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Hello, I am seventeen years old.And I am currently a Senior at my high school.
I like giving advice.
One day, I want to make a living out of it.
There's really nothing in the world that I like more than:
Music [New Wave, Electronic, Alternative, HipHop]
Photography [I take many pictures]
Friendships [They're really important me]
& Helping out people [I am always helping out]
There's really not a lot to me.
Other than I like to help out people.
Sometimes, I think that I should take my own advice.
But I rarely do =/
So yeah, that's about all I have to say.
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hehe so im a 17/f and about 2 weeks ago i met this boy in driver's ed. his name is nick. i didn't meet him in class but like when we were doing driver's time we started talking. and we got to know each other. well after we were done driving he i signed up for the next driving time from 4-6 p.m. and he signed up for 2-4 but he changed it so he could drive with me.. and i thought that was sweet. haha i dunno. and then last week when we drove, he asked me for my number and we'd text each other. and i asked him why he likes to drive with me and he said cuz its fun haha and im the only person he's actually gotten to know. lol so yeah. and we talk on myspace and im on his top 8. and i put him on mine's too. but yeah im not sure like exactly what to say to him and i mean does he like me? im confused. and i don't wan t to tell him i like him yet because i've only known him for 2 weeks.. so yeah please help! thnx.
I think that he does like you. It's okay to flirt with him a little to make sure. Just ask him straight out what he feels towards you. Just be true to yourself and if you like him to just tell him.
Hoped I Helped
-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE
so there's 2 guys, let's name the first guy "spongebob" and the other guy "patrick" from spongebob square pants. okay, so i met both of them from my older sister, because she knows their older siblings. and patrick is closer to me and stuff, and i just met both of them. and they BOTH started liking me. last night, patrick told me that he liked me. but before he did, he asked me some questions, and i told him that i'd rather have a guy not wait for me because i don't want someone to wait for me if i'm not going to go for them & just to get to know other people. but then patrick said "but what if they wanna wait for them?" and all that, and i told him that then it's their choice, but i'd rather not have him wait for me. and stuff like that, because i decided to be with spongebob. but i was still single, and still am. and patrick told me that his older sister (which is my sister's best friend) knows that he likes me, and she said it was cool and that she likes me and stuff like that. and then today, spongebob KISSED me, and yes i did let him. so now i don't know what to do... i like spongebob, but then yet.. i don't wanna hurt patrick or make it awkward and stuff like that between me and his older sister.
also, because before all of this happened, patrick had this ex girlfriend that kept coming back to him. and he told me that he only liked her a little bit still, but he liked me and stuff like that, and he told his ex girlfriend to leave him alone, and to stop contacting him because he now likes me. and they've been together for 2 years! >.
Well you should tell this "Patrick" how you feel. Tell him that he really means a lot to you and that you don't want to hurt him, but you prefer "Spongebob." Trust me, you're doing him a favor early now. Because if you wait, he'll develope more feelings and he'll get more crush. Just tell him how you feel and that you'd still want to be friend with him. But you don't want things to be awkward with you guys.
Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!
-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE
Me and my bf really want to start having sex. It will be my first time and i'm kinda really worried about the pain. I cannot handle pain very well lol. we've tried 2 times and it doesn't fit in. however we've been "stretching" me out down there so it wont hurt as bad. i think its pretty wide enough but there's like a wall kinda thing that i always hit and it hurts so badly(not the hymen).
Does anyone have any advice on stretching out or just 1st time sex in general lol?
I'd really appreciate it!! :)
It's going to hurt the first few times. And there's really nothing you can do about it. You just have to keep doing it and eventually it won't hurt as much.
Hoped I Helped
-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE
ok the thing is a friend of mine might be bi. but the thing is, would she act any different if she is? i mean i havent known her for long, and i dont know if she acted differently b4. but a friend of hers and mine as well(she known her 3 years ago) told me she acted different this year. im worried, does it make a difference if a persons not straight? one of my friends told me she had a bi friend and dat she isnt different. well the thing is i dont noe any bi or gay or lesbian people so i dont know. i need advice! please! thank you.
Well I have a friend that recently came out to us and she told us that she's bi. She's still the same she hasn't change with us. And it's like she never told us anything. Not all of them change, but some of them do. I think it's because now that people know, they feel more comfortable. But if you feel like your friend has changed, talked to her about how you feel.
Hoped I Helped.
