PinkPrincess42's advice column

Okay, I'm a girl show I should know, But what exactly does PMS stand for, I know pretty much what happens when your PMSing, but what does it mean?

Oh boy do I feel stupid lol.

lol! No its not stupid! It means Pre Menstrual Syndrome.. Ya know the bloating, the cramps, and cravings, the headaches! Yea!! All those wonderful things!! ~*EMily*~

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This is a bit embarrissing my penis is not that big and when i go to have sex with my gf i have trouble getting and keeping an erection im a bit worried about it what can i do? im 17

Grow Up Kevin

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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?

Listen here gurl! You suck! lol jk! Yea, its normal. All girls stay on their periods for different amounts of time! Theres nothing wrong with you at all. Infact, consider yourself very lucky! Some girls go for a little amount of time, while others go like a week (cough cough)! But theres no need to see a doctor! Hope I could help!!!
~*Emily*~

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*.:*Sorry If This Is Graphic!!*:.*

whenever i get a zit, i get everything out of it, but then the next day its bigger than it was when i popped it! help!

-JeNNi

EEWWW! Jk! I dont think I have ever really had a zit in a long long time! I am very fortunate; I have pretty clear skin! Thank God! Ok sometimes popping a zit isnt the best idea. Sometimes it works, but a lot of times, the infection just builds back up and gets worse. My advice is... try using some skin clearing stuff. Like Clearasil or Neutrogena! I think those might work! Also, make sure you wash your face every night really well (oil is the biggest cause)! Oh yea, and try using some Ponds Daily Cleansing Wipes! Those are great! Hope I could help!
Emily

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i was just wondering, what's a "redneck" ?

Um! Ok! Rednecks live out in the middle of nowhere, wear wrangler jeans, boots, talk all slow and elongated, dip, and do all those other great things... You cant avoid them in Hendo! But thats pretty much it!
Emily

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im 13/m. i dont even have a hint of arm hair. is this normal? im 5'0 if that helps

Ok~ do you mean like arm hair on your arms or armpit hair? lol! Anyway, no I dont think its unusual. Guys go through puberty later than girls and guys hit puberty at different times, just depending on the person. Dont worry, it isnt that great anyway! I think its gross! Just be glad for now hun!
-Emily-

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Ok I'm 15 yrs old and never had a gf am i that much of a loser ? lol

Ok! I know who you are (jbh)! You are not a loser! I think your soooooo sexy! I would hook up with you! lol! Seriously though~ your not a loser! You just told me that you havent asked anyone out! Thats why!! If you havent asked any gurls out that means that you havent given them a chance to say yes!! Oh yea~ and the single lifes better! Your a little pimp~ youll have plenty of girls when you start driving! Then you will have to tell all of them that I was your first kiss!! (Either me or that "blowed" college girl! lol!
~*emily*~

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I'm 16 and i know im pregnant. Im starting to gain weight, my family has a good reputation,like no pregnancies below 20 i dont know how to tell my mom what should i do

Ok! I know you feel terrible in this situation; like theres no way out of it. Well honestly, you cant hide it from your parents forever. You will obviously start showing and I think they will start to suspect something. So heres the deal. Your parents are probably the ones who talk about pregnant teens and how bad it is and how they really dont want that for you. So you think that they would be so mad at you if you came out and told them. They might be angry with you for a little bit, but in the long run, they are going to be supportive and really try to make the best of the situation. After all, they really do care about you. Your parents are like everyone elses! They just want whats best for you! So my advice to you is to go talk to your mom about it. Just sit her down and be like "Mom, I dont want you to be mad please.. I need you to be there! But I am pregnant." She will be shocked but she will try to do whats best for you. But let me tell you, not telling your mom and dad will only lead to bad things! Tell them! They will TRY to understand! Please let me know about it, and tell me if my advice was helpful! Good Luck!
Emily

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how do i prevent the red razor bumps on my bikini line from coming when i shave? and how do i get a very close shave to where you cant even tell there is hair there? i want it all gone but everytime i shave it just turns red and gets razor burn.

Hey! Well.. Dont ever dry shave! Always towel off and use some lotion.. It would be beter not to use that scented lotion. Instead try getting just some plain ol skin moisturizing lotion. (Clinique makes a skin replenishing lotion thats really good for dry spots; its yellow!!) Try that! Hope it works!
~*Emily*~

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i was wOnderinq if anyOne knOws whO sinqs the sOnq that kinda qOes like

"i want you to want me"
"i need you to need me"
"i`d love you to love me"
"i`m begging you to bed me"

anyone know who sings that song?

