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ok first off, im kind of pale and white and i have ALOT of freckles....is their anyway to like make them go away? or tan fast? bc when i tan i dont really tan i burn n peal and its nasty and all my friends are like wow you need to get a tan..or dang you are so white!! what do i say when they say this and how can i tan to make my freckles like blend in?? (link)
try a self tanner .. you don't need the sun to get tan with that. It's more like a lotion .. and it works real well.


I have been arguing with some of my really good friends and I feel like they dont want to talk to me no more and I dont know what to do because i want to talk to them still but i dont know how to approach the situation PLEASE HELP! (link)
Just call them up. And if they don't want to listen to what you have to say, then they aren't true friends. Maybe they just need some time and they'll get over things. Girls and the drama .. It's what they are made for. They'll come around no matter what. If they are true friends, they'll stick by your side.


like when ever my boy friend gets horny i aint ever horny how do i get my self in the mood?? (link)
have him feel you in sexual ways .. or start kinda feelin him .. you'll get in the mood


OK i just moved to my new house like a year ago, and my friend at my old house was my best friends and she never calls me, she called me like once for my b-day. but we have done some things like ive sleepover at her house and we have gone to valleyfair and i even took her on vacation with me but its like she to busy to even call me at all! What should i do? (link)
Call her up and ask her what she's doing .. don't always wait for the other person to call you up. She's prolly not too busy for you .. soo yeah ..I'm sure she misses you.. so just call her up and ask her if she wants to do something .. i'm sure she will wanna hang! If she was your best friend, then I'm sure she will ..


What is the normal size dick for a 17 year old male......please help me (link)
it depends on how tall you are and how much you weigh ..


ok well i am 16 and i have a dildo ... and like um its HUGE .. and i feel guilty cause my boyfriend thinks im cheating on him ... what shall i do? please help me cause i ENJOY it so much and um yeah i dunno :0( . . .
-Dildo addiction (link)
Just tell him that you have a dildo .. it may be embarressing but I think he deserves to know what you've been up to.. That way, he won't think you're cheating on him either.


One time at band camp i stuck a flute up my pussy. Is that a bad thing..you know to be masterbating? (link)
No .. it's normal ..


I've liked this guy for a really long time, and i know that he's liked me too. Lately he tells me that he doesn't like anyone, but whenever we see eachother he always gives me hugs and holds my hand and everything. I feel like he's really giving me mixed messages and i'm just really confused. What should I do? 15 female. (link)
I think this guy just wants you when he wants you. I would just forget about him since alls he's doing is leading you on. Find a guy that really likes you and that doesn't treat you like a toy .. u deserve better.


i have elephantitis(giant dick) and i want to know if that is a good thing or a bad thing. please help me (link)
BRAD UR STUPID .. u have a small WANG! haha jk i love u! it's good .. ??? hehe!


i babysit this child whom is eleven. She is a very impresionable child, she goes on to the internet to meet boyfriends and cuts herself.what should i do? (link)
talk to her parents about it. They need to know and if they don't do anything about it. Get her help yourself.


hi guys, this is a question to all the people who have lost a BFF. well this girl in my class is my bff. and she is going to a hole neew school and i really am going to miss her. WHAT SHOULD I DO.
singed POORSADTHANG:-..( (link)
I know you're going to miss her but you just have to let it go. I'm sure you'll still stay in touch but you just have to understand that you're gunna lose people in your life. It's going to be hard, but I know you'll make it.


i am 15 female Alrighty lets get this started... i have a boyfriend named... lets see call em joe. I love joe to death he is the bestboyfriend i have ever had... yet i always think about other guys.. i always talk to other guys too, i even liked one when i was with joe, but not that much its like im gettin sick of joe or something? i dont know what to do or feel. cuz sometimes i really just wanna go with other guys? PLLZ TELL ME WHATS WRONG? (link)
I don't think that anything is wrong, it's just that maybe you're not ready for a committment like that. You just want to go flirt with all these other guys .. you want to be free! It's hard to go out with someone and to say that you're not free .. this i know .. but maybe it's time for a break .. maybe you just wanna see what its like to be with other guys .. and not feel so trapped.


ok well i have this friend and shes awesome i love her soooooooo much and like one day i was gonna IM this guy that screwed her over and mess with him and i ended up calling him and i bitched him out for a while then like somehow i started to really like talking to him and i knew if she knew she would be soooo pissed and well i told her that i had talked to him and that i wanted to keep talking to him and she got really mad and said she hated me and wouldnt talk to me for a few days then i told her id never talk to him again but i have, i talk to him on the phone every once in a while and he wants me to meet him in person but i no i shouldnt but i still like to talk to him on the phone, only if she knew i still talk to him shed prolly never talk to me again and i dunno what to do, I REALLY LIKE HIM, i know its sick, and i know i shouldnt like him cuz he really hurt my best friend but i still do and i cant help it :( what should i do????? (link)
I think that you shouldn't do that to your friend. I mean, you like him but if what he did to ur friend was so bad, don't you think he could do the same thing to you? I also wouldn't do it because, you're friend is prolly more important to you, and i wouldn't want you to lose ur friendship over a guy. Just think about it before you do anything. But, do you want the same thing that happened to her, to happen to you?


