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Q: ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think?

I would abosolutely love that! One thing tho? HOw long ahve you been dating and how old are you? If you're just in highschool...you may not want to do this because you might NOT love her forever. If you're older I would deefinately do it! Its very cute and makes you sound like you have a hot personality.

Aw i would melt in my shoes if my bf did that for me! You're gunna get a ton of love after this one!

Q: Hey! Me & my friends are making a video of pictures for all the seniors. What are some songs to use in the background for like graduating & just senior stuff?

Breakaway by Kelley Clarkson is a good one!! Wow that would be GREAT in a Senior Video!!!

Q: I need some good songs to dance to..
Prefably women singing.

Things that are similar to..
Christina Milian - AM to PM
Beyonce - Crazy in Love

etc.

Pon De Replay
Rumors- Lindsay Lohan (even tho its old)
1,2 Step

Just think of some crazy songs and maybe add in some slow songs like "we belong together"

Q: what do i wear? the invite says "dressy casual"?
13/m

Wear some khakis with a button down collared shirt. They just don't want you wearing a tux. I'm assuming it's a Bat/Bar Mitzvah. I know thats what most guys wear to Bat/Bar Mitzvahs anyway! HAVEE FUN!!

Arielle

Q: In art, I am about to paint a 6 panel glass window with acyrilic paints and I need some ideas about image to paint. People with experience with aycrilic paints...please answer...

Thanks

You could paint a Sunrise or a Sunset

A bush with flowers and bugs in it (so it looks like theres a bush just outside your window)

A moon and star scene

Some rolling hills with a farm

Make it look like you're looking out the window and seeing something normal, not like and alien or a person because when do you see people that close to your window???

I'm not sure if this is the description of types of images you needed but if not, just tell me a more specific project, drop it in my inbox and I'll get back to you with more!!! I love these types of questions!

-Arielle

Q: hey whats everyones opinion on this dress? like idc what you say just be honest ! =]
http://www.dillards.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=301&langId=-1&storeId=301&productId=500764886&No=92&overallOffset=8&N=1000930+165&searchUrl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.dillards.com%2Fendeca%2FEndecaStartServlet%3FNo%3D92%26overallOffset%3D8%26N%3D1000930%2B165&R=JD-536

Very cute! That is my favorite color!! I want it!!!

Q: Hi my name is arielle too and im jus kinda nervous so im going to ask this question in hopes that you can help...i recently started having sex with my boyfriend in august and so far its been lik 17 times the first month i got my period and i was freakig out because it was 5 days late and i was so happy when i got it but this month im kinda freaking out more because im really hopin it'll come and the reason is because this month he cummed more then last because b4 was only like once and we had sex alot of more times too so im worriedd because im only 14...so is there any advice or help you can give me?? cuz if i do get my period i decided i will stop this time because there is too much to risk thanks for your help love, arielle

Well, I hope you used a condom!! I am a virgin so Im not so experienced in this field! The only advice I can give you is to stop! If you do get pregnant you will not be able to handle a baby! I mean, you're still in school!! Just calm down and relax because stress can interfere with your period, making it late. If it's late you're gunna freak out like the first time. So calm down, maybe try yoga or something.

Good luck to you

Q: how to write a programe to write hello asHELLO

I don't know what you're talking about.???

Q: Hi I play the trombone and I need some pictures of scales...like almost every scale 2 octaves bc I need to have it memorized by next month. Thanks!

Look on Google i can't give you any pics but yeh go on google!

Q: my ears stick out soooooooo far i feel like dumbo.. what am i supposed to do .. should i staple them back? my dad just got a new nail gun , i think that woould work. suggestins PUH LEASE!!!

Um...don't staples yur ears. Then you'll look like a dog with its ears flat against his head. I suggest wearing big hoops because it take the attention of your ears and makes them look smaller.

Q: Could someone give me a list of good fairy tales???

Hansel and Gretel
Sleeping Beauty
Cinderella
Jack and the Bean Stalk
Little Red Riding Hood
Rumplestilkskin

Q: ok iv got stomach fat iv done crunches everynight and a couple other workouts on a healthy diet and nothins working any advice

I had some stomache cfat before I went to sleepaway camp. At camp they're food is so bad that I lost so much weight and my stomache looked great!! Try goin with portion control and add some crunches!! You'll look great!

Q: hi im vegetarian for past 9 months.nowdays im getting tired very fast because im not getting the proper meals.would anyone suggest a goog vegetarian meal or "do it yourself recepices" im a student

My friend is a vegetarian and her mom has one of those vegetarian cook books. She always keeps veggies in the house. Like ettmamme(sp?), cucumbers, carrots, and celelry. They're good to snack on. For meals tofu stir frys are good and yummy. Just add terriaki sauce and green beans or whatever else you like. Tuna fish is a good lunch, just be careful to get kinds without murcery. Albacore does I think. You can make wraps with tortillas. Add lettuce and vegetables. Be creative and make sure you don't have too many carbs. Pasta is good for you but if you over-do it you may end up being chubby. My friend (the vegetarian one) has gotten very ovrweight because of eating too many carbs. Be careful!!!

