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I just realized something. I have a really crappy social life. I dont have any close friends, and Im not even talking about best friends. I used to have a best friend but she changed a lot so we dont talk as much anymore.
I have friends, dont get me wrong, but theyre just friends, and we never hang out outside of ___. We dont talk on the phone, just talk and stuff at ___.
Ive been really lonely lately, and Ive been going through some tough times and I really need someone I can talk to, and someone who will listen to me and CARE. I need someone I can depend on, but I just dont know who. I dont see any of my friends becoming a best friend, and believe me I tried to get closer to some of them, but it didnt work, I guess they have enough close friends and dont need me.
How can I find a best friend? I am already really busy, and I do a sport, and I take classes at this charter school (but most of the kids are really wierd). I dont have time to join more clubs and stuff, so please dont say that. Im homeschooled, Ill be graduating this year and it would be really nice to have a best friend that will be there for me all through college.
Any advice? Please dont say "youll find a best friend in college" because I want one now. (link)
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i know this sounds stupid but.. myspace is the best way for meeting new friends :)
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What are some ways that you REALLY know your in love? From your personal point of veiw.. what are some ways you just know your in love? (link)
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everyone has a different view of love. it's also a kind of feeling really hard to describe. most people get confuses love with LIKE. To me, loving someone means you know you'd go through anything for that one person and nothing matters to you anymore but that person you love. you're constantly on your mind like 24/7. And when you're around them you have really funny feelings and start getting nervous, but it depends, if you know that person a long time or not to actually feel awkward around them. and sometimes you end up saying stupid or embarrassing things to them cuz you're distracted by them so you don't know what you're talking about. hope i answered your question :)
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15/f.
I got really hurt by someone the other day and had a fit of rage. But...i didn't know what was happening to me. I was so full of anger that it felt like I could KILL somebody. It scared me....I started yelling and screaming and hitting myself. My eyes were like all red from the tears and anger.
It was ...its..indescribable. It really was scary. I'm afraid I might do something bad in the future because of it. What can i do? I'm usually a pretty content person :'( (link)
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you might have a kind of disorder where your moods change a lot. are you easily depressive? there are actually pills that can help you with the probelm you were describing up there. but i would talk to a councilor or a psychiatrist about it and they can tell you what to do or take. :)
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Ok, so I'm going to some important presentation in a week and luckily the presentation doesn't have a dress code. I'm going to dress...well I don't know how to put this without sounding like a poser. Um...sorta hardcore? I guess that will do.
And I decided what I want to do is have my top layer of hair really messy, and my bottom layer neat. How would I do this? I tried hairspray and gel and you could easily see the hardness of the gel and the texture in my hair, and I don't want this. (link)
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just tease your hair up too have that 'messy look' and hairspray it using "Bed Head hairspray" then mold it. and the bottom layer you have to straighten. i hope i helped :)
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I know you girls love guys and...
I know their has been this myth going around that asian guys can't get white girls..which is not true,since I'm asian and have a white gf,but I want to know what you girls think
Question1: Would you date an asian guy? considering he has good looks and personality
Question2:Have you ever liked an asian guy?
Question3:Would you marry an asian guy?
Question4:Where does the asian guy stand among the whites,latinos and blacks?Your preference?
Example:Black>White>etc.etc
thank you (link)
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i'm Asian and half white, but I'd have to say that if i was full white or black or Hispanic, I'd go for an Asian guy anyday. Asian guys are cute, smart, and really sweet. theres a lot of g0od things about asian guys honestly. hope i answered your question :)
2. yes, my heritage is Vietnamese and I've liked quite a few asian guys when i visit countries in Asia hahaa.
3. Really I think i'm going to marry an asian guy one day.
4. It doesn't matter, really. All races and heritage are just humans, it's just the personality and attitude that stands out and actually matters.
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Just wondering,would girls date or go out with a bald dude? Like completely bald,assuming he has a nice personality and all
p.s:also do you girls like buff guys,thin guys,chubby guys,overweight guys,lean guys or guys with defined muscle(surfer kinda muscle,not too much,just defined) (link)
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honestly, not all of us girls have the same personalities and not all of us have the same taste in guys. we all have different tastes. personally, i wouldn't care if a guy is bald, its their personality that matters. and i'd have to say most some girls like buff guys (not too buff), sum likes thin guys (not too thin) and really, it just depends on what kind of personality the girl has that will aim for certain guys. like i said, we don't all like the same kind of boys, we all have different tastes. i don't know if i really made sense but i hope i helped :)
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Age:14
Gender: Female
So there's this guy. From grade five up until grade eight we had always been really close friends. Actually he always liked me more than a friend and he told me that. I never liked him back though. However, at the end of grade eight he stopped talking to me completely. Rumor was that he stopped talking b/c I was too obsessed over this guy I liked and I talked too much about him. That just doesn't seem like what he would get mad over though. He never has before, so I doubt he would this time. I've tried talking to him online,on the phone, at school, just about everywhere... but it's like he never knew me. However he knows me better than anyone I've ever met. It's been 7 months now and things just keep getting worse and worse. It's like I don't exist to him, he honestly doesn't notice me at all ever. I miss having him as a friend so much, he was the only one I ever really trusted and he kept me happy. To make it even worse, I have this small crush on him that keeps growing by the day... I don't know what to do or how to solve this. I have no clue whatsoever why he's mad. No one does. Some good advice would be great. Thx so much!
