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E-mail: hottie4u210@yahoo.com
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Location: I Live in Vegas but from Honolulu Hawaii but born in Santa Maria California
Member Since: June 3, 2004
Answers: 169
Last Update: November 11, 2005
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I really really like someone but i dont think that they would go out with me so .. what am i supposed to do ? i really wanna tell him but he likes other people..? (link)
Just tell him and if he doesn't like you get over him!!


hey i have a question theirs this girl that likes me alot and i have feelings for her too, but shes younger than i am what should i do??? (link)
Hehe you can rhyme how much younger?


my guy n i have been dating for 6 months,. i really like him n all,. but i never can say i l0ve him. becuz to tell yah the truth i dont know what love is yet.. i'm 13 and yea i'm into sports .. i play fieldhockey , tennis, captain of my cheer squad.. powerpuff football, softball, and track!! so i dont have taht many boyfriends , cuz i dont have time~ well my guy is getting upset that i dont tell him that i love him ,. i told him the situation and he just toatlly ignores it * he ahsnt called me for 1 week now when he use to call every night.. he has left a text on my celly that he wants to see other people,.i was fine with that ,. now all these Guys Like me and all the sudden he likes me again now.. is he just usin me..

o yea PS ( he asked me to Marry him!)

=0 me scared

help! (link)
He wants you back b/c the other guys want you and he wants to think he has you and so i think you should do what he says "see other people" and if you still have feelings for him and can't get him outta your hear you sleep eat walk drink and do everything thinking about him you love him!!


ok i have known this girl for about 10 years and lately she been rapidly loosing weight and not eating anything whenever she does she runs to the bathroom, and one time i followed her into the bathroom and i heard her throwing up when i confronted ehr about it she just denied it and said it wasnt her throwing up but i followed her in there and i know it was her she was the only one in there besides me and im really scared for her i dont want her to die from this and i love her and she means the world to me how could i possibly get her to realizxze that she needs sum help? (link)
talk to her more if she doesn'ty listen go to her parents she can die but it must be like every time she eats her throat can expload so talk to her and look up some rehab places for her!! good luck Kay


Me and my two other friends make-out. We say we just do it to practice for when we make-out with guys. But my friend say her name is "Katie" and me like really get into it. I know I am not a lesbian but for her I would do anything. And I like making out with her. We caress each other. Sometimes we even make-out when her parents are home. We even play games with other close friends just to make an excuse for making out we pretend we're in college and that we're lesbians. We lay down on each other and touch each other. I need help and I am confused. I AM NOT A LESBIAN but around her i think i am but around every one else I'm straight.. Please give me advice ASAP..

Signed,
Straight but Confused? (link)
Well maybe your bi..? Its kinda weird that you and your friend make out alot its pretty much like your dating!! its not weird if your bi or lez but maybe your in denile!! its okay to be homo sexual or both!! xoxo Kay


Okay me and my friends Love you i swear we followed your Xangas until you stopped and we just found out your aim screen name after you got back on to your old one Oh No Itz Kay!! i know this is probally weird for you to have girls stalking you but i read your page everyday and i notice your always talking about dieting and excersizing..But really you don't need it your a really pretty and i wish i looked like you im sorry if im being a little weird but you are such an awsome person.. (link)
hehe This is soo funny i didn't think people acctually looked at thoes well how did you 1st find me wow i had so many of those..Well where do you live and what are your friends names?? I don't find this weird at all i think its great someone acctually pays attion to the hard work i put into thoes sites hehe well Thankx but acctually i am not as skinny as it looks and may seem i wish i was im not starving myself don't worry i just need to eat rite and exersize b/c i looked it up on the inter net and i am over weight by a few pounds but i found a way to get rid of them by Augest!! Please don't wish for things like that b/c underneath it all im not as pretty as it looks in pictures well type to me any time!! x0x0 Kay


if u poured your heart out to somone and theyshut u down like a reject wat should do??? if that one person ment everything in tha world 2 u and they say neva shall we be!!! wat do i do. if life is like a butterless roll wat should i do??? i lost all respect fa my self i feel like i'm a kno body i can't even get a simple gurl to notice me wat should i do?? (link)
awww i wish the guy i poured my heart out too was like you but he said pretty much the same thing that girl did im so sorry but i moved on and i think thats best for you too!! good luck x0x0Kay


i got my belly button periced 2 weeks ago . well i was cleaning it last night and this morning and i noticed white puss coming out of it . i dont know if this is normal , so can anyone who actually knows about this sorta stuff help me . thanx so much (link)
I have mine done and yes its Normal i've had mine done for 2 years now and but the 1st 6 months it will puss don't worry the hole will also turn purple just clean it everyday i use the stuff in the brown bottle and soap and water so good Luck and if you have n e more questions about this ask me!! x0x0 Kay


I really like this guy but he doesnt like me im sad because I really like him! I dont know why he doesnt like me he wont tell me My question is how could I get him to like me? (link)
YOu can't really Force a guy to like you if it doesn't click it doesn't click But if you really want a guy to like you you should be yourself cuz the worst thing that could ever happend to you is you get a guy that doesn't like you for who **YOU** are so be careful!! and be YOU!!

x0x0 Kay


Is it normal to. . uh. . get zits and pimples. . um. . 'down there' :// thanks! (link)
Well if you Shave it can be irratation from your razor and its possible to get acne any where just wash your body extra good and pick up some acne body wash **THAT SMELLS GOOD**

Good Luck x0x0 Kay


hey folks... i need a little help here. i weigh 200lbs and am 5"7... (i'm 14, female) i really need to lose some weight. i don't need to lose it real fast... just like, 10 or 15lbs in the next month and a half... any tips? (link)
Go on the South Beach Diet or Atkins Run/Jog everyday and i know everyone hates the's but Cruches!! i acctually like thoses for sum reason but while your working out remember it will all pay off in the end!!