Gah I love that song! Its kinda old, but it was on the movie "10 things I hate about you!!!" Its awesome! Its called "I want you to want me" by cheap trick!
~*Emily*~

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hey everyone--

i really wanna play the guitar. Accoustic. Can anyone who's experienced tell me if its hard or not? thanks for all the help xoxo

Hey there! Well my boyfriend just borrowed an acoustic guitar from one of his friends and he's been playing it since then. Hes about to drive me friggen crazy. I dont know that much about guitars, but he has only been playing a couple of weeks, but he is already able to play a few songs, so it cant be that hard!! Good Luck! Lemme know if you get good at it!
~*EMily*~

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hey my friend was telling me about some kazaa, where u can download music and stuff. is it legal? she said you pay like a dollar a month or sumthing and i wanted to try it but i dont know if its legal ? if u got any info on it plze tell me thanks lots peace

Well hey! We used to have Kazzaa a while ago. Yea I think its legal again, but it messed up all the time on my computer. Plus when you download some songs, they are trying to copyright them where you can download the whole song but right in the middle of it, the song stops and its like a really bad scratching noise, so its really not worth it!
~*Emily*~

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My best friend and I are like sisters. We've been through everything together. Last night though we were at our other friends house. We talked about school and stuff but then out of no where, my best friend said that she has had sex with her boyfriend of 2 years. It came to a shock to me cause first of all she is only 14 and then second she didnt use protection. My other friend though said it was no big deal since she has been dating him for 2 years. I dont know what to say to my best friend. i really need some help cause i don't want anythin bad to happen to her.

Honey Honey! I know exactly what your talking about! I am in the same situation~ Like I have been best friends with this girl that I have known forever! We have been through everything together (all the dumb stuff) and we talk about pretty much anything. Well then she got with this guy who totally treats her like crap, and then she told me that she was having sex with him so I was like "Uh ok you know your going to regret it if anything bad happens and youwind up with that asshole!" Well, now shes 8 months pregnant with his baby, and I know she regrets it. Its really hard, but im just trying to be supportive! I guess what im saying is.. its her choice and you just have to be there for her and hope she turns out ok and support her in every way that you can. You might try to talk to her and tell her that she REALLY needs to use protection if shes having sex because thats crazy not to. Persuade her to do that and tell her that you really care about her and your just worried and dont want anything to happen to her. If she cares about what you think, she'll listen to you! Tell me how everything goes...
~*Emily*~

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i've just put in a tampon for the first time about 2 hours ago . i tried to take it out , but it hurt to pull at the string . is this normal , and could this be because my tampon is still dry ? if not , how do i yank it out without it hurting ?

Ok~ this sucks! When you first put one in, it doesnt really have time to get wet enough to come out~ so the cotton hasnt absorbed enough to come out easily~ and yea it hurts! And there really is no way for it to come out without hurting, unless you wait a little longer. If you pull it out while its still dry, yea its gonna kinda hurt! Good Luck! lol! I would say let me know, but keep this en to yourself gurlie!! ha!
Emily

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I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15?

Ok I gotta tell you this. I think that when you have sex, it has to be out of love. No guy that really loves you will try to push or pressure you to have sex with them. You need to think about it really hard. Its a pretty big decision. And no, its not wrong to be sexually inexperienced at 15. You have to go at your own speed~ and you wont have to question it when your ready~ you need to do what you think is right and think it through~ I am dealin with an awful situation right now that has really changed my outlook on the whole thing~ My best friend is 8 months pregnant and shes 17. I have known her all my life and I know shes not mature enough to deal with a baby.. The point is.. consider everything and dont make the mistake many gurls make! Tell me abt it!
Emily

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Ok im really attracted to my friend and he's a guy and i really think he's hot but idk how 2 tell him how i feel or even if he's gay. Please help i am a 14 and im a guy please help!

Um ok.. lets start from the begining! Ok, your only 14, and your a guy and you want to have sex with another guy.. Are you sure your gay? Your so young and I have to tell you that I really dont think you need to follow through with this or tell this guy if you dont absolutley know for sure your gay. Just because you have had a sexual thought about being with another guy doesnt neccesarily mean your gay. I think your mind just thinks about some of those things sometime, just to wonder what it would be like...Just part of being a teenager! I think if you know your gay, then go for it I guess~ but the main point it make sure you know who you are*and your sexuality*! Let me know!
~*Emily*~

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well my hair is like a bit past my shoulders and its kinda frizzy or like idk it doesnt stay straight and isnt very smooth/silky... or like it will always dry out when I dont blowdry it or itll just kinda go different ways at the end even when I do. I dont know what to do about it if you could help that'd be great. thanks :-)

Alright! My hair used to be straight as a stick~ so purty! I loved it~ then i got a perm. Its ok, a lot easier to deal with! But anyway~ Try this!Wash your hair with Pantene, use conditioner, then dry it with a towel (getting a lot of the excess water out of it) then scrunch it (putting in hair gel or mousse) then let it kinda air dry for abt 10 minutes, take a blow dryer and blow dry it low, scrunching it as you blow dry it~ until its almost dry! Then, just spray it and kinda poof it up and part it!! Good Luck! Tell me what it looks like!
~*Emily*~

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