xox~Becky (link)
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maybe he's jealous of the guy you like and wants to play hard to get with you so he's ignoring you or something, i could be wrong but whatever it is try talking to him yourself and let him KNOW that you are starting to have feelings for him. hope i helped alittle :)
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My Sweet 16 is coming up in early December.
The DJ told me to pick out one song for each of the following things:
1. My enterance
2. Cake Cutting
3. Last Song of the Night.
I'm thinking I'll have Piece of Me by Britney Spears playing when I enter. But I'll still take suggestions for it! Does anyone had any ideas fot the other ones? (link)
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low - flo rida
hypnotized - akon ft. plies
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okay so ima 16/f and i use to sit with these girls lena, prescilla, milan, lakin and ameilia. well i started getting bad vibes from lakin and ameilia. well lena told me that they don't like me and talk shit about me behind my back. and lena said that they were going to tell me off. but lena stood up for me. and then when lunch was about to end lakin and ameilia saw me and started laughing and i told lakin that she needs to grow up and s top saying shit about me. and she said well i can do whatever i want. so yeah i don't know what to do. i can't ignore them because they'll keep bothering me. i can't fight them because well i don't want to get in trouble and plus im skinny and they're fast so they just won't work. and i don't want to tell on them because then they'll think im a tattle tale so what should i do? because they won't leave me alone. and i can't have people bothering me because whenever that happens i start doing bad in school so what should i do? (link)
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get your real friends to back you up and say shit back at them. if they wanna play that kinda game with you then your gonna have to play it back 100 times harder. get ur real friends to back u up. hope i helped :]
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Hey! well, heres the thing. im a really shy quiet person. especially around guys i like and people who arent close to me. I hate being this way! What do you think i can do to be more outgoing? (link)
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you should make plans on weekends with your friends, go out more often and make some new friends just by starting up random conversations with people you dont know already :]
theres also another way, i know it sounds pretty stupid, but if you dont have a myspace, you should get one, you can talk to people who goes to your school and your friends and it'll help you open up easier and give you more confidence. hang out around people who are more confident that'll help you too, but always be yourself or people won't like you. hope i helped! :]
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is it just me? or is advicenators getting less and less populated... (link)
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hmm who knows, maybe you're just on it alot so it seems that way, lol thats excactly what i've thought latley too
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there's a song i heard on a site's myspace
"fiji water" is the name of the site.
does anybody know what song this is?
"one love one shot that's all we ever got
girl you got me started now; not gonna stop.
slide along side now baby that's right
i'm gonna show you the time ofyour life
gggimme gimme now baby dance with me[?]
move your body close to me [?]
slide along side now baby that's right
i'm gonna show you the time ofyour life"
& then it begins rapping.
if anybody knows what this is called or who sings it; i would greatly appreciate it! :] (link)
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Artist: Shifty
Song: Slide along side
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how do you get rid of acne scars? (link)
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just wash your face twice a day, using clean and clear face cleanser, it works well and so does neutrogena, but personally i think clean and clear works faster. and never touch your face if your hands are dirty cuz thats what causes acne and zits. hope i helped! :]
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does anyone have tips on black and white photography? any at all for whatever (link)
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hmm, there isnt much tips to give about it, its most about good angle and if its black and white, take pictures of places or of things that gives ppl a striking kind of feeling. if your planning on being a photographer or having some kind of photography site, you can try taking a photography class, or just look around on this site: createblog.com and look under graphics; stock photos
alotta of the b&w photos well show you some ideas :]
hope i helped!
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my boyfriend is losing interest after about a year, he seems unhappy and were always bored can you help me? ( yes we are sexually active) (link)
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but you dont know for sure that the reason he's unhappy and bored is b/c of your relationship. maybe he's just going through alotta things at the moment, or maybe you two should spend more time if you already havent. & if you guys have been spending too much time, then try to give him some space for a while. try talking to him first and see whats up. but dont make him feel like you think he doesnt like you anymore or whatever. im sure you both will have a better relationship again if you both give it some time. hope i helped :]
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Hi, I really hope you can help; i've gotten mixed responses from others...