-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE
today i was in class and my friend brought up this girl's name, and I knew the girl and her sister as well. The girl is my age and her sister is MY sister's age. My sister and the girl's sister are friends. Well I kinda slipped out the girl's younger was a bitch in class to my friend. And the girl's best friend was sitting hearing everything, and i didnt know it was her best friend until she left the room and my friend told me. So apperently the girl's best friend told the girl I called her sister a bitch, and now the girl wants to go off on me and her sister is mad. But it is true, the girl's sister isnt exactly bitchy, he just acts preppy and thinks she knows everything, and i know this cause shes over at my house like every weekend hanging out with my sister. And it's the final week of school, and I dont want to get into a fight, and I didn't really mean to call her a bitch, more like braty or something else. And I have no clue what to do! I dont want my reputation to be ruined. I dont know if I should just apologize or what? Plus, i dont want my parents to find out otherwise im gunna be toast...! Please help!
15yrs/USA
younger girls are 12
I think that you should appologize to her. And if he blows you off than just ignore her. But try not go get into trouble. If she wants to fight, it's better if you avoid her as much as possible.
Hoped I Helped
-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE
Hello,
My question is there is this teacher who has taught me twice and he has been like a really good friend to me and is moving to Australia. He loves to play guitar and i wanted to give him a heart felt gift to say goodbye and let him remember me by. I have made him cards and whatever. My idea was getting him a strap for his guitar, but i thought that it wasnt good enough for a good bye gift, any other thoughts/ideas? Thanks!
[Well it depends where you get it done; I got mine done for like $40]
I had a teacher who loved guitars, and as a goodbye gift I bought him a custom guitar strap. And since he liked the beach and surfing..I had the straps say his name (Mr Roberts) and I had had like designs of beaches and surfboard. Maybe you can do that but with pirates. and so incase he wont forget try adding your name on it; maybe on the back or something.
hoped i helped.
-LiTTLEGIRLBLUE
Well I have this friend who is a girl and her birthday is this Sunday. I'm planning on making something for her..but the thing is not sure what. I also want it to be very special because she became my SECOND FRIEND ever since I started highschool and she helped me break my shell so now I have a couple of more friends..Real ones this time..Also I have a crush on her so I want it to maybe possibly, maybe a tiny bit make her fall in love with me or maybe get the hint that I have a crush on her. Any suggestions what I should make or can anyone help me decide what to do? I'm planning on maybe making a birthday song/poem and put it in an envelope along with maybe a stuff animal. Or is drawing a portrait of her good? I'm not sure because I don't quite know her that much and I don't want her to feel awkward. So anyways any suggestions what I can do?
Well If I were here, I would love the poem and a teddy bear. Maybe in your poem you can give out hints that you like her more than a friend. Other suggeestions: make her a card- it would show her that you took some time and actually make her something. take her out to dinner- just tell her that it's for her birthday. and maybe while you're out at dinner you and her can get to know more about each other. and maybe you can tell her that you like her.
hoped i helped.
hey there. okay so I have a stomach pouch, its not that big of a deal just a little pouch. im getting my belly button pierced for my 14th birthday and I want my stomach to look really good by june 10th. crunches aren't good for your lower abs, so what simple workout is?
you should buy a workout ball and just place it on you lower back. then raise your legs and instead of moving toward your legs, move your legs towards your chest. this should work. hoped i helped.
I got drunk one night over spring break and spent the night with a guy other than my boyfriend(we did NOT have sex, just messed around a little). Well, now my boyfriend doesn't want me seeing ANY of my friends that were at that party. I could understand not seeing the guy I spent the night with, but not all my friends... What should I do?
you should tell him how you feel. tell him that your friends had nothing to do with it. and that it isnt fair for your friends. hoped i helped.
ok my boyfriend and i had sex almost 2 weeks ago, it was 1 week after my period.. we didnt use a condom, im not saying i am pregnant, but ever since then, i have been feelings weird, like dizzy, and hungry a lot.. i have been pregnant before so i know the symptons of being pregnant, but they shouldnt come this early.. they shouldnt be happening right after, right? do you think maybe its all in my head, cause me being paranoid cause we didnt use a condom, that im just paranoid and thinking i may be pregnant.. or do you think there are chances i could actually be pregnant.. but the reason i think im not and just paranoid is because im feeling this way ((dizy, sick like wanting to throw up, hungry, and tired)) is because im being paranoid and making up the symptoms in my head, but they are not really there.. just in my head.. because would it be way to soon to be feeling that way? doesnt all that come around 1 1/2-2 months of being pregnant.. not days later..
what do you guys think?
i think that you are just being paranoid. it is way too early for such symptoms. hoped i helped.