Back in January like January 10th, I met this really cute guy name dominique. We went out for a month and he broke up with me over the telephone. Then he im`s me one day in march saying sorry for everything I have done. He says he would like to be friends. So I agreed with him, thinking this was my moment If we stayed friends for a while, maybe him and me could get back together. See the thing is I really nva gave up on him. I cry for him every night. I still love him to death. He was my first real true love. Words cant even begin to express how I feel about him. I would love to tell him, but I am not to sure what he would say.PLZ help me! (link)
I would for sure tell him. Maybe he's looking for the same thing but he's too afraid to say anything too. Who knows what could happen if you hold back any longer .. He might find another girl .. So I would tell him your feelings before it gets too late!! Good luck!


I like these two girls. I can't really make up my mind about the two of them, pluse one has a boyfriend. I think about them all the time but then when I'm at a party or something, around other girls, I'm tempted really easily to think that I like other girls at the same time. There are a few girls who have this sex appeal to make me think i like them, but then i think about the two girls and it kind of goes away. Should i try to get one of these girls or should i hold off, and should i really hold off on the girl with the boyfriend, but i think they both like me too, idk. And then i can't make up my mind????
(15) (link)
I think you should deffinitly go for one of the two girls you like first.. but maybe stay away from the one that has a boyfriend. She might be a little tougher to get with and plus, she's already taken .. maybe though, if you start talking more, she'll start liking you. But i would go for the one without a boyfriend and if that doesn't work, maybe it's not meant to be with either of them. I wouldn't just do stuff with other girls though because you think you like them .. be sure first, so they don't feel used.


Me and my friend were really close untill she started to hang out with other ppl! I really miss her alot! We got into this huge fight about nothing and now we havent talked sence skool let out! What should i do? (link)
I know it's hard to be the first one to apologize .. but I think you should just talk to her about it. Say sorry and that it was a stupid reason to fight and to stop talking. If she blows you off, then she's not a real friend .. try to hang out with other people that want to hang out with you and that you actually get along with more easily.


im 15 years old n i like this girl n she dont kno... but i donno how to tell her cuz she dont like me n she likes someone else...but i donno if i tell her i like her might chance her mind about liking me or not soo what should i do n how? (link)
You should tell her! Maybe the person that she likes .. is actually you! .. and even if it was someone else, maybe she wouldn't want that person anymore and go for you!! .. I think you should just go up to her .. and start talking about stuff .. and be like .. i know this is kind of out of there, but I sorta have a thing for you .. It may be awkward .. but i'm sure she'll think it's cute! gl n' tell me about it!


Well I love me girlfriend to death she is the best and we have fun all the time but I am like running out of things to do we usually do the same old things all the time so I think its time for something new so can you help me think of some ways or place or things to do with my girlfriend that will just make her melt.....you know nice romantic stuff like that.....lol any help will be greatly appreciated thanks much. (link)
Gooo to the beach .. at night! so you're under the stars .. Bring a blanket and little munchies .. and just cuddle and talk about cute stuff .. and look up at the stars .. maybe you'll see a shooting star. Maybe go on a short little walk along the shore .. that'd be soo Cute! I wish my boyfriend would do stuff like that!


Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 8 months now and I love her so much and I know she loves me she says it all the time and stuff but I dont know if she is always happy with my I cant really tell her how I want her to feel or anything or talk to her about this there has to be something I can do to show her I want her to be happy basically happier then she has ever been before like can you tell me how I can do this because that would be a big help anyone help me one this subject I just want my girlfriend to be super happy around me and not like faking the whole happiness thing so please help me with what to do thanks a bunch. (link)
Mmm.. I know you said that you can't really talk to her about this, but i think you should .. what you should do is maybe ask her to go to a beach or something .. and stay there all night .. or until whenever but be sure it's after dark .. maybe get a blanket, sit under the stars next to the water .. and then talk to her about it, or go on a walk along the beach shore lol, sound a bit corny? I bet you she won't think it is. Then talk to her about all of it. Ask her what's bothering her and what's been going through her head lately. Maybe she feels trapped or something and she needs to talk to you .. but she's too afraid to for some reason, and thats whats making her so unhappy .. just talk to her. Even though you think you can't .. you can .. if you ask her too, she might think that you care more about her!! hehe .. good luck .. come back and tell me how it goes .. or IM on Shudabeenblond21


I have been hearing ( or rather reading ) loads about someone called "Alica" ? Who is she ? (link)
she's an adivice giver for this site. But she hasn't been answering much advice lately ..




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