Basically, my BF discovered that in my senior year of college (I graduated last year) I had taken two semesters worth of judo classes and he thought this was really funny b/c I don't look like, I guess, a "typical" jock chick--that is i'm not muscular or buff or whatever...i'm your stereotypical "girly girl" in appearance--tall, skinny, blond hair, blah blah blah and I'm like 125 lbs....so he's laughing at me, calling me "judogirl", etc., and I was fine w/all that, if a little annoyed, but then he made a mistake: he challenged me to a wrestling match...and I beat him.
He outweighs me by like 40 lbs. and is pretty strong but he didn't understand that my judo skills would use his strength against him and he just couldn't believe I won. I figured it was a one-time deal, but he was so bent out of shape that he's challenged me several times since then, and I've defeated him every time. It would be OK if he didn't take it so seriously, but he just becomes this mean pouty jerk when he loses and keeps challenging me and now i've refused to wrestle him b/c it's no fun and I hate his sexist attitude as well. But refusing to wrestle just makes him angrier and he says stuff like "you're just afraid i'll figure out your 'tricks' and win...it's so annoying!
I've considered just faking it and letting him win but I don't REALLY want to do that b/c I'm proud of my skills, and just wish he would be too...plus when he baits me w/all this "you're just a girl" crap, it gets my goat and i'm more than happy to throw him to the floor and pin him when he gets too tired to fight me off...
Have you ever beaten a boy at something athletic--whether martial arts or sports--or know a girl who has? B/c maybe if I can tell him he's not the only one he won't feel so bad... (link)
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hahaa i see your boyfriend is pretty competitive and jealous of you. but it wouldnt just be him tho, you see, guys dont like their girls to be tougher then them. so i wouldnt really blame him, and its not your fault your pretty and is better at sports. lol maybe you should talk to him and let him know that you care about him and that you dont want the both of you to not be together anymore because you're both always competing to see whose better at wrestling and stuff. hope i helped! :]
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what are some things i can tell my doctor that can get them to put me on or ask me if i want to be put on birth control. I dont want to strait out say, can you put me on birth control or mention sex (link)
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just thought i'd let you know that taking birth control pills can have many bad side effects. sometimes it can give you birth problems to you or your babies in the future. hope i helped :]
& look at this site, one of the biggest reasons those babies have those problems are because of parents who used birthcontrol pills
http://www.smiletrain.org/site/PageServer
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14/f
i think i'm gay.
i've been thinking about it a lot lately and really think i am. like ok when all the girls in like fifth grade started liking guys and getting "boyfriends" i was just never interested. i know that could be normal for a kid but still. and like when i'd play with barbies or some doll like that with my friend a long time ago she'd have the boy and girl kiss, ha i'd have the two girls kiss mostly. and now my friends always sit around saying how hot guys are and i just sit there you know? i'm normally thinking about the girl nowadays. i've gone out with guys but it just never felt right to me. i alwyays felt uncomfortable.
but what i don' get is how on the internet most lesbians say they knew when they were like 7 or 10. i'm just now starting to realize it. maybe it's hormones? but i think it's more than that. maybe everyones different? what do you think? what should i do?
-anyone who answers thanks. =] (link)
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dont be so sure about this yet, you could be but you also might not be. maybe you just haven't liked guys yet. but if later on you feel like you definitely are gay, and you decide you want to tell a friend, tell someone who you think is worthy of telling it too, that would still accept you for who you are and that they're not gonna feel awkward around you. hope i helped :]
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I'm getting a side kick soon,
but i want to know, which one would you recommend?
Sidekick one, two, or three?
any other cellphones worth checking out?
thanks :] (link)
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sidekicks don't work well, all of my friends who has or had one said they suck. i would recommend the chocolate phones. they work great :]
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I really like this boy. A LOT. But, I haven't even talked to him once. We're both shy. I cant stand not talking to him. How can i get over being shy and talk to him? I want to be his friend and hopefully his girlfriend (link)
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well, w/e you do dont try to get to know him over online conversations or myspace, it'll make it more awkward. maybe get some of your friends who happens to know his friends to get him to go to like the movies or something and if your lucky he might notice you and want to get to know ya. or if you're around him sometimes, ACT CONFIDENT and cute. if he's a shy guy then im sure he's into cute and sweet girls so be nice if your around him, good luckkk! :]
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