Hey..
I am just wondering...what is the south beach diet? What is normal for a girl that is around 5'7 to weigh? (14 years old) Thanks! (link)
Haha i was and i stopped why i don't know o i remember i accidentally cheated but you can't go to a wedding and not eat the cake omg its a must lol well umm the south beach Diet is really easy there are 3 phases 1st is that For the first two weeks, you’ll eat normal-size helpings of meat, fish, vegetables, eggs, cheese, and nuts. You’ll have three meals a day, plus snacks, and it will be your job to eat until your hunger is satisfied. During this period, you'll start shedding weight, changing your body chemistry, and end your cravings for sugars and starches. and In the second phase, you’ll gradually reintroduce "good" carbs into your diet (like fruit, whole-grain bread, and whole-wheat pasta). Using the Glycemic Index as your guide, you’ll learn to avoid the carbs that increase your blood sugar and make you gain weight. You'll stay in Phase 2 until you reach your ideal weight. By the time you reach the final phase of the diet, you’ll have lost weight and significantly improved your blood chemistry to the long-term benefit of your cardiovascular system. You’ll continue to eat normal-size helpings of wholesome foods you enjoy, while maintaining the health benefits you earned by following Phase 1 and Phase 2.
O and the average weight for 14 year olds is around 135
Hope that Helps You good luck x0x0 Kay


Do you think diet pills really work? If so what kind is the best to take? Thanks (link)
How old are you and they really don't work that good there acctually bad for you!! but umm try Hydroxycut?? if your 18 or older..


umm i see your from Vegas is it cool there? (link)
Umm its not all that great untilo your 21 but to tell you the truth i hate it here i wanna move back to where i grew up which is Honolulu Hawaii or Move to Cali with my aunt which ever i have family in both but the view of the strip is beautiull i can see it from my parents bedroom!! hehe xoxo KAy


Hey Kaya its me Lauren i think its Awsome how you give strangers adivice!! Love ya Gurl Kassy!! (link)
Hey Kassy Yea there Strangers an all be befor we were friends we were strangers at a point and mama always said never talk to strangers an all but you only live life once and i can't always please mama lol well love ya too girl xoxo


Hii. i was reading what uve been writeing to everyone and u seem like u have helped soo many people so i had a question i have been really confused. i have been dateing this guy for about a year now. he is my 1st bf. we have been in and out of fights and we break up with each other and usually hook back up the next day but this time we broke up and it has been about a week. he tells me he loves me and he misses me everyday and other time of the days hes all pissed and he doesnt say shit. what should i do? my friend say he relly loves me and wants to work things out and he wants to ask me out again what should i do should i just get over him or keep loving him? hehas taken a big part of my life. i know confuseing but i dunno what to do anymore. (link)
OMG i had a relationship just like that except the ending is way different he ended up pretty much making me get over him but i still love him and if i had the cance to get back with him like you do i'd take it in a heart beat if you truly love sum one never let him go trust me i know im only 14 but i have loved and love the feeling he gave back to me!! xoxo Kay


OK i was rubbing my eye and suddenly i was seeing blurry. i think my contact rolled into my eye. or it fell out but i cant seem to find it. if it rolled in my eye is that bad, how do i get it out,and can i put a new one in? (link)
if it rolls behind your eye which isn't really possible pinch your eye lid and roll your eye around and if it doen't roll back to place it probally fell out i wear contacts and they always fall out when i rub then.. its no biggie..xoxo Kay


i like this guy, i barely know him but hes really nice and really cute. all my friends tell me that he likes me. should i ask him ona date or w/e? (link)
DON'T ASK HIM!!! He need to ask you just get his # call him once give him YOUR # and let him call you if he's intedrested he will!! don't rush things!! Sorry i didn't answer sooner


im 13 dating a 17 year old we've been dating fo 3 and a half months and my parent dont know..so that ok?? i mean he dosent ask me to have sex and stuff like that and he treats me great..but my friends get mad when me and him r together...they dont want me with him ...are they just jealous or are they lookin out fo me???
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well if he has you do any type of sexual things with you and forces you then yes its not right and he can go to jail if any one calls the police on him im 14 and i use to like a 16 year old and he told me that you might wanna think about being "just friends" until your at least 16 no your friends can be jealous if he trats you like a princess that you are but still you should just be friends..good Luck sorry i didn't answer sooner


i straghten my hair with a CHI straightener (which is one of the best and really expensive ones) but i can never get my ends totally straight they always curl a lil bit...i was wondering if anyone knew something i cud do or something i cud put in it that would help...
thnxxx!!! (link)
YOur ends are Dead that why its not working you should think about getting your hair cut!! x0x0 Kay




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