Q: Okay so Halloween is only a month away and I've kind of been putting it off. Last year without thinking I promised my friend Kim (Names have been changed.) that she would come over to my house for halloween and we would be the pink ladies. I really don't want to be a pink lady and I don't know how to tell her. The worst part is I have no idea what I want to be for HAlloween. I want to be something totally original but pretty. I want to have a costume that nobody else has like last year I had an awesome costume and I loved all the attention I got for it. -Isn'tlifegreat?
age 13

P.S. I also have to tell Ashley she can't come over for Halloween because I really wan't to go to my friends Haloween Party. Gosh, I'm a mess.

I've got a lot of dumb ideas but others may think they're cute.

You could be like "the thing" and wear random stuff all over you.

You could be Thing 1 and Thing 2

You could be a mermaid

...I'm all out of ideas!!!!!!!!!!1

I hope maybe these at least sparked your mind for something else!!

Q: "We have been punished with hurricanes and tsunamis because we are slowly taking G-d out of everything!!"

You do realize the hurricanes and tsunamis destroyed many churches, even killing many of innocent people who honestly believe in God, right?

And do you think a God that woud indiscriminately punish the innocent is worthy of worship?

What evidence have you that God caused these hurricanes and tsunamis? I always thought weather conditions and naturalistic explanations were the cause!

Yes, you are right about there not being evidence!! DOn't get me wrong. NOthing is ever proved religious wise. You can't even be sure of ANYTHING!!! I am Jewish so we definately have different views here. I'm just stating my own.

Have you ever heard of the story about how God was going to destroy this villliage because the people there were bad? This man came to G-d and said If I brought you 1 rightgeous person, would you not destroy the town? He said no. If you haven't heard the story I it is about how the innocent sadly must be punished too! Everyone as a WHOLE is punished.

"And do you think a God that woud indiscriminately punish the innocent is worthy of worship?"- I have no comment on this because as I said, I am Jewish and there are no views on that in Judaism.

I think your original question was about a petition right? Well, you're definately good at debateing. Maybe I just wasn't expecting all this!

Any other questions, feel free to ask!!

Q: I need advice on how I can start a petition. I need to know how I officially and legally start it and who do I present it to. How do I organize it? As you can see from my title, the purpose of the petition would be to have some sort of ruling against out-ruling the pledge of allegiance in schools or changing it.

Anyways, do you think because of 'under God' that after over 200 years, the pledge should be changed or withdrawn from any school. Why or why not? Thanks in advance.

NO, we should definately not take "under G-d" out of the Pledge because G-d is a big part of us. We have been punished with hurricanes and tsunamis because we are slowly taking G-d out of everything!! G-d's name is on the dollar and we took him out of that too! Money is now Evil!! No matter what religion the people down the street are, or that kid in the turban is, it is not right to take G-d out of the pledge for the people who belive in a G-d. We need to be reminded that there is a higher power than us every day. There is also my argument for why it should be taken out, but I more strongly belive in keeping it. G-d is a prat of us and our country!

Q: I just started skool and i forgot to put pads in my bookbag and the second day of skool i wore WHITE capris and i started .... there was a big red stain on the back of my paints... i didnt relize it os i walked down the hall.... luckily i only went pass 1 guy and the next 1 was my best friend.... she gave me a sweater and i acted like i was sick and i went home..... I know this boy will tell every1 and i kno theyll make fun of my.... wat do i do if some guy does this to me?

It happened to me once. I think maybe it happens to everyone! The best thing is to forget about it and really IT WAS ONE GUY!!! Think how much worse it could have been there was a story on here once about this girl who was gunna ask her crush out and then he said "Uh whats on your pants?" See MUCH worse!! You are so lucky you are not her!! If that kid does that to you just shake it off!! DOn't let some dumb thing like that ruin your school life!! You have awhole life ahead of you and you're gunna dwell on this??? NAH!!!!

Arielle

Q: I just started my period and i have a very difficult guesion to ask every1....
WINGS OR NO WINGS

i rate high

Personally i like wings because sometimees blood sneaks into the sides of your underwear. They are also sort of annoying but protect you better!

Q: my parents finally let me have a pet, but they said it has to be quiet and not stink too bad. i wanted something i could really play with, you know take on walks or something. Will rate good.
Cheyenne

Rabbits are quiet and don't stink too bad. I don't know much about them, but I do know that my neighbors got an outside hutch for their rabbits and a bear came and rippied it open. The rappits were gone. So don't get an outside hutch. Get a metal cage maybe.

Q: Does anyone know what Aaliyah was mixed with? I want factual answers, and if you dont know dont answer the question. All factual will answers will be rated with a 5!

Aliyah is the immigration of Jews to Israel. Many Americans make Aliyah to Israel to live in the land where their ancestors were brought to(is that what you were asking?), and many people from all over the world do also. Israel is a very holy place filled with history and time. It is easily understood why a Jew would want to be connected with this.

I searched google for a while and that's just a summary of what I already know and what i came up with!! Good question though!!

Sorry! I still think you shouldn't have given me a 1 though!! You should be more specific!