cann Youu Reallyy Stopp Yourselff From Cumingg?
His Friendd Toldd Me It's Because He Doesn't Have Balls. But I Thinkk He's Just Sayingg That To Mess Aroundd. But At The Same Time I Kindaa Believe It. But I'm Not Sure If It's Possible For A Guyy Not To Have Balls.
Andd I Know I Shouldd Knoww If I Hadd Sexx Withh Him Like More Thenn 10 Times But I've Neverr Actaullyy Payedd Attentionn. (link)
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You can not hold in your cum, he is probably missing a testacle or maybe he does not make sperm.
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Okay,
So Yesterday My girlfriend and I had sex for our second time.
We used a condom and it didnt break or anything.
I checked it Really Good.
And She just got off birth control on the 14th.
and for some reason we are worried she is pregnant.
And idk
What are the chances of her getting pregnant?
like after just getting off birth control and the condom was used correctly.
Thanks(: (link)
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the chances are none, if you guys were completely protected, like you said, then you guys are safe, and she is not pregnant, have her check and see iif there iis sperm in her, then you will sureley know.
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So, I see a lot of girls who have lip gloss on, but their lips are very light pink. I have lip primer from MAC, but when I use it and put on light pink lip gloss, the color of my lips stays the same. It's just shinier, which I don't want. It seems like lip gloss never changers the color of my lips. I want my lips to be a very light pink, not the dark pink that they are! (link)
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try using Stendhal lipgloss, it makes your lips look the color you want, it stays on and it protects your lips, how great is that? I use this and am very pleased with it, hope I helped
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17/F
I got off my period on friday and had protected sex on saturday.Unfortunately, the condom broke towards the end but my partner DID pull out.There could be a chance sperm is inside me,but i don't know.I was wondering what my chances are of being pregnant?I know sperm lives inside for 3 days and I ovulate after 2 weeks.I began taking birth control on sunday night (I've never taken it before,this is my first time) So is there a high chance I'm pregnant? (link)
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no there is a very low chance, if the condom broke toward the end the chances are 75% not and 25% maybe, so there is a slim chance you are prenant, when he pulled out sperm could have gotten in the vagina, but it dependson how deep he was, and if it sunk down, check yourself, or take a pregnancy test,
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when ever i think about sex I get really disgusted, sex seems so nasty and gross, i mean someone licking you down there and eating you out gross, and someone fingering you and putting there parts in you, im being serious, well my question is, Is sex gross? (link)
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Well for some people it is.I am only going to use it to make babies, not for pleasure, I think it is exciting and enjoyable, you are prabably too young to know for sure how you feel, you are just not ready yet, trust me its fun......
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Can a girl be pregnant if her boyfriend cum outside of her ass in anal sex (link)
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Its is possible, but it all depends on how deep he went in, and how close he got to the vagina, the odds are very slim for you not too be pregnant, the only thing they can do is take a test.
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Hey, I'm a girl. 16. ^^
Okay, so... I've just recently turned 16 and got my medicare card.
Me and my boyfriend really cannot be bothered to use condoms anymore, and we're thinking of getting me on the Pill, now that I've got my own medicare card.
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The question is, would Medicare record my transaction at the doctor/chemists? And do we get something in the mail about it?
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Please don't tell me stuff like "You're too young", or "that's unhealthy". I really don't need that. (link)
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It will be on your medical record and whenever you go to the doctors they will see it and they could mail it to you, i know in the USA they do.....
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