When i was younger, i had so much personality. i would act crazy and i didnt care what anybody thought of me. i would stand up for myself and be myself. However, now (a few years later) i'm in highschool, and i'm almost completely opposite of what i used to be. i never stand up for myself, i'm shy (very) and i feel like i have no personality. i used to have a huge sense of humor, but now its almost nonexistant. i also used to have aLOT of friends :( i dont know what happend, but i'm DYING to just get back to being the person i used to be (which is: not afraid of anything). any ideas on how to start being that person again? at home i'm ok, but at school i just clam up for some reason and start acting really reserved. any ideas? thanks
i know what you mean. i, too, was wild and crazy when i was young. and when i started high school last year i became very shy. and now i'm not so much. you've just got to get more comfortable around other people. try talking to other people in your classes. and just be yourself. hoped i helped.
how do you put your myspace pctures on private?
thankyouu :)
1. Edit Photos.
2. Your Album cover should show up. It's say (ALBUM NAME) (?? PHOTOS) & [FRiENDS ONLY/PUBLIC]
3. Click on friends only/public.
4. Change to Private.
is earnie from george lopez's accent fake? because when he talks, it sounds like hes faking it.
it's fake.
Does anyone know any good songs that have to do with crushes, you would never have a chance with a guy, or something like that. Thanks so much!
risque (crush) by cute is what we aim for.
Do any of you guys no of any stupid songs like
'Tip Toe Through The Tulips With Me' by tiny tim?
that song is the most hilarious song i've ever heard. and its catchy. if you know of any more, please answer!
Hollaback Boy by Cobra Starship.
That song is pretty funny.
Okay, I need the name of this song. It's been played on MTV Cribs consistently. It goes [exactly like this] "Oh oh oh oh *part of music plays* yeah yeah yeah yeah". Like I said, it's like a hip hop song.. I know, that's not much, but I cannot find this song. It might be part of a chorus.. I'm not sure. It's not 'And She Said' by Lucas Prata. I really need to know this song though, because it's stuck in my head. Oh, and I have a link to a CLIP of the song that I'm talking about.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dq3W2q76r44&feature=related
Go there, and skip forward to 1:35..
Much appreciated!
Beautiful by Snoop Dogg ft. Pharell
Alroght so, I like this guy named Nick but, he has a girlfriend but, it probably won't last much longer. So, I wanted to become his friend so, that I could maybe have a shot with him. Problem is I don't know how to start a conversation with him. He has a Myspace but, I don't have any classes with him this quarter and next year he's going to a new school. By the way, I know that he loves Volcom the skateboarding company.
Well, you should just go up to him and talk to him. I know, that most girls are shy. But if you really are, you can:
- Talk to him with a group of friends. Then later, when you're comfortable, start talking to him.
- Add him on myspace. Talk to him there. And then talk to him at school.
- Talk to him about Volcom. I'm not a guy, but I hang out with a bunch of guys. And girls always ask them about skateboarding and/ or sports in order to get closer. So try that.
- And you can always just go up to him as a friend and talk to him.
Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!
-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE
I am a teen girl and next to wear my underwear line is on the insdie my leg i am getting like a rash, i don't know if it is from my pads (from when I have my period) or if it is an STD (i've had sex with only one guy since sept. (we'd fooled around like teased previously, but never actually had sex sex) anyways, its red, slightly raised a bit and I guess it is just worrying me that it could be an STD or is my pad just irritating my soft skin when it rubs up against it? Please answer as soon as possible, I've tried to research it but I need some advice please.
well, it can be a reaction to something. maybe it's your pad or maybe your underwear. i highly doubt it's an STD. but to be sure, make sure to visit your doctors. they'll tell you what's wrong. hoped i helped.
-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE
Hi I was wondering, if your appendix bursts, and you go to the hospital, i know they have to do surgury, but do they usually keep you there for a couple of days to make sure your ok?
They keep you in for a couple of days. Until they can tell that you're feeling better. But when they send you home, you're still in some pain. It's usually takes from 3-7 days. Hoped I Helped.
okay I know I write alot but my friends also have me write for them because I'm the only one who has this anyway.. There is this guy he is 19 and he is gorgeous he has blue eyes and blonde hair a six pac and he has a great body anyway he works for my daddies company so I'm not sure if my dad would like me dating him but thats not the point. I am 15 and I know thats considered rape but I dont' care bout that either okay. Our parents are really good friends and hes a good kid like he doesnt smoke or drink or do much bad and when his parents have parties we always hangout like we will play football and basketball and stuff I always like the contact sports haha. I am a girl btw. And we flirt like crazy and when he is online which is barely ever because he works alot. But we flirt there too and one time I was talking to my friend and his cousin about him and I said I thought he was hot and stuff then at the end she goes this isn't my friend its her cousin the guy I like I was so nervous that I just spilled how much I like him to him but he was cool about it and he was like I like a girl that expresses herself and then we kept talking. But i want to know by that can you tell if he likes me more than a friend? Or am I out of my League and guys if you were 19 would you date a 15 year old?
Well, the only way to really know is if you talk to him. So plan out a "date" and talk to him, and ask him about his feelings and how he feels. 19 & 15 year old, I've never seen it but it could happen. Age is really just a number. But yeah, talk to him. Hoped I helped.